Gender: Female
Location: Leicestershire, England, UK
Occupation: student
Age: 22
Member Since: July 22, 2007
Answers: 89
Last Update: September 9, 2009
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my boyfriend and i have been having sex for several months now. he does everything right, and lasts a long time, but i can not orgasm. he is the first person i have been with and i have never experienced an orgasm. the entire experience is pleasurable but i never climax. what could be wrong with me? we both try very hard. and eventually i just get really sore and tired so we have to stop. what could be the problem? any tips? (link)
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Well i guess many people may go through this, but i would suggest that write down a detail version of sexual scene maybe some you may have seen from movies. Just before you try next time, have a read, and see if you feel turned on.
there is another thing you can try. before you have sex, make him kiss you starting from your face, down the neck, arms, and you know what i'm trying to say... there must be something that mite work. (p.s, the above tips i read them in cosmopolitan, so lets see if it works),
if you dont orgasm it doesnt mean you're love for him is lessening so dont stress about it too much. well i seriously hope these tips work for you.
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okay im 16/f and i met this boy he's 22 on myspace and he lives in the same city where i live katy,tx and i met him and seemed really nice. but i mean he still is nice and i've gotten to know him over the week. and we started dating. but i feel like he doesn't really like me. because like on myspace he'll tell me im beautiful and on the phone he'll tell me that plus i love you. but the first time we met we were dating he just hugged me and kissed me. but he didn't say i love you and that im beautiful. and i sent him a message on myspace that if he really likes me that he needs to start showing it. he just read my message but didn't say anything. oh and i called him like 10 times today but he doesn't pick up. i've noticed that when i call sometimes he won't pick up. and we're suppose to meet at the park today around 3. and i don't want to break-up with him so what should i do? And also and whenever i talk to him he's like uh huh okie dokie or yeahh. i don't feel like i can talk to him or connect with him. what should i do?
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try giving him a taste of his own medicine, next time you see him on myspace, or online, dnt say anything..see if he starts a conversation..just stay calm, dont ring or text for a few days and see how it goes, you dont want to seem to desperate or needy do you? and if he is really interested in you then he will text to see whats wrong....I HOPE. but take care and dont worry too much, there are other guys, your only 16 now and you will find more guys.
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I was just wondering...15/f...can hair dye ruin your hair? are there any products out there that aren't harmful to your hair? maybe something non-permanent..? (link)
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any chemicals you use on your hair will make your hair weaker.
if you want to just lighten the colour of your hair, you can try Sun In (i'm not sure if i spelt it right)..but you can this to lighten your hair...it comes with instructions, just see if they have this hair lightning product. It is permanent but eventually as your hair grows it will move downer and your natural hair colour will start to show.
just to be on the safe side, talk to people at your local salon.
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I'm not really sure if this goes here, but it seems most suitable.
Everytime I wear eyeliner on the lower eyelid it smudges like crazy. I don't think it's because of sweat because well it says waterproof, and on other people even when they do, it doesn't smudge.
How can I fix this without leaving the lower lid un-eyelinered. Does darker eyeshadow work better? (link)
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try using the eyeliner inside, on the lover line.
it would still look good.
but if you still want to try under the lower lash line, start the line from the outer corner working towards the inner corner.
and maybe try to make sure that you keep your eye area dry, if you do use moisturiser avoide the area around your eye. hope it helps
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my boyfriend is a total jerk. he dosnt say hi to me anymore. he hangs up on me swears at me is violent to me says he dosnt care about me nemore as much as he did says he hates seen me gets ppl to tel me hes not were he is so i dont come see him. says he hates seen me and that he dreads it says that im on the bottum of his list of prioirtys. he dumped me and said he was treating me bad so i wud break it of with him but then he wanted me back. hes grabbed my throat and said hel hit me. he tells people he dosnt want to be with me and im annoying and wishes i would dissapear. altho we hav a serious relashionshop and hav dated for about a year hes gettin himself into serious trouble and been arrested and charged and drinking every night. i love him so much and my biggest fear is that he wil cheat on me. i dont think he loves me neither do any of my friends. i just have alot of fun with him on weekends even tho he ignored me and yells at me for anything and everything i dont have the power to break it off PLEASE HELP ME IM DESPEREATE iv talked to him about it so many times and he gets mad and tells me to fuck off! (link)
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Try once more, but be strong, try to convince him if he truly cares about you, he would let you go.
No one deserves to be treated this way. if you are scared take a friend with you.
but if he does try to lay his hands on you, you would need to get the police and social workers involved.
i just hope you be successful in breaking up with him, if he shows his tantrums again, just walk out and let it be..you move on with your life and if he tries to cause trouble for you , you know what to do. You don't need to be scared of anyone or anything.. so goodluck.
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Here are 2 pictures of me i wanted to get caramel streaks do you think it would suit me ?
And can you tell more hair coloured streaks that would look good thanks much! (link)
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i think people at the salon would give you better advice on what colour would suit you. those people are trained for this and may help you make better decision.
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Okay. I like this boy his name is Eric, and he doesn't like the fact that I've gone on a diet. I assure you.. It's a healthy diet I eat, exersize and not once has my finger been remotly close to my mouth for the purpose of vomitting. I have a condition, Acanthosis Nigricans(thinking I spelled it correctly..) which is a discoloration to the neck. Well if I keep doing what Im doing which was eating all the time, never exersizing, Im sure to get Diabetes. Which it me is a death sentance because Im Insulin Resistant. I would die. I dont want to tell him because I dont want to worry him but im getting tired of him saying I should eat something when I ate likea halfn hour ago. Im 14 im not saposed to eat all the time and he doesnt understand.
I dont want him to worry but I dont want him to accuse me of not eating when I do it right infront of him.
How do I explain things to him without sending him into panic? (link)
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I think you should talk to him about this, if he's worried about you not eating properly its obviously because he cares.
But just out of curiousity what kind of food are you eating? is it well balanced healthy diet? just make sure you have your five a day fruits and veg (you will be surprised how each fruit and veg contains own vitamins which can help protect against so many diseases), and they help give your face a natural healthy looking glow, and makesure you keep up your water in take.
But talk to your friend, he seems like he wants to be there for you..and its a good sign.
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I seriously need help!
I am 13.
I recently moved across the country, from the towwn which I lived all my life.
At my old school there was this boy my age who really liked me... I was unsure at the time whether i liked him or not...so i sorta gave him the impression i disliked him...
I know he still liked me though because i would look up to see he was staring at me, and he purposly bumped into me in the halls.
But when i moved i cant stop thinking of him..
Should i conntact him? (link)
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Ofcourse you can contact him, there's no harm in that. If you're still unsure you can start of being friends and see how it goes from there. Once you do contact him, you will get to know him better, you may share similar interests, and it will give you a better idea of how you feel about him, you can only hope it works out if you do like him..fingers crossed.
** but keep in mind, you have the rest of your life ahead of you, dont let this distract you too much, because you will find many other guys in your new school. BUT do contact the guy at your old school and see how it goes. GOOD LUCK
Let me know if this helps, if you got any more questions you can always ask another question, and i will try my best to answer, takecare.
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ive recently had a pretty bad outbreak of chest acne like in the past week and ive never really had that much before. i have no idea why. ive been scrubbing it but it doesnt seem to be doing much. what can i do? (link)
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hiya, first thing i would suggest is you try to consult your doctor/ GP, but another thing you could is freederm this cream is available in most pharmacy's.
you can also try natural antiseptic cream/ lotion, look for products containing natural ingredients, tea tree is a natural antiseptic and can reduce rash and other soarness of the skin. i hope this would help, i've never had acne, but everyone has different skin types, so it might be a better idea consulting with specialists at your nearest pharmacy.
Let me know if this does help..takecare
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