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*Name: Shannon Knack
*Age: 15
*Height: 5'7?
*Hair: brownish blonde
*Eyes: blue
*Location: MinnesOta!
*Stats: Single
I'm always here to listen to peoples problems, I want to help out .. I love making differences in peoples lives.. so, just ask a question and I'll be right on it! hehe!!
People won't always remember what you say and do ..
But they will always remember how you made them feel ..
I want to be remembered
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WHY ARE BOYS SO GAYYY?! i hate them all and they are all so mean to girls. They tell them that they care and they really dont! WHY ARE THEY LIKE THIS?! (link)
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ALL GUYS ARE! They never know how to treat a girl and they think it's funny to hurt girls' feelings. Sometimes it's their way of flirting .. kinda weird i KNow .. but still! .. and they like to mess with girls too. . It's just the way they are and nothing can change that! They think it's entertaining .. when they really don't know how it actually makes us feel. It's a guy's normal way of being. JERKS!
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around guys i get kinda shy..like i dont act myself..and i want them to like me..but then i think that im not very pretty and stuff...and around my girls im like normally a funny person but when theres guys around i dunno what happens...i act like a little kid to try to impression them..what should i do..? (link)
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Just be yourself! No need to impress .. if they like you for yourself then that's all that matters .. they don't wanna date the girl that "impressed" them .. they want the real you and u should show that. If they don't like you or something, then it's their problem. Try not to act like a little kid . That's more of a turn off! just be urself and that's all that matters. Act around them like u would act around your girls .. even if you are shy.
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hey.. im lookin around and i already asked AnDiE!!! and she gave me great advice.. but i just wanted to see if theyre was anything extra you can put to that.. can you look at hers? mine is the very top one... neither of you know me... and i recomend her if you need advice.. thanxx (link)
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Whos andie!?
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- - People are always telling me that i don't dress in style, and i don't know what to do about it. I compare myself to my cousin. She is deadly pretty, cool, fun, and get's alot of guys to notice her. How can I be like her, yet still be like myself? I want to be in-style and liked by even the "popular kids"... without being a wannabe..
Can you Help?
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Fashion Emergency (link)
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Who cares what people think of you .. just be yourself .. No one can make you feel better than yourself .. * I love you Rachel *
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Mkay. I have to questions, and it would be great if you could try to help..
- - Ok, first. My cousin and I were split up for about a year because of an action my sister did. My cousin's mom didn't approve of this action, and if I were her mom, I wouldn't have either. But anyway. So, it's been a little more than a year now, I believe, I've lost track of time, and everytime I'd like to get together to hang out and catch up, and we plan it, normally something else comes up, which I know my cousin wouldn't lie to me, She is my best friend in this world, I just kinda feel like maybe she doesn't want to hang around me, or doesn't like me anymore. And then there is the fact that we hardly see eachother on holidays cuz I'm stuck going to my other grandma's now cuz my mom's dad passed away in 2002 I believe. She'll be at my grandma's (dad's side, our dad's are brothers), and I'll be at my other grandma's. I'll go over there, and she'll have already left. How can I met up with my cousin, tell her what I'm feeling, and understand why we never hang out?
- - Ok, Second. Sure, it is another thing to do with my cousin, but oo well!! Everyone is always telling me that my style is a little dull. And I know this already. My cousin is perfect! She has perfect hair, perfect face, perfect everything, and I get so jealous sumtimes. I love my cousin to death, and I believe the reason my self esteem is so low is because I compare myself to her. Something maybe I shouldn't be doing. But, all I've ever wanted was to be similar to my cousin, not exactly alike, but similar. She is just so cool, nice, fun to be around, and get's mostly all the guys to notice her. I don't want to be a mimik, I'd just like to be me, yet accepted by everyone (popular kids mainly), and right now I'm not. And for once, I'd just like to walk into my school, and be noticed, and liked, for me.. not for what I have (extra home entertainment shtuff). Can you help me?
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Confused and Fashion Deprived (link)
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Rachel .. I wouldn't lie to you about anything .. I always wanna hang out with you and stuff .. but yuo know my mom .. and I'm not even sure if it's all about the beth thing anymore .. cuz I'm sure she got over it .. but things do come up that my rents make me do .. and I can't help that .. I know we can get together soon .. or at least .. I think .. :-/
Second .. It doesnt matter if ur accepted by everyone .. just be yourself and if they don't accept you for that .. then screw him .. the only people that you want really accepting you are your friends .. that's all that matters .. Having friends .. Who cares about the "popular people" .. you have your own group of friends .. and you're popular within them. And u get accepted by them as well .. I've told you this many times .. and you always listen .. so I'll say it again .. *SMILE AND BE YOURSELF* .. it's that simple .. If you do that, then everything will be fine. I love you rachel and hopefully we can get together SoOoOnO!
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I have a really big problem. As you know, I have an exceptionally large weiner. It always gets in the way like when I'm playing basketball and stuff and worse off the girls have way too much fun with it. Seriously, it seems wrong. What do you think I should do?.....or what do you think we should do? (link)
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Well .. Cory .. lol .. CHOP IT OFF CORY! While ur in HAWAII! lol!
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my ex boyfriend broke up with my a few weeks ago but asked me out again and i told him no because i always screw things up but i still like him and he still likes me he just met this girl who i dont like because shes a total hoe and thats all shes good for and last nite when i saw him at the mall he was there w/ his arm around her and i got really mad because you know i still like him later on that nite he got on the computer and was like if you fucking like me so much why the hell wont you go back out with me and all this other stuff then signed off with out giving me a chance to explain do you think i should go back out w/ him or just try to stay friends w/ him? (link)
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I wouldn't try to get back with him. If he doesn't understand the way you feel .. then he's not worth it. Just stay his friend at the least .. because having him in ur life is better than not having him in ur life at all.
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Okay let's get started.. I'm a female and I'm in the age group of my highschool years.I've been so confused for a long time and now I'm just making things worse. A few months ago I got out of a really long relationship with this guy named Bob. I was in love with this kid, but things just weren't working out. And I think it's totally sad because I forgive him for his stupid actions, I know he feels terrible for what he did, and I forgive him. We went through so much together and whenever we are with eachother things just spark all over again and things are out of control. Then recently I met a new guy, named Kurt, all my friends told me I should go out with him, because he would treat me so nice, and he was just perfect. We started dating but then once school got out things were kinda changing.. And Kurt and I grew distant. Then I met back up with my ex-boyfriend Bob, and we both kinda hit it off if you know what I mean. I really didn't know me and Kurt were still dating because we hadn't spoken to eachother for so long I just figured we must not have been dating anymore. The day afterward I spoke to Kurt and he said we were still dating and now everyone thinks I cheated on him. But that isn't really the problem, now me and Kurt are broken up and I'm stuck between the two of them. I like them both but both for different reasons, I can't decide between either of them. Earlier this week I was with Bob and we kissed and stuff and he still wants to start hanging out more, we've been able to talk about a lot of things from our past and kind of work some of it out. And then another night this week I saw Kurt and we kissed and talked about some of our problems too, and they both don't know about eachother but both totally dislike eachother. If I told them about eachother they would each hate me, and eachother even more. I was kind of just testing it out recently, seeing who treated me better and stuff but now that I've kissed them both I feel like I got even more stuck and I just can't decided. Some ppl say I should just move on to a totally new person but I don't want to hurt neither of their feelings and I like them, so I can't just hide my feelings. It's impossible. But I know I could not go out with either one of them at least right now, things just aren't right. I just don't know what to do about all of it. I don't know if this makes any sense, but that's what I've been so confsued about all this time. I hope I didn't write too long of a novel, I'm kind of rushed right now I tried to shorten it. Basically I just dont know if I should choose between them or keep doing what I'm doing.. Help me out here mann.. (link)
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I think you should just be fair to them. It's not right to play them ya know? And I mean, before you did anything with bob, you shoulda cleared things up with kurt and found out for sure what was going on with you two. Its hard because you like both of them and that's fine as long as you're not going out with one and kissing the other. I mean, everyone likes more than one person at some point. I would just back away from the kissing and stuff like that. It may be tempting but it's just not right until you really find out what you want. Be true to yourself and to them too. And until you know for sure .. don't just choose one outa pity or anything like that. You just have to think .. which one is more friendly towards you .. which one can treat you better and be more true to you? Who can you have a great time with and be able to hang out with? I hope you make the right choice and follow my advice. Good luck and remember, Be true to yourself!
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ok well theres this guy broc and i like him alot. broc's best friend cole and me talk all the time and cole always tells me that broc likes me and that he wants to go out with me, but hes just too shy to say nething. im not the shy kinda grl so i dont care if i have to make the first move or nething, but i dont want to ALWAYS make the first move, ya know. do u think after were together or after ive made sum moves hell loosen up and make sum moves??? cuz i dont want to feel like im doin all the work in the relationship.
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Of course! Once he gets to know you more and starts hanging out with you more. He'll loosen up big time. Things just have to get started up!
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ok i checked out ur xanga (totally cool) n ive been trying to add music to mine but i cant n dont know how! can u plz help me??? thanx (link)
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well .. go here
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=XaNgA_MuSiC .. and then u can get some music .. there's tons there .. you just have to right click on the song .. go to properties .. and then copy the url link thing .. then go to the look and feel thing on ur xanga .. and go down to the music thing. Then paste the url in there and you'll have music
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I am really mature for my age(15). People tell me that I act too serious and I don't know how to have a fun time. What can I do to change to not be so serious all the time; it's so hard though because stupidity bothers me, and I can't stand people that are stupid. Well I don't really know if you'll be able to help me on this one but if you can try that'd be cool. Thanks... (link)
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Just loosen up .. don't let things bother you all the time .. even though it still might, just don't worry about it. Just be able to have fun .. and don't care what people think of you .. Being mature is one thing .. but being too mature is another .. your a teen so go out and have fun while it lasts!! When u become an adult .. is the time when u should become more serious!
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I am REALLY immature for my age and I dont know what to do about it! ALL my friends tell me that I am really immature and I take sides with a lot of different people and I want to stop talking to them but I dont know what to do... I mean my friends mean the world to me but I dont know what to do about the immaturity thing. I know that I want to have to choose my friends over something like taking sides help me please! (link)
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Just act like yourself. Usually when people are being immature .. it's not themselves, they just try to act like that to get noticed .. but if you act urself .. more people will notice you and stuff. You won't be so obnoxious! .. soo just try and be yourself .. that's what makes a person special.
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ok. there is this guy i like and he says he likes me and stuff. but then he always lies to me, ditches me, and never returns my phone calls. but then on the internet he talks to me and says he wants to hang on. and we're "friends with benefits" but we havent even really hung out. im gettin really tired of him lying to me and stuff. and i dont really know what to do. i dont know if i should just get over him. because a part of me is telling me to get over him and the other half is saying like him still. i dont know waht the heck to do. (link)
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Never let a guy treat you like that. Get over him and save yourself. No guy should ever hurt you like that .. and being "friends with benefits" isn't really a good thing either because technically .. hes just using you. Don't let him treat you like this .. he shouldn't lie to you .. or ditch you .. Find another guy that's actually worth it and that can make you feel special.
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I'm best friends with this one girl and me and her are so close! She has kinda been ignoring me and not talkin much to me lately! She's also not telling me her secrets or anything anyomre and i dont know why! I didnt do anythnig! She means the world to me and I would do anything for her... and i dont know if she feels the same about me! I feel like I cant talk to her anymore... and I never thought that I would ever happen but it is! What should i do? (link)
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Talk to her about it .. Ask her why she's been ignoring you. Maybe she's just busy with other things .. But just ask her about it all .. and tell her how you feel.. and tell her how much she means to you .. if you are best friends, i'm sure she has a reasonable excuse for not telling you things.
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My boyfriend and I just broke up because we had our differences. I always wanted to talk to other guys even though they were just my friends. Then he would get all mad yet when he hung out with girls, I couldn't get mad. He was being hipocritical and that's why we pretty mcuh broke up .. but I can't get him off of my mind. I think about him all the time. We've been going out for 10 months .. do I actually want to throw all of that away? (link)
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well u dont need someone controling u and not letting u hang out wit hwhomever u want to... just think about that... 10 months is along time, but imagine the people out there that will trust u enough to let u go out with ur friends without being all jealous... u need someone who can trust u
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ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that? (link)
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This is normal .. all people look at other people and say o he's hot .. or wow! everyone does it but it doesn't mean that you're not in love with the person you're in love with. It's a normal reaction to every person walkin down the street
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how can i hide a hickey? (link)
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coverup!
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how do you know that your really in love? and how do you know its love when you find someone and tell them you love them? (link)
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I think you know when your in love by the way you feel. You get excited everytime you talk to the person .. Your heart drops everytime you see the person. You get butterflies when you're with the person or when you kiss them.. you only think about them (in that way) .. by then you know its love .. and then when you break up .. you crty .. all day and all night .. thinkin about that person .. dreamin about that person .. fallin asleep with a picture in your hand. That's when you know it's love ..
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well this past weekend, me and my friend snuck out. these two guys pciked us up. one which was her bf and this guy that i use to haev a crush on but we're jsut rfiends. he's going to be a senior and im goign to be a sophmore.well they were'nt suppsoe to pick us up it was suppsoe to be my exboyfriend nad his friend. but it turned out the other way well we went to the seniors house and we ended up hooking up i really like him now thougha dnwe're still talking.. he broke up with his gf. and were hanign out and talking ot he phone. but my ex found out and he acts likeit's nothing but hes pissed, especially since me and him use to be "hook up" buddies.. but i'm so confused. i fell bad b.c the senior had a gf. when we hooked up and shes sweet. and my hook up buddy idk i like him too..i guess i like them both. but i really dont kno what to do.. we're all in deiffernt grades. and idk im' soo lost. (link)
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If you feel that badley about it .. then tell your boyfriend that you still like you ex boyfriend .. and if he gets mad about it and stuff .. then go on to the other guy that you liked. He's prolly the one for you anyway. .. Seniors just want stuff .. the "fresh" stuff
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My friend,say her name is Sally, has been talking about my other friend, say Suzie. Sally is really nice and all but when Suzie isn't around she talks about her. And when Suzie is around she is nice and everything to her. How can i get Sally to be nice about Suzie behind her back without making Sally mad at me? (link)
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I don't really think theres a way besides talking to her about it. I would just tell her that you don't want to here about "suzie" like that and if you have nothing good to say about her .. then just don't talk to you about her.
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