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*How Do I Choose?!*
Okay let's get started.. I'm a female and I'm in the age group of my highschool years.I've been so confused for a long time and now I'm just making things worse. A few months ago I got out of a really long relationship with this guy named Bob. I was in love with this kid, but things just weren't working out. And I think it's totally sad because I forgive him for his stupid actions, I know he feels terrible for what he did, and I forgive him. We went through so much together and whenever we are with eachother things just spark all over again and things are out of control. Then recently I met a new guy, named Kurt, all my friends told me I should go out with him, because he would treat me so nice, and he was just perfect. We started dating but then once school got out things were kinda changing.. And Kurt and I grew distant. Then I met back up with my ex-boyfriend Bob, and we both kinda hit it off if you know what I mean. I really didn't know me and Kurt were still dating because we hadn't spoken to eachother for so long I just figured we must not have been dating anymore. The day afterward I spoke to Kurt and he said we were still dating and now everyone thinks I cheated on him. But that isn't really the problem, now me and Kurt are broken up and I'm stuck between the two of them. I like them both but both for different reasons, I can't decide between either of them. Earlier this week I was with Bob and we kissed and stuff and he still wants to start hanging out more, we've been able to talk about a lot of things from our past and kind of work some of it out. And then another night this week I saw Kurt and we kissed and talked about some of our problems too, and they both don't know about eachother but both totally dislike eachother. If I told them about eachother they would each hate me, and eachother even more. I was kind of just testing it out recently, seeing who treated me better and stuff but now that I've kissed them both I feel like I got even more stuck and I just can't decided. Some ppl say I should just move on to a totally new person but I don't want to hurt neither of their feelings and I like them, so I can't just hide my feelings. It's impossible. But I know I could not go out with either one of them at least right now, things just aren't right. I just don't know what to do about all of it. I don't know if this makes any sense, but that's what I've been so confsued about all this time. I hope I didn't write too long of a novel, I'm kind of rushed right now I tried to shorten it. Basically I just dont know if I should choose between them or keep doing what I'm doing.. Help me out here mann..
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I think you should just be fair to them. It's not right to play them ya know? And I mean, before you did anything with bob, you shoulda cleared things up with kurt and found out for sure what was going on with you two. Its hard because you like both of them and that's fine as long as you're not going out with one and kissing the other. I mean, everyone likes more than one person at some point. I would just back away from the kissing and stuff like that. It may be tempting but it's just not right until you really find out what you want. Be true to yourself and to them too. And until you know for sure .. don't just choose one outa pity or anything like that. You just have to think .. which one is more friendly towards you .. which one can treat you better and be more true to you? Who can you have a great time with and be able to hang out with? I hope you make the right choice and follow my advice. Good luck and remember, Be true to yourself!
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