i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )
just give him som time u no maybe he's not ready 4 ne commitment
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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?
well actually it duznt matter how long u go out 4 its not like theres a set limit cuz ive seen relationships at 14 last from 18min 2 18 months lol so just go as long ass u both love eachother ok so good luck oh and dont 4get 2 rate mr!
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long
just say youll tell him wen its ok and that he shouldnt just keep asking ok so just try 2 keep him controlled cuz he seems like a frisky anxcious little monkey and all u 2 do is let him out his cage only wen hes behaved lol ok tell me how it works out ok
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I haven't had my first kiss yet. Everyone makes a big deal about it, but whatever. I know that it will suck because I don't know what the hell i'd do with my lips or anything, but uhhh, like what would I say after were done if I was horrible and he knew it? I know i'd be embarassed and I dont know what I would say?
welcome 2 the club im 14 and havent had my first cuz i dont like 2 get 2 close 2 girls cuz i c wat they do 2 my friends and i dont want it 2 happen 2 me. ne ways if uu dont wanna kiss then dont but if u wanna just tell the guy that u neva hav so he'll understand if u suck. dont doubt urself cuz u neva no unless u try ;) well good luck and plz tell me if i helped 2
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I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do?
shes just being herself and if she wants 2 b slutty then let her shes just doin new things cuz shes sick of the old things cuz peeps like 2 move on u no ? well tell if i helped k
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hey i was reading ur advice column and i noticed that your bother has autism. well my cousin has CP and i have no idea if they r similar but i was wondering how u get through it all? like when i am near my cousin i feel uncomfortable and stuff
well i dont no wat cp is but try this, i have 2 share a room w/ him and he yells out things in public and sumtimes its bad things but i cant really b mad at him cuz he duznt no ne better so yea it is tuff 2 get thru it all but i still love him cuz hes my bro!
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There's this guy Anthony that I went out with this past January. Our whole relationship was kind of stupid and didn't last that long. He's 18 and graduated this year with my boyfriend. (they hate each other) My boyfriend went on a trip for a little while and since he's gone I figured I would spend some time with old friends. I just happened to start talking with Anthony again and we started hanging out. We talked everything over before we hung out and he knows my relationship situation and seemed to show respect for it. When I hung out with him last night though, we were just joking around and stuff. We watched a movie and we were laying on his bed. (No problems there) But soon after he started caressing my legs and stomach, and I got totally pissed. He said he respected that I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. What the hell is his problem? I need a way to tell him that that's not cool and to back the hell off in a nicer way then I probably would. I want us to still be cool, but for him to know that that's not exceptable.
hes probably jist lonly and still likes being w/ u and just got carried away just tell him 2 b more careful next time ok o and tell me if i helped
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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx
* a curious george *
i no everone is sayin 13 is 2 young 4 sex and i myself agree. ne other sexual stuff i would say is fine as long as ur comfortable w/ it. but b4 u do nething juststop and think..... think of wat the aftermath mite b if u do it....think of the risks involved in doin it.and remember this quote and refer 2 it always "It is not out abilities that show tho we truly are....it is our choices" CHOOSE WISLEY!and tell me if this u at all plz thx
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Okay, im having a HUGE party like 50-100 ppl, and i have a pool, one of those big blow up ones that go to like your chest, perfect for chicken fights and stuff, and a trampoline and my mom says it has to be out, but i think well what if its too cold to go in the pool? what kind of stuff can i do too to entertain ppl, i need help and FAST! thanks i apperciate it!
WELL DUH!!!! this is ur big opportunity 2 score big time my friend! just start w/ the basics u no truth or dare, spin the bottle then work up 2 strip poker ;)
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my best friend has changed soo much since last year.. her brothers are stoners and drunks and now she is starting to smoke and she also drinks some.. and i love her dearly and i dont kno what to do i try to talk to her but i am afraid shell get mad at me or something, somebody please help me!!!!
listen 2 me! get ur friend som help as soon as possible! i hav friends that drink and do drugs and hav offered me but ive neva done it. alot of my friends r in drug rehab and one of them isnt goiin 2 make it to the end of the month and ive known him since kindergarten! anotha very good friend of mine died earlier this year cuz of pot. a month b4 he died i tried 2 help him get off it ...i tried 2 help him....but he couldnt help himself :(....he was found in his room w/ foam comin from his mouth, a gun in one hand and blood comin from his head. so think bout the consequences of ur friends choices and c if u can do nething bout it b4 its 2 late.
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Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass-
well im only 14 but trust me i no this stuff really well and if u ask me even if hes not good at it, it shouldnt matter that much....wat should matter is if u love and trust him enough
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hey tomorrow nite im goin to the movies wit my bf what should i c???any suggetions???
watevr u do do not c the village it is the worst movie if i were u i would c spider-man 2, harry potter, or anchorman
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