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Ok I know probably a lot of people ask this, but how do you make out? Like I know everyone is different and people prefer different ways, but I have only made out like twice and I was not very sure what I was doing! Don't tell me I'll know what to do when I am ready, because I am ready. I have had many more opportunities to make out, but I back down because I am scared of messing up or something you know?! And also please dont say to wait for the right person and it will be perfect. Sorry but I don't believe that. Ok thank you so much! Im 14 by the way. (link)
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just practice with your hand.. and the guy doesn't always have to lead... its not the 90s the girls can take lead too! I did with my ex and thought it was sexy i took lead anywho... don't worry about.
go to:
http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/aa010203b.htm
for more info!
-Bess
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i like this boy name brian he is in my class and he is very cute i do say so myself but i dont kno if he likes me or not he always ask me do i have a boyfriend or do i go with this person or that person but i really cant tell i want some flirting advice wut is flirting give me some flirting tips or the steps 2 flirting
1.if some 1 asks you do you have a boyfriend does that mean they like you
2.i need flirting tips (link)
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first off, if he keeps asking you if you have a boyfriend chances are is that he is interested in you or maybe he is nosey! haha.
second off, just hang out with him maybe call him. Laugh at some of his jokes (if he is funny) maybe tell him to go to the movies with you sometime and if your uncomfortable with it being just the two of you then ask your friends to accompany you and ask him to bring some of his friends. also complement him on his clothes or looks even. good luck!
-Bess
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what does it mean when a guy offers to let you wear his jacket? (link)
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he might be thinking of you as more then a friend. flirt with him.. he seems like a gentlemen and those are very rare to find!
-Bess
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My ex boyfreind brandon and i have been getting along k, and i still like him and he still likes me, but we get into stupid argumnts sometimes but we deal with them. i just broke up with him about 3 weeks ago, so we r not completely over each other. He tells me that he stil loves me and wants to b there 4 me and go out with me and that hes not ready to let go of me. and i realized that i feel the same way. excpet that i will have to think about going back out with him or not cause im not sure whether to or not to. well me and him during lunch at skool went to the back of the skool and were talking and that lead up to kissing and holding each other and saying how much we still care about each other and that he dosent want anyone else besides me. well we had fone that 4 like 3 days in a row-going and talking and kissing..ect.i mean- and well today i heard from a girl that i no, me and her arent that tight of freinds but still, anyways she told me that my ex-brandon liked her and wanted to go out with her. and me and brandon i thought, were getting pretty close again, and then he goes and pulls that bullshit. it hurt me cause he said that he dosent want anybody else but me and look, he goes and starts flirting with other girls. well i talked to him today at lunch and he said that he thought that i didnt like him or wanted to go out with him and crap. well i told him that if i didnt like him or didnt want to go out with him then i wouldnt b spending my time with him at lunch. and he kept making up stupid excuses, and then hes like, well when i said that i liked brittney, it was just a thought, and he said that he dosent want to go out with her any more and that he only wanted me and crap. well what should i do? should i continue to spend time with him and do crap with him and try to get closer to him to go out with him, or just stop trying to be close and stop trying to go out with him? im so confused and hurt! (link)
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don't get back with him, i recently got back with my ex over the summer.. and it was the worst idea.. you realize that the first break-up was for a reason.. which is that you two aren't meant to be together as a couple but maybe as friends.. i would suggest staying away from him for away until you forget about him as a love interest.. move on and meet a new guy thats better for you. there are so many fish in the sea.
-Bess
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is there any way to get rid of split ends without cutting your hair? (link)
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not really.. just to prevent more damage to hair try not to put your hair up into a ponytail or braids. go to a hair dresser and see what they say.. my hair dresser cut my hair short and it doens't seem like i have many split ends.
-Bess
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Okay, i have this friend [lets call her annie]. Annie and I are really really close!!! Well she has this boyfriend [lets call him paul] Well, Paul and I went out last year for a little. I broke up with him because I just didnt see a relationship in it. Well, now since they are going out...
I guess Paul like..hates me. He said I was mean to him and he said that im annoying and stuff. annie and paul have been going strong for about 9 months. I don't know why it is that hes so mean to me! Its really annoying. he is such a jerk! What should I do?!?! (link)
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well you said you broke up with him. he may still have feelings for you and is just hiding it with anger and acting like a jerk because of the whole situation. i think you should pull him to the side and tell him how much it hurts you and tell him to call it "truths".
-Bess
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What do guys find attractive about girls? (link)
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well every guy is different. sometimes guys go after girls for their looks, some go after the personality, or even their sense of humor. it really depends on the guy!
-Bess
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i burn my face realy bad like i cooked off 4 layers of skin out of 7 it kills and i put stuff on it to make it better but it makes it hurt worce my skin is realy gross so i was wondering will it get back to normal befor school and thats in a little over a month. is there anyway to make it heal faster because im always crying because it hurts soOOooOOO bad (link)
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made use some moisturer and stay out of the sun as much as possible. also i would suggest going to a doctor.
-Bess
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hi i finished my boyfriend today as i havent seen him since tuesday but i have only been going out with him for a week anyway and dont know him as well as i would like if i had a boyfrined. but i finished him as he used to go out with my best friend ages ago but they decided that they would be frineds instead although they absolutly hate each other now!! and if i had still have been going out with him i would have had to see them both separatly and i didnt want that! and people alway say that you should chose you friends over you boyfriends but i think i have realy hurt him and hes a bit anoyed with me do you thik i have done the right thing??? i have said i still want to talk to him but he dosent seem to keen. (link)
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i think your right, you need to trust your heart and go with it.. just give him time and you guys can become good friends. you need a guy who is always going to be there for you.. no matter what. you shouldn't wait for him, he should wait for you.
-Bess
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To my family, what I know is either never taken seriously, or they just dont listen to me, then realize im correct and dont give me any credit, or change the subject when i say "thats exactly what i just said" or something like that. to SOME of my friends, they use me for multiple things, and boss me around. its like to my family I have a say nobody everyone overlooks, and to some of my friends I dont even have a say. please help me (link)
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i say you stand up for yourself.. don't let them bring you down... you have to work up your confidence.
-Bess
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So i want to go to the movies on friday with my best friend and a guy friend. i asked my mom and she said to ask my dad and my dad says no because he doesnt want me going with guys. but the problem is, i really, really want to go because my crush might be there. and i really want to spend time with him before schol starts. what do i do to make my parents maybe think it over? thanks =)
13/f (link)
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well 13 is usually the age where you start to get more priviledges and you get to hang out. maybe tlak it over with your dad more.. maybe you guys can make up a system tell him where your going who is picking you up form the hosue who is driving you home and what time you'll be home. maybe even introduce him to some of your friends, make him feel comfortable so he isn't worrying all night about where you'll be. let him know your responsible and that you'll do the right thing. good luck!
-Bess
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im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice (link)
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i know where your coming from hun and you need to tell someone right away. he isn't going to hurt you.. you need to tell someone now it is so important that you do. don't let anyone every hit you or treat you wrong... if they do tell a parent no matter what the other person my say. he is threatening you and hurting you... thats not right!
-Bess
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well me and my boyfriend are back together he asked me out and i said yeah...but he is being nice but he wants to go to this place where all my friends hangout and all his friends play soccer and we all hang out there and im just worried that he will hit on my friends...and tommorow he is going to new jersey with his friends but i dont trust his friends because they always try to break us up and i dont know what i should do should i be mad that he is going to the those places?...well thank you (link)
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i think if you can't trust him honestly.. i think you should let him go. if your that worried just let him go he isn't worth your time. i have been in this situation recently and i realized their not going to change their ways they are just going to continue being who they were before. changes are if he hurt you the first time, he'll do it again. ask why you aren't going with him.. because honestly if you and him are going out again he should take you with him and he should treat you like a princess. and if not he isn't worth it... just let him go i know it'll be hard but he's not worth all that trouble! hope i helped!
-Bess
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what is loneliness? (link)
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"the worst loneliness is not to be comfortable with yourself." - mark twain
-Bess
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What sports have you played in the past? (link)
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i've played:
basketball
softball
tennis
track
-Bess
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how many ex's do you have? What are their names? (link)
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umm.. thats personal! none of your business!
-Bess
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i'm torn between two brothers. i got asked out by one of them, but i guess the other one wanted to go out with me. now he wants to since i broke up with the other brother. what do i do? (link)
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yeahh... that a bad idea.. wow why are all these questions close to the experiences.. i've had? hmm.. i wonder.. anyways thats not a good idea! don't get in the way of brothers... you went out with the other one just tell the other one your not interested and in the words of kelly clarkson.. WALK AWAY!
-Bess
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what do you do if your boyfriend drinks and smokes? (link)
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haha... nothing really! believe me i thought i could and i didn't. haha. you can't stop someone from smoking or even drinking. he is gonna do what he wants. just don't look at his negatives, look at his positives. and like him for him.
-Bess
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what do you do for excercise? (link)
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i run and dance! i run a couple miles every other day.
-Bess
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Do you have any pets? (link)
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nope. i had a couple of goldfish growing up and my guess i kind of have a dog (its my aunt's) but i take care of it a lot. she is a beagle her name is chloe.
-Bess
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