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About Me: Hello & welcome to my advice column! My name is Jennifer and I'm 19 years old. I'm married to my high school sweetheart, Eric, as of 06.09.07! ♥ He is in the United States Navy, and right now we are stationed in Virginia Beach. Eric is my best friend, and my hero..I love my sailor! I also love helping people and giving advice on all kinds of things- I'm a very good listener. I'm in my sophomore year of college, majoring in psychology, and will eventually be going to med school to be a psychiatrist. Feel free to leave anything in my inbox. I'm always looking to meet new people and give advice!!

My interests: my fiance, music, eating, sleeping, gymnastics, dancing, partying, going to the beach, shopping, taking pictures, & there is so much more to me than all this! ;)

advice

Are you in love?

Very much so. =)
-Jennifer

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Hey at school i get called skinny hoe what should i say back to him?
xox sam xox
please help me out

So I'm guessing it's a guy that's saying this to you? It's extermely rude of him to say that to you, and I know how it must hurt your feelings. The best thing for you to do though- is just ignore him. He's just a stupid boy and chances are that he's just saying that kinda stuff so you will pay attention to him. Ignore his rude comments and don't let him see it bothers you. Eventually he will get bored and stop being an ass. Good luck! =)
-Jennifer

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Have you ever had sex? If so, what was it like having sex for the first time?

This is something that's very personal- so if you want to talk to me about it or if you need advice- IM me on AIM. *SmoothiesFknRock*
-Jennifer

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have you ever heard of the game '7 minutes in heave'...and what is it?

Well.. I think you meant to say '7 minutes in heaven' and yes I have. I've never played before- but I'm pretty sure it's where two people are chosen, and they have to go into a seperate room from everyone else. Then they have 7 minutes to do whatever they want with eachother. (Usually Sexual things..) Hope I helped you!
-Jennifer

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What kind of shampoo do you use? Do you straighten your hair? If so, what kind of hair straightner do you use? Thanks!

I use DOVE shampoo and conditioner, and yes. I straighten my hair. I actually had it perminately straightened a couple years ago- but I still use a straightener to get the waves out. It's a Revlon straightener. It's gold plated, and it's white. Hope I helped you!
-Jennifer

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How did you meet your boyfriend?

My friend Annie introduced me and Eric almost 3 years ago, at a skating rink. =P
-Jennifer

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Jenn is the best!

Haha! Thank you. =)
-Jennifer

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ok this is a weird question and im guessing that no one knows but its worth a try i guess. i downloaded what i thought was "Lying from you" by Linkin Park.. but it wasnt that. I can't figure out what it is. I'm guessing its still by Linkin Park and whoever put it on the internet messed up the title. it sounds like them too. ok well i really like the song and i want to find out what it is! Heres the beginning of the song.

From the top to the bottom
bottom to top i stop
(some other stuff)
theres a place so dark you can't see the end
(and the only other thing i can make up 100%) clear is "The darkness holding me tightly"

thanks so much

Ahhh. I know exactly what song you're talking about and I can't think of what it's called. I'm almost 110% positive it's by Linkin Park tho! =)
-Jennifer

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Where can i buy a du rag??

Hmm.. Check out Ebay! =P
-Jennifer

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is it ok to wear abecrombie aeropostale'and old navy together if it matches my friends say no but i was wonderin
HELP,
~FaShIoN CrIsIs~:>

Wow, that was really dumb of your friend to say that. Of course it's okay! As long as your colors match. =)
-Jennifer

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Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like?

Don't go out with someone who you aren't interested in. Definately wait for someone you like and feel comfortable with, because when you look back on it when you're older- you'll be thankful you waited. Don't let your friends talk you into something you don't want to do! Stand up for yourself and follow your heart babe! Good luck!
-Jennifer

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I have some friends that I used to know really well that I would talk to all the time, and we could talk about almost anything with each other; well not so anymore. And it seemed like all of a sudden we didnt talk. What happened and why? Is there anything I can do to reverse this?

People change over time. It's natural to stop talking to certain people. You will make new friends and you and your older friends will choose different paths to follow. I'm going through the same thing right now so I know how you feel, and it really sucks. Try talking to your friends about this if you really wana keep in touch. Let them know you wana stay friends and you are scared that you're drifting. I hope I helped you. Please rate! =)
-Jennifer

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I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.

how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex?

I honestly believe that true love can last- even over the longest distances. If you and him are meant to be together in the end- you will be. If I were you- as bad as it seems; keep yourself busy with your friends and other guys. Don't stay all depressed and wishing on him when there's so many other options out there! Have fun while you can, and keep your options open. If something is going to happen with you and your ex- it will. Please rate me! =)
-Jennifer

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This was something my mom and I talked about the other night, and it really made me think. Is it possible to love two people at the same time in the same way, as in a bf/gf? I'd appreciate to see some opinions on this...

JyNxiE

I think it's possible to love two people at the same time; but not in the same way. Everyone that you love, you love for different special reasons. So no, I don't think it's possible to love them in the same exact way. Please rate me! =)
-Jennifer

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ok my friend forgot her password to her login(she has a windows XP) is there anyway she can get it because she was the admiastiraor adn the rest of her family was jsut the limtied accout if you could tell me it would help alot thanks

Wow. That's a sticky situation. That means they don't have access to anything on their computers? I think you might be able to whipe out your complete hard drive.. and then re-install windows. I'm pretty positive that's the only thing you can do to get access into the computer. If you have alot of files and songs you don't wana lose- try calling windows or w/e your computer company is and see if there's anything they can do about it. Hope I helped you out, and please rate me! =)
-Jennifer

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I like to go jogging in the park a lot, but I've heard from some people that it's really tough on my joints, especially knees. My knees and ankles are sore after I run, but I can't think of a better activity to do for my heart, you know what I mean? Is running really so bad? Am I going to crumble into nothing someday, or can I just drink lots of milk and be fine? working out is my thing and sport i like to do

...carrie...

Talk to your parents- and see if they can get you into a doctor. Maybe they have some kind of brace they can give you for your knees and ankles so you can continue to run. If they can't get you a brace or a gaurd- there are many more excersises you can do to stay healthy. Look into work out videos or something along those lines. Milk is good for calcium in your bones, I don't know about the effects on your muscles. I don't think there is any. Hope I helped!
-Jennifer

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my really good friend just called me and her cousin goes to my boyfriends sschool and she said her cousin said that MY BOYFRIEND HAS TWO OTHER GIRLFRIENDS........and that she seen him kissing on girls and stuff...... im so upset i dont know what to do..i was just on the phone with my boyfriend and he was like i love you so much and i was like i love you too and he was like no i love you more...hes so sweet i cant believe this....what do i do?? IM GOING TO CALL HIM UP BUT IM SO UPSET IM CRYING AND WHAT DO I SAY...=( oh my god...hes the only good thing in my life....this is aweful PLEASE HELP

Well, this is a sticky situation. You can either believe your boyfriend, or the rumors. Definately talk to your boyfriend about it tho because you need to know the truth. You and your boyfriend need to be able to trust eachother, and if there's no trust- you don't have anything at all. Maybe your friends are lying to you? Don't jump to conclusions that he's cheating- because anyone could be lying to you. I hope you get to the bottom of this situation and good luck! Please rate me! =)
-Jennifer

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Please someone help i came to you because i think im going to trust you from what u said to the other's!
Okay!..
so theres this kid in my class named Steve and he's Major Cute so like okay see my point is i like him tonnss! and he's always looking at me so i think he like's me.. but im not really populart rite... so do you think i should like ask him if he likes likes me?
thanks so much hunnie
*** clare ***

Who cares if your popular or not? How old are you? If he likes you and wants to be with you, it won't matter if you are popluar or anything. Looks don't mean everything- it's personality that counts. Get his s/n and talk to him online to see if he likes you or if he's interested. Or even ask him to hang out and see if he makes a move on you. Definately talk to him.
-Jennifer

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omgosh im going through such a hard time right now and i have no idea what to do! These are my problems im very depressed about this so its very hard for me to tell someone but i trust you... ok Today my dog got put to sleep and i loved that dog very very much... hes my only friend well he was....Then the day before thanksgiving my favorite uncle got shot 20 times in the head... by a Mophia(Mofia) and i loved that uncle very much he was the only one who understood what i was trying to get out of...my little brother has problems and its sad some of his problems are that they think he has cancer in his lungs.... they are more worse ones too but its too sad to say...and me and my ex boyfriend juss broke up and we were together for about 3 years and 25 days....so ive been sad about that...and ive cut my self like 2 times because of all of this stress... so if you can give me any advise i would be verry happy thanks alot....
always keep in touch
-*.Tara.*-

Wow. I'm really sorry that all of that has been happening to you. It must be really hard to deal with all that stress. However- cutting is definately not the solution. You should seriously seek some medical help and get a professional involved in this situation. I don't want you to harm yourself because of everything going wrong around you. Talk to your parents and see if they can get you into a theripist or something before you severely hurt yourself or someone else! Don't let this keep going on tho- get help!!

-Jennifer

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hey hmm my health is HORIABLE i am huge and i need to loose weight and im am 12 and i weigh 165 what should i do?

Well, not only is this sad- but it's very unhealthy. You should definately try and get on some kind of diet and do it quickly. I don't know what your normal eating habbits are so I can't really tell you what you need to do or change, so it's hard to give accurate advice. There are all kinds of excercise videos and work-out programs you can also look into that will help keep you fit and looking great. Ask your parents to give you some money and tell them how upset you are. They should definately help you out. =)

-Jennifer

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