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Last night I just figured out that my mom, dad, and sister (that's my WHOLE family) just parished in a car accident. I can't seem to control my anger. I keep thinking it's my fault and I throw fits. My school counselors try to help but I hate them! The worst part is, I'm only 11 years old, and I'm being sent to a child's homeless center in 1 week. (link)
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I'm very sorry you're going through this. That would be hard on anyone, especially someone of your age. It's okay to feel angry, but you shouldn't blame yourself. It isn't your fault. How could it have been your fault? You should try to be more willing to let the counselors help you. It may feel weird letting someone you barely know barge into your personal life but I think if you give them a chance they could help you. Also, you might find talking to close friends that you trust or other relatives such as aunts, uncles, cousins will be helpful. I hope you can work things out. You were left here for a reason. Everything happens for a reason, even something so tragic as this... I'm here if you need to talk. ♥
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do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between. (link)
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Do what you wanna do and be yourself. "People that care don't matter and people that matter don't care" Never change yourself for ANYONE! ;-)
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Well i was on the computer and i met this guy and we talked for a while and now we are going out but i have not even seen him in person and we both know we are the one for eachother but will this work out not seeing eachother for a while??? and will it work if you talk everynite 2 eachother and stuff ????? NEED HELP FAST !!! THANX (link)
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Online dating... PLEASE be careful. Meeting people you found on the internet is dangerous. But anyway, I guess talking every night would help. Just like any other long distance relationship I suppose. Good luck and take care!
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mi bf is cheating on me.i love him sooo much but i dont know if he loves me.the worst part is that he didnt tell me mi best frend did.hes also now going out w/ mi best frend.what do i do.im soooooooo depressed and confused.please help! (link)
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Hey... If he is cheating on you, he isn't worth your trouble and you're too good for him... You should try talking to him about it and ask him if it's true. He'll probably try to deny it but you should use your own judgment to decide if he is telling the truth or not. It's usually easy to tell when someone is lying. And about your friend, why is she even with him? She is your BEST FRIEND. I think you should talk to her about that. She shouldn't be messing around with your boyfriend. Try to be polite when you talk to them... You don't want to start an argument with any of them, at least not until you find out what's going on. If he is cheating on you, I'd dump him. I know you're upset, but things will get better with time. You'll find the right guy, and he won't cheat on you. You need a few bad relationships to really appreciate it when you find you right one. I hope all works out for you. Let me know if you need anything else! Let me know how things work out. Good luck!! *Kristin
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hows does a person shed some weight quickly?? ive been trying to lose weight for along time now and nothing seems to work. i work out 3 hours a day and that doesnt help much either.. and im not good for holding diets. i do eat healty thou... any advice?
and my friend has bulemia.. im trying to help her.. how can i help her stop and how on earth does she make her self throw up? (link)
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Make sure you don't take in more calories than you burn. Sometimes people that have a real problem losing weight can see a doctor and get appetite depressant pills. But I would NOT suggest that unless your weight is a risk to your health. Just make sure you have an equal amount of working out for the amount of calories you take in. Good luck!
Also, you might want to suggest to your friend that she sees a doctor.
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I am 14 and my boobs wont develope I mean every bodys are already you know and all the guys make phone of me saying like they can play hop scotch on my chest and all I thought about stuffing but I'm afriad what should I do (link)
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Don't listen to them. If guys really care that much about you having boobs do you care what they think? Obviously they're immature... You're 14, you still have a few years of growing ahead of you, don't worry about it. You should NOT stuff or even buy a padded bra. Just learn to appreciate what you have. Boobs aren't that big of a deal. ;-)
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I have the weirdest problem. Everytime I have a little sickness, I think it's huge. Like if I have a headache, i think it's a brain tumor. If I have a stomach ache I think I'm gonna hurl or that I have the flu. Yes, I know it's weird and freaky. But I need help!! i wanna stop. Please help me (link)
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You are probably just paranoid. But if you feel it's bad enough or is disrupts daily life you should trying talking to someone you trust about it or consider seeing a psychologist. Hope this helps some...
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hey. yeah, i'm an insomniac. as long as i can remember i haven't ever been able to fall asleep is less that like 3 hours. so i basically go to bed at 3 and wake up at 6.30 (school days). i don't take medicine for it but i need to! i want to sleep and my mom has sonata (i guess she also has insomnia) and i want to take one. she'd never notice and i dont think she'd really care. should i take one? i mean what bad will it do? also, does anyone else take sleeping pills or have insomnia? thanx (link)
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Please see a doctor before taking any sleeping medication. Taking pills that aren't ment for you is dangerous.
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Ok I have been suicidal for a while, and haven't had an episode for about a month... I have scars on my stomach and arms.. but I can't stop thinking I need more cuts... I have had alot of stuff going on lately... what should I do, should I tell someone! I just don't wanna go to a mental hospital! thanks I'll rate high (link)
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Hey Hun... I think you should defiantly talk to someone about it. You shouldn't keep these feelings bottled up. If you don't want to risk having it getting around, make sure you tell someone you trust or even try 1-800-SUICIDE. If it gets worse you may want to consider seeing a psychologist. Remember, you're not alone. I hope this will help you. And about the scars, if you want to reduce the visibility of them, apply coco butter to them one to two times a day until visibility is reduce... I hope you can get the help you need. Let me know if you need anymore advice or someone to talk to. Best of luck!!!
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k cool thanks (link)
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No problem :)
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well i'm doing it for both. i mean plucked lol sorry but i'll do that too (link)
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Oh.. maybe you could try talking to your parents about it again. Tweezers are around $1-$5 at Wal*Mart (The lower priced ones work well but they tend to hurt a little more... you should try to get one with a slanted tip) But if they still won't go for it I think the clear mascara will help. Or if you wear make up put a VERY LITTLE dab of foundation on eyebrows and make sure it's not noticeable.. If it's blended well it will reduce the noticeably without it being obvious that you used makeup to cover them.
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hey i have a question.
a lot of my friends say i'd look better if i had "trimmed" eyebrows. but there's one problem.. i'm not allowed to do that. so i'm not so sure what to do. please help (link)
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Trimmed as in cut or trimmed at in plucked??
if you mean trimmed as in cut... You will need a small pair of scissors (like sowing scissors) and a eyebrow/eyelash brush... You can buy all these at a store like Wal*Mart, CVS, Rite Aid, or maybe even the Dollar store... Start by using the brush to brush all your eyebrow hairs up. Then use the scissor to trim the tips of the hairs... Make sure to follow the natural line you your eyebrows to keep them looking natural.
If you aren't able to do that You can purchase clear mascara for $1 to $2 at Wal*Mart, CVS, or Rite Aid. Apply a little of the mascara to your eyebrows and brush through with the mascara brush or and eyebrow brush. The clear mascara will help your eyebrows lay flatter and keep then in place all day long without being noticeable. But make sure you get the CLEAR mascara ;-)
I hope this helps... But remember you don't need to change anything about yourself... I hope you're just trying to fix them for yourself and not because what other people think... Let me know if I can help you with anything else or if you need more help about this!! Hope this works for you!
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okkay thanks~!
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Anytime ;-)
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Okay thanks i'll try it. But his gf right now.. they've gone out like 238472934 times haha but really, they're like an on and off couple. and i told her wut happened at my party and she said like ohh i c.. but yeah (link)
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No problem... I hope all works out for you! If you two start dating, hopefully things will work out better with you than it did with your friend... Just try not to make your friend mad, it could just make things worse. Let me know how everything works out! Best of luck!!
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Well later that night he got his gf.. but i think it's cuz we didn't start going out. and i think he knows i like him because i told him a long time ago.. but idk. his gf and me are really good friends and she knows i like him so idk. please help (link)
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I'd ask the guy why he went and got a girlfriend after he did that. Find out if he meant anything by it or if he was just playing games. If he says it's because you two didn't start dating, let him know how you feel... I'd also talk to my friend about it... Ask her why she is going out with him if she knew you liked him. Make sure you are very polite when you talk to them though... The last thing you need to do right now is make one of them mad.. Let me know if I can do anything else to help you or anything. ~Kristin
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Hey,
okay i like this guy, and a lot of people say he likes me back, but he has a girlfriend! But at my birthday party, he like lead me into the back of my closet and was like holding me and stuff it was really cute! But i don't know what to do because now he has a girlfriend so yeah. Please help!
=) (link)
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Hey! Oh man.. Been there, done that... You should try talking to the guy about it. Find out what he really thinks about you, and you might want to tell him what you think of him. He may be playing hard to get. Be careful though. If he is acting like that when he has a girlfriend he may be playing games... Or if he got the girlfriend AFTER your party he may think you don't feel the same about him as he does about you. I hope this helps... Let me know if you need anymore advice. Good luck hun!
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im a freshman n lately ive been talking to one of my friends brothers thats a junior at my school. my friend has told his brother that he wasnt allowed to talk to me cause i was his friend...and yeah. so im between 2 great guys here n i don kno what to do. so my friends brother invited me over to teach me how to play the drums n to jus chill...but what would my friend think? i wanna have them both as friends but will that ever work out? (i'll rate) (link)
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You should try talking to you friend. Maybe he thinks if you start talking to his brother and become friends you might ditch him... He probably just doesn't want his brother to replace him or doesn't want you to talk to his brother and ditch him... Just try to talk to him and let him know you want to be friends with both of them... You should try to include your friend somehow if you let his brother teach you to play drums. Good Luck!
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this question dosent really go under friendship..but there was nothing else i coul put it under...anyway..i got a dvd player for christmas and i have some good dvd's like napolian dynamite but i get sick of it if i watch it alot and the day after tommorrow but that is pretty long and finding nemo but that aso gets kinda boring... the only movie that i enjoy watching is my favorite movie ever...sweet home alabama...i dunno what it is about that movie but i never get sick of it...does anyone have any other movies that are good and they never get sick of? cause i would really like another movie to watch! lol =) (link)
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I love the movie What About Bob... They can get old, but the Blue COllar Comedy Tour movies are really funny.
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Hey guys I need some REALLY funny movies? someone help meeeeeee!!!!! What are some really funny movies out on Dvd or Video??? (link)
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What About Bob!!
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ok so i finally got the nerve to talk to my crush..and we talked about sports and about what school we go to..but we dont go to the same high school he goes to an all boy and i go an all girl school..so i want to know what else i could talk to him about and mayb get a good conversation going on with him..please help!!! (link)
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Talk about your interests and see what you two have in common... Once you get some things in common you can hold a good conversation.
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