Hey im Linzy aka Linz. If yer in doubt of something ask away and u can chose to do it anonymouusly so i can answer yer question and have no clue who u are since alot of ppl like to keep things private and i understand. I will try to answer your questions the best i can and asap. So go ahead ask me a question
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I really need help on this topic...a guy told me he loved e...bu i dont think i like him in that way..i mean hes a really good friend...he gives me on guys and stuff..but i dont love him...and i hateit tha he sas he love me cuz now i feel if he aks me out i have to say yes otherwise he will hate me...please help?
*not the same feeling* (link)
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Just because he said he loves you doesnt mean he wants to be more than a friend. I love you is a word that people often use to easily and to quickly before they truely mean it in a certain way. Maybe he meant he loved u as a friend ? u said he was a good friend of yours. Anyways just because a guy tells you he loves you and leads u on does not mean u have to like him back its ok we all been there because from what it seems you wouldnt like him like that if he hadnt said i love you and now your not sure. The best thing to do is shake these unwanted feeling off by talking to him start it off by saying im reallly glad were good friends and i wouldnt wanna do something to ruin that and see what he says. Remember losing a friend and boyfriend is worse than just a friend so talk to him before things start going down in your friendship. I hope i helped and let me know if i helped or u need any more advice and please rate me!
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i really need he advice so ifu can help me it woul be great. met ths guy atcap ad i think things have been going well between us like we talk and we have a lot in common, even though he goes to a different school he works in the next town over, but the thing is i kinda like sum1 in my town...what should i do?
*in need of help* (link)
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Well if you like this guy in tha other town and u seem to be hitting it off then why did u bring up the other guy? i dont nkow all about your situation but it seems to me that u met this kid got along and possibly want something more right? If this was exactly what u wanted and this guy was making you happy you wouldnt be thinking of the other guy htta lives in your town. Your either still getting over him or crushin on him more than tha other guy it seems. Tha best advice i can give u is talk to the one who lives closer and see what happens and if u work out you sed yerself u and the other guy have alot in common soo maybe you two could become closer best friends. Im sorry if this answer wasnt what u were looking for but in a past experience a couple years ago i really liked this kid and then i thought i liked others along the way but i still kept bringing up the other kid and until i got over him i had to have the other guys as good friends. Hope i sumwat helped rate me plz!
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I have had my period for quite some time. Yes I know that this question is very embarassing...and this is really gay, but i want to use a tampon for whenever i wanna go swimming or sumthing like that...but i'm afraid to ask anybody how to do it cuz they are gonna think ima fag...like i dont no wat to do...you dont hafta answer this if u dont wanna cuz its too embarassing....see u later
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I dont think its gay its very smart to ask a question like this ahead of time so you do it right. Unfortuantly and truthfully i dont have mine yet so im not sure and i wouldnt want to tell u the wrong thing my guess would be just as u do reguarly? lol i really dont know and im sorry but maybe my friend could help u out in her colomn xxlovesmenot
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I always go to the mall with my best friend. Everytime we go and i try on something cute she tells me its ugly and i have bad taste and then buys it for herself and i ask her why if she thought it was ugly and she says it looks bad on me and it hurts i dont know what to do (link)
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Theres a few things u can do here. One talk to her about it althought it might not seem easy talkings always a good solution. If that doesnt work the first time then stop shopping with her find another friend to go with and if your bestt friend is hurt by that or asks why you stopped shopping with her than retalk it over with her and say well u hurt me and explain noone likes to be told they look bad in something by someone who goeas behind their back and buys it for themselves. Also you may want to think about this, is she even a friend? a real friend would not try to bring u down and make u feel selfconsious about how something looks on your body they would compliment u or suggest somethign else and then knowing u liked it first why would a real friend convince u not to get it so they can? think about it and i hope i helped!
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