My name is Chelsea, I'm 17 & a senior in high school. I like giving advice and helping people in general. I have the most experience in areas like family issues, dealing with friends and losing friends, pregnancy scares, and moving. I've made mistakes and learned from them. That's where my experience comes from. So why not help someone in the same situation that you've already been in? I'll try to do just that, and if you have a question don't hesitate to ask!
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hi katy .. i have a problem :-/ there is this kid i rele rele rele like but we've went out 4 times 5 times in the past month .. the longest was recently and it was 2 weeks but he broke up with me bcuz he liked some girl that would give him head and have sex with him :-/ i love him alot .. and he says he loves me .. what do i do??? (link)
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if he just broke up with you because this other girl would have sex with him then he is deffinetly not worth it. there are so many other people out there for you, so forget about this jerk and move on. youll deffinetly be happier once you find someone who isnt just about sex!
hope i helped
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...??????? (link)
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You have so many other oppertunities infront of you, so dont spend all your time worrying about Manuel. I can understand you miss him and still love him, but there are so many more fish in the sea. You just need to get out there and explore. So best of luck
Hope i helped
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Im a lesbian and my girlfriend and i reallyy really really want to have sex because we love each other and i dont know where to buy condoms for girls. we just want to be safe. otherwise we are gunna have sex without one. helP! (link)
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I dont think you need condoms when 2 girls are having sex, do you? I dont know im not lesbian i wouldnt know.. no offesne..lol
anyway, hope i helped??
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Hey, i have a problem. I have this friend and she has a Boy Friend i really want to spend more time with her but she always is talking about him or with him. I HATE IT. i really hope you can help me with this problem, thanks.
Amy =( (link)
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ive had the same problem before. just try and tell her that you miss spending time with her and you want things to be the way they were before her boyfriend. but dont make it sound like you want her to dump him because thats never good!
hope i helped you
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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do? (link)
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tell her that youre just trying to help her and that you think its for the best. if she doesnt listen then at least feel good that you did the right thing. even if she didnt come with you to church. hope i helped
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Okay I'm going to get to the point my friend said I've changed and I asked how and he said you don't care about anything anymore and I had no idea what he meant by this so I asked what he was talking about, because this is who I am. And he said well if this is who you are then I don't want to talk to you, and I said fine bye and hung up the phone.
I just I'm so mad, because me and him used to be really good friends. Should I be mad...or just let it be...I'm so lost. (link)
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Oh boy, ive been through the same situation. My friends told me ive changed.. then they said that i couldnt see it.. because im the one that was doing the changing? i duno it makes no sense. but anyway, just ask him why he really thinks youve changed. tell him that you arent going to change back to whatever you were because you are who you are and no one can judge that or take that away from you.
hope i helped
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i have a cousin who keeps bossing me around. she kicks me down the stairs and embrass me in front of friends.I really need some advice on what to do. (link)
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tell your cousin that you really dont like how shes acting. but say it calmly so she doesnt get mad. explain to her how you feel and try to work things out..
hope i helped
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wow...I'm completely obsessed with Jeremy (the guy who plays Peter Pan)...and I feel bad for being obsessed cause I kno if someone was obsessed with me I'd freak out...but I dont kno I like knowing a lot about him...what should I do oh mighty advice giver? (link)
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Well he's famous right? So whats the harm in being completely infatuated with some one? Nothing. I'm obsessed with Abram (from Road Rules South Pacific / The Gauntlet / The Inferno) nothings wrong with it and theres no need to try and get over it. So just chill, and have a good time obsessing.. lol.
hope i helped
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Well, I'm 12 years old and 5'3, I'm only 100 pounds but i look fat, people ask me how much I weigh and I say around 100 and they don't believe me, they think I weight more than that. This really ticks me off so I was wondering if I should loose weight and look thinner or what (link)
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if youre comfortable with yourself, then why change because of someone else? but if your really want to then go ahead lose a little wait. but 100 pounds is deffinetly not over weight.
hope i helped
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okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them? (link)
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find something that they are interesting in doing. like ask them questions about what they think is fun and then next time youre babysitting them bring things that they think are fun to play with. i have a little brother that i babysit all the time and i try to find things he likes doing, like hes really into Yu Gi Oh (?) so we play with his cards all the time and hes occupied for hours..hope i helped
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i am addicted to the computer. what do i do?? (link)
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ahh i swear im addicted to the computer too. i just go outside and pretend that i dont have a computer. and go over to friends house and just to stuff other then the computer like going swimming or something. its good exersize, makes you tan, and its not the computer =)
hope i helped!
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HEY GUYS WELL I DONT HAVE A HABBIT OF BITTING MY NAILS I LIKE PICK MY NAILS AND THEY GET REALLY SHORT AND I WAS WONDERING IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO 2 HELP M ESTOP? I WANT NAILS!!!! *LUV NIKKI* (link)
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put something that tastes really nasty on your fingernails, like well i duno vinager or something thats bitter. then you wont want to bite them because of the taste
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i dance alot (about 12 hours a week) .. does this have anything to do with my not having my period yet because of heavy exercise?? that's what my friend said and i want to know if it's true (link)
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well you only get your peroid when you have 17% body fat. i think, thats what my PE/Health teacher told us. So maybe your less then 17% with all that exersizing.
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i used to be the first to fall asleep ( normally at other peoples houses during sleepovers) but lately i'm always the last person to fall asleep, like just last nite or this mornin, i didn't fall asleep until like 2am, and i "went to bed at like 11:30" idk if it's my matress or if i have insomnia, can u develop insomnia, or are people just born with it?
but i just cant get to sleep, i've tried warm milk, counting sheep, and wut used to always work, puttin on the tv, but i just can fall asleep, it's just like im to exhausted to sleep, is there sumthin wrong wit me (i've had tha matress for about 3 years... is that it?) but i also dont think it's the matress, because whenever people visit they sleep in my bed, and they think it's super comfortable, i just wanna kno wuts wrong, should i see a doctor???
or is it normal for a 14 year old to sleep like this
usually i also wake up n e where between 8-10am (link)
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maybe you just have something on your mind and its bugging you. im like that sometimes too i can never fall asleep untill like 3 am, i hate it!! try listening to some music you like maybe that will help you, it helps me.
hope i helped!!
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I am a fast runner you see and I got asked to run this thing called the turkeytrot, but Iave to run in front of the whole school. I am araid of getting lastplace should I still run? (link)
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If you were asked to run in this thing then that probably means that you are a strong runner.. so heck yeah go for it, thatd be pretty awesome if you got a high ranking and showed the whole school what you can do, lol ya gota look at the bright side.
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Come on, y'all know who's better. CAROLINA ROCKS MY SOCKS!!! But what do you think? Tarheels or Blue Devils? (link)
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Deffinetly TarHeels, my whole family is obsessed with UNC.. rock on..lol
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i really want to be a basketball player like soooooo bad and i dont know hoe i can become one i meen im only 12 so its not a big rush now but any ideas would be great!
~*~AlEx~*~ (link)
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Try out for like a school team. And practice a lot so you become really good. Then after a while if you get really into playing basketball, try out for a leauge. Hope i helped!!
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I'm going to a new school in fall. How can I make people like me there? (link)
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ohh boy i know how you feel ive gone to so many different schools its unreal. just be your self and talk to different people and find something you have in common. hope i helped
love Chelsea
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My brother likes my best friend- which Sucks. He liked her for a while and she would always tell me that she doesnt like him,. hes 16 were 14. She just asked me if i would kill her if she would go out with him,. n i go nah its cool,. which isnt ( i just didnt want to hurt her feelings ) even tho it hurts mine,. SO they both like each other.. and i think they are gonna go out s0on. Its going to be really weird,. like shes my BEST friend , when she comes ova to mi hosue for my brother n hang out with him!? i kno our friendship wont be as strong.. espically since my bro got his new car,. now he can take her anywhere..=/ Maybe i'm jealous? that my bro is stealing everyone away from me.. Please help x0x (link)
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maybe instead of hurting your friend you can talk to your brother about it and work some things out.. because you will never lose your brother over a thing like this but you might risk losing your friend, so this way could be a lot safer in terms of your friendship with your best friend
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him? (link)
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ok well if your best friend really means something to you as a friend and you want to keep her as your friend then just find a way to calmy tell her that she means way more to you than this guy does and you would never jeopardize your friend ship for this guy. hopefully this will work out and if not then your friend will hopefully realize that shes wrong and you never meant to hurt her. because you didnt know in the first place. ive gone through a similiar thing before and it worked out so good luck to you and your dilemma.
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