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Hey guys im Donna Im 17 and a senior at Taft high school. iNtRestS: Friends, ♥ writing reading ♥ my boyfriend ♥ helping people computer ♥ art fashion ♥ t.v. ♥ music ♥ martinies partiiz ♥ shoping ♥ coffe the only way i can survive ♥ cell phone &hearts im really random and good at being annoying ♥
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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?
Oh my gosh!! You have to talk to her about it tell her it isnt worth it. She has a whole life ahead of her. What is causing her to commite suicide? If its a boy oh gosh who cares? the boy will go to hell. If its family, then you have to tell her, her parents love her but are going through a hard time keeping up. You have to get a parent or teacher involved tell someone. She needs help!!
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Donna
I have a 36 year old son who is married with one child. For about a year he has slowly sunk into the depths. His wife has kicked him out of the house. He now lives in his truck. She tells me he is drinking heavily and smoking crack/crank. He refuses to get help. My question is: Do you think I should report him to the police before he harms himself or an innocent person driving around like this. Thanks, Christy
Well, you are his mom and you should know the best for him. So i dont want to say to turn him into the police because moms arent supposed to do that. But if you want to keep an eye on him and just make sure he is doing all this then that is a good idea. If he gets into an accident, turn him into the police. Oh yea and does he have a job?? If not then defenatly turn him in!!
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Donna
I used to be a very shy person but as the years went on i became less shy. I still am a little shy. But anyways there is this girl in my study and she is like sooo coolest person you'll ever meet, we've become really good friends in the last month or so when ever im around her my confidence level and self-esteem go up. Whenever she'll call me or we'll talk on im i get like shy and dont know what to say. How can overcome being shy? What should i talk about wen im on the phone with her?? Sry it's long. Thanks in advance for the help!
semi- shygirl
Just talk about what you normally talk about..
*school
*boys
*cloths
*stuff
*people you like and dislike
*ANYTHING!!!
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Donna
Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??
:)
What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!
*-KeLs-*
Thanks!
Yes, that is totally cute!!
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Donna
you can make him a poem too.
Hey. Well, there's this boy I like in my school, and I he may like me to, as to what my friend said...but I didn't hear the whole thing. Well, I found out her liked me when he was going out with his ex, so I didn't rush anything because I didn;t want to break them up. The later on broke up because she was cheating on him with 2 other guys, but no he goes out with another girl. I was so upset when they said he had a new girlfriend because I figured, why would he go out with another girl if he really liked me. I don't know what to do, and I think about him all of the time, what should I do because I really, really like him and I'm not to the type to make the first move!
He might like you but doesnt want to ruin your relationship as being friends. Has he told you in person that he likes you because you cant always trust his friend. So ask him in person. You also might not be talking to him as much so he doesnt get it. Talk to him more and tell him you like him. See what he says and then maybe when he breakes up with his gf you can go out with him.
♥ Michelle
hi i didnt no what to put this nder but here goes....
lately i have been feeling really down, i hardly have anything to do on a weekend and all i do is stay in the house or go on the computer!!
ive got lts of friends at school but there always out with there family or something.
has anyone got any ideas on what i could do at a weekend or through the school holidays etc????
Well ahead of time plan somthing with your friends. Dont wait untill the last second. You can go shopping or go out with your family. Dont be a couch patatoe actually try to do somthing.
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Donna
well i'm 13 and i'm a female and i totally broke out on my forehead and i have a dance coming up!! i need help on how to get rid of it fast!! any advice or suggestions? also, is it because i ate chocolate or like junk foods? (i've heard that the reason people break out...)ThAnkS fOr uR HeLp!!! *i RaTe*
Get a cloth and put hot water on it apply it on your forehead until the water gets cold, reapply.. or just put toothpaste and coverup!
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Donna
I feel like my life can't get any lower. Everything I was good at I am no longer good at. No matter how hard I try people are always a lot better. My grades are slipping and nothing I do makes me happy. I hate my life and I just want to stay in my room and be alone forever. What do I do?
Hey, you are going through depression. Although you might not know that you are going through depression, you are. You are just intimidaded by others on the team or anything. Just forget about it and try your hardest because then you will go furthur.
For your grades, try and if you still get bad grades then you can ask your teacher for help. You arent being a nerd asking her for help, you are doing the right thing. You need help. Dont let others put you down. Have fun!!
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Donna
Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--)
Well, I have a great boyfriend and respects the fact that i want to save my virginity untill im married. We might have kissed but not littereally hooked up, the outcome was still the same. We still had the same feelings for eachother and we got closer. Nothing special really happens.
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Donna
ok i wrote a question about the whole shop liftin situation but in case you didnt read it its just about i was caught shopliftin for my friend and blah blah blah thats basically it but i was wonderin if the punishment my parents gaave me was fair,they told me i had no tv no phone the whole 9 yards and im only writin this bc no one is home but the worst punishment is the fact that my bday is tommorow and they said i have no birthday this year....even after my punishment r they bein to harsh?
Do you really want me to answer truthfully? Well, in some ways it is too harsh but in others it isnt. Like you didnt have to shoplift for your friend.. and your punishmet was no cell phone and blah blah blah. But i guess it is harsh to say no birthday, that is the one time of the year you get anything you want. Maybe you can ask yuor parents to comprimise with you and just get you a little somthing. Or just ask one of your friends to throw you a 'surprise' party and just go!
always there..
Donna
theres this guy that i like and last year he wrote "i
Well, you could tell him how you feel, and ask him yourself. He prob. still likes you.
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Donna
Sorry its long.
My best friend is coming to my school, she went there once but people dont remember her because it was like 2-3 years ago. Well She is short and pretty and she has nice clothes and she is coming to my school on friday and I am afraid she is going to get into the popular kids in my school. How can I provent this? I dont want her to think the I am one of those friends who doesnt want her to hang out with anybody but me, you know. But I also dont want her to make bad choices on friends and then loose her other friend.
Talk to her about it. Tell her what you just said. When she comes dont be so cligey but hang around her enough that she knows you want her to still be friends with you.
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donna
I have a big eating disorder, and no, it's not anorexia.. it's the total oppsite. I'm addicted to food.. :( But mainly 1. Chocolate. I've lost alot of weight, but then I drastically gained it back because I just can't stop eating chocolate. It's weird, I have to have at least a peice of something chocolately every day, or else I don't want to eat because nothing seems appealing. I bought my boyfriend a ton of chocolates for our 1 year anniversary, but he left them at my house and doesn't want to get them untill this upcoming weekend... and my God i've eaten a ton of them. There's at least 300 chocolates in there, and i've eaten like 30. I can't stop eating. I just have completely no will power anymore, and I need some motivation. Someone please help me. I'm running out of solutions.
Hey, set a chart and everytime you dont eat chocolate cheak it off and when you have at leat 30 cheak marks or whatever get yourself a nice presentt ;).
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donna
ok.. so i totally screwed up talking to this guy i liked at skool... see im fine when i talk to guys but i get tooooo shy when i like them. so the plan didnt go so well to tell him that i like him.. and now i feel so embarassed because i was soo shy and im all mad at myself and stuff... soo tomorrow i was debating on weather or not i should go to school and i want to but i dont kno wut i would do or say so if i do go to skool and run into him what do i do or say? or should i not even go to skool? pLEASe HelP!! i rate high!
Are you honestly telling me that you are letting a boy get in the way of your day tom? Wow, you must really like him and feel imbarrased. Well i would go to school.. if yuo bump into him no sweat just either tell him and get over your fear or walk on and move on with your day.
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Donna
well, theres this thing at school that i was really looking forward to and my clingy little sister wouldn't let me go, and i'm also part of the school thing.. so now i'm late and i'm all pissed off and i dunwanna walk in when i'm late and i'm really really mad rite now and i wanna start beating ppl up like literally breaking things and crap and i hafta blow off sum steam so how can i do that without like. hurting nebody?
We all feel like this somtimes, well at least i do. Just tell your little sister to back off and dont hurt her but let her know that it cuz of her you didnt go. Go to the school even who cares if you are late. No one is going to kill you..
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Donna
14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help
Just be yourself otherwise shes bound to say no. Just talk to her like a normal person and give her special attention and flirt with her.
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Donna
Ok. well yesterday I asked a question about breaking up with someone without having them hate you. I broke up with him.. and now i am regretign it SO much!! sometimes i think that i ruin everything good that happens to me.. everytime i feel the same way about someone... i tell them i dont like them for some reason.. why do i do this? is it because i think im just not ready? or am i just a heartbreaker..? help pleasssssssse!!!
You arent a heartbraker. You just like the challage of trying to get boys to like you.. hard to get. You are ready but might be scared to go the extra step.
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Donna
see i really like two guys...one was my ex boyfriend but i never stopped liking me and he likes me. Then theres another guy who i went on a date w/ but it never went farther but i like him a lot and he told me cared about me. He proved it to wen he asked about me wen talkin to my sister. i talk to them both about the same and idk which one i like more...And im not for sure about the one that talked to my sister cuz i keep getting mixed signals...does he like me? what should i do about both of them?
If i had to choose, i would chose the guy who cares for you. He proved it too.
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Donna
As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do??
I think its time for some new friends. It may seem as a joke to them but really it isnt. Tell them how you feel and just try and hang out with a new crowd. Change is always good.
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Donna