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ohh geez what to sayy?!
Alright last summer, I started talking to this boy Ben, just like on AIM cause I had his screen name somehow.. like it wasn't real deep conversations just usually like hey whats up, how are you doing .. stuff like that, since we didn't really know each other, but all i knew was he was this kid at my school's neighbor[Lance] and that he went to my cousins school. Well anyways, I saw him a few times over the summer last year and I thought he was the most gorgeous thing but I never had the guts to talk to him or anything. Well, this year I'm extremely outgoing and I'm like hyper 24/7 ha, but anyways we were at this festival and I saw him there and we were trying to find cute boys :), so I texted my friend Chelsea[shes my cousins friend] and I was like dude find me a cute boyy, and shes like ha mee too. And then I said wanna introduce me to Ben? and shes like suree so then I found her, and she went up to him and said you should meet my friend and so I walked over and we were talking for a little bit by ourselves.
He was like where do you go? and I'm like ignatius. and hes like NUH UHH?! do you know lance?! and im like yeah he's my best friend![im friends with lance this year] and hes like no hes mine and we were fighting over it for awhile. and then he asked me if i knew a few more people an stuff an then all of our friends came over an we kinda stopped talking and he took a picture of me cause i was like dude if you take a picture of me im gonna blink so he did. and then i took a picture with a friend and he went away. and my friends said he looked like he was flirting with me mass? but i dunno lol. i dont really notice.
Anyways so I told my friend Matt, that I wanted him to hook me up with Ben .. like I was kinda kidding about it but I wasnt at the same time lol. and so he texted ben and goes do you like anyone cause i know someone who wants you. but he said who is this like a day later so i dont think he has text. but matt saw him later that day and goes you remember melissa right and hes like yeah and he goes would you go out with her and bens like no i dont like having a girlfriend really and we dont really know each other.
ahhh i got so mad that matt asked him that but anyways so i was like noo matt i didnt wanna go out with him i barely know him i just think hes hot and hes like whatd you mean by hook up and i was kidding so i was like you know and so he texted ben and was like oh no she doesnt wanna go out she wants to hook up.
so now the boy prolly thinks im like a hoe or something and he prolly thought i was ugly too.
ughh i feel so dumbb. but so i texted him yesterday and was just like hey this is melissa, but he never answered .. and he got on AIM a little after I texted him so I didnt IM him cause I didnt wanna seem like obsessive or something.
but anyways, should i talk to him next time hes on AIM or the next timee i see him.. which might be saturday at lances parrty? and what should i say to him? should i say something like dude matts gay i onlyy said you were hot or should i act like i dont know? or something completely different.
and im sorry this was probably like the longest thing youve ever read in your life, but i need help. thankyou (:
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I think you should just act mormally, if ben says anything just say matt made something out of nothing!Slowly start talking to him again and at the party dont look for him or anything just have fun!
hope this helped!
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hey the same thing happen when my friend blurted out that i like this one guy i met at the mall. lol and she was trying to get him to ask me out. he said no but i dont care haha. so the thing you should do is be like "hey i dont like you either i just said you were hott and matt blew this way outta proportion. so lets just forget about this. [and then laugh a little haha]" well it is kinda funny and a bit embarrassing but its no big deal. he wont really care. so yea just talk to him at the party and you might end up making a realyl cool friend. =]
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