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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)



♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.

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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.



♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.



♥ [ PERSONAL XANGA SITE. ]


♥ [ XANGA LAYOUT SITE. ]


♥ [ MYSPACE. ]



♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!



♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥



♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥

advice

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one my friend(girl) and me took off clothes and touched each other . we didnt finger each other. we just licked and sucked each others boobs. is that bad or something?

♥ awe. no that's not bad, if you were having fun it's okay.

♥ although, if a lot of people find out, some might make fun of you, so if you are gonna tell people make sure you trust them otherwise it could be a little bad.

♥ congrats, good luck.

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hey. theres this guy i cant get out of my head i know he likes me but he likes other girls i think more. we dont go to the same school. i really want to meet someone new so i can stop thinking about the other guy. is there any like camps or anything? im open for any ideas!
i live in oregon.
14 female.

♥ well does he live in oregon too?? if so then just meet up with him somewhere.

♥ if not then just talk to him and tell him you would like to meet him some day.

♥ good luck i hope you get him.!

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hey i have to read 2 books by january 9. one i have already read, and the other i havent! and i dont have the book either. its about 160 pages, and i went to the bookstore today and theyre out of copies for the book. tomorrow im going to 2 different libraries to check, but im afraid that there wont be anymore. what do i do if there arent any copies of the book i need??

PS: if i order it online, it takes 7 days to arrive

♥ ask your friends, and other people in your class if you can borrow their book, and read fasttt! good luck, sorry about your situation.

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Okay, well..my b/f is grounded from the computer and hes been calling me..well, just to talk. and he called me one night, and my phone was about to die..so i had to go..and he got on his sisters sn today and said he'll call me later..so i went upstairs and charged my phone..it took forever..so i just went to the basement and watched skeleton key with my family..and wen the movie was over..it was 9:30 (to late to call him) and i went upstairs, i had 5 missed calls!! all from him, and he doesnt call me very much at all..just wen he tells me he will..and he just wanted to talk! he told me ealier today..omg i feel so bad..idk what he is thinking..he knows im not ignoring him..but please..just guys..advice!! and pleasse dont be smart wit your answers! thanks..i rate-

♥ hun calm down. its alright. just talk to him tomorrow and let him no, he'll understand I promise. It's okay. hehe. :)

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I've like this guy for a few months now and we're still just friends. one of my friends heard that he likes me but I'm not sure if he does or not. what are some signs that shows that he's interested?

♥ well, their are a lot of signs that he could show, like for example ;; if he seems to be flirting with you a lot, or play hitting you, or acting different around you.

♥ also, if you are brave enough, go ahead and ask him and let him know that you have feelings for him too.

♥ good luck!

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okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
Ill rate high
thanks

♥ well if there is no chemistry, then you aren't gonna have fun.

♥ break up with him. x3

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What is really good for pimples !
That works the best !



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♥ well there are a lot of different skin types. so it depends on what kind of skin you have, you will need to look it up and see what it says about your particular skin type.

♥ i hope you find the right solution.

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I always wondered how long does sex usually last. like i always thought it was a while but on tv they are done in like 5 min. i mean i know everyone is dif. but what is your average or whatever?

♥ there is no set time for sex, it depends on the girl and boys stamina, and how long they can last, also a lot of times after the boy gets 'his job done' he will pull out.

♥ good luck && be safe.

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so my boyfriend is mad cause we havnt had sex in 2 months but i dont want to anymore cause ive been reading alot about std'd and teen pregnancy what should i tell him

♥ well you need to talk to him about that, and if you don't want to then don't let him pressure you into it.

♥ also, if he breaks up with you for it hun, you need to know that he obviously wasn't worth it anyways.

♥ don't be too hard on yourself with whatever outcome you get.

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ok im going to make this short. i like this guy & im pretty sure he likes me to. the thing is he has done more stuff sexually and with more people than i have. should i be nervous or worry about this? is there any way he will know im not as experienced? plz help.

PS i think this site is a great idea and you have probably helped alot of people! keep up the good work.

14 F

♥ first thanks for the site compliments.

♥ anyways, back to your question, well no he won't know, the only thing that might be different, since he is more experienced, he will probably be a little better then you. but thats nothing to worry about, no one is perfect anyways

♥ he shouldn't like you for 'how good you are in the bed' anyways. so good luck.

♥ if you need anymore help my screen name is LOVE KIILLS Xl3

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i was thinking about geting a haircut where i have side swept bangs(already have them + love them) and really short, sort of spikish hair in the back. does anyone have any ideas of whether this would look good on someone with a chubby face(kinda round, chubby cheeks)

ALL PICTURES OF HAIRCUT STYLES ARE GORGEOUS MODELS WITH PRETTY FACES...EEEW!

thanks in advance everyone!

[♥] yah i think that would be really cute, i've seen a lot of people with it!

[♥] sadly, i don't know where any pictures of that would be.

[♥] you could try googling it, good luck x3

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i need help coming up with a thesis for an american history thesis paper. i already have a VERY broad topic...theatre. i need a thesis dealing with american history sometime in the 19th or 20th century. thanks!

sorry, do your own homework??

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ok i have a huge group of friends where everyone all hangs out..but there is little groups of friends inside the group...like i hvae 2 BEST friends M and C....

and M has been my best friend since 6th grade...and we pretty much do everythign together and c has been our friend since 8 th b/c she moved her in 8th and now were freshman....

C used to be very "active.." and me and m are not like this and she is alll the time...i mean its ok if you really love omeone ...but she cant reven count how many bj's shes given...so now in h/s shes just...like idk just obnoxious...like acting dumb and stuff and is rude to teachers and i tried to tell her ...that if she excepts teachers to be nice to her and not always yell at her that she shouold probaby be respectful....i mean im not a goodie goodie or perfect but im not ruide to teahers and its getting really old all the stuff she does for attention...so idk..any ideas on what to do??

you and M need to talk to her about it...

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ok so i have 3 realy close friends and we alwasy get together at oen of my friends hous she has a big house with a pool and a hot tub and i have a big problem when we hang out we get a little crazy not lie fingerign eachother were nto lesbion or anything but we like pole dance and dirty dance and we get by the hotub and use choclate surrope and lick it off eachother and rub it in we dotn like lick it of anythign liek nasty down there but we are just haveing fun and one of my firends told and this person we trusted well shouldnt of been trusted so much he told liek everyone i am TERRIFIED to go back t school becasue we hand guy say stupid words that of coarse meant soemthign that jight and i dotn knwo what to do thanxs for help

well i'm sure that people will forget. and hey to look on the brightside, some guys think thats hott. so you might get a little more attention from the guys. and don't worry about what other people think of you, if your having fun go for it.

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What if you do a really bad thing and you know you were wrong. but you dont ask for forgiveness right away. You wait. and.. its not good to wait and you start feeling guilty and decide to say sorry after 2 months. Its been long yes but you think its possiable that the other person will forgive? especially if the apology is sincer?! im not saying that they ll be bestfriends again but will she atleast forgive her? She was wrong too. and she should have said sorry too but will she forgive??

um, you kind of need to be a little more specific. cuz really, you could be talking about anything. but um depends on how good of friends you were i guess. just depends on the situation on whatever happened...but i know if it were me i would probably forgive the other person.

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if you finger yourself will you loose your virginity?

no. you only lose your virginity by having sex.

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Is there anyone that is a female that boxes? Can you give me some hints on what to do before I go to the actual practices?

i'm not a boxer, but i imagine, stretching helps a lot, and be confident in yourself.

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okay well this is like the third question ive asked on ur site and i feel like you give very good advice so im gunna ask you this question.. alright.. well recently my friend just had a party and invited 7 girls.. well one of the girls couldnt come and we were all like talking about her becuase what we were saying WAS the TRUTH and everyone felt the same way.. we all felt that she was very annoying self-centered and not very mature.. so we all wanna tell her how we feel and we cant figure out a way to tell her bc she'll just take it as a joke.. so the question is how do we tell her how we feel without her taking it as a joke?

thanks bunches

alyssa x0x

well, you gotta be honest, try saying _________ (her name), we're not trying to be mean when we say this, but this is how we feel, then tell her what you think, in a nice way though, don't just attack her, and yelling at her, maybe at the end be like, we're kinda serious about this this time soo could you possibly work on it, and also let her no, that you still want to be her friend, you just want her to change a little bit. [if thats how you feel] good luck, i know this must be hard, sorry it took me so long to reply, x3 allie x0x

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I want to spend the night at my boyfriends, to spend more time with him, because he is at college and i only get to see him everyother weekend. My dad has let me before, when we were going to a concert and we were coming home really late. I really dont want to lie and keep making up concerts. Is there any way that I can just ask him and let him know that I am responsible ....because I AM, im not doing anything that im not supposed to I just really want to spend as much time with him as I can


thank you:)

explain to him, what you just explained to me, and if he trusts you, you should be okay! =]

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what is a healthy way to loose 5 pounds, or so. not a ton of weight but just some. what has worked for you? thanks in advance!! ill rate high :)

the thing you always hear, eat healthier, exersize more, i know thats not what you wanna hear, but really it is the truth, good luck x3 allie x0x

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