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ok, so...
i was on my AIM like a couple of days ago, and some message popped up saying that there was some problem and my buddies aren't on. and i was just thinking oh it's nothing, it'll go away. and it hasen't. i dont know what to do.
i mean i have a linked screen name and it has all my buddies online on that one, but on my other on, it says they're all signed off.
how do i fix it?
please help!!

I would check for new updates if you do not have the new AIM. If not, try deleting AIM completely and then re downloading it.

i want really big curls. like a lot of them & then like a poof in the middle. can anyone send me links of this? or any other ideas. thanks (:

http://i103.photobucket.com/albums/m132/MsWisS198/curls.jpg

http://www.rashonista.com/images/kimora4_L.jpg (I would do less poof on this one)

http://www.weddingbee.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/z10708602.jpg
http://www.weddingbee.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/z106941.jpg (I think this needs more curls. But great poof)

http://i209.photobucket.com/albums/bb141/Saphireyes62/Miley%20Cyrus/1miley6.jpg

I think this is the best:]
http://www.ashleytisdale.com/images_pub/pat743.jpg

GOOD LUCK!

why is it that all the brunette jokes are about our boobs?
just because ours arent FAKE doesnt mean we dont have them.
what do you think?

It's just a silly joke. It actually doesn't mean anything. Like "Blondes have more fun but at least Brunettes remember the next day" It has nothing to do with anything. I've known very smart blondes and I've met very dumb Brunettes. It's just something to get you mad. It's like a cat fight Me-Ow. [lol]

ive read many teen series and I'm looking for more.
here's a list of the ones ive read as reference

Gossip girl
the alist
the clique
private
the it girl
pretty little liars
The insiders
inside girl
ttyl, ttfn, l8r g8r
mates, dates
summer boys

I think that's all. Any suggestions?

I think these links give all the answers away;
http://www.teenreads.com/
http://www.teenreads.com/series/index.asp
Good Luck:]

Hi, I saw that you answered a question about a slideshow so I was wondering if you could help me out. I made a slide show on it and added the music, picutres, effects and everything and I love it. It's only 2 minutes and 30 sec. Anyways, the problem is I can't upload it ANYWHERE! I tried Facebook, Tinypic, Photobucket and even Youtube but it says it has to be a certain file or something and I don't know how to fix it. The only way it lets me save it if I go to file and Save project. Can you please help me out. I really want my friends to see it because it is about memories and stuff.

You're my last hope. Thank you soo much!!

EDIT; The save to computer link is on the side where it says import pictures. In big letters it should say "3. Finish Movie" Under there, save to computer will be there.

Oh. Well, I only know one way, and that is for youtube. After making your slideshow[on Windows Movie Maker] click "save to computer" and follow all directions. As soon as you are done, find the video and you can upload it on youtube.
Good Luck:]

I am making a slideshow of pictures of my friend for her and i need to know how to like add music to one and like make it cool like this one...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Og42GN4WuLI

thankss in advanced, all suggestions are aprecitated :)

-Maeve :]

Alright, I'm taking a guess but I'm assuming you use Windows Movie Maker. To make a slideshow like the Hannah Montana one, first put all your pictures in one folder. Then open Windows Movie Maker. Click import pictures and find your pictures. [You can add music too by clicking import audio and music and drag the music to audio/music] After doing that select a picture you want to go first. and drag it down to where it says video. After putting all the pictures you want on the slideshow, you can officially add animation. To do so, click on view video transition. Click to the one you want and directly put it on the picture you want it to be on. You can also add effects such by clicking on view video effects. Add effects the same way you would add video transition.
This link may also help you:
http://www.jakeludington.com/project_studio/20040229_windows_movie_maker_photo_slideshow_tutorial.html

ok well i have braces and i havnt kissed a guy yet but i really want to im just scared to because of the braces and its going to be different or those stupid stories about them...is there really any difference???

Nope. I had an ex who had braces and we would make out and nothing happened. One time I did accidentally scraped my tounge on his braces. It hurt but nothing serious. Just be careful. You don't want a scrapped tounge. hehe.

Did Zac Efron lip synce in the first High School Musical? Some people have said that he did but Im not sure. I know everyone lip syncs in the movie because of the dancing and all, but they had previously recorded the songs. I have heard the Andrew Seeley sings Zac's songs. Does anyone know what really happened? Id really like to see some websites about it too if it helps. Thanks!

It is true that Andrew Seeley did sing for Zac Efron in the first movie.
http://www.ashleytisdale.com/projects/high_school_musical/hsmn.asp
It will say TROY (voice)

http://www.drewseeley.net
http://www.myspace.com/drewseeley
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Seeley
This proves Drew Seeley sang in High School Musical. At first he did not get any credit for it.

The directors on the HSM dvd said they blended in Drew's and Zac's voices together. True or False, according to them, True.

BUT!

Zac really did sing in HSM2
http://www.ashleytisdale.com/projects/High_school_musical_2/hsmn2.asp
Over there, it does not say Andrew Seeley because he did not sing for Zac.

The only reason Zac wasn't in the HSM Concert tour was because he didn't sing in the 1st movie.

I think I might have a concussion.

It happened last night, I was playing tetris all day on the computer, then I stood up suddenly, got very dizzy, blacked out, heard moaning/breathing, then I opened my eyes and the first few seconds I couldn't understand what happened. Then I felt a huge pain on my head. I got really scared, but my mom was there and she comforted me, but I was still pretty upset and was crying for the next ten or so minutes. My mom said that I got a head rush, blacked out, fell, and bumped my head on the door. I had a pretty big lump on my head, but I iced it a little, and its gone down, although it still hurts to the touch.

When I calmed down, I felt more or less normal. I went to bed, and fell asleep almost immediately, at around 11pm. Or 10, I don't really remember, I'm not sure if I looked at the clock or not. I woke up at around ten, but I still felt very tired and still wanted to go back to sleep. I woke up a few times during the night because I kept on sleeping on my lump which really hurt.

I felt really weird throughout the day. I really want to fall back asleep again, although I'm not necessarily tired or sleepy. I haven't yawned once, for instance. My eyelids feel kind of heavy, but my vision isn't blurry. The part of my brain where I bumped my head feels a little numb and wierd, and I'll get some pain in other parts of my head. Sometimes my eyes hurt, too. None of this is extreme. I walk just fine, but carefully because I feel a little dizzy. I would not feel safe driving a car for instance. I don't think my ability to think is very good right now. I just feel like blah right now in my head area.

Do I need to see a doctor? Or should I wait a while to see if I get better. I don't think I have any memory loss, except I don't remember how I fell and I have no idea how long I was blacked out for. My mom was there, and she didn't seem too concerned, so I'm guessing I wasn't blacked out for too long, probably as I fell, and maybe a little after I hit my head. I don't feel comfortable to take a shower, either, but I could be paranoid.

It is the right side of my brain.

Please tell me what I should do. Are there any reflexes I could test by myself to see if I had any brain damage?

Thank you, and I'm sorry if this didn't make sense, I'm having trouble thinking straight.

As the other columnist said, GO SEE A DOCTOR hun. If this is a concussion, it can cause fatal problems.
Signs of concussions are;
*feeling overly tired
*feeling dazed/lightheaded/dizzy
*having trouble memorizing simple things
*gagging or vomiting
*slurred talking
*headaches
*blurry vision or sensitivity to light
*unable to concentrate, think or physically do something such as throw up and catch a balloon
*feeling excited or irritable for no particular reason

ALSO;

Immediate signs and symptoms of a concussion may include:

* Confusion
* Amnesia
* Headache
* Loss of consciousness
* Ringing in the ears (tinnitus)
* Drowsiness
* Nausea
* Vomiting
* Unequal pupil size
* Convulsions
* Unusual eye movements
* Slurred speech

Delayed signs and symptoms may include:

* Irritability
* Headaches
* Depression
* Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or difficulty waking
* Fatigue
* Poor concentration
* Trouble with memory
* Getting lost or becoming easily confused
* Increased sensitivity to sounds, lights and distractions
* Loss of sense of taste or smell
* Difficulty with gait or in coordinating use of limbs

work cited; http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/DS/00320.html
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/safety/first_aid/concussions.html
http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/c/concussion/signs.htm

ok so im a tom boy and i say im pretty freakin awsome im 15 and im girl you might of figured that cause you would hope that a boy acted like a boy any way the freakin stupid kids at school are always saying stuff like you should wear make up you are lesbian and shit and stuff i get in fist fights all the time i dont care my theme song is bad reputation one day i got backed up into a wall because of this group of "popular" girls and they were like why are you a tom boy you should act like a girl why dont you wear make up and one girl got out a bag of make up and she was like i put some blush and lip stick and shit on you and you will look great and i punched her and ran and then one time i was invited to a sleep over and a bunch of girls were there and they all were tryin to get me to look nice and shit and i hit a girl and her brother came in a gave me a black eye and one day 2 boys followd me home and when i got to my yard they beet me up and i cralwed through the door coverd in blood and my parents had to call the police i am so tierd of people doing stuff to me and calling me lesbian and making me fuckin mad I AM SO FUCKIN TIERD OF IT HELP ME PLEASE

Okay first of all, contact the school and tell them what has been going on. Explain to those individuals that you have no right to be treated like that and you should not have to change to fit in. Sue those boys that beat you up and maybe they will learn a lesson. No one deserves to be treated like that.

Another thing I would advise you to do is to remember that you shouldn't get into fights because those people can sue you. I am sure those people deserve that but I think you should just walk away and forget the fact that they even said anything.

If you cannot control your anger I suggest seeing a counselor. Not to change the fact that you are a tom boy but to get rid of your stress and let go of the past. Anger can control you and it can lead to a bad past and a worst future. Who knows it could be *jail *emotional suffering *job lost and much more.

I've seen so many people do something fatal because of bullying or teasing. I just wanted to say that you should never change for someone because, its just not worth it. You are your own self. They cannot control that. You are you. They are robots. They don't deserve your tears. Save them for when you want to HAPPY cry.

how do u do the graph work in hookes law. ths is an sba. my teaher doesnt realy explain anything to us. i cant afford to fail my first SBA. i need all the help i can get.

I am not sure how to graph work in hooke's law but maybe this will help you
http://physics.nku.edu/GeneralLab/211%20Hooke's%20Law.html
or this
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=graph+work+in+hooke%27s+law&spell=1

Good Luck!

I need to d/l some stuff and not really sure what's up. I use Mozilla Firefox (not Internet Explorer) and I'm on DialUp.. yeah, not so lucky. When I go to d/l something it says it's downloaded it and nothing happens.. or nothing happens at all. What should I do?

It may be that you don't know where you have downloaded it. Go to Tools and click options. Click on the top tab that says Main. After startup, it should say show the downloads window when downloading a file. Click it so there is a check mark. Then it will say Save files to ____. I always put desktop just because it is more convenient. When you [lets say] download [save as] a picture on google. Right click and click save as to desktop. Then this window will pop up and it will say open and remove. Click open. Do the same for all your downloads. Remember to once in a while clean up [press clean up].

The only other thing I can think of is search it and maybe it will appear. You might also want to check your options [tools, click options] to see if there is something odd there.

Good Luck!

I just got a new HP laptop and things are a little different. I plugged my iPod in and I'm trying to transfer all of my songs without deleting them and all. When I go to My Computer, I can't find the bar that says tools or anything and I don't know a different way of how to transfer all of my songs. Can anyone please help me out? Thank you so much!

Go onto your computer [plug in you iPod] and when iTunes pops up click on [whatever you named your iPod. Click on music. Then click sync music. Click apply changes and you should have them on your HP laptop. Good Luck!

Ok well i go to a catholic school and on next friday before the christmas break, we're having this dinner at school that you pay $4 to and it's all day.

And you don't dress down, you dress UP! That means, no jeans allowed!

The teacher says that the girls could wear a skirt...

I don't wear anyhting else BUT jeans though and I do not like wearing skirts,especially in the winter.

Can anyone suggest what else I could wear for the top and bottom? *dressing up

I'm girly but I focuss on what's more appropreate for the season because I don't care but I am NOT wearing a skirt!

Well some fancy pants from Urban Behavior are on sale in the best seller aisle. Macy's has some cute fancy pants. A nice holiday sweater would look absolutley adorable. Another possibility is to wear black dress up pants with a white button down shirt with a red [or different color] tank top inside. Matching with a long chocker that is overlapped would look so cute.
Mix and match and have fun:]

theres one teacher who yells at kids for fun. when i stood up to him with out being rude because he yelled at me and my friends for no reason (seriously) he said he would send me to the principals office. and he is a bad teacher. how can i avoid this guy even though hes my teacher?

3 Solutions the way I see it.

Kill him with kindness. Be nice to him and act as if he is a regular teacher. People HATE that:P

OR

Tell your principal and carry some form of evidence e.g. a video camera, recorder, ect.

OR

Transfer to a different school or different wing. If your school is like mine, you are divided into [# of wings]. Ask your guidance counselor to change you.

im 16 and a junior in high school. i have this friend and she keeps sayin shes bi-sexual...but i think its just to get attention. she did the same thing last year then we everyone asked her if it was true she said no. now shes sayin shes bi again and i asked her if she cud she herself havin sex with another gurl and she didnt know wut to say. obviosuly if your bi then you can see your self with the opposite sex doin things that more then friends do. idk wut to do about all this. it just pisses me off becuz i think shes doin it for attention.

Okay, if you are her friend, you shouldn't get pissed off because she wants attention. She could have been bi-curious at the time[last year] then changed her mind the next.

There are two "solutions"

Talk to her and explain to her that you feel as if it is an act.

I think, you have no right to question her sexuality but if you two are completely honest, go for it.

You are not in her shoes hun so do onto others as you would want done to you and let her sexuality remain hers.

She could still be bi-curious and might not be sure. Maybe she was afraid to tell you that she fantasies about girls.

is there any motivation songs that i could listen to while im running? in gym we always have to do big runs and i want to listen to some music that will keep me going along the way.
Thanks:)

I'm guessing your asking for fast--upbeat songs. If so these links might help you out;
http://www.experienceproject.com/music_search.php?q=upbeat
http://www.mystrands.com/tag/upbeat/tracks
http://www.bikeforums.net/archive/index.php/t-75721.html
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t69152/
Good Luck:]

can anyone give me ideas on some yoga or anything that can calm my nerves? i dont have time to go to a gym or class so i just need some simple excercises that i can do before i go to bed or something that will calm me down (i dont fall asleep fast) and also something that will keep me awake during school..something that will teach me flexibility to.
Thanks in advance:)

What I do every night before going to bed is take out my yoga ball and lay belly up back down [till your head is on the floor] and relax my body and breathe in and out. This helps me stretch my back and gives me a sense of flexibility. Another thing I do is lay belly down back up on the yoga ball and lift my belly up so my body curves. If you bounce, you may loose focus but you work on balance. Have fun and good luck:]

me and my girlfriend were doing stuff and she gave me a blow job and swallowed most of it but there was some left on the tip of my penis so when i put it back in my pants could it have got on my hand and when i fingered her got her pregnant.

btw there was like a 2 to 3 minutes inbetween me putting it in my pants and then me fingering her

That is like a one in a million chance but to be on the safe side, I would have your girlfriend take a pregnancy test. Studies do show even the smallest amount of it can cause pregnancies. Be careful and be safe:]

im 15 and this is embarrassing well ive got a really small penis im really worried what can i do whats normal size for my age?

Hey. Don't worry. Boys start puberty at different ages. Therefore, the size is always different. The average size is not average for 90% of people. You are probobly part of that 90%. Size shouldn't be a problem with your partner.

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