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i have a friend and she is one of my best friends she always ignores me at break and lunch unless we are bitching.If i fall out with her then i'll probally lose another friend how is just the same.They are starting to do it to everyone but i don't know how the others feel so i don't what to tell them how i feel cause they might tell my friends and they could take it the wrong way.It only began with the other friend cause i said she was my best friend when i meant it about someone else,please dont say talk to them cause they won't listen.
p.s its preety messed up
Honestly, there's not much you can do when someone doesn't want to be your friend. It seems she wants to be your friend for the wrong reason, and that's why I've dumped a lot of my friends. One of my BEST friends always put me down in her own way and competed with me on everything, we were really like sisters. But I couldn't take how she acted, I grew up and decided it was time to just let her go and not be friends. We fought about it, but we're not friends at all and I'm better off. I think you'd be better off with people you CAN talk to and people who are there for you, not just talk to you so you can bitch about things. It's your choice, but the only thing you can do is confront her, or ignore her back. Ignoring people (like she's doing to you) makes them mad and makes THEM chase YOU. So try it out, see if it works. Just focus on your true friends for now.
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ok, i am a gurl, duh, and for age we'll just say im not of legal age to have sex, but i really love my boyfriend, that or i am just crazy, and we had sex, but that was roughly a month ago and i still havent got my period, but im not regular or any thing but im still worried, so my question is, is ther a age u have to be to get a pregnacy test? and if there is what is it? and secondly is it too late to figure out if im pregnant this way?? do i have to wait?? because i dontknow if it has to be done right away after words or not, thanks so much in anvance and i i really apresheate this, byes
There's no legal age to buy a pregnancy test, or that I know of. And yes, after your first missed period, you can find out whether you're pregnant or not, so it's not too early. Sometimes after your first time having sex it can make your period a little whacky, mine did. But if you guys used protection and it didn't break, you're fine. No need to worry.
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Ok making a really long story short. I found out that my boyfriend was getting deployed and we ended up having sex without a condom because we did not have one on hand. I know not the best idea, and please do not harass me about the dangers of no-condom sex. Just answer my question.
Anyway, I am on birth control and as of this month switched to the generic brand. It is pretty much almost the exact same thing as what I was taking but the estrogen and progesterone are just a hair different. (Was on ortho tri cyclene, now on Tri lo sprintec)
Anyway, does this increase my chances of pregnancy? Because we had the condomless sex the first week I was on the new pill.
Thanks!
If the birth controls are similar, you should be fine. Nothing to worry about. Missing a pill would increase your risk, but not switching types. If you miss you next period though, just go out and buy a pregnancy test. You should be fine though, I did the same thing and nothing happened.
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I just got a Facebook, and found some people I haven't seen since third grade on the site (I am 17). Would it be odd if I posted something on their Wall saying "hello" out of nowhere? I found them through others' friend lists.
Heyy, it's not weird at all. I hadn't talked to my childhood best friend since I was 6, and found her facebook, so I added her and since then we're friends again. We're actually supposed to hang out tonight, so I say go for it, they won't think you're weird at all.
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i think my boyfriends cheating and i was wondering if anyone could be really nice and write down a few signs of cheating that could occur in a relationship that he might be cheating on me PLEASE! thanks so much!
Okay well here's a few key signs:
-Usually isn't horny with you anymore and doesn't want to do things except occasionally.
-Very distant
-Moody
-Lies A LOT (makes you question if he's telling you the truth)
-He'll stop coming to you for advice
-Will let you win any argument, not caring who wins, just doesn't want to fight
[or he'll stomp out and come back and act like it never happened]
-Buying lots of new things, ie clothes
-The biggest sign is if YOU have to question whether or not he's cheating
-Also if you know any of his myspace/facebook/email passwords, I'd take a look at his inboxes, usually men aren't smart enough to delete anything
Drop me an inbox, let me know why you think he may be cheating on you
i have a few things i need to know about outdoor tanning..i use hawaain tropic dark tanning lotion, and i dont really get a tan on my sides..my front and back are tan..but not my sides..
how can i get my sides tan without having to lay on my side or anything??
is it true that if your skin is wet it tans better??
Well to get tan on your sides you'll need to turn on each for about 40 minutes each if you want to get a tan. People say you get tanner when you're wet, that may be somewhat true. BUT you do get tanner in a body of water because the water reflects the sun onto your skin. So if you're in a pool or in an ocean, you're more likely to get tanner. Personally, I use a bananaboat tan oil, and it works great. It all depends on your skin type, I'm italian and we tan really easy, just all depends.
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i really like the mac book laptops because you can ichat and stuff and i think its really cool..but i also like the dell ones too (the colored ones) can you ichat on a dell? which one should i get?
Straight up, Mac is better than a Dell. Dells aren't made to last very long, a lot of my friends had them, liked them, then they crapped out on them. So ultimately they're not worth it. Personally I have a Sony Vaio and I'm in love with it
Okay, let's face it. My boyfriend's family is from certain wealth, and it doesn't help that he has a very high paying job.
He wants to buy me stuff, expencive stuff. Like a new laptop and he wants to pay for the internet connection, things of that nature.
I was not born that way. I've had to earn everything I have and it makes me feel a little uncomfortable having him buy me all of this. I know it's practically pocket change to him, but I still don't like it.
I know it hurts him sometimes to have me argue with him over this, but I'm just confused now. What do you guys think? Should I just try and not argue over this anymore?
I think him wanting to buy you things is normal for a boyfriend, especially if he has the money to do so. I think he understands that you have to work for the things you have, so he just wants to help. Boyfriends are really stubborn, so convincing him not to would be very difficult. For now, I'd just let him, he just wants to make you happy, and it's really sweet.
Of course the decision is up to you, you could tell him how you feel, but I know you probably don't want to see him hurt. Sometimes you just have to let people do things that makes them happy, and I know you don't want to see him unhappy.
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nice, intelligent, loves sex, and has a good body?
I know a lot of guys, and the ones who are pigs would say yes. But if you're looking for a relationship and not a hook up, you need a girl who has way more depth than that. One who has emotions and will show them. Just because she loves sex doesn't mean she'll be passionate about it. You want someone who can share how they feel and be real.
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i really want a cartilage piercing but im really scared of a couple things ...
1. does it hurt when they put the needle through??
and does it hurt ALOT after wards
2. does it get caught in your hair or clothes?
3. how long does it take to heal and how long b4 i can change it ..some ppl say it take 1 year to fully heal is that true?
thankss in advance :)
julia
1. I got mine done a long time ago, and it was painless. My friend recently got hers done and said it definitely hurt more than an earlobe piercing. After the needles put through isn't as bad, but it will be red. It's not true that it would hurt less with a needle at a parlor, it'll pinch regardless but it's only for a second. At a parlor it's about 40$-60$ to get it done, at Claire's it's about 18$-20$.
2. It doesn't usually get caught in your hair, just try to wear your hair up for the first week and you should be fine, and make sure to clean it as they instruct.
3. It takes about 8 weeks - 3 months to fully heal, don't try changing your earring until after they instruct you to.
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well i have been with my boyfriend 3 months and 3 weeks.& we have been talking about sex for awhile..& he said he is a virgin and says he wants to lose his virginty to me.When we were talking about sex i told him that i have never done anything with a guy but i LIED!i have been fingered before by one of my ex boyfriends.but i was ashamed to tell him i was.cause i would have never thought i would and i would tell people how much i hated fingering and that i would rather to just stick it in!& we might have sex soon and i dont want him to find out im a bit loose & that i lied to him!!!
will he find out if i have been fingered before,when he sticks it in???
Like Sage said, there's no way he can tell. Being fingered doesn't really loosen you up all that much, if at all. Lots of girls have even had sex and are still tight. If you're going to have sex, I honestly believe you should wait for someone you truly love. As corny as it is, a lot of girls make that mistake, and end up regretting their first time. Knowing girls, you'll do it anyway, just please be safe. If you really care about him and want him to know the truth, I'd say tell him you were fingered and that you were embarrassed about it, I doubt he'll be upset.
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my wife says she has bulimia - she is a healthy 24 y/o, weight approx 54kg - but after a meal if she thinks shes eaten too much she will go and throw up, she has been doing this for years - what can i do to help her ?
To be honest, there's not much you CAN do for someone whose unhappy with their body and has been doing it for years without telling you. She needs more help, so I say get some information and find someone she can talk to about this, someone with experience.
at night its so hard to keep conversation go'n ....and i be so nervous because i dont want him to say imma call you back or "say somethingg!!"
i think about him all day , but as soon as we get on the phone, we would talk for 5 mins strong then its dead silence...... (he's 3 years older than me too)im 19 he's 22{that can smtimes be intimidating
Well me and my ex boyfriend dated for 2 years, and pretty much that whole relationship was spent over the phone because we lived so far apart. You can talk about pretty much anything, ask him about the most embarrassing thing he did or that happened to him, you can ask what he did all day, you can be like "so tell me about your family, i want to know about them" and make sure to ask more questions about them as he speaks, tell him about your family, your future plans (what you want to do/be), ask about his love life, talk about what kinds of music you like, favorite foods, restaurants, books, fears, likes/dislikes, anything that will get a conversation started. Before you know it, it'll be pretty simple to hold a conversation. Don't be worried though, he may be just as nervous as you are.
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im 14 and lately ive been getting erections quite a lot ive been feeling horny a lot lately is that normal feeling? my penis is about 5 inches long is that a normal size?
Well you're hitting puberty then, completely normal. All guys go through it, they just hide it, so don't worry. 5" is a very normal size, especially because you're still growing.
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Can i be pregnant if im a virgin and my boyfriend came near my vagina but not in it
Nope, you can't be pregnant. The chance would be probably .0001%, very slim. Once cum hits the air, it has about 2 seconds to live until it dies. Sperm can only survive inside of you, and there's no way it got in there unless you were actually having sex. So don't worry about it :P
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i'm using paint for windows vista.
and i have a picture uploaded into paint..and i croped a seperate picture..what i want to do is take the cropped picture and upload it ONTO the picture i have uploaded..so it's like..overlapping it kinda.
i cant figure out how to.
anyway how?
Pretty much, open both pictures in paint, the one you want to place on the other photo go to Edit and Select All. Then you're going to press CTRL+C (copy it) and Paste onto the other photo. The only thing to be careful about is when you deselect the photo while it's on top of the other one, that's where it will stay (you won't be able to move it anymore).
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Do you usually use Maxi Pads or Tampons? And do you know any kinds that work good?
Hey, I wear pads, I've never really worn tampons (don't care for them) but the kind of pads I use are Stay Free Maxi, they work amazing. They also come in over night so they're larger for when you go to sleep and don't leak. I usually get the ones with wings, they stay in place better. As for tampons, I've heard the best brand is Playtex, especially Playtex Sport because they allow you to be active and move around better.
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hi guys. so i got my period on the 2nd and then took the plan b pill so a few days later i got the sideaffect when you bleed it only lasted for 3 days .. now on the 27th i got my period again .. is that normal? because the bleeding from the pill didnt last like my period. i heard it was juust normal to bleed alittle.
Well when I used birth control, I had my regular period while still on the pill, then that week I stopped using it and a week later got my period AGAIN. Imagine 2 periods lasting for a week each within a month? Anyway, it's possible to bleed twice within one month, especially because it's trying to regulate your period, and you may have started taking it right before you got your period therefore giving you two. Birth control is just weird like that. You'll be fine, no need to contact your doctor unless the bleeding persists.
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I can't go to the doctor right now and I think I might have gotten pregnant. I've never looked at the pregnancy tests before on the selves in the stores (never had a pregnancy scare) but now I am in need of one. My period is a couple of days late. How much are the pregnancy tests? Expensive?
Some cheap ones can be about 10$, but if you want quality, they'll be about 15$-20$. I recommend First Response, they're very accurate. Also, when using a pregnancy test, try to get a pack that comes with two just in case the first one makes you question it and also, sometimes they can't be read for some reason. Also, if you want to look at prices, walgreens.com, just search for pregnanct tests.
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this is mostly for guys but girls can answer too if they've done it i guess...but what do girls taste like down there? say if you're clean and take care of yourself. and do guys not like it? do they just do it for the girl or do they actually like doing it?
Well pretty much I've heard girls are one of three flavors: fish, cheese, and chicken. (All gross, but true) Some guys like it and think it's a turn on, some don't and think it's disgusting. Depends on who your partner. From hearing things and experience, girls tend to like it. Others think it's gross because they can't imagine any guy who would WANT to do that. It's natural for girls to smell like they do, so it's nothing that should embarrass any girl. Even if you're clean and take care of yourself, you'll still have an odor, maybe not a taste though. They do have gels and things at Walgreens or CVS that help with the odor.
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