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hey i am a 13 year old oriental chick named emily anne. i come in a full package, a crazy personality, totally lovable, fun, perky, and last of all gorgeous. ;D I know more than the average 13 year old girl should know and for sure i kno how to have some fun. i'm 100% Philippino. i can be a bit blonde sometimes but thats what makes meh so lovable :D i love giving advice nad helping people with there problems. so i can't wait to help you guyz out!
E-mail: asiazFLYangel@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: manila,philippines
Occupation: student
AIM: asaizFLYangel
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 111
Last Update: March 31, 2005
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can anyone tell me a good site to put digital pictures on besides picture trail because thats not working for me!! thank you (link)
imagestation.com works for meh


Hey well i have a problem, this guy that i really liked my freshman year(know a senior). He lives with his girlfriend but his girlfriend, but she doesnt give him any sex and he comes to me. How would i know if he is using me or not? Please let me know i am desperate to know, he tells me he loves me and i dont know if i should believe him because he says he says that he will never hurt me. I dont know if he is just using me for sex or not. i need help. i really like him and i like when i have sex with him too but i dont know. (link)
i kno you may not want to hear this but he's definitely using you as lik a sex toy. number one if he loves you then he'd dump the other girl and go out with you and secondly if he already ahs a girlfriend and doesn't wanta dump her for you since ya'll been having sex he's just using you for pleasure. sorry =/


I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal? (link)
maybe the reason your having these thoughts is becuase something bad has happened to you in the past but you just don't kno what. and its making you think of suicide. but if you can talk to a professional and knows about these sort of things. or just tell someone you trust the most and maybe they can help you out.


well you see my dad just got up and left last night...he didnt tell anyone where he was going or when he would be back, we didnt even know he left...so after awile i called his cell...he answered and when i asked where he was he told me driving...i asked where, he siad the mountians when i asked when he'd be back he said WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT! and hung up!...i havent slept in my room becuz im scared he'll show back up and hurt me...hes a drunk and a very mean drunk...im really scared and upset becuz im daddy's lil girl and i want him home for christmas but aty the same time i wish he would leave forever! i dont know what to do anymore...plz if you have any advice plz tell me! (link)
everychild wants there whole family home for christmas. it's cute that your a daddy's girl no matter how bad your dad may make life for you but sometimes you just gotta make youself happy and not always everyone else. if he is ruining your christmas then dont' think about it. just enjoy christmas with the people who love you all year round and not just when they feel like it. sorry if there's so much harshness. merry holidays :)-


im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you
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he's putting his moves on you so respond and start flirting! or pop the question! :D merry holidays!


My parents keep the house so so so so so cold...I'm always freezing and it's the middle of the winter...it's always like 60 in here, and I've told my parents so many times that I'm SO cold when its that cold, but they don't care. They say that they are comfortable that way, and that if they turn it up they will be too warm. I'm not the only one who thinks its too cold...friends or relatives who come over say its so cold! But, they don't have to live here!!! I DO!! What do I do??? (link)
wear like heavy hoodies and like 3 pairs of socks and sweat pants and bring a blanket with you wherever you go. or you could always just turn it up yourself and maybe your parents won't even notice. keep moving so you'll stay warm. happy holidays!


my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and we got back together a couple of ays ago. I love him more than anything and I don't want to mess things up this time. When he broke up with me he didn't really give an explanation why he did it. And I couldn't get him to tell me, he would just say, "It's hard to explain." He had told me he loved me and we were about to do certain "things" but i don't know if he still wants to do those "things" So my question is do you think he still loves me? Also do you think he still wanys to do those "things". And how should I bring the subject up with him? Thanks a ton! Please help... (link)
i would say he still loves you. maybe he was just having mixed emotions or was confused. maybe it's his hormones who knows i mean he can't even explain it in words. but if you want to kno wait a few days or weeks and bring it up when you guyz are sweet talking each other. so it doesn't sound so out of no where. well i hope i helped good luck and happy holidays!


A few days ago the guy I used to like asked me out... of course I said yes. Last night his friend dumped me for him. Later that night the same friend imed me saying how sry they are that they would do that to me. At first i was confused on what happened, but as they kept talking to me a realized that it was a joke. They made a bet that if i went out with him for a few days he would get money. I'm not mad b/c i still like him (now i hate him), I'm mad at them b/c they were my close friends and they thought it was ok to do something like that. The thing is, is that i'm not sure if i should forgive them, they were my friends and i know i might be sry if i never talk to them again.
thanks for the help
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its the holidays i say give them another chance but if they screw up one more time thats it. maybe since you guyz are close they thought you wouldn't take it so seriously or something and besides there boys and when boys get together they think of crazy ideas. happy holidays!


gosh i really hate reading and i have to take these tests and read books before the end of the quarter at skool and i have none!!! is there a way i can be encouraged to read!!!
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find a certain type of book that interests you like the topic seems fascinating to you. but if you are being forced to read these books your just going to have to read it and just thing that faster you read the faster you don't have to read that stupid book anymore.


Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help.... (link)
if you think your ready go for it and if your not then tell him. he can't force you. as for the parents its your life nad your body not there's. it's your life they just live in it.


I've got only a few real actual *zits*, but I've got red marks all over my face, kinda like zits that have no 3rd dimension. I think those are called blemishes. Also, I have huge pores on either side of my nose, on the inside of my cheeks. Anyone have these problems/know how to maintain them? I'm tired of wearing foundation, it's bad for you plus it can make it worse. (link)
make an appointment with your dermatologisti tihnk thats how you spell it. he'll know a way to help you out.


I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I? (link)
i feel the same way all happy and smiley at school but always mad and stuff at home becuase i someimtes can't stand my parents. and well it was really nice of you to give the homeless man money and you cried after the Happy Holidays thing your normal your just more sensitive than others. you just feel sorry for the man and you just think that he could live a better life. or that your living the life that man could have lived. it's okay to let it out. it shows you care for the people that need help.


Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon? (link)
yes your becoming a women!


my sister broke up with her bf last night becasue all he did was talk abotu ho upset he was abotu things. tom orrow is christmas and i dont want her to be upset @ christmas usualy she tells me things but right now she won t talk to me what can i do to cheer her up. (link)
if she won't talk about it don't pressure her. it may just start making her angry at you and just make things worse in your case. give her her space so she can just let it out. it'll make her feel so much better nad then afterward start talking to her but don't bring up the subject about her boyfriend just take her to the movies or some place public to get her mind of it.


Well lets c where to start...I met this girl at camp and we became friends kinda talked time to time..she ended up going to the same school as my best friend and she like(d) him.. and he liked her but my best friend alrdy ahs a g/f so he is chaeting anways...he brought her over to my house and shit and Like I have liekd her and my friend likes her...well she stayed the nite and so now he thinks she likes me becuz when she stayed the night we went for 2 walks and she like constantly kissed me and then took me into someone elses yard to make out 3 different times for like 10 minutes...so he starts to get mad cuz she is hangin out with me and me nd her were layin in the same bed and held hands and rubbed on each other and shit while my friend was on the computer in the next room over, well he kinda saw us hold hands and then he whispered to me that he wants to dump his g/f and go out with Taylor so I was like wow as soon as im getting somewhere he wants to go out with her so I told him to go ahead cuz he was kinda going for her 1st and then he went upstairs while we were makin out then he came abck down and told me to help hmi think up of a reason to break up with his g/f..he knows I like her but he told me he wants her over his g/f so he is gunna go for her..any advice? (link)
he isn;t much of a friend to you. so what if he made the move first you liked her first and he's still making the move. talk to Taylor and have her decide and she likes you then she may dump your friend. and if your friend gets mad he has no right. good luck to you!


my bf broke up with me about a week and a half ago, but then we got back together a couple days ago. i was never able to figure out why he broke up with me in the first place, he just said he was confused. when he asked me out again, he said he was being stupid and he was really sorry for doing that to me. i want to find out why he broke up with me. i also need 2 ask him if things we talked about doing, are still things he wants 2 do....but i dont no how to bring up the question....please help... (link)
ask him when you guyz are having an "intimate" conversation and start bringing up the things that you guyz talked about in the past. good luck hope i helped. -emily.anne


Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up...well, about a month or two ago. But lately, I can't get him out of my mind (I haven't been able to since the break-up), and I asked my friends if they thought he still liked me, they said yes that he talks about me a lot and what we did when we were together. The only reason we broke up is because we were bored with each other, but I think now we realized what a great relationship it was. He looks at me a lot and I look at him (right in the eyes), we talk a lot and we're pretty good friends still, I want to ask him out so badly but I'm scared to. So my two questions are: Should I ask him out again, and: How should I do it? (Through a friend, note, IM, etc.) Thank you!! (link)
i say ask him out to his face. it's the best way. it shows you've got courage and character and that other stuff. but if your still uncertain about him liking you or not ask him. well i mean if you guyz are close friends i am guessing you guyz can talk about anything. so ask him if he has his eye on anyone,if he just shrugs or says no one or i dunno, say what if we went out again? you kno something that brings the topic toward you guyz hooking up again.


Ok..I went out with this boy who is 2 years younger than me for 6 months. I totally fell in love with him and we did a lot of stuff together but we didn't have sex. We were planning on it but it just never happened. Neways. I was soo in love with him and planning spending a lot more time with him when all of a sudden he wanted to take a break..we did for like a week and then he started saying some really mean stuff to me so i just ended it. Was that the right thing to do? And then like a week later he ended up giving his sweatshirt to a girl who use to be my best friend. 2 weeks later they started dating. and now i'm hearing stuff that he told people he likes me a lot still and is mad because of stuff. but when asked about it..he denies it and says mean stuff about me to his gf. what is going on here? i still like him...does he still like me? (link)
well i guess you should ask him why he was mad at you and why he wanted to take a break. and i besides you might just be hearing rumors but you have to be the judge of that. and besides he's 2 year younger than you nad boys mature slower than girls so he may not have his feelings straight. but talk to him first and maybe it'll work out. well good luck!


Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot! (link)
no your fine but girl your so lucky becuase having your period is a big pain in the ass


Okay well here it goes.I have a friend named Jordyn and she is a girl.Well she tells everyone everything that she hears or what you tell her.It sucks cause i really like her but i have to watch what i say around her or what happens cause she isn't also afraid to change things around and make things worse than it really is.Is this really a good friend to hang around or no?Also is this a true friend?Please help me!!
Love always,
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well i think she isn't much of a friend. she may be fun to hang out with but i mean she's not trustworthy. she's more of the person you have fun with but not the person to talk to.




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