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Hey! My name is Kathleen. I am overrall a spontanious person. I love to talk, an all my life my friends and family come up to me an ask random things about how they can make there life better. So I feel that it is only right for me to help others to. Only if you all choose to except me. I am willing to talk about anything. I mean it, I am honest. I wont tell you a lie, I feel as you should all know the truth. I hope everyone decides to welcome me in. Thanks!
E-mail: neelhtak_1989@hotmail.com
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OK so I have this power of flirting with guys I like and then getting them to like me back. Well I really like this one guy and he really likes me back. The thing is, he's wayy too sweet. I'm all about having fun being hyper and going wild. He's all about romantic stuff and taking me out to dinner ALONE. I guess I'm just not ready for that yet and plus we aren't even going out! I wish he was more hyper and wild and well sexy. Can I make him that way? Or should I just brek it off? He really wants to see me this weekend and I don't know what to do with him... any suggestions? (suggestions for just me and him dates and for me him his freinds and my friends dates) (link)
Well you could always ask about doing more fun things with friends and doing something you like to do to try and see what he is like hyper.


Today I got my period and thank god I didn't go to school. It came down jus like that and I was feeling relly rellly great! Then 2dai I went to gym and when I started working out I felt like something in my stomach was boiling. IT hurts alot alot allllot!!!! Isn't the gym supposed to ease the pain of the periods?''PS...I'm not preggy or ne thing (link)
Yes, but doing sit ups will ease the cramps.


Alright, I think this may have recently been asked, and I'm sorry if it was, but I need help.
I have the hardest time calling people, I only call people if it's an absolute emergency. Like, I can't even call my boyfriend, or best friend.
I hate it, I always want to call them, but I just can't do it. I don't know why. It's actually really affecting my relationship with my boyfriend, he's threatened to break up because I have probably only called him 2 times since I've know him (which is about a year or so). Can anyone help me get over this? (link)
Just try using the phone more often or just have them call you.


okay so i have a boyfriend named aj and me and him havent been together that long, almost a month. the third time i met him i stayed the night at his house, and dumped my ex of 5months for him, and he was such an awesome guy at first and then things went down hill. im grounded for a month but i have the computer and phone back, and he's grounded for a month, no phone or computer, and he lives like an hour away so i only meet him every once in a while. is this relationship worth it? and if it is, how can i make it work? also im a big flirt. Just cant help it. (link)
Ask yourself do you love him?
Can you make the sacrifice of not being a flir? An if the answer is yes that yes it should be worth it.


i really like this one kid. we started talking online and he asked me to hang out once. he's a little bit older and has a girlfriend. he used to walk by me and smile and he always wanted me to say hi to him. but lately he just passes by with out looking at me and we dont talk online anymore.i dont want to stop talking to him cause he's really cool and we get along. but when i want to talk to him i dont know what to talk about. we have already talked about music, school, friends, favorite things..any suggestions on what i can talk to him about that way we dont stop talking for any longer.


k thanks =) (link)
Talking about your hobbies, or ask him about his.


what is the best way to get rid of puffy eyes fast? (the kind you get from crying all night and the next morning your eyes look like balloons) i need help, fast!! (link)
A cold cloth over you eyes, usually fixes that.


hi people

well in the last couple of weeks i've been really unhappy! im a new kid in this school i really hate and i've been there for 1/2 years and i still have no friends even though i trie!! and i totally messed up with a guy i really like cause i've been kinda mean without thinking :-) and i have the feeling everybody hates me and im bad in school i got and f for physiks and math and my parents always jell at me AAHH and i think im really really fat and ugly! my mom always sais im not but she's just saying that cause she's my mom! so does any of you have any suggestions how i can become happy again? pleeaassee i'll rate 5 for good advice! (link)
Try talking about your feeligns more, an believe your parents. Because what reason do they have to lie to you?


I've wanted to be a singer my WHOLE life. I know I can sing good because all my life I've been getting solos in chorus and everyone I know says I'm good. I can hit a bunch of notes and I can control my voice and everything.. but a few years ago I had a bad experience on stage... and ever since ive had major stage fear.

I dont even wanna TALK about what happened to me... but it was horrible and ever since I havent been able to get on stage by myself.. All of a sudden I'm constantly worrying that my voice is horrible and people are going to make fun of me.

I'm starting to get better but I want a record contract, and I think with what I'm doing now I can get a chance at one. Im just to afraid to sing by myself in front of anyone other than my closest friends... and I know record companyss wont take me for that.

Does anyone know how I can get over my stage fright... please its important!! (link)
All you can do is practice an keep telling yourself, that that was then this is now. I know I am good. I can do this! An if you beleive that, then you can do anything.


I want to give this guy I like the "go-ahead" to ask me out if he really likes me, but I'd rather not just flat out say, "I like you as more than a friend." I've done that before, twice, and both times it ended badly and I was embarrassed. But, on the other hand, dropping subtle hints doesn't always do the trick with guys. What would be a sure-fire way to let a guy know that you like him without being blunt? (link)
Play flirt a little, show that you have interest and that rest might fall into place.


Could someone give me a website or a store that has brown converse slip-ons in kid sizes. I have small feet:] (link)
PayLess?


ok well i love music but i only have like 600 songs on my ipod and i wanna download some more but i dont really know what to get. I like bands like fall out boy, panic at the disco, nickleback, alkaline trio. I dont really like rap, r&b and that stuff.

any suggestions??(spelling?) (link)
Green Day, Good Charlotte, Simple Plan, Bowling For Soup, Creed, (AFI) A Fire Inside, The Used, Dashbored Confessionals, My Chemical Romance. LOL That's a start. :-D


what is going on if a girl looses white stuff down there????? (link)
It may be a yeast infection, but you should ask your doctor.


I am 40/f and own my own home. Because he's just never got his act together I've had my brother and fiancee living with me since june 2005. They are paying rent, but i really want my space back! I've lived alone for almost 12 years (after being widowed at 29). They are getting married tomorrow.... how can i gracefully ask when they will be moving on? I've kinda put my mom up to saying... so, are you two planning on buying a house or what? but she's been ill and hasn't had the opportunity. Appreciate your advice! (link)
You should just tell them the basics they are married now and should have there own home and privacy as you should yours.


one of my friends chinchilla's is poorly, hes a male adult, but were not to sure of the age anywhere between 5 and 10 years.
Hes been lying down all day and hasnt eaten much, she tried a him with a raisin (for energy) but he didnt touch it and she tried him with water, he had a bit of that. Hes really weak and cant move about AT all. she put him back in his cage not long ago and his son jumped on him so she took him back out. my friends mum won't let her take him to the vets.

we know the life expectancy is 10-15 years but we dont want to think the worst of it because it might be something else.. what could it be? any advice??

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He may have some kind of flu or stomach ache. Mine does that often to.


Hey, i just ordered an iPod mini off of Ebay, but i only have windows 98 on my working computer. So theres no way i can acess iTunes through my computer, but I do have another computer that has Windows 2000, which is can acess iTunes. But the problem is i have a virus on it, my dad said he would take it to be fixed but i want to try to restore it first. Can someone please summarize how to restore my computer? (link)
There are usually disks that come with they computer to do that. It takes it like back in time.


OK so im only 14/f and im pretty skinny. I have stretch marks on my inner thighs. Nobody my age that i know has these.. is this even normal? and summer is coming up soon and its like oh there goes wearing a bikini, because its embarrasing. Is there anything cheap that i can get at a local store that will get these away. Its like when you have a baby its that bad but on my thighs. Its really embarrasing so i always wear shorts. Is there ANYTHING that will help??? Please i'll rate 5's!!! (link)
I have them to, co-co butter works really well. Good luck


ITS LONG BUT PLEASE READ!
i'm a 15 yr old girl

this JUST happen.. i came home and EVERYTHING.. and i mean EVERYTHING in my room was completely rearranged, reorganized, stuffed in random places, moved across the room, just everything was completely wrong in my room. We just had new housekeepers come for their first day and all i could do was cry at the sight of my room. I really did.. i just cried, it's already late enough and it was going to take me so long to fix my room and put it back to normal. My mom apparently LOVES the new maids ??? i told her to come upstairs and i showed her how everything was wrong. all she said was "they just wanted to make it look clean" LAKDJFKSJ... there are no words for me to describe how upset i am.. am i over reacting??

the only reason i feel so upset is because my room is MY place.. it's the only place i EVER feel comfortable, i don't even like when my family walks in my room, it's just MINE and it wasn't even messy in the first place its just like the housekeepers had the sudden urge to throw random stuff into empty shoe boxes and put them under my bed ...??? so i've spent the past HOUR re-doing my room... i'm not even kidding, i told my mom that i don't want them to clean my room and that i will do it from now on and apparently she won't let me do that because she doesn't think i'll actually clean up...how do i show her that i don't need a maid? and am i over reacting?? (link)
You are over reacting just a little, yes it is your stuff. But they were just doing there job.


Does anyone know where you can go to get your picz taken. but with like the background of like the playboy bunny and just like cute stuff like that? (link)
Google it, lol


Me and my friend are going to have a party just for random reasons but we want to rent a place to have it. The place doesnt have to be big just not sooo small. How much money do you think renting a place should be and can u give me some ideas of how to get that money. When you rent a place can you pick your hours or do they pick it for you? I need to get food also please some ideas on what to buy for food and how much all that is. Decorations i need a bunch of lights and all so that is probaly how much money? (link)
I think you can pick the hours but it might be a little bit costly


I have to do an activity in the preschool class i teach in a few weeks but i cant find a draw n tell story anywhere online(thats what i have to do)

ive tried searching it on google and yahoo and nothing comes up

im doing the book franklin says i love you and i need either i short story (only 2 or 3 mins to read) or a draw n tell story to do and it has to be from the internet somehwere


anyone know where i can find one?!?! (link)
I think there is stuff like that at pbskids.org




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