my name is amber
i used to get on here alot
bt the thing is changed and differant now, so yeah
but i'll answer any question and give you my best way of ahdling it or like yeah you know?
ha well, i've gone through alot, like more than most kids my age have, so i pretty much think i can relate to alot of stuff
so, like yeah, if you ever want to just talk, i'm here and listening
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i have been bestfriends with this girl since the 8th grade, i am now in 11th, and when she was in 9th grade she went out with this guy.
when they broke up me and the guy started to become better friends. This year i would say we have become way better friends and of course i form a huge crush on him. i would say that it is safe that if i asked him to prom he would say yes. the only problem is the relationship between my bf and her ex. she wants them to be friends but he doesn't. She is one of my closest friends but i don't really wanna pass up this possible great relationship with this guy and if i asked him i rish officially ruining my relationship with my friend. what should i do before it is too late? (link)
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i htink you should talk to the guy you like and tell him how thats one of ur really good friends! and that most friendship last way longer then relationships! you should talk to him about it tellin him how you feel about him and how she is a really good freind and she just wants to be friend with him to! if he doesnt understand! then maybe he's not right for you! because if he was he would want you to be happy!! well i hope i helped u in some way!!
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I would like teenagers to answer this one,
My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be? (link)
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you should seriously talk to your daughter about this!
if she wearin alot of black! then thats what most teens consider GOTHIC! and like most gothic people at my school have had problems! like family problems relationship problems ect... most end up cuttin there selfs! not sayin ur daughter does! but if i was ur daughter it would mean alot to me for you to talk to me about it! alot of gothic people feel left out or like an outcast!.. she might yell at you and say this is my life or w.e but takl to her aboutit! because most people who cut there self it could lead to suiced! im not trying to scare you! but i really think you should talk to her! and if she not in like any social groups or acivities at school! you should try gettin her involved in them and gettin to know people!
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Ok well this is a really strange question since most people ask the opposite, but does anyone know how I could gain like 10 pounds since I am really really skinny and people blame me for being anorexic? (and please just don't say eat more, since I already eat a lot and it doesn't really do anything). I pretty much want to gain weight all over, except for my abbs which i want to keep flat. Any ideas? Thanks a bunch in advance! (link)
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hey i am like the exact same way! i eat alll the timeee and im still super skinny! and people think im anorexic!!
as for advice! wow! well i dono! but if you find something that does work! please get back at me! i'd like to know too
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When i was in 3rd grade i was ALMOST rapped, then in 6th grade, i was. The guy who rapped me was only 4 years older then me and he keeps calling me..hes 17 now and i dont know what to do. im scard but if i tell anyone i dont think they would believe me or theyd think i was joking..what do i do?! (link)
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hey!
okay i had the same feeling! still sorta do!
when i was younger my brother did the same thing to me! he hasnt actually raped me! but he'ss pretty much taken it too every level!
at first i never thought of anything i was ten.. i didnt no what he did to me was so wrong!!
im 14 now! and i relized what he did to me was SOOOO wrong! and that i cant stand him!
i finally got the guts to tell someone! i was afraid they wouoldnt believe me either! or think well its ur fault because you let it happen for Four years with out saying anything!!!
well dont feel that way!!.. to me i think you should either find a teacher at school that you can seem to trust alot! or someone out side of school! anyone that you know is easy to talk to!!
... if i where you i wouldnt go up to a conslor at school about it first... its probably gonna be really hard to talk about it at first! i know it was for me! and i dont no ur conslors.. but i know that they'll ush into it and im sure you wanna ake this slowly!! ....
im hope this is some kinda of help to you! and if you ever wanna just talk about it or how you feel you can email me or w.e! because this happened to me! and sometimes i just wanna tell someone for them to listen and stuff!!
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okay so its been a over a year and a half and im still having flashbacks about when i was raped at a party and they dont seem to be getting any better. i think in the past week i've had all my teachers come up to me and ask whats wrong and some even went as far as to tell the guidance department. my friends have also been telling me that i have been "zoning out" and i dont hear a word that they say to me. i mean im not trying to look upset (in fact im trying to look happy) but its just so hard with the rape like repeating over and over again in my head. i cant sleep anymore and im even starting to fail some subjects in school. i thought that it was supossed to get better since its been so long but it seems like its getting worse. maybe im just over reacting and should just try somehow to get over it already but its just so hard to forget. i dunno?
whats should i do to try t get rid of these especially during school
thanks
ps. im already in counseling.
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okay oh em gee so im new at this! but i came across urs and like seriously i relate to you sooo much! see i was never like raped but my brother has done stuff to me that well pretty much ur brother or who ever should not do! if you know what i mean!! and im like the same i cant stop thinking about it! i've told my teacher who i am close with and i was getting help! but like he eventually talked me into talking to the counslors at my school..and the school social worker! well nothing good came out of that! like for me since i dont know you or what school you go to! but the conslors at my school are noooo help at all! and i can relate to you and almost understand what your going through!!
...and i know your probably like no you have no clue!! but i go through soo much crap because of what my brother did and still does to me that i do know! but dont listen to people who look at you and are like I UNDERSTAND..exspecailly if they havent gone through anything like this! because people who havent been raped or w.e they have no idea what we go through! and if you need someone to talk to like through email you can! because i know how upset i get when i htink about what is happening to me!! sooo if you would really like to you can email me!!
my email is a_dolphin@comcast.net... im not tryin to seem like a freak but i do understand and i hope i helped you in some way!! and i really pray that you get better!!
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