My name is Ashley Laskarin and i am sixteen years old. I have been through many different experiences in my life as many have, but i believe i have a gift for advice most of my friends and family come to me when they have an issue. im a good listener and love to help people. My life is the very essence of drama. I dont like it but ive grown up with it and know how to deal with pressure. ill answer anything with the best of my ability. so ansk me anything! :)
E-mail: nicolelaskarin@hotmail.com
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Location: Indianna
Occupation: school
Age: 15
Member Since: November 20, 2006
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What is phone sex? (link)
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well i know is that while you talk over the phone you tell each other to touch themselves...girls finger themselves and boys mastubate and you just tell them dirty theings and tell them how to touch themselves...it's kinda grosss to me
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I'm only a freshman in high school, but today in school we got a paper to fill out what classes we're thinking of taking sophomore year. Right now I'm taking commercial design, which is an art elective, and I need to take a business or career one or something. Well, I want to take an elective that will benefit to what I want to become later. The one's that I'm into are digital photography/printmaking (that's also an art elective though so idk if I should do it until I get the other ones out of the way). I've always wanted to be a teacher, maybe an English or kindergarden/younger grades teacher, but my friends are like... you're smarter than that. Well anyway, things I'm into are: art/photography, I'm good at English (mainly writing), I love little kids... I don't know! I'm just so confused. I was thinking like a magazine editor or something along those lines. But how hard is it to get a job like that? I know I'm only a freshman, but before I know it, I'll have to be making a decision. Like I don't even know what colleges I wanna go to, like what's out there. I wanna make a decision that's right for me. Soo sorry it was extremely long. Thanks so much. =] (link)
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Look.....the first thing i wantto say is flollow your dreams don't just do what your friends say if you love kids and you want to be a teacher...well then go for it because it sounds like that you would rather do that then all that other stuff so just follow your dreams with the kids because i love them to and my friends critized me but that's what i'm goin for...and as for your classes talk to your counsler...i hope i helped!!!!!
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i have a friend who's dad recently died. (the boy is 14) he was really close to his dad. his dad passed a few days before christmas and this night of his funeral was his 50th birthday. the boy's mother isn't really protective. this boy used to be in a gang...and had been involved with bad stuff. he is still in a gang...but wants out. he has one brother who is in it too...he's 19, and he is nothing but a bad influence. the boy knows i am worried, but he can't get out. i feel like now that his dad has passed that he is going to look up to his brother the kinda replace his dad. I am really worried. This has been bothering me so much. i wish i could have taken his dad's place, because i feel like nows the time he needs a dad in his life. does anyone have any advice. because i love this boy (i don't like love him as in bf or anything) it's just that i love him in a way that i would be willing to do anything to help him..and i would be heart broken if anything happened to him because he has been through so much. i love dis boy in a way that i would do anything to make him happy...even if that wouldn't include me. does anyone have any advice? any would be appreciated...srry it's long. (link)
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well me an my freind have the same problem.....very dimular infact. well we have screwed up really bad and we are trying to get out of it but the best thing i can tell you to do is keep up wut were doin....this is taylor right. lol srry i need to make sure
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13/f
Ok well, I went out with my best guy friend and then after a week dumped him because it felt weird going out with my friend. Its been a month or so since we broke up and hes still mad at me. at first I was over him then I found out he was saying stuff about me and it made me mad. About 2 weeks ago he stopped talking about me and just started ignoring me. Last night, I went to this party and he was there, and he wouldn't talk to me. I was going to talk to him but I chickened out. I started flirting with his bestfriend to make him jealous. I don't know if it worked because I saw him looking at me with a blank stare but thats about it. Now I can't stop thinking about him. But the thing I dont want to like him! (link)
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okay well first i don't think you should be flirting with his friends anymore and i would just leave him an im or e-mail and if you don't have that information leavea message on his voice mail of answeing machine.....you needs to edxplain toh im why you broke up with him and honestly you can't help that you like him because i'm the same way i like this guy but i don't need to like him...but i just do you can't help that
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Ok. Well theres this guy, lets call him nick. We go to the same church and gym. our gym is huge filled with pools and hot tubs. Sometimes I can't tell if nick is flirting with me or like being mean. we tried to talk about it and he said " I guess im just an idiot" Would that mean he was trying to flirt?
He got mad at me cause I didn't go to rez "wednesday night hang out" at the church. Because me and my friends were talking to him online and when they were talking to him he said he'd talk to me for a bit but mainly hang out with his best friends. He was really confused on why I wouldnt go and why they wouldnt let me go. He really wanted me to go but only wanted me to go if I wanted to go. He didnt want to make me do anything I didnt want to do.
Heres part of our convo.
xx barbielove: Hey
BBALLER21POST: hey why didnt you go to rez
xx barbielove: lOnG sToRy?
xx barbielove: ;-)
BBALLER21POST: sup
xx barbielove: nothin much
BBALLER21POST: thats cool
xx barbielove: hows your grandma
BBALLER21POST: et think
BBALLER21POST: better8
BBALLER21POST: g2g i guese i would of seen you tonight but never mind so i cant see you later
( we go to different schools )
Im thinking im going to ask him to hang out at the movies or something after chrsitmas. I may try and make a move. like kiss or something cause I do kind of like him
He also told my friend that I was beautiful and he kind of liked me.
My friends told him that I had a little crush on him and he was like thank you captain ovbious. How could it have been ovbious?
Do you think he likes me (link)
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he is sending mixed signels so i have no idea but i would tlak to him about it first before you do anything because you don't want ot scare him off
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Iam taking care of a 15 year old girl and she's not mine i just have custody of her she's in ceaderwood becouse she has behavior problems.
Traci is always picking on my son who's autistic and it makes him pitch fits.
Traci never helps with chores and she never listens to me and she also picks on my cousin who comes to stay with me on the weekends and iam tired of having to be her bodyguard all the time.Traci also aggervates everybody and i don't want to have to take her back to live with her mom becouse it's not an appropriate place for a 15 year old girl to grow up in what should i do? (link)
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well since i'm close to that age i would say to send her somewhere i know that you might not like the idea but it probably is theonly way it will help
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Do all girls like chocolate. And if they do do the like Dark or Milk better? (link)
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well it depends on the girl but personally i like milk chocolate.
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Alright well, I've recently just gotten a boyfriend and I'm just wondering how to kiss him since I've never kissed anybody before, and I'm nervous.
I know about the "it comes naturally" stuff, I understand that, but I just really want to know HOW. I'm just worried if I try it naturally or something, I'm going to be eating his face off. And I really don't want that to happen, haha. (link)
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i really don't know what to say to you but just do your best and go with the flow.
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im 17 and have been putting up with my mom for years. she has used drugs for a while mostly coke and pain killers. she seems like really fuckd up from everything and it just really sucks. she has such a bad personality most of the time and can be the biggest bitch. it really sucks and im so fucked up cuz of all of it.im not gunna ask what i can do because theres nuthing i can and im not going to btrig her to rehab or anything cuzxz she`ll fight me. but one of the bggest problems is that shes like parranoid, i have no privacy anymore. its nothing about like where i am or anything, its my room. she looks through everything. everything. i am not even kidding, there is not an inch in my room she wont check. for no reason either. so last night i came home and she didntt really say anything different but i went in my room and saw that one of papers i have was out (from this spot i keep stuff) so i checked the spot and everything was gone. i had pregnancy tests in there from a few months ago that ive never taken out because i dont know what to do with them because she chekcs the trash all the time. she hasnt said anything but today my aunt told me my mom found them. i dont know what to do like i dont care she found them so much its just the fact that i have no privacy. this sounds bad but i really dont like her, i havent been able to stand her few years but now i just dont know what to do it sucks im 17 and a girl needs her damn privacy.
help=( (link)
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well if you can't move out then try to keep your private things like that at somebody's house bacuse it sounds to me that NOTHING is safe. i would try to move out as soon as you can. that is the best solution if you can't get your own place find a family member who would let you saty with them until you could move out
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well, im in 8th grade and i think i like this kid in 7th grade. im not sure if my friends would be okay with me liking someone in 7th grade so i havnt told them/. over the weekend i spent like a whole day with him and some other people and we talked a lot and i really like him. another thing is that he might like my friend because whenever i like a guy they like her and its always that way and i hate it but tis just whgat happens. what do you think i should do.. tell my friends, stop liking him, try to get closer and talk more to him, what!!!!!! (link)
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if i were you i'd talk to him som more and trt to get closer and then if you find out he like your freind then just move on but if you start thinking he likes you then tell your friends and tell them that he like ou back and if they don't approve then they are not very goods frineds because friends should support you in any decision you make
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I dont know why, but I'm attracted to my cousin, who's a guy. Ever since I was little I've always like been attracted to him, but didn't know how to handle it, since i can't really have a romantic relationship with him, cause of like.. incest. He's 6 months younger than me, and a Cancer, while I'm a Capricorn, so I guess opposites attract? Because it seems like he kinda has a crush on me too, but i guess its awkward at times, especially when we're alone. AHH! what do I do about this? or do i just ignore it? :/ its like a forbidden love or whatever you'd call it, lol.
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even if you feel like you like him a lot you should just try to ignore it because it will pass...eventually and if it doesn't try not to see him as much and it will help. wheneer you do see him just don't think about it and try to think of him as a brother.
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hi.i jus wana no what girls like about guys can girls please ask this question (link)
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well idk really it depends on the girl some girls like different things aout guys than others it's a question that no one can really answer seeing that people are attrated to different types of things and people.......good question though
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This women that had used to date, has continued to text me. Sometimes just saying hi, but lately it has been dirty picture texts. I dont know what she wants when she has a boyfriend.. what should I do (link)
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well she seems like the type of girl who just like to fool around.....i would ask her to stiop sendin the text and is she doens't just fnds someway to block her or change your phone umber...if u like them then hey don't do anything!
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Ok im bi, and I like this kid but I dont know if he is or not. What do you people think I should do? Come out to him? That what I was thinking but what if he tells everyone and what if hes not? Do you think I should come out to the school or just come out to people slowly like just tell friend first? Im in the GSA and most people know about me there. Does it matter? Im really depressed. (link)
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well first of all..people should resepect you for who you are but also you don't want t orun downs the hall ways at school screaming I"M BI you know. so i would just start by tellin my very best friend andtry diggin up some info on that person you like and find out if they are like you....it is easy rust me
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I have had discharge for over a year now and still havent started my period. Sometimes its thick and whitish but other times its kinda like pee. It always feels like i am wet and stuff. If i wear a pantiliner then i will use all of them up and my mom bought them for me just in case. I dont want to use all of them up because i have never had to use a pantiliner except for twice and i dont want to ask my mom for more because then she will think i started and i dont want to tell her that it was discahrge. It's embarrising. Also, here's another question, why is it thick some days and like pee another day? thanks in advance! (link)
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the discharge usually means you will start your period soon. Iwould tell your mom bout it because she may have advice for you...hey it's better that having staned underwear!! If you evr have had sex it oculd be form that to. Usually that come with sexually transmittd diseases. But my best bet isthat your period it coming soon
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Okay, I've liked this guy since I was 12. I'm 15 now, about to be turning 16 in about 2 months. Anyways, I finally got the courage to ask him out the other day, and he said yes. :] Now, he's perfect & things are going well, but that very same day, he found out that he was going to Iraq. [He's a marine.] He leaves in mid-January, and won't be back til about mid-July. Now, I'm not breaking up with him because of the major leave he's about to take to fight the war, but I'm worried that I won't see him again. When I was about 14, I had two friends in the army, and they both promised they weren't going to be killed, or hurt, and they both ended up dying a month apart from each other. I trust my boyfriend when he says he's gonna be fine, but I never know that, and the thought of him not coming home to me in 6 months bothers me. And it's really eating me up. He's still at base right now in North Carolina, and he won't be coming back up to New York until the 22nd, and I can't wait. But we only have 10 days together before he has to go back to base, and then I won't see him for 6 months. So, not only is he missing my 16th birthday, he's also spending his birthday over there. It doesn't bother me that he's missing my birthday, because after he comes home in 6 months, he's here for 15 days, and then off for another 6 months. So, he hopefully should be home in time for my 17th birthday, and my junior prom. I love him to death, and I would hate it if he got hurt or whatever while in Iraq. How in the hell do I cope with this, because I used to cut [and I haven't cut in months], and I don't wanna get depressed & start doing that to myself again. It took a lot to get me to stop, and I don't wanna start again.
How do I cope with this because I'm going insane already, and he hasn't even come to New York yet. :[ (link)
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iwould just try to keep my mind off the negative things....about the cutting problem iknow it is hard because i have had thoughts of it but instead i did sometihing different(i'm not gonna say) the only thing i can really say is enjoy the time you have with him right now and don't thing about the future and take it one day at a time...my brohter is Iraq and that is what i have had to do.
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i am a really nice person and i don't understand why so many people are mean to me...i mean i am really quiet and i don't bother nobody!
there is this person who is constantly putting me down and really hurting my feelings...i try not to let anybody know how bad he's hurting me....but it's really getting to me. you would think he would say it to my face instead of other people. i mean the stuff he is saying hurts me soo much....i'd rather be beaten physically than to have something killing me from the inside this much....
i really don't know what to do i just know i feel really bad about what's going on....espeacially when me and that particular person don't even know each other.....not to mention when he starts putting me down so does everyone else....
i know most people are going to say talk to him....but that's not an option...because if i talk to him i am probably going to get violent...because i am sick of this.
this is really really tearing me apart and i know you shouldn't let words bother you but after a while they began to really get to you and tear at you...what do i do? (link)
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well you see i had the same problem...i'm really quiet to. That is the main reason they pick on you is because they don't think you will say something back nad to make them selves feel better about themselves speak up for yourself. you don't have to confront him but whenevr he says something just speak up and don't let him out you down. Violence isn't the best answer but if he get violen t with you i suggest you start swingin. That is what i had planned on doin but all i had to do was speak up for myself and then he stopped picking on me.
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Sorry a mistype! I did apologize to her but she wouldn't even talk to me! But today I told her a joke and she actually laugphed back and we had a blast! But I want to know if she wants to become friends again or not. (link)
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well I think she is still a little upset about it but she is finally getting over it. You should try talking to her again and if she ignores you just try again but don't push it to hard. once you talk to her a couple more times ask her if she wants to be your friend again. (remember that is only if she doesn't ignore you EVERYTIME you try to talk to her)if she ignores you like that then more than likely she wants you to leave her alone.
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Okay... Well there's this girl at school named Rachel. She's such a pretty, outgoing, and smart girl. We use to be friends but then when I shouted for her to come with me to our next class or else we'll get detention if were late. But what she said she heard me say that I called her a hoar. I didn't I tried apologizing to her and everything but she won't even look at me anymore. Or even talk to me anymore. Now their's this guy named Phillip became friends with her and with her other girl friends like their one big popular group. But today She actually looked happy to see me well at least I thought... I actually got to tell one of my jokes and she actually laughed and we had a blast for 5 minutes then it was over. Do you think she wants to be friends again or no??? What should I do??????????????????? (link)
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well i would have been a little upset that you didn't apologize EVEN if you didn't say that but i would keep talking to her and see what goes from there
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Well i'm 15/f and me & my boyfriend have been talking about sexual stuff. Well I like him a lot, and i'm willing to do a lot of things, he wants to finger me. And I said i'd think about it.
But I need to know, Does it hurt, what does it feel like, is there anything bad that can come out of this situation, how long does it last.
Please help!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks in advance!
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well it depends if you have don't anything "sexual" before if not it may hurt a little at first....and i don't mean to sound gross but if you use tampons then it most likely won't hurt ...hardly at all becasue they stretch you out a little. as for how long i guess as long as you want..and i can't say how it feels ecasue it feels different to different people...some poeple like it and some don't and it also depends on how well he does that...hope i helped
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