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2 Things....
Mkay. I have to questions, and it would be great if you could try to help..
- - Ok, first. My cousin and I were split up for about a year because of an action my sister did. My cousin's mom didn't approve of this action, and if I were her mom, I wouldn't have either. But anyway. So, it's been a little more than a year now, I believe, I've lost track of time, and everytime I'd like to get together to hang out and catch up, and we plan it, normally something else comes up, which I know my cousin wouldn't lie to me, She is my best friend in this world, I just kinda feel like maybe she doesn't want to hang around me, or doesn't like me anymore. And then there is the fact that we hardly see eachother on holidays cuz I'm stuck going to my other grandma's now cuz my mom's dad passed away in 2002 I believe. She'll be at my grandma's (dad's side, our dad's are brothers), and I'll be at my other grandma's. I'll go over there, and she'll have already left. How can I met up with my cousin, tell her what I'm feeling, and understand why we never hang out?
- - Ok, Second. Sure, it is another thing to do with my cousin, but oo well!! Everyone is always telling me that my style is a little dull. And I know this already. My cousin is perfect! She has perfect hair, perfect face, perfect everything, and I get so jealous sumtimes. I love my cousin to death, and I believe the reason my self esteem is so low is because I compare myself to her. Something maybe I shouldn't be doing. But, all I've ever wanted was to be similar to my cousin, not exactly alike, but similar. She is just so cool, nice, fun to be around, and get's mostly all the guys to notice her. I don't want to be a mimik, I'd just like to be me, yet accepted by everyone (popular kids mainly), and right now I'm not. And for once, I'd just like to walk into my school, and be noticed, and liked, for me.. not for what I have (extra home entertainment shtuff). Can you help me?
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Confused and Fashion Deprived
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Rachel .. I wouldn't lie to you about anything .. I always wanna hang out with you and stuff .. but yuo know my mom .. and I'm not even sure if it's all about the beth thing anymore .. cuz I'm sure she got over it .. but things do come up that my rents make me do .. and I can't help that .. I know we can get together soon .. or at least .. I think .. :-/
Second .. It doesnt matter if ur accepted by everyone .. just be yourself and if they don't accept you for that .. then screw him .. the only people that you want really accepting you are your friends .. that's all that matters .. Having friends .. Who cares about the "popular people" .. you have your own group of friends .. and you're popular within them. And u get accepted by them as well .. I've told you this many times .. and you always listen .. so I'll say it again .. *SMILE AND BE YOURSELF* .. it's that simple .. If you do that, then everything will be fine. I love you rachel and hopefully we can get together SoOoOnO!
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