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he cant make up his mind!!!! uugghhh


Question Posted Tuesday October 3 2006, 5:31 pm

My ex boyfreind brandon and i have been getting along k, and i still like him and he still likes me, but we get into stupid argumnts sometimes but we deal with them. i just broke up with him about 3 weeks ago, so we r not completely over each other. He tells me that he stil loves me and wants to b there 4 me and go out with me and that hes not ready to let go of me. and i realized that i feel the same way. excpet that i will have to think about going back out with him or not cause im not sure whether to or not to. well me and him during lunch at skool went to the back of the skool and were talking and that lead up to kissing and holding each other and saying how much we still care about each other and that he dosent want anyone else besides me. well we had fone that 4 like 3 days in a row-going and talking and kissing..ect.i mean- and well today i heard from a girl that i no, me and her arent that tight of freinds but still, anyways she told me that my ex-brandon liked her and wanted to go out with her. and me and brandon i thought, were getting pretty close again, and then he goes and pulls that bullshit. it hurt me cause he said that he dosent want anybody else but me and look, he goes and starts flirting with other girls. well i talked to him today at lunch and he said that he thought that i didnt like him or wanted to go out with him and crap. well i told him that if i didnt like him or didnt want to go out with him then i wouldnt b spending my time with him at lunch. and he kept making up stupid excuses, and then hes like, well when i said that i liked brittney, it was just a thought, and he said that he dosent want to go out with her any more and that he only wanted me and crap. well what should i do? should i continue to spend time with him and do crap with him and try to get closer to him to go out with him, or just stop trying to be close and stop trying to go out with him? im so confused and hurt!

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AdviceMistress answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 12:47 am:
don't get back with him, i recently got back with my ex over the summer.. and it was the worst idea.. you realize that the first break-up was for a reason.. which is that you two aren't meant to be together as a couple but maybe as friends.. i would suggest staying away from him for away until you forget about him as a love interest.. move on and meet a new guy thats better for you. there are so many fish in the sea.

-Bess

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