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Member Since: July 11, 2005
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Last Update: October 23, 2005
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Where can i find a web site to help me look for an old doll i found. It is a Mattel doll made in 1964. has strawbreey blonde type of hair & is on red roller skates!!!! She takes batterys. Please give me a web site to see how much she is worth!& Please dont give me ebay!!!!!!! that site didnt work ! i tryed!!! thank for all the help !!!

I rate High!!!!!!! (link)
Well, you can always go to the Mattel site, and that's all I got.


I am 13 and I want to start making my own money instead of having to rely on my parents so much. I'm pretty sure I can't get a REAL job anywhere yet, but I was wondering if there are any other ways. I already know mowing lawns and babysitting but it hasn't worked so well... thanx! (link)
When you turn 14 you can work at Kroger, Albertsons, or Tom Thumb. But until then, babysitting and things like that are the only thing. Or, you can become a dog walker.


What r some good websites (that rnt xanga sites) where you can get some good quotes for yur AIM profile? (link)
firehotquotes.com or just type in "AIM quotes" in google, and they will give you a lot of websites.


how come like in the middle of a kiss guys like to bite your lip a lil?..sorry if its a weird question. but please answer.thanks (link)
It's because they're horny, and it is animalistic. It gets them going more, and then you have a better make out session :] (atleast in my experience)


ok well..

i was hooking up with some guy and we were going for about 6 mins and then he started to move my hand slowly down his pants but i just kinda backed away concerning i really dont kno what to do if i go down a guys pants and how to keep it there long. so my question is what do i do down there and for how long. thanks


ps. im 14 years old going on to 15 (link)
Well, here's my tip. Don't stick your hand down his pants. That also goes for his hands, or any other body part for that matter.


I'm 15/F turning 16 in october. I'm desperate to get a babysitting job, so my cousin told me to make flyers to put around my neighborhood.

What should kind of information should I put on the flyer, like my name and phone number.

How should I decorate it and what additional information should I add?

Lastly, what SHOULDN'T I put on my flyer?

Thanks guys. ♥ (link)
Well, put your name and number. Put that you love kids, and your experience with them. Put a picture of you and some neighborhood kids, or your little cousins, preferably helping them. (make your poster a bright color too) Also, don't put how much you charge, or your address. I would advise putting BABYSITTER in really awesome print, or LOOK HERE, because that always catches people's attention :]


i have a few questions about getting your belly button pierced.
1. About how much does it cost?
2. How long do you have to leave it in before you can take it out?
3. How long can you leave it out before it closes?

thanks and ill rate you! (link)
It shouldn't cost more than $30. If it does, you're being ripped off.
Probably 6 months or so, but they will usually tell you when you get it done.
You can leave it out for a day, but even then, if you are a fast healer, you never know.
To warn you, it might itch like hell, but you have to deal with it, good luck. I love mine!


I have a friend who hangs out with me when we are in class and since we have a locker right next to eachother she hangs out with me. But when she is around certain "friends" she acts really mean to mean and ignores me. Sometimes I feel like i'm not her friend and sometimes i feel like we are best friends, What should I do?
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She's what we call "easily influenced". She probably is just not sure that her other friends will accept you, so she can't be friends with you around them. You need to call her on it when she is being your friend, and confront her, letting her know how you feel.


16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance (link)
Well, don't let him spoil your fun time. ANd if he tries, ignore him and dodge him.


ok there is this guy that i really like and i kno he likes me too but he is kinda mad at me right now....that or he hates me...and i dont know why....i would do anytng for this guy and i think he knows it ! but i dont know why he is mad so i dont know what to do....please help...what should i do whjen the guy i love is mad at me and i donrtknow why?

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Well, the obvious answer, ask him why he is mad at you.


ahhh ok, basically my boyfriend fingered me and afterwards i noticed he had a ringworm on his arm..jus above his elbow, quite bigg around 5-6cm ish. and im really worried i could get it..i didnt realise it was contagious till i go home and looked it up. i had a longg bath with dettol and my clothes i was wearin are in the wash. do you know anything i could do to prevent me actually getting it/to prevent it showing upp at all or anything i should take etc? plzzzzz help thnx xxx (link)
Honestly, you shouldn't of let him finger you in the first place. There is nothing really you can do, but call your doctor for other advice.


i think im under weight by a lot. Im 4"7 1/2 and im only 67 pounds!! Is this under weight? What it normal weight for me?
thankyou :) (link)
You are underweight. You might be naturally skinny. Still, eat lots of sweets and carbs, that will bulk you up. Or, die, then you don't have to worry. :]


ok so there is this guy that i REALLY like..and i talk to him online a lot and tells me im really pretty and stuff..and i think he's really hott but i dont know what to say back to him? because instead of telling me im hott he says that im pretty and beautiful and stuff which i really like because its not insensitive like saying im hott is..so whats a sweet way to tell him he's "hott" or fine or whatever?? (link)
Tell him he is gorgeous, handsome, debener (sp?) Or, his looks make you melt. Something that you might hear in old movies are always good.


is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster??? (link)
Somewhat. Sleeping in a bra "contains" them. Sleeping without one will help them "breathe" and grow bigger, but not faster. You can only grow bigger in time, and depending on your genes.


my boyfriend and i hang out almost every night since its summer and all...but we're running out of movies to watch. what are some good movies we might both be interested in, and what are some other things we could do together? (neither of us have cars or much money) thanks! (link)
Well, you could watch old classics, or scary movies. Or, get one you've seen and both like, and make-out instead of watching it. Or, go to a park and hang out. A walk around the neighborhood is good too.


So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what? (link)
Yeah, he is. What a bastard.


I'm in 11th grade now... well i'm going into 11th... and me and my friend have been friends since 4th... we are two completly diff people but that's what makes us good friends... she is more wild and i'm more not... she will do things without thinking and I think things through... last week she told me she liked this guy... every week it seems as though she likes someone diff... she had a 3 some with him and his friend... the two guys is her exes good friends... and the guy she doesn't like is one of her best friends ex and her other friend slept with him before she had the 3 some... she has wanted me to hang out with them but i'm not that type of person... i'm waiting till i get married to loose my virginity and i have more respect in myself than that no affense to her... i love her but i don't know what to do...she has told me if i hang out with them nothing like that will happen... but everytime she tells me a story about when they hangout something sexual like that always happens... we havent talk in almost 5 days... maybe more, maybe less... i don't know what to sday to her... she has had sex before with her ex and after she did it all changed... she kisses guys without really thinking... to her hooking up witjh a guy is no biggy... to me you should know the person and have semi feelings...

confused and lost (link)
Tell her that you really just want to hang out with her, and not this other guy because you don't really know him. If she still eggs you on, be blunt with her, and tell her it's because something always happens, and it'd be like being a third wheel on a date, and you're not into that stuff . If she still doesn't respect your choice, don't hang out with her unlsess you're SURE it's just the two of you.


My boyfriends gone away to camp for 2 weeks. He just left n its been really hard on me. Ive been really sad without him here. I must have cried atleast 3 times today. What should I do. My friends are all workin so its kinda hard to go out with them (link)
Get over it, he'll be back in 2 weeks. It's not like he's dead. Also, go out with your friends when they're off, or go visit them on their break, but DON'T talk about your boyfriend, that's boring and annoying.


ok i may hav got slighty tipsy at a recent party... anyways i was talkin 2 this guy who is 2 years older than me (i'm 15), but he told me he thought me n my friend wer fit, n he liked me more... anyway im not sure if he was being sarcastic or not (i cant remember much of the party!), i dont think he was, but if he was being serious wud it be weird 4 me 2 ask his brother 4 his mobile number? wot do guys think of going out wit girls younger than them? (link)
It wouldn't be weird, but be careful. Because you're younger, he might think he has power and he can do what he wants to you, so if you do go out with him, make sure he respects you. Also, get to know him first to make sure he's not a jerk and was only nice when you were "tipsy"


My boyfried & I were good friends before we developed feelings for eachother. Our relationship started slow, like he'd just put his arm around me in movies & we'd talk. Then things are getting closer & by only the third or fourth date, we make out most of the movie. I love showinnng my affection for him & he's a really sweet guy I just don't want things to get touchy-feely & nothing else. How can I make sure we don't base our relationship on lust? (link)
Well, if things are moving to fast, tell him. Don't let him breka any of your moral values. If he is your friend, he should already know how you feel. It's normal to make out on the 3rd or 4th date, but do tell him if things go to fast. Hope it all works out!




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