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I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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16/f. I'm a pretty healthy girl..I eat normally, my weight is fine for my age (136 pounds..although this info might not be needed :P)
But what bothers me is that when I wake up in the mornings, no matter HOW much sleep I get (I could get 10 hours..which is what I've gotten for the whole summer now!)..I still have eyebags..and my eyes are squinty like..and my face is pale...and overall, I just look blegh. It takes about a good 3 hours for me to look like myself...and makeup doesn't help much. Does anyone have any tips on looking 'pretty' in the morning? Like when school starts...it'd be a nightmare looking like I do sometimes :P
I also drink a lot of water throughout the day, could this be the reason for the eyebags and exhausted look? I don't look refreshed..I look exhausted =\ (link)
well, the best thing to do is at night elevate your head, (put two pillows under your head) that way the fluids under your eyes dont stay there.

also the night before freeze two spoons, or (one of those gel masks from walmart )and place on eyes for about 2 min, that should get the puffiness down.

try getting some eye cream that helps with dark circles, lots of brands have them, and the prices range from $3-$100 or more, but a good one wont be too expensive. maybe 6 dollars.

then in the morning wash your face (after the eye mask or the spoons) pat it dry and apply eye cream, wait til dry then apply concealer in dots around the orbital of your eye. dot it on dont rub in. then put a light powder on top to seal the concealer.

some other good tricks to make your eyes seem bright
- use white eyeliner on the bottom lid of your eye, be very careful doing this.

- use a shimmery skin color shadow (about one shade lighter than your skin color) and apply it to the inner corners of your eyes. blend well.

------for your face
wash your face with a cleanser that has menthol or alpha beta hydroxy in it. neutrogena deep clean has it in it and it really helps your complexion (i love it i use it all the time.)

and the night before try using a scrub, (make sure the particles are man made, apricot scrub and other "seed" scrubs can damage your skin) using a scrub can get rid of all that old skin and show the new beautiful skin. so your face will be bright not dull.


good luck =]


im having my sweet 16 birthday party at the end of august. im looking for something nice to wear. ill be getting my hair done up. its not a formal party. i was thinking of wearing dark colored jeans, a nice top thats dressy, and heels. any ideas or sites i could shop for an outfit. pricing isnt an issue. thankyou (: (link)
Forever 21 is a great place they have just awesome clothes just type in forever 21 on google and you can check out the websites costa blanca is another good blace and so is Suzy shier its probably the best for party's I really suggest suzy shier or forever 21 they are just amazing they have the most awesome tops and jeans. good luck hope i helped:)


are you supposed to make an appointment to get your windows tinted? about how long does it usually take? the car's a mustang if it matters. (link)
it takes about 4-5 hours and yes you need to call and make an appointment and it doesnt matter what kind of car it is because i takes bout the same amount of time it might take less time it really just depends how many windows ur getting tinted.


Okay so im f/18 and my sis is 15.
Our cusins f/19 and 15 are comming down to visit for a week and they are staying at my place.
What are some cheaper things we can do... or places we could go? I think were spending a day at the amusment park and another shopping and probly go to a movie...
If any one has any other ideas, shoot!
THANKS! (link)
Go carting is always fun and so is mini golfing and bowling hope i helped


http://www.covergirl.com/prodimages/eye_enhancers_1_kit_shadows_1.jpg


is the black one good? or its not that black? i need a smokey eye look (link)
the black one is good.


my cheeks are getting bigger,what do i do. (link)
well why are your cheeks getting bigger i can only answer if you give me more info.


so i moved a year ago, and i REALLY REALLY like this kid for A LONG time, and we were like best frends 4 a wile, but i dont think he ever showed signs that he liked me. but now that i moved i like other people, but i go back to my old town a lot. I'm not good friends with the kids that i like in my new town, but i still REALLY like the kid in my old town. should i get over it all, and wait for something to happen? because i do not know how to move in on a guy as well as i should. (link)
Just wait a little while and just see what happens or if you want talk to him and just make him understand that you like him and ask him if he wants to just hang out alone not on a date just hanging out and if he likes the way thing went then he probably ask you out on a date.


ok, so i moved a year ago & there's this kid who my frend introduced me 2 & i talk to him A LOT on the comp. and wen i go back "home" i hang out w/ him. my frend sed that he likes me but we were alone about 4 times and nothing happend. but hes not a shy person. but he seriousely shows signs he likes me (in person & online). in person he does things 2 get my attention, and online hell say things like "i love u. jk." or "hey sexy. lol. jk". and a lot hell send those chain things w/ the love things and hell say "rong IM". so idk how to react w/ these things. and what should i do if anything else happens? help please. (link)
K well you cant react to any of these things unless you know how he really feels about you if he doesnt tell you how he feels in a couple of weeks or days then just ask him because unless you talk about it you'll never know and you might be hurt later on if you figure out that he's moved on or he might feel hurt if he find out that you moved on so do some fast good luck.


ok. so i moved a year ago, and my best frend in my old town talks to this kid i kno (m) and his frend (k) (who i've quickly become frends w/). so (m) liked me. & (k) liked my frend. but now (m) likes my frend and (k) likes me. and (k) shows a lot of signs, but he & my frend went out, and even though theyre best frends now, i dont know what to do about him, and my frend doesnt kno wut to do about (m), cuz he kissed her and she doesnt know if she likes him, but she told me she REALLY doesnt care if i go out w/ (k), but he hasnt asked me out, he just told my frend he likes me, and he shows serious signs he does. so wut shood me & my frend do? (link)
You should talk to (k) and ask (k) whats going on and if he does ask you out and you really like (K)
then talk to your friend and if she says its k then you'll be fine talking is the solution to everything good luck.


Recently my judgement took a turn for the worst, and I had unprotected sex several times rather than wait for my boyfriend to get some condoms. And now, at the early age of fourteen, I might be pregnant.

This doesn't shock me because I knew what I was doing, but my parents will absolutely die! I've always been their perfect daughter. Really, I'm convinced they only like me because I bring "bragging rights" to the table. So I'm genuinely afraid for when I have to announce what will surely make them hate me.

And that's not even the half of it. What about my aunts, uncles, and grandfather, who are all more than a bit old-fashioned?

Most importantly, I worry for my younger cousins, who are all under 10 years old. They like sand castles on the beach, Hannah Montana, and animals. :) They have always looked up to me as a rolemodel, putting me first in front of their own mothers as the one who decides what they do and say. I was flattered before, that they would think so highly of me; now I'm worried of what they'll think when they see my stomach grow bigger and bigger and wonder why I, unmarried and still a kid, am having a baby. I don't want them to follow in my footsteps or, once they're older, be ashamed of me.

I know I could just have an abortion and put an end to all my worries. But I've decided to take responsibility for what I've done and raise my baby, with help from its father and perhaps my grandmother, who is a very understanding woman. :)

I don't want to lose my family. They're the most important thing in the world to me. But I don't know how to do this without them completely ignoring the fact that I was ever alive. Help? :( (link)
Wow k well you dont really have a choice you have to tell your family i know it will be hard but they will eventually find out so just tell them what happen im sure if your family truly loves you they will support you and as for your cousins you have to sit them down and tell them that they should never do this because you know what the consequences will be and before you worry about any of this you should make sure you are pregnant i hope i helped you good luck and feel free to ask me whatever else you need to.


I will be 14 on Septemeber 29th and he is 15.

Alrighty, well, I went out with this guy and we were madly in love then he began to like another girl so he broke it off & dated her, he said he still liked me then...So they just broke up a few days ago & I want to pursue a relationship with him again.I know to give him some time, which I still am.

We are going to go swimming together soon, and I want to know what to say to him, how to ask him if he still likes me ext ext...

I'm thinking about just asking him over MSN because he might be more honest, but I'm not sure... (link)
I think you should ask him on msn first and then talk about it when you meet him in person its the best way to get an answer.


I'm 15. I hate being around my family because they always make me feel like I'm not good enough, I do everything wrong and all they do is yell at me. I live with my Dad and my step-mom. I have for 4 years sience step-dad started getting way too abusive. I don't know what to do. I am on anti-depressents and they were working for awhile but now thath the stress at home started getting worse and so did the yelling, all I do is cry. Please help? (link)
If you really feel this way you should probably contact a social worker so you can seek help or go live with another family member who is able to take care of you


Yesterday i told my bf i had cybersex the day he buried his grandpa. so i told him that he could have sex with this girl that liked him. So now he is at a hotel having sex with a girl for revenge because i said he could do it. Is it really fair for him to do it? Did he have to listen to me and actually get revenge? (link)
K no offence but that was a stupid thing to do you shouldnt have told him he could have sex with a girl that likes him and if you told him to do it and he did it then you cant blame him and you two obviously dont belong together.


So my friend is starting to hang out with this girl i really hate. the hate part goes a long way back but i just know that the girl she is friends with now is so mean to both of us. Last year she called her and swore and was making fun of her and i stuck up for her. Now she is blowing me off. I told her that i really hated the girl and she blew up at me saying stuff like while shes my friend now so back off. And when another one of my friends went out with this boy who she did not like she told it to her face. and i mean bad! What should i do?!?! (link)
in my opinion forget her a friend who doesnt act like a friend isnt really your friend so make some new friends and move on with your life. good luck!! :)


ok so to make a long story short i had to preform an archive n install (macpro leopard problem)and when i tried putting my music back into itunes it duplicated (sometimes tripled) my music and i have 2gb worth of unnecessary music... and i don't just mean it's a duplicate on itunes... its a duplicate of the actual mp3 file in my music folder.... i tried the itunes option but it ended up reduplicating everything again.... i even tried uninstalling it and still the problem remains! helpppp (link)
itunes actually doesnt work on a lot of computers anymore a better choice is limewire it works better and on all computers good luck!!!!! :)


My fiance and I want to get tattoos in October on his birthday.

We have a design in mind. We would like to get a matching star tattoo. As in, half a star on his right foot, with several smaller stars around it, and the matching half of that star on my left foot, with the same stars around it.

Now, i KNOW there is a picture of this design somewhere because i found it once a while back, and it was the main reason we decided to get matching tattoos. But I have searched all over the place for this design and can NOT find it anywhere. It was a picture of the tattoo actually on a couples feet and the picture is in black and white. if any of you guys know of this picture and know where i can find it, could you please give me the link? thank you SO much! (link)
I tried looking but i couldnt find it but if you go to a tattoo artist he/she can make a sketch for you its easier then looking on the internet all day good luck!! :)


I was wondering if it is worth it to buy the Pantech Duo (at&t) if I don't use internet on my phone? (link)
Yes it is so worth buying it because even if you dont use the internet you can use all the other features that are in it which are amazing so just get it and dont use the internet but the keyboard makes it easier to type for like text messages and stuff. :)


which one is better overall?
the slim psp, or the original fat psp?

thanks! (link)
slim psp is better not only is it light weight but it fits in the smallest spaces and its just better overall trust me i have one myself and find it better then the original one because the original ones are kinda heavy and as soon as they drop the screen breaks the light weight doesnt break that fast.


I lost my virginity when i was 13. Now i am 18 and i am a prostitute. i want to quit, because a client got me pregnant. How can i quit? I don't know how to do anything else I am only good at sex. :( (link)
K well first try finding another job that pays well and that you have a interest in eventually you'll get good at what your doing if you need help with anything else just message me good luck!!! :)


hi...Everytime i take a shower my hair gets all poofy and yuk! I am definitely not going to stop taking shower so what should i do? my hair is naturally straight but straightening it would help the poofiness....i just dont have time to sit and straighten my hair in the morning or before i go to bed. do u have any suggestions?

(link)
try Herbal Essences Dangerously Straight Pin Straight Conditioner its a conditioner that will give you straight hair so you wont have to use a straightener but make sure after you shower use a blow dryer that also helps your hair stay straight for a long time if you have any questions feel free to ask good luck!!! :)




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