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okay well this is like the third question ive asked on ur site and i feel like you give very good advice so im gunna ask you this question.. alright.. well recently my friend just had a party and invited 7 girls.. well one of the girls couldnt come and we were all like talking about her becuase what we were saying WAS the TRUTH and everyone felt the same way.. we all felt that she was very annoying self-centered and not very mature.. so we all wanna tell her how we feel and we cant figure out a way to tell her bc she'll just take it as a joke.. so the question is how do we tell her how we feel without her taking it as a joke?
thanks bunches
alyssa x0x
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well, you gotta be honest, try saying _________ (her name), we're not trying to be mean when we say this, but this is how we feel, then tell her what you think, in a nice way though, don't just attack her, and yelling at her, maybe at the end be like, we're kinda serious about this this time soo could you possibly work on it, and also let her no, that you still want to be her friend, you just want her to change a little bit. [if thats how you feel] good luck, i know this must be hard, sorry it took me so long to reply, x3 allie x0x ]
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