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okay.. confussing? you like to take pics of yourself..

uh. go online and type in model poses ? haha idk im not good with this stuff

pillow fight.. no clue? but lay on the pillows or circle the pillows around you and lay in the middle.

uh.. no clue. make things up while you go

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i just downloaded netscape 7.2 so i could go on launch.com but i need 7.1!! >:O i cant find it anywhere to download 7.1! anyother good websites to listen to music to though?

go to netscape.com or download.com

uMm.. listen to music download kazza or limewire.. or even search for it at google :)

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I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =)

personally, i DO NOT agree with that one bit. (but its your life not mine) even though girls mature faster then guys.. guys are perv's from the moment they come out of their mothers woumb!! haha - but i wouldnt go for it. im sure your parents would agree and id feel quite weird going out with someone my sisters age! haha! also, those kissy faces are nothing. aim is just a place to TYPE out feelings if he really likes you hed call and tell you with his voice..not his fingers.

but seriously. reconsider and look for someone your age :) there are tons of hotties out there!

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right now i have layers and angles... i want to get a haircut but i dont know what i want exactly... i want my bangs to be shaped so i can wear them however i want like to the side and stuff. i also like layerss and some angles.. but im looking for a picture to show her. does anybody know any sites with some pretty hairstyles?

i have brown hair that is 4 inches below my shoulder.. i dont want any lenght cut at all. also my hair is somewhat wavy and thick.

when you go into the salon look at the books. also there are some magazines you can buy that are stars hairstyles..if you like any of them. but just go into there adn tell her what you just told us. she'll understand :)

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So I went out with some friends and they played spin the bottle and I was dared to kiss this kid. I was so effing afraid to though, Im such a prude. even my best friend (whos a guy) had to kiss this girl and he did and I thought he was the same as me. I really wanted to, but im so afraid somethings going to go wrong. Anyone ever have this problem that could give me some advice? rate you for anything...seriously...

So your problem is that you were afraid to kiss the guy? Im kinda confussed on this.

Um.. even though you were playing the game - dont let peer pressure get the best of you. if you really dont want to do it then dont. tell them you dont feel comfortable and sit out and watch then suggest to play something diffrent. they'll get the hint

((sorry if thats not the answer you were looking for, i was kinda confussed with the question))

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Ive got 2 groups. One of them has the guy that I like ALOT. I want to hang out with that group, but I dont want to diss the other group. And if I tell that group that I want to hang out with that guy, she will think im crazy or something. I dont want to diss that group. How can I tell them I want to hang out with the other group without them feeling ditched?
Thanx so much.

~Ana~

kinda confussing so heres my thought on it
group 1 - with guy you like
group 2 - other group your talking about.

so, if you really wanna hang with group 1 because of the guy you like then dont let group 2 stop you. tell them that you like that guy and you really want to hang out with them adn get to know him and his friends for the simple reason you like him. if they are your true friends then they shouldnt care. dont ditch group 2 to hang with group 1 though. try to even out your time with both of them - one day have lunch with group 1 then the next day have lunch with group 2. talk to everyone and try to be friends with everyone.. as well as score the guy :) g'luck!

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My eyebrows are really hairy! I have super long hairs and I look really bad. My mom won't letme get them waxed..I have asked her many times and she won't let me. I've tried plucking them but they hurt! I don't know what to do because I'm about to be a junior in high school and it's really getting to me! Any advice would be greatly appriciated! Also, don't tell me to sit down and talk to my mom-it won't work..Also, peopple that give crazy answers that want attention, please don't answer!

^agreed with your last lil blur. "people that give crazy answers that want attention, please dont answer!" i hate people like that. they should get banned.

anyways - go out to the store and buy nair. its a self waxing system you can use at home. do it when shes not around.. or even go get them done, you pay for them. personally, i dont mind plucking mine mostly because im use to it by now. give it a few more shots and there are even some special tools out there that supposibly make it feel better.. but idk about that! haha.. good luck :)

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can u get pregnant from giving bloow jobs? swallowing sperm>? help.

no definitally not. when you get the cum in your mouth and shallow it, it goes right threw your body like anything else you may swallow, such as water or food. it goes through all the same places your food does and it eventually gets flushed out of your system like everything else you consume.

the only way you can get pregnant is if you have sex without a condom and his cum goes inside of you and it attaches to an egg and that whole ordeal.

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ok..so our Spring Formal is Tonight...i have a dress but it looks like an easter dress...its pale pale pink with lace like over it and its strapless and has an attached ribbon around the waist...i want a new dress but we dont have any money because my brother wrecked the car (we gotta pay for that) and were goin to NY is there any way that i could make this dress look more spring-like??...i rate thnx

easter is spring-y! haha. it'll look nice

wow.. your JUST asking about this and its tonite.
go to your local store and pick out jewlery that matches..
and make-up its spring.. dont over-do it!
wear a light coverup with eye shadow to match the dress.

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Well, I'm not fat and that's what my friends tell me. Last year I lost a load of weight but the dress I have for the Spring Fling looks absolutely adorable on me when others and I look at it. It's just when I took a picture in it yesterday (not at the Spring Fling), I looked fat. My face was fat. My friend told me that the camera always adds a extra pound or so to you, but when I take other photo's with the camera's, I find that I don't like how huge my head is. Is it that huge. I want my pictures to be pretty . I don't want to look like a pig. So do I need to drop down to another ten pounds or do I not need to just loosen up. Is it the camera or is it me? Please, help me.

uMm.. okay that was WICKED confussing.

stop asking questions about the spring fling! its annoying.

-if you feel fat then loose a few pounds. but be happy with who you are.

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hey.. my name is stacy.. i need help. well lets see there this guy i like alot and i started going out with him. we have been together for 2 months or so now.. and this girl that i want to be friends with hates me cause she likes him.. what can i do to get the girl to like me and to accept that me and this guy are going out cause i want them both to get along.. thanks bunches.. Stacy

eh.. not much you can do. its her own choice not to like you. personally, if i were you.. you shouldnt care to be friends with her if she hates you just because your with a guy that she likes.

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ok so tonights our big Spring Formal and I have no idea how to do my hair..an i cant get it done anywhere cuz everyones booked...so any cute, easy, do-it-yourself hairstyles is what i want...pics would help(if possible)..=]..thanks i rate

just straighten it and then go out to your local flower shop and pick up a flower that matches your dress and put it behind your ear.. and pin it :) thatd look cute!

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So this kid Robert and I were "talking" for a while, but now he goes out with Emily, who's my friend. And Robert still calls me. And he always talks about how stuff Emily does annoys him. And he always calls and we end up talkin about Emily and how he doesn't wanna call her. And he gets mad at me when I don't talk to him at school and stuff, but he says he doesn't like me.. It confuses me... HELP!!!!

ive already answered this

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anyone have some romantic things I could do for my boy that he would like?

uMm.. sex? haha head. hand... haha

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if anyone has read BLACK BOY by RICHARD WRIGHT..can you please help me with a few questions..

-state an important problem that the narrator is faced with. does he solve the problem successfully or not? explain
-what is the chief conflict in this book? explain
-what incident aroused the most fear?
-at what moment did a character experience greatest triumph?
-explain happy or unhappy endings from the end of the book

go to sparknotes.com or cliffnotes

or huMM.. actually READ IT!
we're not here to do your homework :)

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i might have one friend that is still a virgin besides me.... i mean when we get into deep converstaions about sex and stuff i can't relate cuz i am still a virgin. every single time i watch a movie with a sex scene in it i get this weird feeling all over my body like i want sex that very minute. could someone please tell me if this is all normal or should i just give in and have sex?

yes it is normal. and no dont just 'give in and have sex' thats DEFINITALLY not cool at all. just because all of your other friends have had it doesnt mean you have to! so what theyve had sex..seriously.. they have 10 times more things to worry about now.. such as protection.. going out and getting some. birth control.. relationships.. its all stressful! haha.. so personally, wait till YOUR ready and you find someone really special to share that first time with :)

as for the feeling... its perfectly fine. maybe even try to masterbate and see how that feels. you may actually like it. some girls do, some dont. but that may help you in a way

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well this guy is confussing! first off id tell him to kind of back off. even if you may like him, hes with your friend. then tell him why you may not talk to him alot in school.. mostly because hes taken and you dont want to make her mad! (DUH! darn guys! haha) but when he calls next ask him why he doesnt call her.. shes his girlfriend, and if he doesnt enjoy talking to her on the phone then he should really reconsider the relationship because talking is a HUGE part of it :)

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Any1 have any good pictures of models? or something of that sort? like teh latest styles? please send them!!!!

GOOGLE it! haha.. type in 'model' or something on that idea..

as for latest styles.. like clothing styles?

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i need a summer job but im only 13 and u cant get hired without being 16 or older.does anyone have any idea of any place who will hire someone under 16?

you can get a workers permit to work at that age. go to resturants and see if they need bussers. also, check out local summer camps for kids and see if you can work there. maybe even look online for ideas.

if worse comes to worse.. sell lemonade on the side of the road :)

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