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okay well theres this kid, hes my neighbor and hes 2 years older then me. and ive known him since i was in 2nd grade, and now im going into 10th. hes been there for me through everything. we are always together, our families are really close.. his little sister and my little sister are best friends. we go on family vacations together and everything. lately we have been getting super close. hanging out like everynight. ive been thinking to myself if we could possibly be more, i think it would be cool, but then i think that it woudl just be weird cause hes also like a brother to me. im so confused i dont kno what to do, please help me

well....u cant get much closer if hes like ur brother...think about it a relationship would just ruin wat u already have with the person....and u sayd hes 2 yrs older than u?? then he would b 12th grade and he would b going off to collage soon...so it mite not work out

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hOw many pets dO yOu hav

6...if u include my best friends mary....7

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okay well lets see...i'm 13 and i was dating this 17 year old....we talked for a month and then he asked me out a month later..i loved him so much and he felt the same way towards me...i've never felt like this for someone else...he was so perfect..he swore to me we would never have sex because he would never want me to regret it because i was a virgin and he didnt wanna hurt me...well i was gonna be down at the beach the same time he was...and i really wanted to do it so i talked him into it....well after we did at the beach he had came over to my house a few times and then we did it again...then a few weeks later his dad made him move to a different county...so we broke up cause we never saw each other anymore....it was the worst thing ever...and then we find out i was pregnant but i lost the baby.....now its been a few weeks and i find out he's moving back but i think he's talking to another girl...and he's all christian and stuff now...but i'm so still in love with him..and i dont wanna move on..but it seems as if he has....all i want is him back...what do i do :'(

well if he lost ur virginity and got u pregnant at 13 and u lost the baby he better come back and u mite as well find him and talk to him tell him he got u pregnant im sure he still has feelings for u

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.. well .. tha thing is ... we are tring to hang out .. but he makes it so hard .. i tell him ALL tha time how much i miss him nd how much i love him .. nd he knows it .. i just think hes scared of getting hurt again .. every time i ask him to hang out he says its to soon .. so soon? i dont phunkn get it .. to soon for what .. but anyways .. i ask him to hang out nd he lies nd says hes busy .. but then i say .. you just dont wanna say no .. so just say it .. nd thats when he says its to soon .. im taken mah time ... but i have this feeling that things aint going to go tha way that i want em to go .. im tring to hang wit him .. but once again .. hes hard .. i dunno .. well thanks so much for tha helping me .. ill def tell you how it went! hehe!

ok

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im 13 yrs old and im a female.. theres this kid that i went out with when i was like 11 i guess and we went out for about 2 or 3 months in the summer.. he lived in philly and i live in jersey.he lived round the block frum my cuz so we hung like evvveryday! it was great!! well 2 yrs hav past and we became like best frens.. but sumtimes we had feelings for eachother on an off again hed always ask me what i thought about him..and whenever i was commin bak to philly.. but he has a g.f hes been wit her for like 6 months and she says that they barley hang and talk anymor.anyways..whenever we talk on the phone we like flirt and talk about love stuff and.. im just rly wondering if hes sending me signs or sumthin.. and i rly just wanna talk to him about it i hav no clue wat to do.. can u help me out wit wat he possibly thinks of me and wat i should say to him when i wanna talk to him about me liking him mor than a fren again.. thanks alot id appriciate it

well...im not him so i cant tell u if he likes u or not...ik it sucks cuz guys can be so confusing...but if ur gonna talk to him just come out straight and tell him that u like him and wanna b more than just friends...tell him wat u told me...lemme no how it goes

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HOw do u get msn(yahoo messanger)

msn n yahoo r 2 different things...go to yahoo.com and d.l messenger or msn.com n d.l it

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aiight well .. im pretty sure your younger then me .. but .. i fingured i would just ask cause i need as much advise can i can get .. this will take a while for you to understand .. okay here goes ...

i was wit a mah love of mah life for about a year nd 2 months .. we broke up about 7 months ago .. he was mah first everything nd i was also his first everything .. hes tha only one who really understands me .. out time together .. was good nd bad .. all we did was fight cause everyone got into out shit .. like they told him that i talked to guys nd shit .. sschool bullshit as you can tell .. anywho .. i was young nd i wanted to do what i wnated to do .. big school TONS of cute guys .. nd i didnt wanna be taged wit one guy .. but yet i didnt wanna be wit out him .. so i met this one boy .. tha hotties guy ill ever get to be wit .. nd we hung out .. i lied to mah b/f all tha time nd hung wit this other boy then came home to mah b/f .. if you cant think of it .. i cheated on mah b/f wit this hottie .. i wish it never happend but it was tha greatest time i had wit anyone yet i had WAY betetr times wit mah b/f .. i ended up telling him what i did .. nd we were still together at this point we were only together for about .. maybe .. 6 months .. then later down tha line .. i met this other boy .. no on specail .. but he was really sweet .. he was wit a gurl tho .. just as long as me nd mah boyfriend .. at this point it was about .. maybe a year nd a month .. same wit tha other boy but just a year .. well we always left class together nd hung out he came to mah shop nd i went to his since he was right down tha hall from me .. nd mah b/f was all tha way down stairs nd he NEVER came out to see me but this otehr boy did ... blah blah .. then one day this boy kissed me .. nd i kissed him back .. then we started to hang out making out nd shit .. once again hurtin tha love of mah life .. but then he found out cause sum bitch ass nigga told him .. witch i was gunna stop cause i felt back .. but we were still together .. but then about a month later i broke up wit him .. i dunno why i just did .. now 7 months down tha line ... we are talking again .. talking fucking GREAT i mean like great .. im tring to get him back nd shit cuase i love him nd i wanna be wit him .. your prob asking damn get to tha point but you kinda had to get tha idea of what went down .. but anywho .. we talk about out sex nd whatever .. hehe .. nd i dunno .. about things we used to do .. nd all tha great times ... nd like .. mah question is .. i need to show him that i really want him .. nd i really dont know how to show him other then tell him .. nd i think of we are together on night that tha sparks will fly again nd he will be mine again .. i just wanted to know if you have any ideas on what i should do .. like how to get him back .. shit like that .. i hope you can help .. sorry so long! hehe!

- mEe

if you really still like this guy but u dont like to be like taken...maybe its just the glory that ur the one gurl in his life that matters to hiim..its happens to almost every gurl cuz we just wanna b loved...anyway if thats not ur case im thinking he still has feelings for u...he gave u 2 MAJOR chances as i heard...and he never dumped u...so he cant be fully over u i mean 7 months or not he prolly has sum feelings for u...i would say talk to him like ur friends and the start hanging out gradually gettin closer...then go to eachothers houses n sneak out late with eachother...show him that ur down with him n u rlly wanna be with him...sumtimes u just gotta come straight out n tell him u like him cuz sumtimes guys think ur just playin around...soo if worse comes to worse u just gotta tell him u realli like him and u wanna get back together....lemme no how it goes n if ya need more!!!!

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ok well.i am 12 and i am a female and .there is this kid i rly rly like and we went out for about 4 months ..and then he cheated on me. and i was rly mad at him but then i like forgot about it and i got over it and then we were cool..but we sat next to each othr in school and we never talked..so anyways now everyday hes alway on my mind and liek i love him so much and i like him alllllloooooott and i just cant tell him ! b/c he just wont under stand me! i rly need advice ! b/c i am never guna b able to get him off my mind ..b/c i think about him every single day!

...talk to him as friends but nothing more and maybe you`ll find out he feels the same way or maybe he doesnt and u gotta move on...but if u talk to him as a friend i mean he liked u b4 she should just as well now...unless sumthings changed...just talk as friends...lemme no how it goes!

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ok well i really like this kid a lot.. hes going into 10th grade and im going into 8th.. but hes only 1 year older than me.. i told him how i felt, and he said that i was pretty and wicked nice but if we went out it would hafta be when im in highschool but it isnt GUARENTEED.. im gonna be in HS next year, should i wait? I mean i dont wanna end up waiting around for nothing and never get a chancee.. but ive liked him for over a year.. idk what to do.. i dont wanna give up bc i love him! :-(


- SAD AND CONFUSED .. im from esm

tell him ur sick of waiting n u dont wanna sound like a bitch but u dont wanna end up waiting and then get hurt tell him that if he isnt going to give u a chance to tell u now b.c then ur just wasting ur time...

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hey..i saw the advice for that other girl with thick hair and you said to go to a salon and they would use a razor...well i was wondering..how would i ask for it (to thin out my hair) and does it work?

well...i wouldnt know ive never gotten it done but im thinking...if u go and ask is there a way to thin out my hair or call a salon and ask them about it...

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HI....im a 12 year old female. i have been having sex with my stepdad for a few months now. i really like it, except he gave me herpes. what do u think i should do? I also have another problem. my mom wont let me listen to music that i like. my friend told me about this band called sumthin like a chemical romance and i was listenin to one of thier songs on my computer and it said "hell" and now my mom wont let me listen to any music except jazz or country.....wat should i do about that?
~Shawna

first of all u shouldnt be havin sex w. ur step dad...n um about the music..download edited songs and i would say talk to ur mom n tell her its not like u use those words in life ne way its just a song...

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hey im a 13/f/8th grade..i think my teenage life if guna suck! my mom wont let me get a cell till im 17..i cant go shopping or go to the movies without a parent with us (and and my friend) till im in tenth grade..i cant get my eye brows waxed till who knows when..i cant get contacts till im like 17 (i want them really bad cause guys say i look really hot without glasses..but if i dont wear them i cant see anything!) im not allowed to bring a guy friend over..im not allowed to hang around with my friendds to much (only once or twice a week)..i have to clean the house even if no one is coming over..and im only alowed to stay on the computer for an hour (even though i dont listen to that) . im not allowed to get new school closthes..i have to keep the clothes i have for 2 or 3 years (and we are not poor)i have NO FUN! no matter what i try to do..and please dont say sit down and talk to ur mom (my dad would let me do these things..its up to my mom)because i get yelled at for mentioning those things..WHAT CAN I DO TO HAVE A N O R M A L teenage life?????

umm wOw..that sucks...maybe i wOuld say shOw yOur mOm that yOur mature enOugh fOr these things...Or have yOur dad talk tO her...umm dOnt try the whOle IM GONNA KILL MYSELF NOW theme cuz that never wOrks all it dOes is gets yOu tO a shrink....umm leave messages back if u need more n tell me how it goes!!

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hey im 15 and i live in a small town ! where everyone knoes ur name lol ! but me and my sister are always fiteing and when ever im out doing chorse shell just start bitching at me ! i dont knoe wut to do ! i love her cuz shes my sister and i try and walk away frum her but she hits me in the arm or she hits me with a pitchfork like the stick part i dont knoe wut to do and when i tell my mom my sister denies ever doing it and im realli getting sick of it like shes my older sister shes supposed to be goiving me advice on things not hitting me and she always says bad things about me to ppl and im scared to start skool next year cuz well be in the same skool ! but shes not all bad shes nice sumtimes ! can u help me?
luv : kate

...when yOur sister isnt in a bad mOod talk tO her and tell her ur sick Of her b.s...( in a nice way tho ) alsO maybe get Out with yOur friends mOre sO then if yOur sister says bad things abOut yOu they will knO nOt tO believe her!! tell me hOw it gOes!

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ok..i know most teens have a problem with pimples..do u know of any wayz that ACTUALLY work to get rid of them??i just recently started breakin out really bad and i dont know what to do...please help!!

everytime yOu shOwer...wash yOur face...only 2-3 times a day tho or else yOur over dOing it....gO tO www.google.com and search to get rid of them if that dOesnt help....im not sure if its a myth but i heard putting tOothpaste on them Overnight wOrks!!

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I love to be unique when it comes to hair,make-up,and clothes..hahah especially clothes but i need some cute unique back to school make-up ideas i could do to go with my look? ideas with cool shadows,lipglosses,ect? it would be very greatly appreciated!!

P.S-and funkyhair ideas too!! ILL TRY ANYTHING!!!

XoXo Lexi

prep - i would say shop at aber for sum cute fall/winter clothes like cute hoodies and jeans mostly and for makeup i would say go with natural colors like tanish browncolors for eyeshadow and a shimmer up top with black eyeliner on the bottom

goth - hot topic...use black a lot

ghetto - im white

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I have really thick hair, its always frizzy, doesnt matter what i do.when i come out of the pool its terrible! how can i get it thinner?

go to ur salon n they can take this razor thing and thin it out for u

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y do they call a red wing a red wing((its not a wing?)) i get the red part but i dont get the wing part?? plzz tell me if u know((im so0o confused))


if ur talkin about baseball...i think its cuz the eagle has wings and the eagle is the mascot...mm thats all i can come up with :oP

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I'm addicted to white out. What do I do?

JK!

buy white out asshole :oP

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what kind of car should i get? im a girl, and i want a convertible. any sugggestions? thanks

GET A MUSTANG!!!!! GET A PINK MUSTANG OR A BLUE ONE! MUSTANG MUSTANG MUSTANG!:oD not the new ones tho, their ugly

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how do u change the settings on your columnest page

u gO to prOfile settings...

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