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Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
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PLease Help!!!
*Overweight?* (link)
Thats not fat at all, losing 10 pounds wont be good. It's not good to be too skinny, most girls look better with a little meat on there bones..dont lose any weight you'll just be hurting yourself


hey... im 14/f and i weigh 91 lbs. and ppl think im aneroxic and when i say im not they say im belimic! and im not and think that making urself throw up and not eating is gross. i eat all the time like almost everytime u see me i have food in my hand haha and i can eat something and say im full and then like an hour later i'll say im hungrey again. I have a fast metabolism and i really wanna try n gain weight, my new years resolution is to get over 100 lbs. so please can someone help me on trying to gain weight! thanks bunchez (link)
You should talk to your mom, and go see a doctor. They can show you certian ways to gain weight but not too much. Flour is a good food to eat if you wanna gain weight because it turns into sugar..and most sugar turns into fat.


does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high (link)
Aveda or Mac make-up is really good, its also good for your skin..but its expensive


My friend is mad at me but I don't know why. She got mad because I got back together with my boyfriend that I broke up with and she said this is all out of hand. Everytime she gets mad and tells me why she is mad I try and solve it and I end up sayign in the end that I am really sorry and I love you so much I don't want anything to come in between our relationship. Each time I say that she really seems not to care and she says you always say that junk. I asked her why she was mad at me and she just said I am okay and that's just to bad. I don't understand I DID NOT do anything to her at all. I want us to still be friends and we get in a lot of fights like maybe 2 or 3 a month and she starts mostly all of them actually all of them. I don't know if it is worth keeping the relationship or not I really want to but you know it might be for the best?? Help! (link)
Kinda seems like your friend wants you all to herself. Maybe shes just scared your going to forget about her and give all of your attention to your boyfriend. You dont need that from a "friend". Split your time up evenly between them, see how it goes for awhile..and if she is still doing the same thing when you give her your time..then maybe shes not being fair to you


Okay well there was this guy I use to like. He was nice and cute ect.. well I was sick one day at school and my best friend (his ex) was like "will you go out with Casia?? she likes you alot" and he was like i dont know.. then she was like "please!! for me?" and he was like sure. When she told me that I was like wow I go out with him?!? then I was like wait.. for you??? I dont want to go out with him because hes only doing it for her.. am I doing the right thing?? (link)
Sure your doing the right thing, anybody with the right mind would have said the same thing. I mean come on who wants to go out with a guy when hes only doing it for anyother girl. But if you really do like him talk to him. You could work things out and see how they go.


alrigty...i have a bad habit with cutting my self..and i need to stop...the only problem is...i dont kno how...my life is kinda shakey now b/c my mom is makin me go live with my aunt 4 good b/c of my "problem" and im doin pretty bad in skool with all the stress thats going on...and that makes more stress and just blah...i mean my friends and my boyfriend HATE the fact that i do it and they give me ideas to stop like squeezing an ice-cube until it melts...but that dont help... and i am in cheerleading an i always have to wear my long sleeve shirt so ppl wont see my arms and be like "shes physco" er suttin...but ne ways..i also have a prob with eating...i mean im not fat and i love food...but it just makes me wanna puke...so idk what to do about that either...so if ne one has ne ideas with how to help me with this stuff...please let me kno! (link)
Dealing with cutting is a hard thing, when my parents found out they flipped on me and they put me therapy..and now im going through all this shit because of it..with an eating problem too, so just know your not alone and there are other people out there. REALLY REALLY cold showers hurt like hell but sometimes they help, you have to start off slow if you want to get better, and dont do it for other people do it for YOU. If you still feel the need to cut you should do it on your hips because its not visable. With the eating, start off with things you like..small, dont try and force it down..take it slow..But the only way to get better is help. Its out there, but its going to be a pain at first "It has to get worse before it gets better". Single out your problems one at a time..not all at once because then it seems liek a huge rush and too much for you. hope i helped


hey im 15 f, are most teenage girls out there depressed? is it just a faze we go through or is it just certain individuals that are insane.. its not like i have had a hard life but i am always sad and pessimistic about everything. i feel like i dont deserve anything and no one likes me. i have been diagnosed with 'anorexia' i think they are wrong tho, i am a heavy drinker and i smoke pot often, and people are starting to notice the scars on my arms and wrists from cutting.. i put on a front when i with people but when i am by myself all i can think about is death.. i dont know why i am like this i dont have a reason to be, i was just wondering does anyone else feel this way!? (link)
I know exactley how you feel, alot of teens are depressed now a days. Not just girls, but guys too..Smoking Pot and drinking could be a problem and that could be why your depressed, it brings you down when your not on it because your body feels great when its on it..and comming down feels like crap so you want MORE AND MORE. Anorexia is hard to deal with you should talk to someone about it..and the cutting could lead to alot worse like suicide, exspecially if you think about death.


ok i want to hook up with my one friends cousin.. hes hot.. but he thinks hes ugly.. he has a girlfriend but he seems pretty interested in meeting me.. but im afraid of what hell think when he sees me.. i mean if hes hot and thinks hes ugly what will he think of me? im not very confident with my looks.. and i really want him to like me.. how do i get him to like me and think im hot? (link)
Most guys like a girl that is confident in herself, just do what you feel is right, if your not comfortable then tings aren't going to slide so smooth. If he doesn't like you for you then there really is no point of hooking up with him, most of the time when two people get to know eat other, personality brings out looks.He probably doesn't want to seem cocky and say "I'm hot" kind of a turn off when a guy is too confident in his looks. Just go with your instinct, it will most-likely lead to a good time.




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