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uhhh love... square?
16/f
alright lets start off with saying im a pretty "friendly" girl. i have my slutty moments and i like being around guys, teasing them and what not.
so there was this one guy, b. we started talking this summer and like really got into each other like saying i love you and stuff, but then i met z, my like best guys friends best friend. him and i had a connection instantly and weve been hooking up for like idk a month now. anyway, both b and z knew about each other, z didn't really care, b just pretended he didn't. i saw b once since i met him, he lives in the next town over. i saw z every weekend and he lives like 30 min away.
well b and i stopped talking because he basically called me a conceited whore, which i thought was a good enough reason to end it. so we stopped talking for like a good 3 weeks, although he was always at the back of my mind. so he texted me the other day saying he missed me really badly and as much as he tried to stop thinking about me he couldn't so i started kinda talking to him again, not really sure of what to do because everything right now with z is going like great (knock on wood) like we both have feelings for each other and want to see where it is going to go.
so then there is this other guy, m, who is in college , he comes home every weekend. and ive been talking to him for like a couple weeks now too, kinda teasing him, kinda serious though. he keeps saying all this stuff like he likes me and really wants to see me and kiss me and what not and i just go along with it.
so there is now me, m, b, and z
basically im asking what the hell should i do?
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I think you need to not be so "friendly"
You aren't going to attract anyone worth having this way. You should pick one person and actually take an interest in them, because girls who play with guys the way you are generally end up getting hurt themselves.
Teasing is fine when its foreshadowing. That means, teasing is fine when you have a guy you like, are dating or want to date, to the point that you will likely end up sleeping with them without it being a one night affair.
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I think you should forget about b, because he did call you a conceited whore. Thats disrespectful and he's somebody you shouldnt want to get involved with.
As for z and m i would see where it is going to go with both of them. I wouldnt date them at the same time, just be friends and see which one you "click" with the best.
If you need more advice, just email me
hypnoticpoison92@yahoo.com
GOOD LUCK
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k so B and Z shouldnt even be considered at this point because once you've started liking someone else then there no point in looking back so just be friends with them nothing else just go out with M because obviously he likes you and you like him and things will possibly work out and just try to forget about the other two guys as potential flings because chances of that working out dont seem very high i hoped i helped in some way good luck
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