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how long should you let your curling iron stay on before you use it? like 10 minutes b4 using it?


also what brand do you use?

I have a chi and it heats very quickly but i have thick hair so i usually put it on before i get into the shower and then blow dry my hair, and then use it and it works very good :]

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Do you think it is okay for your first kiss to be with a random stranger ? wether your at a party or maybe a gathering. I want my first kiss but im debating on wether i want it with a random hott guy so theres no strings attached or someone I know and like. But would a stranger be not a good thing?

I agree 100% with the other person below. Your first kiss should be special. You dont want to remember you first kiss being somebody you dont know, or didnt have any kind of feelings more, and most importantly somebody you didnt even know. :]


Good luck

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is there somewhere online where i can watch the latest episodes of the new i repeat new episodes of 90210

Heres a couple sites :]

http://www.watch-90210.com/

http://www.watch90210.info/

http://www.cbs.com/classics/beverly_hills_90210/

GOOD LUCK

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Just wondering, but can you breast feed with implants?

Here are some sites to help yah out!


http://ask.yahoo.com/20061201.html

http://parenting.ivillage.com/newborn/nbreastfeed/0,,3x15,00.html

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_you_breastfeed_with_breast_implants

GOOD LUCK

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(f/17-18)

Well lately, me and my bf haven't been having sex for a week now because i will be going to the doctor soon to get the pill, anyway lately i've had alot of gas, and i dont know why i haven't drank pop in about 1 -2 weeks could it be that still passing throught my system?

Its just the pressure and air being moved around in your body that causes the gas. It's normal. It happens from time to time with me as with most women. Hope I helped!!

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15/f

I'm really, really worried.

I know I'm only 15, but a few weeks ago I noticed that my left breast was persistently hurting and aching, and that the area around the outside of my breast and my armpit seemed thicker than usual, and slightly swollen.

The pain went away after about five days, but during the last week it's come back. At the moment, the whole breast feels very tender and painful, and at times it feels like there's stabbing pains in it. Also, the outer side and armpit of the breast is still slightly swollen.

It's really worrying me. I even got my mum to check if she could feel anything, but she said she couldn't.

Does this sound like cancer?
What should I do?
x

Sounds like a cyst to me. I know people can get cysts under their armpits and on their boobs. I would get it checked out just to be sure :]

Good luck

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okay...so I am seventeen years old, and i have a little problem...

I think that i have an issue with the men in my life. See, i've never really had a father figure because my dad doesnt care really what i do. he has lived in the same house as me for my whole life, but he shows no interest in my life whatsoever. he doesnt even know my birthday, how old i am, or what grade i am in. I've always wanted to be like my friends and be a daddy's little girl, but no matter how hard i try, he still doesnt care. i've told him i love him so many times but he'll just hang up the phone or walk away.

i dont think i've done anything to disappoint him, i've always been a good kid, never in trouble...so why doesn't he love me?

but that's not really the main issue, i've come to realize now after seventeen years that he is never going to love me like i want him to.

But, i think that this is affecting my relationships with boyfriends. See, right now i have a pretty good boyfriend. and he treats me right, he says he loves me, and i really care about him too. A lot. but he lives about two hours away and we see each other on the weekends if we're lucky. I really want to be with him, but when i'm at school and other guys show an interest in me, i just can't seem to tell them i have a boyfriend or that i can't be involved with them. like right now, there's a boy who really likes me that goes to my school and he wants to date me, and i could possibly like him, but i think the reason i talk to him is because he's showing an interest in me, and i think i need that constantly...and i know it's horrible. i've never cheated on my boyfriend, but i have a feeling that its a possibility if i dont get a handle on this. thats why i'm asking for your help...
i feel like such a bad person.
but i really need to find a way to deal with this before i hurt my boyfriend.
any advice is appreciated. =)

I honestly know how you feel, and i know it hurts a lot. I have been in the same positions several times. Its because the man in your life your supposed to learn from, look up too, ect...has never gave you the time of day. Ive always wanted the "daddys girl" title too, but that just never worked out. You see, because your dad never paid attention to your interests, and thoughts you feel the need to get all kinds of attention from other guys. In your situation, its normal. But, i suggest you talk to your dad about it, see if you guys could catch a movie, or dinner and catch up and REALLY get to know each other. Tell him, your growing up and you wont be living in his house forever and you dont wanna say you never really knew your dad and vice versa. The reason you have to be honest with him about everything is because, people cannot read minds...Guys sometimes overlook the obvious and not even notice. You arent a bad person, but to get over this so you dont hurt your boyfriend you need to get closer with your dad so you have that closure. Maybe, think of something that your dad likes doing, and ask him to do that with you.

If you need anymore advice, dont hesitate to email me....hypnoticpoison92@yahoo.com

GOOD LUCK :]

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is it okay for a girl to watch porn? is it like illegal to watch it online and stuff?

yeah its fine, redtube is a good site too. And yeah its legal

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16/f
alright lets start off with saying im a pretty "friendly" girl. i have my slutty moments and i like being around guys, teasing them and what not.

so there was this one guy, b. we started talking this summer and like really got into each other like saying i love you and stuff, but then i met z, my like best guys friends best friend. him and i had a connection instantly and weve been hooking up for like idk a month now. anyway, both b and z knew about each other, z didn't really care, b just pretended he didn't. i saw b once since i met him, he lives in the next town over. i saw z every weekend and he lives like 30 min away.

well b and i stopped talking because he basically called me a conceited whore, which i thought was a good enough reason to end it. so we stopped talking for like a good 3 weeks, although he was always at the back of my mind. so he texted me the other day saying he missed me really badly and as much as he tried to stop thinking about me he couldn't so i started kinda talking to him again, not really sure of what to do because everything right now with z is going like great (knock on wood) like we both have feelings for each other and want to see where it is going to go.

so then there is this other guy, m, who is in college , he comes home every weekend. and ive been talking to him for like a couple weeks now too, kinda teasing him, kinda serious though. he keeps saying all this stuff like he likes me and really wants to see me and kiss me and what not and i just go along with it.

so there is now me, m, b, and z
basically im asking what the hell should i do?

I think you should forget about b, because he did call you a conceited whore. Thats disrespectful and he's somebody you shouldnt want to get involved with.

As for z and m i would see where it is going to go with both of them. I wouldnt date them at the same time, just be friends and see which one you "click" with the best.

If you need more advice, just email me
hypnoticpoison92@yahoo.com

GOOD LUCK

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whats better hot tools curling iron or helen of troy ???


what would YOU PREFER!?

Helen of troy for sure :]

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we say it, we mean it in different ways. their are many different reasons to why we love something or someone. can i get your guys input on what i love you to a significant other means (boyfriend and girlfirend) (husabnd or wife) NOT friend to friend or anything.

also what bascially love means to you.

please think hard and answer both questions thank you.

Love love love...There is so many meanings to love. what does love mean to me? It means trust, compassion, communication and honesty. As somebody said below, yes "i love you" and "i am in love with you" are totally different. But in the same sense, you can be "in love" and "love" somebody for the same reasons. Love is when you arent selfish, and truly want to see them happy. When you first wake up, you want to know how they are doing, throughout the day, you wanna know how their day is going. You would do anything in your power to protect them, and make them happy. You would sacrifice yourself, if you needed to for them. You wouldnt be able to look at anyone the same way you look at them. You would be attracted to whats outside, but MOST IMPORTANTLY what is inside. You want to know, even the most simple things about them.. such as if they like coffee or milk. Its just a feeling you get of being safe everytime you look at them, and you cannot help but smile. Its amazing, truly.


I hope i helped. :]

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i really want white, and i mean sparkling white teeth!! i've used crest whitening stips, i've used the whitening trays, i have the crest white mouthwash, i brush my teeth twice a day and floss about three times a week. i don't drink coffee, rarely drink pop. so why are my teeth not getting any whiter? if i do drink pop, its like mountain dew, orange or sprite. i heard that only dark pop stains your teeth, is this true? i drink alot of water, juiceboxes, some orange juice, and flavored water would any of these stain my teeth? i'm just getting really annoyed because i don't know whats going on. can someone give me some examples of things that would stain your teeth, or tips to make my teeth whiter without getting them profesionally? thank you so much :)

1. Soy sauce
2. Berries
3. Curry
4. Coffee
5. Red wine
6. Dark soda
7. Dark fruit juice
8. Tea
9. Extremely hot or cold liquids are dangerous to your white smile because they change the temperature of your teeth. Temperature change causes teeth to expand and contract, allowing stains to penetrate your teeth.
10. Slightly acidic foods open up the pores of the tooth enamel allowing stains to more easily move into your teeth.
11. Tobacco from cigarettes and cigars quickly stains teeth yellow.

also, use a straw. Okay, you may not want to try this with hot coffee, but sipping iced tea, cola, and fruit juices through a plastic straw will reduce your teeth's exposure to these staining beverages.

I use this site for whitening my teeth. Its simple home remedies.
One says, if you simply rub strawberries on your teeth, it will whiten instantly.

http://www.myhomeremedies.com/topic.cgi?topicid=200

GOOD LUCK

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So this isny my first cavity...but when ever i did it would be so small that i just needed gas for it...but i found out during the summer that i have a cavity thats kind of big to wear ill need to get a shot. he said its not that big but it can get bigger over the time and stuff. So i was wondering if shot for cavities hurt?

I actually just had my first cavity filling about 4 days ago. I was pretty scared, and worried for sure. I wouldnt say the shots HURT, but they do make you feel uncomfortable. And, in seriously a minute, that side of your mouth and lips just go numb.

Thats all :]

Goood luck

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Alright....
I've never seen porn before and I don't know I guess I'm just curious... Is it legal? and if it is, how do you find it?

18/f

hey email me

hypnoticpoison92@yahoo.com

i'll give you a site

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How old do you have to be to buy condoms in shops?

You can be any age at walmart,walgreens, rite aid, ect.

If they do not sell them to you, they can get into trouble because they are risking you to get pregnant.

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When a guy calls you a cunt, what does that mean?

Its an extremely RUDE word some guys just use without knowing how much disrespect it actually is. It means vagina, but its just extremely disrespectful and just plain messed up

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ok, so me and my boyfriend sorta recently started kissing, not lke make out or anything just like that just pecks but anyways..
every now and then when he gives me a hug he will like not grab but kinda touch/grab the top part of my butt. i dont really have a problem with it, like every girls boyfriend does that and they dont mind. but something in my head is making me think too much. do you think he only likes me for my butt or something or its just a boyfriend thing?
like today he did it and i go woah! just grab my butt and he goes i like your butt then kinda grabbed it again.
do you think he just likes me for that or its just something hes doing.
please write back. im trying not to think about it to hard but it gets kinda difficult i need help
thanks in advance

I dont think hes using you, because you guys are only pecking now. If he pressures you into having sex, or always brings it up then he might be. But, since you guys havent even made out yet i would say he isnt using you.


Good luck

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I never went down on a girl before . Should i put my tongue inside or just kinda lick?

Thanks for the inbox msg, sorry it took so long to reply.

You actually do both, you can also put in a bit of fingering while you do it.
Basically, just experiment with it.
The only way you will get good, is from experience. But for your first time i would

watch some porn to see how other people do it.

Above her hole, at the top of her labia is the clitoris. It is often covered by a little hood and it can vary in size from that od a small lentil to a pea. With very many women, maybe as much as half, stimulating this "bean" is the only way they can have an orgasm.

You can kiss it, lick it, caress it, blow it, gently suck it, slurp it, tenderly nibble on it, do what ever gets a reaction. Experiment, keep it moist, communicate with her and ask her if what you are doing feels good because it wont necessarily be the same for all women. Practice makes perfect.

I recommend flicking it with your tongue, it drives women wild. Don't just concentrate on her clit either. For you licking and sucking on her labia (the plump juicy lips) is more enjoyable and she will love it to, providing you are gentle. How gentle depends on the girl, some like it quite firm. Use your fingers too, you can lick at her hole a little and taste her juice, but once you are getting her really worked up insert your fingers in her hole and caress her G-spot (if you know where it is).

GOOD LUCK

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Someone sent me this the oher day and I would like to know what it means: (>^_^>)

thank you!

I am almost certain its just a cat, and its like an anime thing :]

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So I just got braces. And I have a boyfriend and we kiss a lot? haha. But anyway, I havn't kissed him with the braces because i'm worried that something will go wrong and my braces will screw it all up. So is it really true that its really hard to kiss people with braces?!

My cousin has braces and she said its just like normal. Because you have it in your mind, you get more paranoid about it. Try not to think about it, but warn him first or make a joke (like somebody stated below) then you should be fine :]

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