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Losing a friend... but why?
(17/f) I made a friend a few months ago, a guy who seemed a little shy but was surprisingly friendly and very nice. We texted each other sometimes, flirted a little, and helped each other out in class (we're in percussion together and have to move around a lot of instruments.) Everything was more or less fine... until I realized that I didn't really want to be just friends any more. I tried to ignore it because I assumed he wasn't interested, although I did tell one of our other classmates. I was finally starting to deal with it and move on when he suddenly and pretty randomly stopped speaking to me. Now any time I say hi he just looks at me, and we haven't talked in a couple of weeks. I asked the girl in our class who I'd gone to before if she had told him what I said and she insists that she didn't. I just really want to know what it is that went wrong. Any ideas?
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The only way you are going to find out what is wrong, is if you ask him yourself. Be straight with him- ask what happened that is making him act like that all of a sudden. Also I dont see why he would ignore you if he find out you liked him, surely if he didn't return the feelings he'd just tell you. Talk to him and see what went wrong.
Hope it all works out!
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