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I have a sadness in my heart and I don't know why I cant seem to feel more positive about myself. I wanna be a great mother to my children but fear I am not strong enough to endure all. I love them more than anything in the whole world but that just isn't enough I fear. I don't want to fail them as a mother, I want to be a better person for my partner and I feel lost because I am not happy with myself so how can I make someone else happy. I feel he does not want me anymore. I feel so judged and hate it. I am tired of being so anxious about everything I want peace of mind. Sometimes I want to just live in a bubble and never leave. Why do I feel this way? What is wrong with me? What are steps to improve myself for my family.I have no insurance and unable to seek professional help so I am turning to the web for any suggestions. Thanks (link)
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maybe your in a rut.. go outside and enjoy the weather:) catch some rays and just go do something. i know you may not feel like even getting out of bed sometimes but put yourself out there and hang with some old friends or take your kids to the park. just do stuff to help yourself out now and follow up with a phychiatrist. you may have depression or some other chemical inbalance. hope i helped(:
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So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more? (link)
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i say go fo it:) im with this guy who's totally not my type. with looks or personality lol he's really goofy. but for some reason i'm just drawn to him. so even if you don't think he's your type just go ahead and date him. you'll never know till you try it. plus mixed guys are hottt;) lol.
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What should I name my fish? (link)
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dante
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okay this is kinda wierd but whatever..
for some reason i cant seem to get wet sometimes before sex. and its not like i dont want to do it, cause believe me i do want to. & sometimes when i do get wet, ill dry up in the middle of it. im not intrested in lubes. whats wrong with me? (link)
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try lots of foreplay before hand.
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Okay so I am a 23-year-old female who has never had a guy go down on her. It isn't that there haven't been offers, I guess the thought just terrifies me!
I have all the usual fears that girls have about these things, you know like smells and tastes... things like that. I am about to get married to a man who says he wants to go down on me, but I am more terrified of that than I am of getting married!
Should I just relax and let it happen? Is it everything that they say it is? (link)
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just let him do it:) i mean if it tastes bad or somthing he's the one that wanted to do it. i was pretty scared whenever my boyfriend did the first time but not cause of smell or anything. i really don't know what it was but it's normal, actually most chicks are scared of that. and as far as if it's all what it's cut out to be.. no lol not really. i personally prefer other things to it but i guess that's all just opinion. so just go for it, there's nothin wrong with tryin new things:) but really don't sweat it i mean your gonna marry the guy, so it's gonna happen sooner or later. hope i helped. goodluck.
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2 Months ago my dog started itching uncontrollably, i took him to our groomer and they said he had a bad case of dry skin. After that i made sure to follow what they told me to do, but he wasnt getting any better.
He has chewed off all the lower fur on his back legs, has itched off his stomach fur, and front leg fur to the point where it is bleeding and or scabbed over, and just tonight he chewed all of the fur off from over his butt and had a huge gaping gash. I dont know what to do, i know i need to take him to the vet tomorrow and i plan on doing that, but i just dont understand how dry skin could be doing this?!
Also i need to know if vets will accept payment plans, i dont get paid till next friday, and im afraid they'll turn my dog away. Please help im scared for my dog (link)
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try using gold bond powder on him it really helped my boxer with itching, rashes, etc. :) goodluck.
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hi everybody!
So I guess you know the story, there is this boy and I like him. My problem is that I don't just want to come right out and say "hey I like you" so what do I do?
What I really need to know is how to give a guy signals that you like him?
Can anybody help me with this? If you can I would be truly grateful.
Thank you! (link)
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ah chick it's really easy. just give him little cutsie looks, be playful around him, look good around him and he'll get the hint:) oh and if that takes too long try tellin some of your friends that you know can't really keep their mouths shut so it gets back to hi
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I want to try using tampons but the whole concept scares me! Does anyone know of a site that has a visual instructions for inserting a tampon properly? It doesn't have to be an actual person doing it, drawings are just fine, so long as they are clear enough for me to understand how to do this properly. ;-)
Thank you! (link)
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try the instuctions in the box lol it took me about a year to realize they actually have directions with them:) oh and if you still have trouble try to use a hand mirror. goodluck. hope i helped.
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ok so i used to be good friends with this girl but one day she played a little joke on me and i didnt talk to her for a long time! now its been about a year scince we havent talked to each other! she tried saying sorry many times but scince im very proud and i never forgave her! :( then all of a sudden she stopped saying sorry and got new friends. now i miss the good old times with her!i want to be friends with her but i dont know how? im preety sure she even forgot about me! i just dont know what to do! please give me advice! (link)
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sounds alot like what happened to me. 2 years ago i lost my bestfriend i had since like the 4th grade all cause i never accepted her appologies for somthing stupid she did. fix it! its not too late. sit her down and really talk about it.. i wish i did.
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So I'm 15/f and my skin has been a little rough lately. I've always had very clear, soft skin. I use no makeup except concealer under my eyes. (I have dark circles) But lately, this school year, my skin has been getting weird for me. On my cheeks, I've been getting pimples and in between my eyebrows too. I don't have acne...not at all really, but I used to have such great skin and now it's getting worse. I use Aveeno Clear Complexion Cleanser at night, and in the morning I just wash with water. I use Fresh Soy Face Cream after I clean my face, but it gets me so aggravated! I want my soft, clear skin back. I'm a tan person. In the summer, my hair and skin thrives and everything is great. But, I'm in New york and it's a long, rough winter. My skin is dry and I rarely get any sun at all (I don't fake tan)..and I know it's not enough. I take fish oil vitamins and I eat healthy and exercise. But what is the issue here! I keep breaking out every week..if it's not one thing it's another. I don't know if I should try Proactiv, SkiniD, etc. because I'm guessing it's for people who have chronic acne. I know mine just might be the lack of sun and the winter conditions, but maybe using something for acne might make my skin almost flawless? If it's for serious cases wouldn't it make very mild cases much better? I'm really not sure..helllp! My skin is so important to me, and I'm completely dedicated to making it clear and healthy.
P.S. any natural remedies would be great!
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wash your face with some type of cleanser in the mornings too. when people sleep new oils on your face form so that might be why your breaking out. p.s. at night try the neutragina wave thingy its frekin awesome! lol.
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I'm so sick and tired of not being a popular girl and not getting the hot boys at school to notice me. I want to do whatever it takes now to become popular before school is out this year. What are some good tips on how to become popular in my school so people know me and like me? THANKS (link)
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just be cute, funny, and outgoing. they'll notice you.
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16/f
i went out with my ex for 2 years, i loved him ALOT. we broke up because he moved (bad relationship of him cheating) .. a year later i have a new boyfriend, on the 13th we will be together for 4 months. I know i like him but sometimes i have no desire to cuddle with him. he say's i have a wall blocked up for me to fall in love with him because im scared i'll be hurt again. i honestly dont know what it is. im very laid back (link)
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you do have a wall built up. obviously this new dude is somthin special to you since you've been together for 4 months so heres what i think you should do. learn and soak in all the mistakes of your last relationship and keep them in the back of your mind as kinda a reference to go to if you get stuck or confused. then just let go of any worries, hard feelings, or emptyness that your ex left you with and move on. don't be afraid to love this boy. have faith that hes nothing like you last dude and be strong girl:) good luck.
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So I want to text this guy, but I don't know how to start a conversation. We usually talk on Saterdays after I have tournaments, but now the seasons over and we have nothing to talk about!
How can I start a conversation without coming of as creepy.
Also, what could we talk about.
I kind of like him and I know he is interested in me but doesn't really like me. Hopefully, YET!! So anyway, what to sayyy!!
thanks@ (link)
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no no no. i never text guys cause that is one of my main ways of spittin game. wait for him to think about you or want to tell you somthin. he'll text you eventually. patience is a virtue with guys:) hope i helped. go get em girl.
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hi ok well i was dating a guy for a long while then got pregnant we had the baby and were together he never really helped out so i would nag at him to help well when my daughter turned 10 months old he broke up with me and wants her on weekends and I don't want to do any of that I love him so much we were together for 2 1/2 years and I believe he loved me well we have been broken up for a week and a half and he texted me last night and we texted for like 5 hours but only as friends what can i say or do to get him back I really do love him we are both 18 (link)
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ok so what you need to do is play hard to get and spit some game or he'll probly never fully commit to you and your baby because he wont have to. hope i helped:) best of luck.
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I love someone things didn't go right, I figured out how to fix it but I don't know if I could have another chance. I needed to do something with my life instead of wait for him. We agreed to move on but now I don't want to. I am hurting emotionally and physically. Should I let it go which is going against everything I feel right now or do I try to patch it up? (link)
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i say give up. its not worth your time.
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\'m 15 years old
and i\'m currently in a relationship with this guy ! hes really something special to !
ireally don\'t deserve him but hes means the world to mii ,
but i\'m still and love with someone else !
weve been talking for a while !
and i gotta admit we really got something !
hes more of a hustler so hes always and the streets !
he calls mii and text mii and tells mii he loves mii every chance he gets !
hes very popular so everybody knows him !
alot of girls like him !
and hes kinda a player !
i worry about who hes with when hes not with me ! but i spend most of my time with him!
ikant really get upset about the things i here !
kuz he doesn\'t belong to mii !
and i have the boyfriend ! loll
hes been trina be with me but i keep pushing him awway !
now i realize i\'m so in love with him !
&& ikn0 its weird but ikn0 h3 l0v3s mii to !
honestly ikan see it && his eyes when he looks at mii !
hes the type that doesn\'t get all crazy bought a girl !
like i said hes more of a player !
but hes crazy about me i think about him everyday !
and i get all excited when i hear his ring tone !
ikant live without him !
but iam in a relationship with someone else !
iknow its crazy but ilove him too !
hes more of a player and a hustler too !
so he stays in the street !
ive kinda changed him to kuz hes not the loving type but some how imanage to make him fall for mii !
some how i just have that talent ! lol
but im really and love with him also !
i jus dont understand how somebody as special as him can actually love me !
it jus seems to good to be true !
ii get emotional every time i think about him because!
i kant believe he chose me ikant believe he loves mii !
i kant believe im in love with the most best boy and the world !
outta all the girls who likes him !
and the bad part about it is i dont even deserve him
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because as yew kno hes not the only person ilove !
he knows about the other guy && he hasn\'t called since then and that was two days ago !
he been knew about the other guy ! but he trusted me ! but he just found out how ireally feel about this guy !
iguess ireally did hurt him
rite before this happen
he told mii \\\"i was the best thing that happen to him\\\" !
he said \\\"before he met me the only thing he had was money
im not gonna lie
i jus sat and the dark and cried
\\\"he told me he never felt this way about a girl before !
and from what i heard he hasn\'t
like i said
he was more of a player
im torn between two
ilove both of them
and both of them love me
but both of them kno about each other
idnt kno
but anyway
he always takes mii back
but this time.....
maybe hes not comin back!
and when i think about him
i jus cry
kuz iknow that ive hurt him so much
and i wana b3 with him
but i just kant l3t g0 of that someone else (link)
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forget about him. if hes like you described him as your gonna get hurt. players are no good and just want to get some. if you really have somthing special with your bf stay with him! players dont stay in relationships for long so you would more than likely dump your dude for this player and it would be pointless cause hed end up cheating on you or dumping you before you know it. stay with your man.
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Ok this is gross but I'm going to be detailed lol.
20/f
I seem to have a lot of vaginal discharge. There is NOT any itching, burning, pain, smell or anything like that, just discharge.
Here is for the more detailed part, it is white/clear when it comes out but when there is some on my underwear and it dries it is yellowish.
I guess the reason it bothers me is because it gets a lot on my underwear and I don't want my boyfriend to get grossed out by it.
I've had this for honestly as long as I can remember and so when I recently had a pap smear I didn't mention it because I didn't really think about it as abnormal until I heard some stuff about discharge lately. The pap smear came back normal.
Any thoughts? (link)
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its perfectly normal chick. you may notice more of it whenever your with someone who turns you on. dont worry about it. just try to change your underwear often and maybe use baby wipes occasionally. hope i helped:)
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I've been in an exclusive relationship with this guy for three months. He's perfect and amazing and our relationship is great. In addition to the emotional aspect of our relationship (we connect really well), we are extremely attracted to one another... so we usually end our dates with an intense makeout session accompanied by other stuff at his house for hours at a time. He's focused on pleasuring me and asks for nothing in return. He only does what I'm comfortable with. Thus far he's fingered me and felt me up, both through my clothes, in addition to some other stuff not as sexual. I am saving myself for marriage and he knows and is fine with this but I'm just afriad we're moving too fast, that we'll do everything there is to do outside of sex before the relationship is close to ending-- we're both very happy and have already made long-term plans that stretch into next fall.
I do enjoy what he's doing and it feels so good that its honestly hard to say no, and he makes me feel so comfortable... should we slow it down? I'm 16, he's 18. Thanks :] (link)
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get it girl lol. what you guys are doing is perfectly fine. saving yourself till you are married is perfectly fine but you can still do other stuff if you want to. the fact that you two are so attracted to eachother is great. that is a major factor in making a relationship really last. do whatever you are comfortable with and nothin more or less. hes your boyfriend and theres nothing wrong with what you guys do:)
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So i'm 16 and i've been with this guy for six months and we've done the 3rd base thing. Like he fingers me and i've given him a hand job. So like i of course always make him finish but he's never made me orgasm. Like i've been closish....i think....but i always feel like i'm gonna pee, i've been able to orgasm on my own and it doesnt feel like that and i dont know why he cant make me, even though he does he same thing i do, clit stimulation. The other day he was really working hard and it always feels really good, its not that it doesn't but idk i can't finish. Maybe i'm afraid to infront of him? but i dont think so cause i really want to, i even direct him sometimes. Well anyway yeah he was working real hard and i knew he was getting tired so i faked it.....but i feel so bad about it...i know a lot of girls do it but i feel so dishonest i've never lied to him. He told me once he'd never want me to fake it and that he'd get mad at me if i did cause he wants to please me....so i'm kinda scared to tell him that i did...he thinks he's made me finish twice but he's never been able to, i dont even remember faking it in the past......i dont know what i should do or why i cant orgasm (link)
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honestly just keep faking it esspecially if hes doin somthing that really feels good. it will make him learn faster and love doing it for you even more. ohh and try to do alot of foreplay before he actually gets his hand down there cause it makes you more ready for it and makes it feel 10 times better. hope i helped:) good luck.
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Uh im gonna shorten this as much as I can but i think more detail would give me better answers so... bare with me.
Me and my best friend met when we were 12. She moved in next door. I liked her in that puppy dog kinda thing ya know and she liked me to. But nothing ever happen. About 7th grade we dated for...3 days i think. She was like its awkward your my best friend my brother whatever. I was like ok its cool. We kissed on a truth or dare thing, both of our first kisses.
So 11th grade high school were 17. Shes dated this kid named *bob* for about 4 years. They break up on and off, he treats her bad, yea. Well i liked her this whole time and it was terrible, picking her up from his house crying at like 2 am. Hanging out with her and shed be like can u drop me off at *bobs* or come pick me up.
Well they broke up for the final time and we started talking serious again for about 2 weeks. then she broke it off and went back to *bob*. Im gonna input here that i was basically her best friend and she told me everything, from sexual to school. Thats hard to hear btw, but i was always there because if she was happy, i was...yea.
Well family crap came up and she moved across the country, in January. We visited her during...July? We hung out the whole time she blew off her bf for me and everything and then after about a week we went back home.
So we txted, aimed, just talked to each other the whole time. She came down about 2 weeks ago to visit us for Christmas. When she got here she told me she always knew i was the one and she always liked me. Surprised me but I told her I still liked her to. So we chilled together all week laid in bed, cuddled, watched movies, all that good stuff.
2 days before she left she said she had a headache so i was rubbing her head. Then uh things got a little hotter and ended up with me fingering her. The next day we talked about it and she was like i let my hormones take control but the kiss during it was all me. Next night were cuddling together and were getting a little hot, but shes stopped my hand once or twice, and her family decides its time to leave. I kiss her goodbye and shes moving back in may and is like im gonna wait for you when i come home ur all mine.
Ok I really am sorry for the long story and if i get no help i completly understand. But my question.
1. WTF do i do?
2. She was seriously into me, i turned her on from rubbing her back, thats not possible.. I know. So that means it wasnt where I was rubbing its the fact that it was me. right?
3. Was I wrong to do that if i knew it was just hormones. Like she kissed my neck at one point, girls only do that if hormones are involved.
Any advice at all is amazing because that means you read all this crap about some random person and you cared. Your amazing, or just really bored. (link)
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ok wow sounds alot like me and this one dude.. just make sure she likes you not the fact that you can turn her on and do stuff with her. long story short thats what me and that dude were best friends who somtimes got a lil too hot and did stuff. try not to do any more than kiss her and see if she still wants a relationship with you. oh and it is possible that you rubbing her back turned her on cause it definetly turns me on. its normal. hope i helped:) good luck.
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