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Today was our first day of school, and i wasnt in any classes with my friends. Its my senior year, and id love to be with them. My dad donates a lot to the school, so he talked to the principal and tommorow i have a meeting with the principal to discus what id like changed, and hell switch it for me. I definately dont want to be that bratty student who gets whatever she wants. I have 2 classes with my friends, but thats 2 out of 8. How do i tell my principal which classes id like switched without sounding like "give me what i want, and give it NOW!". And how do i tell him how much i appreciate him taking the time to do all that? I dont think of myself as a brat, and neither do my friends but some people at school do, just because i can get what i want somtimes. I dont want to over-use whatever power i have. I dont want to be a bother to anybody. Any advice you might have, id appreciate it. Thank you sooo very much! (link)
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The best thing you can do, is to not change all your classes. If you change a few classes people shouldn't take to much notice of it.
Also you will be surprised by how many new friends you can make by not having your friends in the same class as you, I'm not saying it will be easy as you will be out of your comfort zone, but if you try to you will be surprised at who you start making friends with.
Best of luck!
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i made a video for my friend who passed.
i bought a song from itunes and i don't know how to put it on the video i made the video on windows movie maker.
also can i put this video on a cd that you burn on?? if not how could i put it on a disc and what kind. thanks a million. =) (link)
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You should be able to drag the song form iTunes to windows movie maker in collections. Then if you see the actual time line of the video you can drag the song (once you have it in collections)to the time line as there is a place for it and now the song goes to the video, you will have to put the sound from the song up... there is an option for that in windows movie maker. Once the video is done, there is an option in windows movie maker, under Finish movie, that allows you to save it to a CD.
hope this helped!
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At my school cliques are everywhere. That is o.k that is not the problem the problem is that I'm alone in alittle clique of my own everyone calls me a freak how do I get out of it and became noticed. (link)
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You have two choices, you could ignore everyone else and just be happy with how everything is now and make friends with people you are comfortable with. This is the option I would go with because people who call you names are generally people you don't want to be with, and once you are out of school this all changes.
OR you can slowly start changing yourself to what they see as acceptable, like changing hair styles and clothes and wearing make up etc... Then start talking to them and see how it goes. The sad truth about school is you get judged mostly by how you look...
Goodluck!
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im 14 and im a freshman. so 4 years ago in fifth grade there was this guy. he was really cool although we never really talked. we've been in all the same classes since then and ive liked him ever sice. but he just kinda ignores me like im part of the background. maybe cause weve known eachother so long. what can i do to make him notice me??!
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Talk to him! I'm sure he notices you, afterall you've been in the same class for so long. But in order to get someone interested in you, you have to become interested in them. Changing yourself seldom helps, stop trying to get their attention, just go and talk to him, and slowly become friends. Just have fun, and be yourself and talk to him! let the rest happen as it goes along.
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okay so i get cali is cheif resident...but who was chief resedent before that....and im confused about who is becoming chief of surgery...is richard staying? (link)
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They dont tell us who was chief resident before callie. As far as chief goes Richard offered the job to derek but derek turned him down saying that Richard was the best for the job and should stay on, so now we dont know if Richard will. So the chief of surgery is still left a mystery.
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does anyone know what channel grey's anatomy is on cause i really wanna start watching it and can anyone give me some tips about who everyone is and stuff. oh yeah i have DISH so it would help alot if you gave me the DISH channel. thanks so muchh. (link)
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I cant help you with what channel it is on... But I can give you tips about who everyone is. There are five main interns, meredith(who's the main character), christina, Izzy, George and Alex. There resident is Bailey and the attendants are Derek and Burke. And the chief Richard. If you are startin to watch from season 1 (the start of the show) then stop reading from here other wise a few things are going to be given away!
There is also Addison who is also attendant and Dereks wife who cheated on him.There is Callie who is now george's love interest. Mark the guy who addison cheated on derek with. Meredith and Derek were also in a relationship but when his wife showed up he choose her over Meredith. Christina and Burke are a couple and christina is Merediths best friend, where as george is izzy. And Izzy lost her fiance.
I wont say any more because I dont what season you are in but this is the smallest summary i can give without giving away too much and filling you in on everything. Once you start watching it will all be easier to follow and alot of things have changed. The information I gave you was based on season 1 and 2 alot has changed in season 3!
Hope you like the show! Hope I helped.
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Okay, so theres this girl that ive known for a year. and shes likee the biggest drama queen. so about a week ago, she goes and takes something out of my bag after i got up to throw something out.
and i notice how shes trying to make a run for her seat since she was at my table. so i was like..why are you going through my stuff? do i have to put a lock on my bag so people dont take things? and shes like mimiking me the whole time and was likee "shut up. who cares" all that immature bullish.
so im likee okay whatever.
so then i hear her from across the room saying she wants to kick the sh*t out of me and i ignore it.
and for the past week shes been talking **** about me so i can hear her. shes sayin stuff like "shes so ugly and she has no friends" when its really the total opposite.
i dont know how to confront her or what to say to her when shes talking this crap. what would you say?
whats a really good thing to say that will make her not know what to say?
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Ok there are two ways to approach this situation, one you could ignore her and just always have fun with your friends! and once she sees its not getting to you, she might stop!
How ever if she carries on, then it is always best to just (when she is saying something about you or doing something to you) come out and confront her, ask her 'what her problem is.' and i find it funny how after a year she just suddenly starts acting like this to you, did something else happen between you two to cause this?
And if she starts putting you down well you confront her, I suggest saying something like 'stop being such a drama queen', or 'grow up!'... it shocks people like her, trust me I know! i've been through it!
Just confront her take a deep breath and ask her what her problem is. Be brave! Dont be afraid to speak your mind (you'll probably find people agree with you)
Just the most important thing, is to not get angry or give her a reaction its what she wants!!!!!
I hope the confrontation goes well, just remember to straight out ask her what her problem is and say what you want to say.
I hope it goes well! I really wish you all the luck! I hope I helped!
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Alright last summer, I started talking to this boy Ben, just like on AIM cause I had his screen name somehow.. like it wasn't real deep conversations just usually like hey whats up, how are you doing .. stuff like that, since we didn't really know each other, but all i knew was he was this kid at my school's neighbor[Lance] and that he went to my cousins school. Well anyways, I saw him a few times over the summer last year and I thought he was the most gorgeous thing but I never had the guts to talk to him or anything. Well, this year I'm extremely outgoing and I'm like hyper 24/7 ha, but anyways we were at this festival and I saw him there and we were trying to find cute boys :), so I texted my friend Chelsea[shes my cousins friend] and I was like dude find me a cute boyy, and shes like ha mee too. And then I said wanna introduce me to Ben? and shes like suree so then I found her, and she went up to him and said you should meet my friend and so I walked over and we were talking for a little bit by ourselves.
He was like where do you go? and I'm like ignatius. and hes like NUH UHH?! do you know lance?! and im like yeah he's my best friend![im friends with lance this year] and hes like no hes mine and we were fighting over it for awhile. and then he asked me if i knew a few more people an stuff an then all of our friends came over an we kinda stopped talking and he took a picture of me cause i was like dude if you take a picture of me im gonna blink so he did. and then i took a picture with a friend and he went away. and my friends said he looked like he was flirting with me mass? but i dunno lol. i dont really notice.
Anyways so I told my friend Matt, that I wanted him to hook me up with Ben .. like I was kinda kidding about it but I wasnt at the same time lol. and so he texted ben and goes do you like anyone cause i know someone who wants you. but he said who is this like a day later so i dont think he has text. but matt saw him later that day and goes you remember melissa right and hes like yeah and he goes would you go out with her and bens like no i dont like having a girlfriend really and we dont really know each other.
ahhh i got so mad that matt asked him that but anyways so i was like noo matt i didnt wanna go out with him i barely know him i just think hes hot and hes like whatd you mean by hook up and i was kidding so i was like you know and so he texted ben and was like oh no she doesnt wanna go out she wants to hook up.
so now the boy prolly thinks im like a hoe or something and he prolly thought i was ugly too.
ughh i feel so dumbb. but so i texted him yesterday and was just like hey this is melissa, but he never answered .. and he got on AIM a little after I texted him so I didnt IM him cause I didnt wanna seem like obsessive or something.
but anyways, should i talk to him next time hes on AIM or the next timee i see him.. which might be saturday at lances parrty? and what should i say to him? should i say something like dude matts gay i onlyy said you were hot or should i act like i dont know? or something completely different.
and im sorry this was probably like the longest thing youve ever read in your life, but i need help. thankyou (: (link)
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I think you should just act mormally, if ben says anything just say matt made something out of nothing!Slowly start talking to him again and at the party dont look for him or anything just have fun!
hope this helped!
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i just finished watching the movie "just like heaven" and im so lost! why could only the little girl and the man see her and no one else? (link)
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The man could only see her because they were meant to be together, it was his fate to meet her but when he blew her off it became his fate to save her life. The little girl could see her because its the thing that children are innocent and more prone to believe and to see things that adults brush off.
I hope I helped!
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I have a boyfriend... of 4 months... and i just cheated on him with my ex..... i dont know what to do?
and I can not tell my boyfriend... pease... help!
F-- 15 (link)
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I think you have to tell him, its wrong what you did and now you have choice either tell your boyfriend and hope he'll stay with you and work it out, or break up with him making sure he knows that it is most definately not his fault why you are ending it.
One way or another he will find out -the truth always comes out and you owe him more than that to just lie to him. I know i'm being harsh but you seriously need to consider why you cheated on him? because if you were happy i dont think you would have cheated.
Best of luck. hope it all works out.
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this is a little confusing. ok so i used to be friends with benefits with my best guy friend. i told him i liked him the day he made out with a girl i hate that has gotten with all of my guy friends. so i was mad at my friend that he would fall for her too. so after that me and my friend stopped talking because i knew he was stressed out. so about a week later i was joking around with another friend and said that i did things with my guy friend which was true but my friends believed me that i was joking. well my guy friend found out and started screaming at me even after i apologized about 5 times and told him that our friends think its not true. so again we stopped talking. it's been 2 weeks and today i asked him why he stopped talking to me because even though i lost a lot of respect for him over these past 3 weeks i still want to keep our friendship. he said that he stopped talking to me because he lost trust for me. i know i shouldn't have said what i did but i sincerely apologized for it and i said it because i was mad at him. is it totally rediculous to think that i shouldn't be responsible for this? i really am sorry but i wouldn't have said anything if he didn't kiss that girl after deciding to start a friends with benefits relationship with me and after his girlfriend had just broken up with him. oh yeah by the way...after telling his ex how much he wanted her back then he goes and makes out with the girl in front of his ex, then goes back to his ex and asks her to go back out with him. is this too confusing? am i totally wrong thinking that he was disrespectful to his ex? why won't he get over something that happened three weeks ago after i apologized everyday for a week? (link)
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I think you are both wrong. He should stop using girls and what he did to his ex was wrong. You have aplogised and I think give him some space and then just explain to him that you were angry and being stupid when you said that.admitting you were silly generally helps someone to forgive and forget.
Then i suggest you stop being friends with benefits with him. It just creates problems.
Hope it all works out.
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every time my frind whants to break up with some one she calls me to do it and then the boys which are my friens they get mad at me because they think i told her to break up with them how do i stop this and get my friends back (link)
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you need stand up for yourself and say no to your friend. She should be doing the breaking up herself.Thats the only way you are going to put a stop to this. and explain to your guy friends that she asked you to break up with them for her.
Hope it all works out!
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ok so basically iv wrote a question similar to this one but not really.. One of my close friends that i knew since 6th grade. Well i started to like him last year, and i have been liking him ever since. Heres the weird thing though. Every time i think bout him he pops up out of no where. Just like this.
1: When me and my friend were walking home i was thinking about him and then like 2 minutes later he drove right past us and yelled HEY
2:One morning i was thinking i wonder wut hes doin i got outside and there he was across the street from where i live playing basket ball
3:When i had a slide show on my computer of my family and friends all the pictures were fine, but when the picture of him came up my computer froze. Of all of the pictures to freeze on
4: When me and my friend were going to walk to the corner store i saw no one outside walking, then i was thinkin oh we are going to walk right past his house, then a couple of seconds later i heard foot steps from behind me and it was him walkin up behind me tryin to scare me.
5: I also always see him in the hall way and the thing is that i never did until i started to like him
This is really weird and it happens all of the time.. wut does this mean is something tellin me something??
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lol! That is a bit weird! Personally i believe in fate! and lol maybe you should consider telling him you like him or see what happens.
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Here's the story. From 4th grade all the way up to 8th I had a crush on the same guy. Simon, I'm not even gonna lie about his name. We had this kind of hate-love relationship. Basically, we pretended to hate eachother, he would "bully" me (i would enjoy it) he'd make fun of me, and I'd make fun of myself, and it was all good cause it gave us a reason to talk to eachother which we enjoyed. In 9th grade, for no real reason, we stopped talking. It got awkward, we'd just avoid eachother, and pretend we'd never met.
I couldn't get over it. Get over HIM, to be exact.
But it was okay, cause in a year we'd both be going to highschool and never had to see eachother again, I'd HAVE to get over him.
To my surprise, first day of school.. first thing I see is him. GREAT. great great great. This sucked, and it has for two years (yes, I'm almost a senior now, and I'm still talking about the same guy I did in 4th grade!) For the whole first year, it killed me to see him. I'd skip lunch and ceratin classes to avoid him, just cause I thought it was awkward, plus I didn't want to run into him sense I usually dont look that great at school. I would kinda "facebook stalk" him, if you know what I mean. But then this year, I decided to get over him, completely. So I blocked him, deleted him, FORCED myself to stop thinking about him. And it worked, it got less awkward, and thank the lord all mighty I got over him!
Yesterday, I saw him holding hands with one of the girls from my old school. I used to be popular in my old school, she used to be a loner. The tables have turned. And now she has the guy I want(ed) too!
It's hard to explain what happened when I saw him, but I kind of stopped breathing, and started crying, and fainted. I had to make up this silly excuse to everyone that I was having an allergic reaction.
I mean I knew they liked eachother, it had accured to me, and I knew they were probably gonna start dating, but still it was so hard for me to see that. I really had no right to react that way, we both hate eachother now, and we never even got close to dating (he didnt like me like that) so it was stupid that it affected me. Especially, since I have a new crush that likes me back and it's going good.
Now I just can't wait to graduate, get away from this guy.
But are there any tips on making it easier until then (there's more than a year left!)? Something I should say to him maybe?
[dont want to confess my feelings, since they're in the past - i AM over him. Don't want to tell him i regret losing him as a friend - but any other suggestions would be great, cause I feel so weak around him. Both physically AND mentally]
Thank you if you actually read all that!
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You say you're over him and thats really good. And i know its a shock when someone you liked for so long goes out with some one else you know. However I think the best thing to do now is act normal around him. Dont avoid, dont feel bad just act normal, you don't even have to talk to him. Just allowing yourself to be around him without feeling anything for him will help you move on completely! If you have to talk to him just to get over it being awkward i suggest talking about something that has to do with school work..
Also stay with friends or people your comfortable with it will help if he is around.
Good luck with your new crush, i'm glad you found some one else because holding onto the past will never help us move forward.
Hope it works out! And remember be normal around him! He doesn't expect anything!
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(17/f) I made a friend a few months ago, a guy who seemed a little shy but was surprisingly friendly and very nice. We texted each other sometimes, flirted a little, and helped each other out in class (we're in percussion together and have to move around a lot of instruments.) Everything was more or less fine... until I realized that I didn't really want to be just friends any more. I tried to ignore it because I assumed he wasn't interested, although I did tell one of our other classmates. I was finally starting to deal with it and move on when he suddenly and pretty randomly stopped speaking to me. Now any time I say hi he just looks at me, and we haven't talked in a couple of weeks. I asked the girl in our class who I'd gone to before if she had told him what I said and she insists that she didn't. I just really want to know what it is that went wrong. Any ideas? (link)
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The only way you are going to find out what is wrong, is if you ask him yourself. Be straight with him- ask what happened that is making him act like that all of a sudden. Also I dont see why he would ignore you if he find out you liked him, surely if he didn't return the feelings he'd just tell you. Talk to him and see what went wrong.
Hope it all works out!
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Im going to the movies with a bunch of my friends, and my boyfriend's friends. Everyone has a date they're going with and my friend Ali is totally flipping out because I told her I can't sit by her at the movies. I promised my other friend, Beth, that I would sit by her. My boyfriend Dane is sitting on the other side of me so I can't sit by both Ali and Beth.
I really think it's totally stupid that Ali is making a big deal over who I sit by, but she's one of my best friends and she feels like I like Beth more than her and she thinks she'll be so left out at the movies.
I need some way to make Ali happy, because I don't want everything at the movies ruined. (link)
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It sounds like Ali is feeling a bit left out. You shouldn't decide before hand who sits where. Maybe get Ali to sit next to beth that way you're in close range.
Since this is a date thing and Ali should have a date then who sits where shouldn't be a big issue. Just don't stress about it, don't bring it up and just see what happens. If Ali is still being funny when you go out then talk to her about it telling her what you feel.
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my parents, i love them, btu somteimes they get on my last nerve. when i mean last, i mean last. right now im not doing so well in school, and everytime we get into a fight, that is the first thing they talk about my grades. Sometimes they don't know how stressfull it is nowadays in school, especially how i take an AP class only as a soph. Sometimes i feel like noone understands me. Theyve always been on my case about my grades, and i try to bring them up, but its the pressure i get from them thats making me loose my sanity.Sometimes i think about killing myself, and everytime i do, i get closer and closer. I don't want to, but sometimes i feel like it's the right thing to do. Sometimes i think that by me just leaving, itll make them happier. So they won't be embarresed of me. Idk, i can't talk to them about it cause they think im crazy. My friends don't even bother anymore. Im loosing it... please i need some advice on how to get through this. (link)
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Parents are tricky to please (i would know). The best thing to do right now is to show them that you are trying to improve your marks. You also need to talk to them about being more supportive of you. Now I want to raise a question is there a reason (besides your parents) that you aren't doing so well in school? If there is, this reasons needs to be confronted as well.You say school is stressfull, I cant stress enough how important it is that you go and talk to a teacher or another adult you trust about why school is getting to you so much.
Some times we put a bit too much pressure on ourselves and if we don't talk about our problems it just gets worst. I also think you should concentrate on having a bit of fun and not worry about school as silly as it sounds it helps alot.
Then I can assure you your parents would not be happier if you killed yourself. There is no reason ever to kill yourself. Just by asking for advice you are already on your way to getting through this.
Talk to your friends, your true friends will stick with you and help you. And again please talk to a teacher or another adult.
I wish you all the luck, and know you can certainly get through this.
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