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hey! i love giving advice to people. so if you need help ask me and i'll do my best :)

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Awhile ago i asked about getting a puppy

I've got my mom totally convinced but its my step dad that won't even budge.

My step dad (i do love him, just hate his rules) is strict in a weird way. ex. I can't draw on the sidewalk with chalk for the sake our house costs 300,000 dollars and is far to nice.. but yet i dont have a curfew on the weekend or school week

Anyways, we're bring it up to him again tuesday night so if people could give me great things to say please do

I also do not have my license and live in the far out country so i can stay home and be with it alot. (i also got approval for it to travel with me to my dads house)

(its a small chihuaha)

you should say that you will definitely take care of it. and if you do say that, you HAVE Too! and say youll clean up the dog poop in the yard.
and tell him its totally worth the cost.

ok, im 14/f and in 9th grade. im only five feet tall and i weigh between 85 && 95 pounds. im very skinny and always have been but people often accuse me of being anorexic or bulemic. but with the about of food i eat in one day you would wonder why im not obeese or w/e. i 'try' gaining weight but it doesnt work. the nurse at school had a few people talk to her and they're worried about me but im fine. she often weighs me and every so often ill lose or gain a pound or two. what do i do? how do i get people to stop accusing me? like, nothing wrong with me but why am i like this?

I have the same exact thing, your not alone.
im 14/f 8th grade, and im only around five feet tall also. yay im happy that im not alone :]

we just have a VERY VERY high metabolism.
and yeah, i try to gain weight too, it doesnt work.
its really upsetting eahh?

and too add on.
we cant do anything about it.
but not listen to eachother.
and just eat like we normally do.
dont TRY to gain weight,
we will gain it someday.

ok there are these shoes called crocs I think. they are those plastic type shoes that are like 8 dollars at walmart. people have told me they are comfy but i dont see it ... they are hard plastic basically. Are they really comfy? will they help me if im on my feet say, 9 or so hours a day?

Crocs.. are the most annoying shoes ever, if they get wet they squeak.

personally, im obsessed with designer.. i would never ever ever ever buy a pair.. but thats just me.

Us kids in "westchester ny" would never get them.. they dont even sell them in our area.

and, their really ugly.. no affence.

i put a question on here earlier, but i still don't know what to do. i got this dress the other day at the mall for my cousins wedding:

[Edit: Link removed to keep from stretching everyone's column. Question has been adequately answered.]

but is it ok to wear to a wedding??? cause someone said that black wasn't good to wear at weddings. i'm wearing a black headband, and black heels w/ it. is it ok?????? thanks.

omg the dress is adorable.
but you are not supossed to wear black at weddings.
but, if you keep your attitude positive, and you look great.. who cares?

I lost my phone today and i was wondering if verizon still sells the vx9800 in stores or do i have to buy it from LG?? Plus i dont think i have any insurance on it if it gets lost or stolen so does that mean i have to pay full price for it again? Thankyou so much. The phone by the way is the LG VX9800, The V

they should, if not they can order it.
and if you dont have insurance..
you'll probably have to pay a new 2 year or one year contract.
and new phone.

so yeah good luck =)

alright im going to sum up my night and my gf's night, tell me if i did the right thing.

my night:
got stoned with 3 guy friends of mine, had a complete and utter blast, made cupcakes, brownies, played games, watched movies. harmless fun.

my gf's night:
got completely shitfaced with some 3 of her girlfriends, 1 of my other guy friends, and another guy who i dont like. they went skinny dipping, she claims to have covered up and stayed at the opposite end of the pool as the other girls.

how it went down, she called me today told me about her night after i told her about mine, she threw in skinny dipping as if it were no big deal, i then proceeded to tell her that if she did that, then she wouldnt mind if i went skinny dipping with a bunch of girls while she wasn't there. she then said oh but it was only two guys, i then told her that i still dont like the one guy (he grabs her and touches her and is a complete ass to me, so we're in a conflict right now) and that she went skinny dipping with him while they were completely shitfaced, she then tried to blame the alcohol, i asked her who consumed it, and she said that she did (duh), and i asked her whose fault it was.

i hung up and told her i'd talk to her later, due to the fact i dont know what to say.

help me out with what to say when i call her back.

thanks.

i think its okay to be pissed.
i mean i would be too.
she cant blame alcohol.
she would know she was doing something wrong.
seriously.
just ask her why she did it.
if she says the alcohol say no thats not it and ask her friends if she was drunk and stuff.

i hope i helped ♥

okay im going to highschool and im soososoososo scared.my sister is gonna be a senior and that sucks. and besides i dont even know my way around the school.what do i do?

how can i make friends?

I'm going into freshman year soon too.
and i know, im scared, i know how you feel.

what i was told by highschoolers that
joining clubs will help you gain friends
and sports too.

Over the summer, with a few friends after you get your schedule, you should all go there and find all of your classes.
it will help you be less confused :]

also, if you need help, you can ask any on the monitors / guidance office where your classes are, they will have no problem with you being late for the first few days, they know that you are confused and you are not used to the school.

remember 6th grade? its just a take back to it.
you were scared you wouldnt have friends.
but i bet you made friends in your classes.

you were scared you would get lost.
you got help right?

and you were scared about new schoolers beat up day?
no such thing.

okay so my friends and i are going camping with school this friday and we signed up to have our tent next to my best friend's crush's tent! were so excited cause its full of cute boys :] and my best friend's crush was flirting with her today and he said that hes going to prank us and do stuff to our tent and he was hinting around that theyre going to play tricks on us and stuff so what are some good ideas to get back at them that wont get us in huge trouble with the chaperones :] thanx! iloveyouu

crumble food around their tent so animals come.
like fish, tuna, cheese, crackers, anything with a large stench.

if you can, go out and gather poop, put it RIGHT in their shoes.

and thats all i know for now.,, lol i hope you do these

my bad for talkin like that, i didnt read the thing saying talk proper english.
but anyway, i really dont know if he wants the relationship to be secret he didnt say anthing about it. im just sayin should he be mad?
and i wasn't tell more and more people

alright, well if he wants the relationship to be secret, it will leak out.

and i dont think he should be mad, unless if he asked you out and told you not to tell anyone.

kay i am freaking out because i am about to go kiss the guy that i like and i was wondering if anyone new anything that might help callm me doown. i have tried breathin but its not working very well. My Hands ARE SHAKING!!!1PLEEZE HELP!

deep breaths.
thats all.
and nice breath too.

What is the best brand/style of skinny jeans for boys. Im 6 foot 2 inches if that helps. Cost is no problem. Thanks

Cody*

well, im a girl, and i prefer abercrombie / fitch skinny jeans

I currlently have dial up...which is REALLY slow, I want to go to DSL, but I do not know what is best for me. I do a lot of surfing on the net, and download music, whats best for me?

i use linksys.
it is fast.
but it has a little cost to it..
like 80 bucks?
but its fast, pages load withen 2 seconds or less.
downloads take 3 mins.
its amazing

yesterday all i ate was a bowl of cereal, a little rice, and like 4 apples and 1 grapefruit. i really like fruits and sometimes thats all ill eat all day. is that bad? like will something bad happen to me if i keep doing this?

Fruit is good for you, but it depends what kind of fruit.

If you are a vegetarian , i suggest you eat alot of veggie meat, and vegetables.

if you are not, try eating some chicken, or any other meat.

you need more food groups, not just fruit.

hey i just ordered a bathing suit from victorias secret yesterday (june 3rd) and i was just wondering how long do you think it would take to get here (washington, dc). It said 7-10 days but before i chose the shipping it said june 18th so i am just really confused. has anyone here ordered online from victorias secret and know how long it took for them to get their purchase?

If it says 7-10 days, youll have to wait.

And also, its working days. not sundays :]

so if you orderd it on a sunday. youll get it on a monday tuesday or weds.

if you get what i mean.

good luck and enjoy the bathing suit!

17/f

ive never had a bf and ive never had my 1st kiss. how do i get guys to like me or start to flirt with them without it been too obvious?
my best mate has a bf and every time she goes on about that she hasnt seen/spoke to him in a while it makes me feel low..how do i stop this from happening without her noticing im upset? x

well, you cant get guys to like you, unless if you change yourself.. which is a low thing to do.

to flirt with a guy, keep looking at him, maybe hell get a drift that you like him. And if you guys talk already, maybe like flip your hair when you talk to him..

And tell him that you guys are best friends and you will always be there for him.

Okay, When im not on my period my face is super clear no breakouts, nothing.
But when im on my period, I have these breakouts on my forehead and there is really no way of getting them to go away.

They go away after my period is over but I would like to go in public and not have breakouts all over my face while on my period.

So, is there any way to treat breakouts when im not on my period so when i am on it, i dont have any?

Btw, I use neutrogena. Is there a good face wash that I could use?

Please helpp.

I use Clean and clear stuff, it really works, it's called Deep Cleaning Astringent. It is a pink liquid, it is a 8 oz. bottle, so it lasts a little while.

all you have to do is clean your face with your current cleaning product [neutrogena] and stick with it. if you keep on changing your skin care cleanser, it will dry out your skin.

All you have to do with the astringent is get a cotton ball, put a FEW DROPS and spread with a even layer of it around your face and neck, three times a day. simple as that.

now wat if dis dude asked you out rite? and so, you said yea, and den you told one of ya friends, and she told lyk 5 otha dudes who'll proly tell sum more ppl, and now you THINK dat if he f0und out dat sum people kn0 den h3'll get mad. wat would you d0?

well first, when you are asking a question you should type in english, it was actually hard for me to understand this.

ill just say this in your language.

omg so tiz boi must be embarrassed dat he liks u. like omg lol so you shouldn't really tell pppl and more pppl that you are, because what if he was really kidding about askin you out??

in english.

he is embarrassed that he likes you if he doesn't want people to know, and that if he is, you shouldn't really tell people. If you don't like that your relationship will be taken secretly, don't go out with him. it's impossible to keep a relationship secret. trust me, my friend tried to, and she tried to keep it secret. just by them talking in the hall and walking to class together, people found out

i've been saving up A LOT of money for years... it's all payed off. i now have about $350 ishh.

i really want to spend it because i've done some thinking and its my decision. but i dont know HOW to spend it. i want to do it wisely and not regret it.

i want to spend some money on clothes. i shop at a&f, hco, & ae but i dont buy the most expensive stuff. =)

and some other random stuff i want
-sidekick ID ($99.99)
-digital camera (i already have one but its crappy)
-coach purse ($179)
-some other electronic stuff

i already have an ipod and i have a good phone but a sidekick would make texting much easier.

how should i spend my money? i dont kbow what to get! any new electronics that are pretty cheap? ideas are all apreciated.

i would definitely get a nice digital camera.
because you can do alot with it.
take good pictures.
photography.
take videos.
etc. even watch TV!

or i would get some nice clothes.
like
a LV purse.

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