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HELP!!
Ok im bi, and I like this kid but I dont know if he is or not. What do you people think I should do? Come out to him? That what I was thinking but what if he tells everyone and what if hes not? Do you think I should come out to the school or just come out to people slowly like just tell friend first? Im in the GSA and most people know about me there. Does it matter? Im really depressed.
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Well, not that many people are bi/gay. Theres a chance that he is gay, but there is probably a bigger chance that he is straight. You should just come out to him because you'll never know what he thinks or if he is unless you tell him. And who cares if everyone finds out? Its part of what makes you you! I say come out to everyone.
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well first of all..people should resepect you for who you are but also you don't want t orun downs the hall ways at school screaming I"M BI you know. so i would just start by tellin my very best friend andtry diggin up some info on that person you like and find out if they are like you....it is easy rust me
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Okay, you may not want to go out and say "I;M BI!!" because there are some really cruel homophobes out there and I speak from experience...don't do it.
As for this guy, be friends with him and not much more. You can't tell a person is bi or not if they're shy or conservative. Also tell two or three of your closest friends. You can also ask the closest one to become this kid's friend and later on ask if he's bi or not for you without mentioning that you wanted your friend to ask this kid..
Good luck and if you need more help or something, just IM me on AIM
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