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13/f
I'm about to move AGAIN, but I want to tell this guy how I feel. He's a sweetheart and he's sooooo cute, but when it comes to telling how I feel, I'm such a chicken. I'm about to move in a couple of days, and I just don't want to go without knowing what could've been. Should I ask him out? Should I just chicken out and keep wondering what could've been? I'm moving next Friday(it's Tuesday the 16, I'm moving on the 26)So should I ask him or not?
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I had this boyfriend for 4 years and he dumped me tons of times, then decided we should be friends. After a while, he questioned about getting back together and I said I wanted to. Then bam, he hit me with the news of saying theres another girl and that he can't choose. I told him theres no choice because I'm gone. Did I do the right thing?
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I am a semi-White collar/blue collar type and women my age shun me like I was the plague. I have tried everything and I am about to "throw in the towel" and remain single for life. I tried Internet dating and that was a flop, I even tried flirting with unmarried (and unattached) women where I live but that only turns them off. It's like I have a dark cloud above my head that says "doom". I would make a perfect husband but no woman seems to be willing to take me up on that offer. I can take the truth. If I'm doomed, then I understand. (Male, 32, Anglo-German, writer and Christian and political activist)
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name me some sad songs =]
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16/m
Sorry this might be long. Well. We'll just call this girl R, lol. She's really weird just like me and shes like my best friend n all that. I am really starting to like her. A lot. We stay up talking on weekends sometimes, and we never run out of things to talk about.
Problem is, she has a boyfriend. They've been going out for like a really really long time, and I wouldn't tell her I like her when she has a boyfriend. So I've been waiting. And nothing changes. I still like her.
But a couple nights ago she left me this really long message saying that she liked me as more than a friend. And she also wrote in it "I know i have a boyfriend and all that, which is why i'm having a really hard time liking you. nd i dont want anyone thinking im cheating on him or whatever because im really not the kind of person to do that sort of thing. And dont ask me why i like you because i dont even know. its just a huge puzzle to me. Anyway, I just had to tell you this because it was killing me and i had to get it off my chest. and im really afraid to send this but i know nothing will change if i dont so here it goes..." and i noticed she sent this really late at night.
and then after that she sent a message that said "omg. ignore that last message. i was like acting drunk. omfg please ignore it."
What do you think I should do...?
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17/f. Last December I lost my virginity to my best guy friend. Let's call him Jake. (He wasn't a virgin, fyi, but he knows I was). Ever since then I've been so strongly attached to him. I don't have a crush on him, which is good cuz he now has a g/f he loves very much, and I'm currently crazy about this other boy. But everytime I think about Jake I get this sense of almost overwhelming care and compassion. I would jump in front of a bullet for him and I value his opinion more than anyone's.
He and I argue and bicker a lot, but I always end up forgiving him, whether or not I know I'm right. He pisses me off probably more than anyone I know, but he also makes me smile more than anyone, too.
When I think about it in a romantic sense, I'm not attracted to him that way. My caring seems to go beyond that. Is this because he's the first (and only, so far) guy that I've slept with?
I'm just confused.
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do any of yuo know any good places to look for sex tips or if you know any please tell me i want it to be amazing!
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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
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im just doing a survey type thingy, and i was wondering:
girls, if you and your boyfriend were to get engaged, would you want him to pick out a ring and surprise you or would you want to pick out the one you want and him get it?
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I think I may be pregnant. I'm not so sure right now, so I'm not going to get a test or go to the doctors until I talk to my mom/boyfriend.
First of all, I'm on the pill and have been for almost a year and I use spermicide condoms ALWAYS. so i'm not sure if i am pregnant since we never had a tear in the condom.
But maybe it's my imagination, but my boobs got slightly bigger or maybe it's because i'm not wearing a bra? I dunno, they aren't tender or anything. My stomach looks bloated. I have a high metabolism too and my period is a week & a half away.
Is there any other reason why my stomach looks slightly bloated? Before I jump to conclusions?
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16\f
My boyfriend fingered me like 3 months ago.. and it bled. But he had fingered me like 30 times before that day that it blead. So I was just wondering. We are planning on having sex pretty soon and I was wondering if it could still bleed even though it bled once when he fingered me...
And also, I want my FIRST TIME to be remerable. Any suggestionS? we both still live at home...
He has his liscense though
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two shows/movies I can't stand:
Hannah Montana and High School Musical (1 and 2)
Not only, in my opinion, are they really cheesy and overrated..but unoriginal and stupid.
Am I wrong to think this? Yet, I still get blamed in school for not liking it..
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Alright, I swore to myself I would never let this repeat itself but it has, and now I got a problem.
Well I was just browsing through chats one night, being silly with my friends, and I met this guy and started to talk to him. Well now I REALLY like him. And he's said before he really likes me as well, and my friend confronted him the other day because he mentioned on his page to some girl he was talking to that he fancied her. And he told my friend that he loves me, but would we ever meet? [ Cause I live in America, he lives in Scotland ].
And I just feel like yeah, I would LOVE to meet him, but he doesnt' seem to wanna take the chance and try and meet me or anything. And I just hate having to sit here and watch him mention other girls while I don't like anybody else [ I don't know I'm the kind of girl who only likes one person at a time ]. I try all the time to drop signs and hints that I want him to visit, that I like him and everything, and I KNOW he's picking up on them; he must be blind if he isn't.
I just don't understand.
I guess I'm just looking for others tips, advice, point of view?
Anything, basically.
I just feel lost.
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okay some advice i need:
when are you supposed to give the guy
presents. like i kno christmas, b-day, valentines day and idk what else. HELPP!
andd okayy me and this guy have been now going out for 2 weeeks and havent kissed. can the girl kiss the guy or whatt? :/
&& if yes what can you do? i just dont want to kiss him out of the blue. WHATT DO I DO?!!
thankkks. :D
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I'm kind of confused cause people keep telling me different things i was wondering
When it comes to kissing in a relationship as in your first kiss in the relationship who's ment to make the move first ?
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I met this guy who is exactly like me, we've been going out for about 2 weeks, and every day he tells met that he loves me.
He is always complimenting me, and we are ALWAYS together.
Do you think we'll last long as a couple? Or would same interests drive us away from each other?
Btw, he isn't a player type, not über outgoing or anything like that. He is the nicest guy i've met in my life :)
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15/f if that helps.
ive been fingered before countless times and ive only had sex once but i have never bled.
is my cherry popped? or no?
thanks!
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There's a girl, I'll call her Sara, is really slutty and all she can talk about is how much she likes emo bands and how she flashes her breasts to guys. This is mostly the reason I don't like her, and the other part is that she's kind of punk and I have a clean, preppy style. Well, anyway, she is really nice to me, and I always help her around and stuff because of that. It's really hard, because she's always so nice to me, but I really don't like the way she behaves or talks. I know she tries to fit in, but I feel guilty about not really liking her and venting about how annoying she is to my friends when she acts so nice. Any advice?
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honestly... Do you think age 15 and a half is too young to staart thinking about having sex when i'm like, 16?
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Well internets getting kinda boring
All i do is go on msn and i have an imvu website www.imvu.com and i like decorating my homepage and all but i get sick of it and please dont tell me to go on myspace and facebook and websites like that lol well i was just wondering is there any good sites to go on ?
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