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my best friend likes the guy i like and she started to like him coincidentally right after I told her I liked him and started talking to her alot. I think he likes her now and she wants to go out with him..she doesnt even care that im hurt about it. what do i do??
Obviously she's not a good friend. Thats the most bitchiest move in the world! You should talk to her and be honest and tell her that you like that guy and she shouldnt! Tell her she is being a bitch and you have every right to be pissed off at her. And, you should talk to the guy and see if you can get him to like you instead. Then, if he does like you after you hang out with him and talk to him more, I would go up to her and say "Pay backs a bitch isnt it?" She f***ing should care that you are hurt because shes not your friend if she doesnt care that she hurt you. Hope this helps
16/F dating a 17/m for over a year.
Today, I had plans to meet up with my mom to go look at prom dresses after school.
I told my boyfriend, "I'm not waiting for you after school" because it takes him a minute or two to meet up with me after school. But when I don't have to wait for him (I've always waited on him unless he's absent), I can get out of the school pretty fast and manage to beat the school traffic. He gets upset and starts to ignore me.
A few minutes after telling him that, my mom sends me a text message telling me she was going to check me out an hour before school dismissal. Of course, I told my boyfriend. He still continues to ignore me.
After I got home, we were IMing each other back and forth with this conversation:
Him: :-\
Me: what?
Him: what you said when i last saw you
Me: what? that I didnt want to wait?
Him: yeah, that was stupid
Him: saves you a minute and a half at the most
Me: no no, 4-5 minutes
Him: it takes me 4-5 minutes to walk about 150 feet?
Me: no, but have you seen me walk fast? Yeah, I do that when I dont have to wait.
Him: just shut up
Him: even if you were going to save time, big deal
Him: what did you need to rush outta there so fast for?
Him: that dress might sell out before you get there?
Him: doubt it
Me: to look at dresses?
Me: to beat hellacious traffic?
Him: you're ridiculous
Him: the whole thing was stupid
Him: waiting on me wouldnt have made you any late
Me: even your friend said it made sense
Him: he didnt care
Me: he said, "It makes sense", Andrew.
Him: and uh, i dont care
Him: forget what he said, it wouldnt have made a difference if you waited on me
Him: and it was ridiculous that you would argue with me about it and completely refuse to wait for me
Me: you're the ridiculous one who is currently overreacting. It doesn't matter anymore, Andrew. I checked out at 1:51.
Him: no, it doesnt matter that you checked out
Him: YOU WERE REFUSING TO WAIT FOR ME
Me: okay? So I could get out of there.
Him: that's stupid
Him: you're f***ing dumb as s**t f**k you im done good bye
He signed off at 7:42:29 PM.
I agree with you, he's over reacting. That is stupid if he gets mad over you leaving early and not waiting on him. And what he said to you before he signed off, if it were me I would have broken up with you. He called you really bad tthings and dotn accept it! If you really love him then you would see that its time for you two to break up. He obviously doesnt really have strong feeling for you to not wait for dress shopping and yea I would leave early if I were you too because it is hard to beat school traffic. Anyways, hope this helps.
When i try to play sports or any activity i sweat extremely.i use deo but it doesn't stop the sweat nor the smell,what do i do?
I have the exact same problem. I haven't really found a solution yet though. Email me sometime explaining and someday we shall both find a solution to our weird problems. brittney.autumn@live.ca I thought I might never meet someone with the same problem. There is such thing as getting a needle in your armpit to stop the sweat glands but it is extremely painful and I would not recommend it. Find a deoderant that takes care of smell and an antiperspirant that takes care of the sweat. Hope this helps :)
im 13/f, im 85 pounds, and i can call myself pretty(: its okay to think your pretty and fit right? Never have i ever hugged a cute boy, dated, had my first kiss, made out, lost my virginity, humped, nothing! is that bad? im 14 in 5 months. i feel like everyone has! especially dated, hugged, or had their first kiss! i havent, is that bad? plus my parents are super awkward, and i would never talk about boys in front of them. if i dated though, it would be a secret. should i be worried?
Im 13/f too! Its ok if you have never hugged, dated, kissed, ect. You arent alone. I just got my first boyfriend and we've only hugged a couple of times. Dont worry about other people, you will get to one day :) Dont be worried about anything, I definatly would say its good that you havent lost virginity yet :/ Lol, you will have your first boyfriend, kiss, and hug with a guy soon. Or, you could maybe get a good guy friend and hug him. Either way, good luck :)
I know most people just say that everyone is pretty but seriously, am I ugly? If you say that I am it's ok because I don't really care but I just want to know.
My hair is a little below my shoulder and it's light brown with blond highlights. My eyes are blue like the sea. I have really long eye lashes with settle blong highlights in them. I was born with it. I am really pale and have a lot of freckles but not so many where it looks creepy. I have a small amount of acne in one spot on my forehead and I never wear makeup. My check are a little chubby but not a lot to where I look fat or something...I would have out a picture of myself on here but didn't want to....And I know it's hard for you to judge when you can't see a picture of me but please try your hardest! Thanks! :D
No body is ugly, everyone has inner beauty. "If you take the time to really look at something, you will come to realize that they are truly beautiful". You dont need outer beauty to be beautiful. Everyone is beautiful. Your hair sounds the same length as mine (but mines a dark red, not orange though), I have a lot of freckles across my nose, everyone gets acne but most people try to hide it. Dont do that, you should be proud of yourself and dont be ashamed of a little acne. Makeup is good sometimes like for ages 13-16 I suggest that if you wear it you only wear eye shadow, mascara, eye liner, and lip gloss. Any age above that could use foundation, blush, lipstick, lip liner, powder ect. Dont worry about a little chubbyness in your cheeks, your face will grow (kinda) and it will get better. You actually sound very beautiful, both inside and out. Dont be insecure about it. Listen to the song 'What makes you beautiful' by one direction. Dont be like that. Hope this helps :)
How ca i lose weight in five weeks
Here is a site that will definatly help you. It works! http://www.weightwatchers.ca/templates/marketing/Landing_1col_nonav.aspx?PageId=1109841
why iam alive
Never say that, i hate it when people doubt why they are living. Its so stupid! Your mom created you for a reason. You mean alot to her! You spent a long time inside of her and now u doubt why u sould be living! everyone is alive for a reason and if some people would love to have your life.
I'll start by saying I am still in high school. I am sixteen.
I have been with my boyfriend for six months now. He is the definition of perfect to me, everything I have always dreamed of and wanted. He is so respectful, polite, dorky, goofy, and never lets anything get in the way of our relationship. He never gets frustrated with me, never yells, never raises a hand at me, never even looks at other girls. I have been through a lot of guys, all jerks that used me, manipulated me, and left me at the slightest flaw they didn't care for or could tolerate. But my current boyfriend accepts me for me. He never gets angry when I get insecure or annoyed at him or close him out when my mother yells at me or I'm having trouble learning a math problem or something. He has taught me a lot about myself and he always helps me conquer my fears. He always opens doors for me, waits for me to finish eating at the table, and helps me with my problems. He is practically prince charming. He never ever pressures me, never judges me, and the best thing of all: I can truly be myself. I'm not scared of saying something embarrassing or telling him a dorky thought or just being my goofy self. He always tells me I'm beautiful and wonderful and everything to him. I've never ever had such a strong, amazing, loving relationship with anyone before. He is genuine and his intentions are good. He promised the first month we dated that he would never hurt me or never leave me or never give up. I've heard that a lot, but when he said it, it was different. He didn't just say it, he backed up his promise by giving me so much happiness and love. He always surprises me and goes out of his way for me. He is a senior.
We often talk of our future, but I feel awkward sometimes 'cause I get scared I might seem too clingy. He always assures me. We do everything together, even if we don't live together. We cook, clean, babysit, go grocery shopping, fix cars, and all other household chores or anything like a couple would be like when living together when my parents are busy or away or needing help. We can talk for hours, but I'm always comfortable in the silence even. He is my other half. I swear I'm not myself around him. I got ahead of myself last night, and looked him deep in the eyes and said quietly, "One day, I'm going to marry you." It took a lot of guts to say it, but I did, and his face lit up. He became ecstatic, "Really? Oh babe that's so wonderful that you want me in your future!"
I would like an opinion on it. Of course I'm young, and I know I'm too young to marry at this point, but some days I just want to ask, to give him just a simple "I'll be with you forever" whether I have a real ring or a ring from a vending machine. I think about it so much to the point where I wonder. Am I just overwhelmed? Is it okay to feel this way? Or is it wrong?
Wow, he seems like the perfect guy. You two seem in love by the looks of it, but I dont think it will last forever. Of course everyone has their own opinion and all, but someday your going to go to college or university and meet other people and might even forget about him. Its really nice knowing that he likes the idea of spending his life with you but you have your whole education and life ahead of you. You never know where the paths of life will lead you. Good Luck, hope this helps :)
im a 13 year old female.
my crush is my best friends boyfriend and i told him a few weeks ago that ive liked him for a few months and im jealous of my best friend cuz she has gone out with her crush like 5 times now and i know that him and i will onyl be friends cuz hes 17 almost 18 and true friends usually dont date their best friends ex bf. but he even told me that he likes me but i dont know what to do about it! and i dont even think there is anything to do. we always see eachother at church and one night my best friend had choir practice and so it was just me and my crush, and we were hanging out and talking and he was flirting with me and i was flirting with him and then a few hours later she comes out and he like runs over to her and hugs on her and stuff like that and i feel like he doesnt even know me. and i really dont know what i should do. forget about him or tell him to break up with my best friend? =[
I have been through the same thing. If he admitted to liking you then obviously he isnt 100% faithful to your best friend. You dont want to mess up like i did, tell your best friend the truth or else she could find out and be very hurt. Dont forget about him and definately dont tell him to break up with your best friend because if you want a boy more than a best friend then you obviously dont deserve either hun. And most imprtantly, dont be jealous! Your best friend could detect your jealousy and be mad at you. Good luck, hope this helps
How do you know you're in love?
Or how do you know you love someone,
can you love someone without being with them?
Like, can you love a guy that is your best friend, but you aren't dating. or can you be in love with him..
im 17
These are steps to find out if you are truly in love, hope this helps :)
1
You start blushing and smiling when you see them.
2
You want to know everything about them and their ways from all angles. You talk to them continually, share your ideas and your enjoyable times and events together.
3
You want to introduce them to everyone and to show them what you have found and are developing together. You always want to talk about them to your friends.
4
You have understanding for one another and know when something is wrong, like something pressing on the mind of the other.
5
You spend as much time as possible with each other, and don't want to be apart.
6
You want to do anything to make them happy
7
You feel like you're flying when he/she holds your hand.
8
You feel like you're in heaven when he/she kisses you.
9
You think to yourself "If no one is perfect, I'd like to know what his/her imperfections are!
10
You can't help but smile when you see him/her.
11
You don't feel embarrassed around them.
12
You're confident around them and not scared to talk to them.
13
You're not scared to admit you love them.
14
You smile every time you hear their name.
15
You get really excited when you talk to them and maybe you wouldn't dare to look into their eyes.
16
You feel empty when they don't talk to you.
17
You'll desperately look around for him or her.
18
You become very happy when you found something similar with him or her.
19
You'll treasure a gift that he or she has given to you, even a very small gift.
20
You can take a trip together and wish it would never end.
21
You constantly want to be with him or her
22
When you're with them you have no other doubts of who you want to be with or where you want to be, because right there.. it seems like you're in heaven.
23
You want nothing but to be with them.
24
You're thinking about them right now...
25
You keep having visions you kissing them or hugging and holding hands.
26
You begin to see a future with the person. You understand and accept his/her likes and dislike.
Me and this guy have been really good friends for like 2 years now, I thought maybe he had feelings for me before, but i don't know now. He flirts with me a lot, and we talk all the time. I do have feelings for him, and he recently started hanging out with his best friend's ex girlfriend and everytime they hang out, he tells me. I don't know why he tells me this, although i would like to know. it does make me jealous. Like last night he didnt talk to me at all like he ushually does, and then this morning he told me he was hanging out with her till 1am. -_- I think i'm just hurting myself by liking him still if he's obviously more interested in her? I don't really know what I should do, clearly there isn't anything I can do about it. But should i try and stop liking him? And give up on my feelings that aren't going to get me anywhere? Or just continue even though it's hurting me inside..
He's 18, i'm 17. We're both seniors in high school, so is the other girl.
Anything helps, thanks.
It kinda sounds like something i have been through. If he likes you then maybe he is trying to get you jealous. If you dont want to get hurt then dont like him. In my situation, the guy and me are still really tight but I have a boyfriend now. I hope you choose the right decision, but remember that you dont show your jealousy. Try to talk to him and explain but dont say your interested. Play hard to get. Hope this helps :)
Ok so I have a Boyfriend at the moment and we arent very serious. We havent kissed yet after 4 months and he is my first Bf ever. We hug though but when we do it lasts for 3 seconds :/
Then there is another guy who has been talking to me on Msn 24/7. He and I are really good friends and we play truth alot. He has had alot of girlfriends and has kissed alot of girls and made out before too. During truth, he keeps asking me questions like "If i kissed you, would u A.kiss back B.Pull away C.slap me D.make out" and stuff... I used to like him before I had a boyfriend and he likes me a bit now. He is my best guy friend but we hardly talk in person. We try to change that but its not easy considering everytime I start talking to him to my boyfriend, my boyfriend calls him a douche. I dont know what to do. My boyfriend needs to know because I need him to be cool with it all.
Last night the other guy was asking me the same question over and over that if he kissed me what i would do. He says he would kiss me and i dont know if i would kiss him. I have a boyfriend after all. I told him we are just friends and I said that (since i have been on vacation for a week) when i get back i would like a welcome back hug. He said Ok then said we would "hug" I have a strange idea that if we hug he might try to kiss me. My Boyfriend is completely fine with me hugging other guys but definately not kissing them.
Pleasse help, eveerything will be appreciated.
I have been through the exact same thing! He wont kiss u if he is a true friend. I hope u stay with your boyfriend and if you need advice on how to get your boyfriend to become the kissing type just ask me :) And its good that your boyfriend is ok with you hugging other guys because not many are. I think it would be a good thing for you and your best guy friend to talk in reality too because if you are really good friends right now then think of how much better it would be if you both talked in person. Hope this helped :)
hi, i just reciently posted a question about who i should pick my bf or the player. so me and my bf have been going out for about almost a year on and off, and we kinda have a long distance relationship and we dont get to see eachother that much. and theres this other guy 2 years older than me and he really lkes me. so i asked advice about who i should pick and i was going to break up with him and forget about the other guy.
well, my bf broke up with me and he said that he still loves me, but the part i dont get is why not. i mean, i think hes going out with some other girl, but i dont know. and he said that once he gets a car we can goo out again, and that we are going to end up going out again, but i dont know what do you guys think?
Breana
If boy 2 is a player as you say, then the relationship wouldnt last long. And if your ex-bf says that you can go out after he gets a car, are you crazy!?! You dont want him crawling back to you. If he really loves you then he wouldnt have said that. So if i were you i would choose to be single, you will meet new people soon enough but for right now u should remain single.
HELP! I had a crush on this guy who liked my friend. He asked her out but before she could say anything he went for me! But the next day the girl he asked out heard a rumor that we were goin out. So she said yes. Then Boy 2 asks me out. He's nice but i really want boy 1. My friends tell me i am making boy 1 jelous with boy 2. but should i keep boy 2 or dump him for boy 1?
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Boy drama
Hmm, if you want boy 1 then go for him. No one can tell u otherwise, be with who u want to be. You dont need a Bf, you can be single too. Aha, let all the boys drewl over you. :P Good luck, hope this helped :)
whenever its just me and my boyfriend hanging out, it is soo quiet! like our whole conversation is sooo.... whats up? or yaa... .. its really weird! any sugestions on what to say?
Sounds like you need to "Spice" it up alittle. Maybe you should ask him how he feels for you. Ask him his favourite feature that you have. If you feel the relationship isnt going anywhere and you cant "spice" it up then maybe its time to go seperate ways. Get him to say that he loves u, it can be weird at times but if u love each other then u will accept the awkwardness :P Good luck, hope this helped :)