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i haave a crush on this kid..the problem is that i dont know him,or even talked to him..but i really like him. i cant just go up to him and talk because i dont know him i just see him in the halls and stuff..please help??
i want to get his attention without talking to him..mayabe talk to his friend that hes talking to or something (link)
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Join a club he is in, but how can you like someone without knowing them? Maybe you could ask him for homework help, just to generate conversation.
~Nokomis~
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ok i know this one girl who ive known since last year we sat at the same lunch table, then this year we have spanish together..were not close but we do talk here and there. she went out with guy danny whos in 11th grade and they recently broke up after 6 months or so. my other friend had met him in a chat and they talk and so on, and anyways we were going to the mall on saturday and so we went. we come back and shes at my house waiting for her mom to pick her up so were talking to him on-line n seemed nice. so after she left we started talking and all, i seem a lil into him i dk, i saw him be4 like once or twice with the girl who went out with him. i just found out that he was in my lunch last sem and all so i kinda knew who he wasnt, i just never saw him only the back or something when the 2 were leavin the caf. i dont know if hes into me or something i never actually met him or anything, but im affaird to accept if he ever asks me out since i have friends who were friends with who he went out with, plus i also know her as well. then today my other friend who was over my house saturday night says she was confused and i asked why and she said bc she "bc i have a bf and i also like danny a lil" and i said "o0o the one from other night on-line?" and she said "yeah" and i just went "o0o" and she asked "y?" and i just said "j/w" and now i dk what to do, bc i dont want to hurt either of them if he ever asks me, which i know he would never do ask me but u never know.
~i know its long n a lil confusing sry
(btw he is in 11th (which i meantioned) and me n the 2 girls r in 9th) (link)
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If you're not really into him why would you consider going out with him, don't date just to say that your with someone, you'll be respected more if you wait until you find someone you really click with. If you did date him you might hurt your friend, honestly I don't think its worth it, if it were, you would definately know.
Plus age or grade doesn't really matter.
~Nokomis~
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ok..well i want to use a tampon but i dont know how to put one in..i tried following the directions in the box but its not working..help? (link)
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Follow the directions, relax and try again. Or try getting a smaller tampon.
~Nokomis~
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anybody know where i can get guitar notes for playing on the song called brain stew by green day ?? like the sheet music for it so i can play it on my guitar (link)
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type in the son you want then tabs, like type in GREEN DAY TABS, and it will take you to them.
~Nokomis~
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Ok im sorry if this is long but here is my problem....I dont think im attractive i think i am over weight...I always think my friends are mad at me and at times i can be a bit immature...I havent had a real boyfriend only stupid 2 week things and i think its time for sumthing real but i dont know what to do..all of my close family lives in Rhode Island so i never get to see them and my parents fight constantly..This is not how a 16 year old deserves to live...i am so stressed and its affecting how i work and my grades in school..Some times i just go driving around to clear my head...half the times i feel myself crying....On some weekends i tell my parents i am going out with friends and i take the car and i sit in parking lots and cry becuase i dont want my parents to think i have no friends and all i do is sit at home...but i truly have no friends...i am caring but i guess thats not good enough for some people...Please i am in desperate need of help...I wanna stop crying myself to sleep and when i tell my parents i am going to hang out with friends i wanna mean it...I rate! Thanks bunches.... (link)
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I'm so sorry, I think tha you are having your problems with your friends because you are so upset about you family situations. Think about it. One other thing, just because you haven't had a serious boyfriend, does not mean that their isn't one to come, it does not mean that you are unattractive, it just means that you haven't found someone worth your time. You do not need to rely on someone else to supply you with happiness. I hope I helped.
~Nokomis~
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ok... i use brown eyeliner... but i don't really have a good way of putting it on... it looks horrible underneath my lids because i don't no how to do it good, any tips? Also... i usually put it on the inside of my eyelid is that ok? and is there a good way to make it last longer and look pretty? thanks a bunch (link)
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When I put it on, it smudges underneath, so I take my finger and push upward, toward my eye,it usually helps. Eyeliner really isn't soposed to be extreemly noticable though, hope I helped.
~Nokomis~
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Ever since I was 13 years old, my cousin has been going out with this girl who has always been the same age as me. Also ever since I've never ever liked her that much. I know my cousin loves this girl and all but I dunno what to do about how I feel about her. Most other family members I have know I don't like her but then I dunno what to do anyway. Any suggestions? I'd like to have more prospectives with this situation.
signed,
Lost (link)
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You should put your feelings aside, just because he loves her doesnt mean you have to.
~Nokomis~
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My boyfriend is really really smart. He's in all honors classes at school. He's a sophomore, but he might as well be a junior because he's in mostly junior classes. He also does a lot of after school stuff like debate and chorus and, well, just about everything. He's soooo busy with school, and when he's at home, he's usually working on something school-related. I feel like I'm a distraction/annoyance to him when I call and try to talk to him online and stuff. It's kind of intimidating, really. But I like this guy sooo much...He's taught me so much. How can I make sure I'm not an annoyance? (link)
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Why not try and study with him, or just *tactfully* tell him that he isn't giving any of his attention to you. What good is a relationship if you don't actually talk or spend time together.
~Nokomis~
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This might be long but I need all the help I can get...heres whats going on...I started going to this school and no one there liked me and no guys liked me or anything and I had no friends and the friends that I did have ended up backstabbing me, and I'm A very nice and careing person and i'll do anything for anyone who needs help with something or just needs someone at all, and right now I really need someone, I see all these girls who are so pertty and I wish I was pretty, these days people dont care about personality or whats in the heart they care about looks and I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make myself look pertty, I wish I had the things that other girls have like the clothes and the looks but I dont have money..heres what I look like...I'm 5'4-5'6 I have long red hair blue eyesand I weigh about 120-125 i'm skinny and everything but I want to look beautiful...does anyone have any ideas on how what I can do to make myself look attractive? I know this all sounds stupid but i'm going to go back to the school I went to and I want people to notice me and guys to like me but I dont know what I can do to make that happen so I am asking yall for help, if anyone can help me with this I will rate really high, thanks!-signed wants to feel wanted (link)
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Wait wait wait. You said people don't care about personality!?! If they are worth it they do! What happens when you are married to someone who only loves the way you look? Whenever one person becomes unattractive, is the relationship over? No, if they are worth it they will care about your personality and charactor not your clothes, shoes, and earrings.
Super models in magazines are not beautiful in real life, their imperfections are air brushed away.
~Nokomis~
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ok it all started one saturday when my moms friend neede a babysitter! I am grounded and i am not allowed to leave the house. But i really neede the money. MY lil sister got offered to babysit the next Saturday. She is only 10 and i am 15. I was soooo mad at her 4 doin that to me. She made a face at me like she was proud that i didn't get to babysit. Should i hate her and ignore her? I needed the money to raise for a car. I have always wanted a car. should i try and be as rude as possible or just get over it. Since my sister gets $50.00 for 5 hours! Please help me! (link)
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Forgive her, don't hold a grudge, it's a waste of emotion, tell her that it made you mad and she will have many more opportunities to babysit, then be done with it, you'll feel better.
~Nokomis~
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my dad just got called up to iraq again and me and him havent been very close lately. i know it's gonna be hard with out him around but i feel like i need to spend more time with him now so i can have some good times to remember with him. We just don't connect. Please Help me... (link)
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Try to break the ice. Ask him a question he will be able to elaborate on. Before he leaves make sure you tell him you love him.
~Nokomis~
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If I take my cartilidge piercings out for like 30 minutes every weekday for gym class, do you think it'll close? I've had one of them since June '04, and the other since August'04 =) thanks. (link)
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I have had mine for 4 months, I don't think they'll close but why must you take them out if it ify?
~Nokomis~
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my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him? (link)
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He may like you, or he could be thinking of you as a sister. I wouldn't say anything to him just yet, I'd wait for more signs.
~Nokomis~
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