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ill rate 5's - sry if this is long.
ok so .. i am not the skinniest person in the world but i am on this diet and i am loosing weight. i've already lost 10 pounds and im continuing so by summer i should be able to look good in a bathing suit.
heres my problem. last summer i wasnt really comfortable in my bathing suit. i only wore a bikini becuase everyone else did and i thought people would idk if i didnt so its hard to explain.. so ithink my friends talked about mebehind my back and stuff wehn i wore one because they are like skinny as anything and theyve never had problems with weight.
i dontknow what to do.. i mean i know i am trying to get skinny by summer so i will look good. but why would my friends do this? andhow do i talk to them about it beca use i dont want to just be like so you think i look bad in a bathing suit...
ill rate fvies thanks soo omuch (link)
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Umm first of all if your friends talk about you behind your back they arent your friends, if you feel the need to impress then 24/7 they arent your friends, and you shouldnt feel the need to wear a bikini just because everyone else is. Now the other part, if your loosing weight and your not fat that means that your normal, normal looks better in a bikini than skinny, try to find a bikini that fits your body type. Try haulter tankinis, because they make you look thinner and they create an even curve. You can also try boyshort bottoms or skirt bottoms thry can be cute if you go to the right store. Or if your feeling risky and are trying not to care what people think of you, you could find a cute 1 piece. I wear 1 pieces all the time, mostly because when i swim its for swim team and i hate how bikini are hard to have fun in, you cant dive, jump, move around comfortably in the pool, and its even worse in the ocean with the currents. My thoughts are talk to your friends tell them to stop being bitches and accept you for who you are! Noone deserves to be treated poorly jut because of their size! good luck and skinny isnt good looking, most guys even prefer normal/curvy!
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well yeah we are really good friends and we have known we eother for about a year. So but i have wait until march because thats the only time iam seeing him and plus thats the only time i can see him in person. But whats the best thing writting a note or telling in person but you know like if i gave the note to him he'll keep it forever and probably read it over you know but if i tell him in person hes forget it and not keep it. So iam just saying. Your a really good advice person so sry for asking these question if you would mind. Thankss (link)
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Its fine i love giving advice so dont worry bout ever askin too much! well this letter does sound good but i dont know theres always the possibility of him just wanting to stay friends (which i personally think he wants more like you but ...)and if that is so you dont want him to have the written proof of your heart spilling out to him then him turning you down. sorry that sounded harsh but thats what always stopped me from letters. ok well because im a firm believer in friends becoming girlfriend and boyfriend, i think you should take the chance give him the letter, tell him in the letter how you feel but make sure he knows you still want to be friends no matter what happens. good luck and ask me if you need anything else, also tell me how it goes i want to know all the details!
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so what you are saying is that he ONLY wants to be friends with me right..another thing is that you know how sometimes you have the feelings about someone you really want to tell him but what i did is that i wrote him a letter using my expressions and emontions (sry i have spelling porblem) is that a bad thing to do because iam going to give it to him soon like in march and like i don't want him to be like what the heck you know. But iam just trying to tell him what i feel about him so yeah.
--Laurenn (link)
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I'm saying that for now it could be a slight interest, but theres a possiblity of him liking you. Also, yes i know what you mean about wanting someone to know how you feel, and oh yes i have written a letter describing my eelings, however i've never sent it. I think giving him a letter could be nice but also incredibly cheesey and he could think your wierd to write a letter, unless by then your good friends. If your good friends writing a letter is good but if you and him only talk every once in awhile its not right. my suggestion is to just tell him in person, you know tell him that you like him alot and ask him out, guys can be shy and alot of the time really dont like asking girls out! soo good luck and tell me how things go, btw dont wait until march tell him now!
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hey i have a question for you guys unless you want to answer.Okay i know it might sound werid but whatever but anyways when i get e-mails from the guy that i like he send me like a day a go saying that ur friend and listener justin. and i wondered that mayb he doesn't like me?? or because i couldn't get it. and another thing that whenever you have that funny feeling about someone you like...why do you have that feeling?? i hate that feeling i can't stand it because it keeps coming at me!. Iam just little lost.
THANKSSS
LAUREN OBRIEN
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Umm that could just mean he wants to be your friend, but the whole listener thing makes it sound like he wants to talk to you about personal stuff, which could lead to a deffinit relationship, if the guy just wanted to be your friend he would have written that but the whole listener makes it personal. So i'd say theres a chance there! And about the whole feeling in your stomach theres no cure, its just a sign that your nervous or feel really excited, kind of like when your on a rollercoaster and its going down a steep drop. your feeling this obvously is a BIG sign that you have feelings for whoever is around when it comes. good luck with the guy and srry about the "butterflies", i think there kind of fun to get!
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hey it's Becky again. You wanted me to tell you how things went with the guy that wants me to prove I love him.
Yea so I flipped out cause one day he told me that he liked this girl since middle school and that he would leave me for her if she said she liked him. And I told him I didn't want to kno that stuff, and that it really made me feel great. So we were walking to 6th period later that day cause we have the same 6th and we saw that girl, and he ignored me and talked to her!! So, after class I said I like how you ignored me and talked to her((and I pointed to her)) and idk if he wanted to piss me off or wasn't lisening but he went and talked to her again!! So I waited down the hall, and when he saw me he asked what was wrong and I flipped cause it pissed me off so bad cause I had just said it you kno? And so we were yelling at each other..and yea now we are takin a break cause he says I get jealous really easy, and that I have an attitue, and a smart-ass mouth. But all that is true and I admit it..so yea..we have been "taking a break" for a couple of days. And when I prove that I can change he will take me back. Well I just wanted to update you lol so I will ttyl.
♥BeCkY♥ (link)
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jeez he was deffinitly wrong there, and dont worry i would have done the same thing! Did yoiu tell him that you love him or did the other girl get in the way? If you did tell him what was his reaction? Ok well ... i think that he's being an asshole because he wants to see your feelings, i think you should tell him that your not sorry for how you reacted but your sorry for being so jealous. you should tell him that you love him and that if he loves you, he wouldnt have told you he would leave you for some other girl in a heartbeat. it sounds to me that hes a little confused maybe he still doesnt believe you, and i think that if he doesnt believe you still than you should be like how are we supposed to have a relationship if you dont trust me. he sounded very much in love with you last time and love lasts even if you dont. good luck and tell me how everything goes!
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ok, so i bought those leggings that go down like, halfway through your shins that im gunna wear with mini skirts. but i dont know what shoes to wear with them. im in 7th grade, so i deffinatly dont want to wear pumps to school, but i cant think of any other shoes to wear that would look good besides these flats i have, but they give me wiked bad blisters.plus they wont match much. so i was wondering if sneakers would look good. i have white low top air forces.
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I love to wear my funky colored converse lowtops with them because they make your legs look slim and go great with the while 80's style thats coming back. I also wear sandels, very low sneakers, and any cute flats. I think just about anything can go with leggings as long as you keep it very low on the ankle, because wearing high-ankled shoes will cause your legs to look fatter (only because your ankle will be covered, making your legs look the same shape up and down). I think a great way to make this look fun and fresh is by wearing funky colored shoes (my converse shoes that i wear with my leggings are purple and they look AWSOME becuase noone else has them and my leggings are black)you can also try wearing funky patterns. have fun with your shoes and leggings, to be a true 80's retro girl you gotta have flair, and you gotta take a few fashion risks when it comes to matching! good luck!
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i want to get side bangs and i have a hair appoitment in 2 weeks, but i wanted to get them after basketball season ends(which is in like, 1 month) because i dont want them in my face while im playing. are there ways that i can keep them out of my face(somehing good cause i dont want to be rebounding and have someone rip out some big clip) lol
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Try hair spray! i do basketball to and i have sidebangs, i jus either put a bobbypin there or hairspray them back, or you could try gel, because hairspray, if you sweat alot, can run into your sweat and then get into your eyes.
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what are the best acne solutions? like cleanser/toner/gels whatever works? please help with this. (link)
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i really like biore and it works on all skins. you can also try neutagena i like that too. good luck
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OK well my friends bf's birthday was like two days ago and she doesn't know what to go him.
He is "gangsta" and she was thinking cologn but she can't find him any.
Does anyone have any good birthday present ideas? (link)
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you could get him some jordan cloths, or if cologne is what she wanted to get him try vistoria secret Sexy for Him, my brother uses it and loves it and soo do all his friends (also "gangsta"). or she could get him a gift certificate to like foot locker or some sorta shoe store cuz they tend to have a lot of variety in clothes, shoes, hats, etc. good luck
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I am curious as to what people think are million dollar ideas, how would you make a million dollars? Perhaps you have an idea that you could make a lot of money because people need it because of a really big lack or? I really am interested in anyones "BIG" ideas. i rate high for good ideas, and it can be anything but please explain what is so good about it and why you think it would make a lot of money. (link)
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you could make a discovery in weight loss. america is obsessed with the next diet trend, especially hollywood, they pay lot a money just to get thinner. why dont you make up a new diet trend that all the stars will want to do. this is good becuase they are rich and spend their $$ to get thinner to become richer, and if it works your in for awhile. lots of $$$ in the diet industry, you could even write a book about your diet discoveries lol. good luck and remember $$$ isnt everything
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I can never find jeans that are right for me. I have large hips, but I'm short and I have small tighs and a small butt. My jeans are always too big or too small. Does anyone know a store where I can find jeans that would fit someone like me? Websites would be nice. (link)
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umm yea i have that problem too! you can try vintage shops, they tend to be cheap and have alot of good jeans that fit well. also i like old navy jeans and american eagle, american eagle is expensive but if you wait for a sale you can get thm for like 25$. good luck jeans can be tough to find
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There is this boy who I have had a crush on for like 5-6 years. One night I found out he had a 'thing' for me and I was so surprised that well I thought it would last forever but then it faded so distant and now he barely talks to me. He never texts me back, never ims me, never calls me...he completely forgets I'm alive. My friends who knows him as we went to the same schools, tell me to move on and just live life, with or without a guy. I've been trying but every friday wen he's online I feel so sick to my stomach because I have no idea what's wrong with me; do i have a sign on my head, did i hurt him, what did i do?
Last night though he talked to me...just a few words and somehow I think it's because my friend asked him why he's not talking to me. HE just said hi, how are you and how was your day. And wen I asked y he was talking to me he completely ignored my question. He was like a brother to me, he used to help me with homework, we used to talk for hours on the internet and wen he called me I would sneek outside to talk to him. One night he called me 11 with his friend and talked for 40 minutes and it was amazing how I made my grandma think it was my 'girl' friend! It's really botherin me...does ne one (girls or guys) know why he's ignoring me all of a sudden? (link)
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it sounds like maybe this thing he had for you was just a thing and not a crush. Im sorry i know how you feel im going through the same thing except he likes another girl now lol. guys can be so diffilcult they treat girls as if they like them and then forget about us and move on. all i can say is try to look around for another guy, its hard to move on (i know!) but just try to find someone better who deserves you. good luck and try not to push this guy who forgot you, he'll think your being clingy or sumthing (guys can be insensitive)!
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i am 17 years old and i am a women. i hae this guy friend who has tryed to get me to have sex with him. but everytime we wore going to i told him a started my period and i need to get home to change my clothes. but i really want to have sex but i am scared that i will get pregant. since i am not on birth control. so what should i do (link)
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it doesnt sound like your ready, too many of todays youths are sexually active not only must worry about getting pregnant but also STDs. i think you should wait till your at least like a junoir in college you dont want to waste your first time on a guy friend who is pushing you to have sex, have it with a guy who you love and he loves you. i infact plan on waiting till im married because im afraid of everything out there and i want mine to be special. good luck and make your own personal decision wisely!
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hey yall i want an screen name thats like emo, goth.... rocker type of screen name....... any words
Any suggestions?? (link)
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desiretheunwanted
addictionsrcruel
screaminguitars
lol hope i helped lol
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Hey, me and a girl are going to the movies this weekend and i have a few questions.
1. How can i show how much i like her? (Yes i do like her alot, and i don't want to make out or anything yet...)
2. After the movies she is spending the night at my house, how can i get her to hang out with me instead of my sisters? (She and my sisters are good friends)
3.What are some things we can do while she is at my house?
Thanks in advance!
P.S. we are both 13 (link)
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So are you going on a date? becuase if you asked her out and she said yes that would mean that ou liked her alot already. anyways just hold her hand, kiss her cheek, when you hold her hand rub ur thumb on the outside of her hand (its affectionate and girls really like holding hands with guys), umm if your standing behind her (and your taller) kinda rest your chin on her head but lightly and while doing so wrap your arms around her waist. ok and if you dont want physical signs then just show her your listening to everything she says, tilt your head slightly when she talkes to you (this is a sign of listening), make eye contact and just smile at her as if she is the world to you (which it sounds like shes getting there). When you get your house, dont try to exclude her from your sisters becuase you'll seem clingy and you ojnt want your sisters geting mad, instead try to play a game with all of them if you get lucky you'll be on her team (ideas for games: hide and go seek in the dark, yes sounds dumb but its really fun and you can hide together, or man hunt//capture the flag). Good luck!
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hey everyone! im going to the ortho tonight to get my ties on my braces changed you know? well i had hot pink - total mistake. it drew too much attention to my mouth ahha. what color is the best to get? thanks! (link)
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its too late now but for next time i found that the best color to get was blue, it doesnt draw too much attention and it make your teeth look whiter! Just make sure its dark blue and not light blue (light blue can turn into a yellow/green puke color lol) good luck brace face lol just kidding i have braces too!
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i really dont know who i am...
sometimes i feel happy and i want to wear designers and bright colors.
sometimes i feel stupid and i feel like wearing baggy pants and black.
sometimes i feel like a laid back skater punk and i want to wear DC and converse....
tough one, right. can i keep switching like this??? WHAT DO I DO! (link)
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It sounds to me that you are just creating your own look. I know how you feel i do the same thing i never feel like i quite fit into a certain type of clothes because i like so many different styles for all my different moods, its no that you dont know yourself, if anything this shows your more in-tuned with yourself becuase you do what you feel and thats being you. Just be yourself, and you already seem to have that down, try to mix and match your clothes this will make your styles intertwine (showing the styles all are semi-flowing together). good luck and just be honest to yourself and you cant go wrong!
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so my puppy just lost 5 teeth while chewing the carpet and i was watching a movie so i didnt realize it but when i went into that room there was blood everywher....how do i get it out? (link)
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try some 409 it seems to get everything out! if that doesnt work then try hydrogen peroxide it gets out blood stains. good luck and giv ur dog something soft to eat its mouth is proboly really sore and could bleed again if it doesnt heal
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i am 15/m and i am completely in love with this girl we'll call her Ally she is 15 as well...and we have been dating for three months but it seems like years...we are both so close to eachother and we love eachother so much...now we want to have a baby....i know we are 15 but we want one....we have been talking about it for a while now..and we feel like we are ready like we have been doing a lot of research....but how do we tell our parent that we wanted one and it wasnt a mistake? (link)
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Having a baby that young is a mistake no matter how ready you think you are its nothing like you and her imagine. trust me my cousin had one at 19, she already was poor and the guy left her, she is now 24 and is out of college and happy but she wasnt ready and the only reason she survived is because she was already so strong from growing up in messed up family. i know you think your ready and i know that feeling but the child isnt the way to go, start with something small buy a puppy together and see if you can raise it, it will show how cabable you and your girlfriend are to have a baby. you could also try to wait til your out of college, have you thought about how your going to raise it, feed it, clothe it, or even how you and your girlfriend are going to go through college, high school, LIFE? you need to realize that 1) your not ready 2) you need to have a future, besides with your girlfriend, for yourself and 3) your parents arent going to just be like "oh yea honey go have sex and start a family with another 15 year old ... WTF your having sex?" its not something parents dream there kids doing at 15! I'm sorry im lecturing you, but i've seen this mistake happen, if you love eachother, wait, make sure it lasts, and that its love not just high school puppy love. good luck and please dont make the biggest mistake of your life and drag the love of your life down with you!
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so i am 15/f and i am dating a 15/m and i seem to get really jealous of his sister..she is 21..and i just get really jealous cus she is a jerk to me but like she is always around my bf and i just dont like it...like if im on the phone with him and he is like o i have to go cus my sis is taking me somwher...i get jealous and i feel sad ...does anyone have any advice where i can get over this problem of mine? (link)
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well its a little silly to be jealous of his sister, but i can see where your feelings are coming from. the way to fix this is to just tell him that you want to hang out more and not with his sister too, just ask for alone time. trust that being your boyfriend, he'll want that alone time with you and not his sister. good luck and just ask me if you need anymore advice!
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