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Can anybody give me some things or ideas for my profile... it is pretty blah right now and I need to spice it up... I will rate you!!
Your favorite song lyrics. Shout outs. Quotes about a boyfriend or friends.
In my profile I have some stuff to my boyfriend, then to my best friend, and then I have Ashlee Simpson is my rolemodel cause I love her!! *giggles* Anyways, be creative and yourself, it is YOUR profile!!
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ok my boyfriend nelly thinks im mad at him because he called my bestfriend and talked about hot girls. i guess im not mad at him and im trying to explain to him that im not and hes all like uhhh yeah u r and im like omg im not mad at you mg cant u just believe me??? and im realy depressed like an old woman eatin icecream and cake. please help me!! what should i do!??!!??
I'm surprised you arent mad at him, he defintily doesnt need to call other girls and talk about hot ones!! Thats like against the code of dating! hAhA! Anyways, if youre truly not mad at him, be very serious and say baby I'm not mad at you, I promise. You shouldnt be depressed because he thinks youre mad and you arent!! If he keeps acting like that, then dump him! Hes not worth all the trouble!! Good luck hun!!
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ive liked this guy for a while now but im not sure if he likes me . weve talked a few times but he never realy expressed or showed any emotions. i dont want to just qive up on him and move on . . please help
The BEST way to find out if he feels the same is to tell him exactly what you feel for him. I know that sounds really hard but its a risk you should take for him. You never know what might happen! Dont give up on him just yet, you really need to find out what hes feeling!! Good luck hun!
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I'm miserable.See over spring break i met this kid lets say his name is Jake..and over the past 4 months we've been talking every day.I most likely wont be able to see him again until next summer.The real problem is i like everything about Jake* and he likes me too..we're like perfect together.But he's at camp right now so i haven't been able to talk to him and i miss him like crazy.ne ideas on how to pass the time..n also could u help me try n get over him..ive tried but no guy ever compares.please help asap.
admin. plz don't delete. ;-(..
thankz guys.
So you really like *Jake* but you want to get over him because you wont see him until next summer. I'm guessing by the time school starts and your packed with homework and hanging with friends, you'll completely forget about him. Right now the best thing to do is hang out with your friends and other guys. Dont think about him as much and when he comes home from camp, gradually talk to him less and less. I hope you can find someone new! Good luck hun!!
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hey.. i just need some advice on sex.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now but im not sure when we'll be ready to u know.. do it.. can u please help and just tell me when u think the right time would be? by the way, your VERY pretty i love you smile.. im sure you get that a lot hahaha.. yeah well i'll let you go plz respond!!
xoxo-
shelly
I'm not exactly sure who your question was asked to but maybe you should try sending it just to her! But I can help you with your question...
You and your boyfriend definitly need to talk about having sex and you really need to know that both of yall are ready! You know you arent ready if you have any doubts about doing it, if you dont have a place to do it alone, and if you dont have any condoms. This decesion is a HUGE one and you really need to trust your boyfriend before committing to him like this. Remember, be safe and just have fun! Good luck hun!! If you have any questions, you can always send them to my inbox or talk to me on AIM!!
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i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
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I would DEFINITLY just try and call the number!! If it isnt him, then at least you know you tried and if it is, then you get the chance to talk and maybe hang out!! Its just a phone number.. nothing too harmful! Good luck hun!!
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how can i help my best friend through a really tough breakup?
When I was going through a hard break up, my best friend brought me ice cream and tons of movies. It was our girl time and we never talked about my boyfriend. *We got back together thankfully* But, she was here for me and whenever I talked about him she listened and when I would cry, she would hug me and just let me cry! She was an awesome friend and I've never felt like I've trusted her more!! Good luck with your friend!!
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ok, i think im cute and attractive, ((brunette w/ hazel eyes here)) and guys like me i thought...but it ive only gotten asked out by a guy ive known since like 2nd grade ((and im in 7th)) i just dont no y guys dont ever say nothin...please help...guys preferably but girls ok
...katie...
I know you would rather have guys answer this question but I have some really good experience in this area. All during junior high, I was decent looking and very flirtacious but I NEVER had a boyfriend. I tried so hard to impress every guy I knew and nothing worked. My freshman year of high school, I just acted like myself and stopped caring about what people thought and that was when I met the love of my life and have been dating for almost 9 months. Not having a boyfriend all during your junior high years is well worth the wait for what you get in high school!! I had about 4 boyfriends in 9th grade and then met *AlEx* It was well worth it!
*Some tips: If you like a guy, tell him and thats a way to get him to say something about you. Be flirtacious and always look cute ;) hehe!
GoOd LuCk SwEeTs!!
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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?
The precentage of not getting pregnant with a condom is like 99.99% but if it breaks during sex, then thats when you can get pregnant. I think anyone sexually active should take birth control and wear condoms, you can never be too safe. Good luck and be safe!!
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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...
Bush?
or
Kerry?
moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!!
Bush! We're from Texas yall!
Okay I don't really know what it is...but I have a discharge in my vagina sometimes...is that what it is? and if so is it bad? and how do I get it to go away?
Discharge is completely normal!! It is only a yeast infection is it itches or burns and your discharge is more chunky and smelly. If your discharge now is milky, than you are definitly just growing up! Good luck!!
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What are some things you can do while kissing someone...like to spice things up?
Most people gave you advice if you are on a very intimate level and maybe you arent. Some romantic spicy things are rubbing up against them with your body or use your hands and rub his thigs and arms. If yall are kissing standing up, just up on him and put your legs around his waist. Start kissing his neck and back up to his mouth. Just have fun! Good luck!!
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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?
When you straighten your hair, when its wet apply Biosilk Silk Therapy (just a dab) and then blow dry your hair as straight as you can. Then go over the frizz with a ceramic straightener *The best ever is the CHI!!* Then put the same Biosilk in your hand (just a dime size again) and take a big powder brush (you use to apply blush) and dab it in the frizz serum and and apply to hair. Dont put too much on at a time or your hair will look greasy. If your hair is greasy, ass baby powder to your roots to make it look better. Good luck with you hair!!
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I went out with this guy for a month n 3 weeks I was happi but this is what happened we went out beofre but I dumped him to go out w some other guy which I didnt n abotu a month later my ex got a new gf n it did make me upset bc I did still like him so later his gf dumped him bc she kissed his friend then two days later he asked me out again n I said yes but this one day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" that is n he told me that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride but the thing was when my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes liek are you a virgan n I said yes n then I asked him n hes like no I just did it w one girl n I was like okai n was about to talk about some other stuff until he started talking about the girl he fucked n told me her name n all, wat bf tells his gf wat the girl who he fucked name was? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf went to her house w his 2 friends n my friends friend was their (kati) n my bf was saying " i love you kati dont leave me kati bc I love you" then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too then n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which is soo not true then hes like "I dont give a fuck if you beleive me or not beleive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it thank you...
Now I'm not expert but from my point of view it really seems like he might be cheating or flirting alot with other girls. You really need to talk to your boyfriend about it because thats the only way to know. Tell him, if you really love me, you'll be honest if youre cheating on me. Boys are so ridiculous, hes definitly not worth going through the trouble of keeping him around! I dont like the sound of this kid already and I dont even know his name! LmAo! Anyways, talk to him and if he is cheating or your suspectful, I would dump his butt. Good luck sweets!!
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hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help?
I doubt that your ex-girlfriend would be "just nice" to you unless you have been friends since the break up. If yall havent talked very much since then, I would think shes flirting! If you think you might want to hook up with her, invite her to the movies with a bunch of friends and get to talk to her and hang out with her some more! Good luck with your girl!
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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!
I'm pretty sure its not damaging to your eyelases! Plus, your eyelashes grow back... I would give it the okay to use an eyelash curler everyday! Good luck with those lashes!
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Hey you guys, can you hel;p me? I'm looking for a good website with cute girly clothes that don't cost a lot, almost like a cheap delias.....do you guys have any favoirite websites?
Forever 21!! They have VERY VERY cute clothes and are veryyy cheap compared to most places!!! I love it! They have jewlery, clothes, thongs, purses.. The Forever 21 near me is two stories high!! The website is www.forever21.com! Good luck!!
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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!!
I think you definitly need to go with what ShOrTnSwEeT42094 said... Everyone is telling you to pop it and I say DONT! Popping zits can leave nasty scars on your face and it really irritates your skin! Good luck hun!!
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last month i went to my boyfriend's house to watch a movie for the very first time,. so when his sisters and brothers went to bed ,. we were on the couch laying together alone. we though his parents went to bed so we started making out* haha we were really into and we didnt even notice his mom come up behind us and turn on a light!! i was so embrassed. i mean i just met her and i already have a bad impression. he asked where hes sons hands were,. haha - i bet that was embrassing for him.. =/ but yea,. and everytime i ask him " where should we get together" hes always like,. um.. how bout u go to (joe's) or one of his friends house that he myte be going that weekend. s0o,. idk becuz i think his mom or dad would ever let me go to his house again,. she was upset n mad after i left as he told me.. what should i do? i mean i dont want to get a bad impression in front of his friends mom! or anywhere else,. i mean i always have to invite him to my house and we have nothing to do here,.=/
please help x0x i'll rate!
The best and most considerate thing to do is apologize to his mom for doing inappropriate things in her home. The best place to makeout without getting "caught" by someones parents is go to the movies!! Go see a movie you've already seen (so you dont miss anything) and a movie that has been out for a really long time, that way no one is there and you can have some privacy! Good luck with your boyfriend!
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Alright my boyfriend and i went to see a movie at the theaters before he left for flordia. the movies was packed!! and i wanted to sit in the beakc but there was no more seats,. during the movie i could tell he wanted to make out with me because he kept looking and getting closer to me,.. Its really ahrd to turn side ways on these movie seats!! So yea we Finally did make out,. dude we were in teh middle of the theater,. and i really didnt wanna do it,. but yea,. Omg it was soo embrassing becuz when we were done all these hot guys in the eback screamed get a room and stuff,.. o geez i dont kno how to tell my guy taht i ahte doing that in public but really tahts the only time we have to do it becuz we never go over to each houses,. cuz our mom sdont "approve" lol. he did it everywhere with me ,.. PARTIES.. the BAND dance and ME getting in trouble! ,. and he told my friend he wanted to take the next step with me..besides we have eben going out 2 years and all we did was make out~ =/ oo what should i do?
WOW! 2 years is a veryy long time and especially when all you do is makeout!! First things first, tell your boyfriend that you are uncomfortable making out in front of lots of other people, he should understand, it is quite embarassing. Instead of going to new movies, go to ones you've already seen that have been out for weeks or even a month because hardly anyone will be there. That way you get your privacy. Also get there super early, so you can get the very top corner! Thats what my boyfriend and I do!
I think you and your boyfriend need to talk about taking it to the next step in yalls relationship, he doesnt need to tell other people at all! Its only your business!! I agree with your boyfriend though, you need to move up unless you are uncomfortable or too young! Good luck hun!!
If you have any more questions, send one to my inbox!!! =)
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