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what is his problem?
this is a little confusing. ok so i used to be friends with benefits with my best guy friend. i told him i liked him the day he made out with a girl i hate that has gotten with all of my guy friends. so i was mad at my friend that he would fall for her too. so after that me and my friend stopped talking because i knew he was stressed out. so about a week later i was joking around with another friend and said that i did things with my guy friend which was true but my friends believed me that i was joking. well my guy friend found out and started screaming at me even after i apologized about 5 times and told him that our friends think its not true. so again we stopped talking. it's been 2 weeks and today i asked him why he stopped talking to me because even though i lost a lot of respect for him over these past 3 weeks i still want to keep our friendship. he said that he stopped talking to me because he lost trust for me. i know i shouldn't have said what i did but i sincerely apologized for it and i said it because i was mad at him. is it totally rediculous to think that i shouldn't be responsible for this? i really am sorry but i wouldn't have said anything if he didn't kiss that girl after deciding to start a friends with benefits relationship with me and after his girlfriend had just broken up with him. oh yeah by the way...after telling his ex how much he wanted her back then he goes and makes out with the girl in front of his ex, then goes back to his ex and asks her to go back out with him. is this too confusing? am i totally wrong thinking that he was disrespectful to his ex? why won't he get over something that happened three weeks ago after i apologized everyday for a week?
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I think you are both wrong. He should stop using girls and what he did to his ex was wrong. You have aplogised and I think give him some space and then just explain to him that you were angry and being stupid when you said that.admitting you were silly generally helps someone to forgive and forget.
Then i suggest you stop being friends with benefits with him. It just creates problems.
Hope it all works out.
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what you did was wrong and saying sorry was nice of you but sometimes saying sorry is not enough plus if you only did that just because he was making out with another girl then that was wrong
one because he thought that you guys are only friends and two because 2 wrongs dont make a right and if he was leary your best friend you would not say anything to anyone do mattle what happens because promise is a promise get it love joujou
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