mrs_radcliffe's advice column

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^that's the link i want to use for music in my myspace....

will someone help me activate it into my page?

Forward it into your profile and when you go on your colunm it should work but sometimes the site that you got your music from doesnt let it work.

luv roxie

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I really like this guy let's call him Joe and 2 of my friends also like him and it gets crazier than that. The first time I saw Joe the room seemed to melt away, like him and I were the only ones in the room. Then it happened again a couple months later. I'm so confused because I just started liking him recently! What do you think is happening to me? And should I tell my friends? Thanks! I appreciate it!

Your in love you like him alot, why not tell your friends if they were really good friends they would support you and help you get him!

luv roxie

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I'm 20 years old, and going out with this guy this Friday. He's a little bit shy, but I know he's really nice and funny and smart, and I really like him. However, I kinda want the realationship to get a bit more serious. Any tips on how to break the ice?
Thanks~

Just be you! thats all you can do because once you start talking he will soon be ok and you can just talk about work and how he is and stuff.

luv roxie

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okay, so i have this friend, and she cuts herself. it really scares me, because one time she cut so deep that it wouldnt stop for a while. her dad abuses her, and she doesnt get along with her mom very well. her boyfriend went away for spring break and she misses him a lot. she cut herself again because she thinks her life is so fucked up, and she thinks she should die. i really want to help her, but i dont know what to do. please help!!!

take her to councilling you dont have to tell anyone, you wont understand why she does it ive been through it to and it was hard to understand why! Let her see that she has a lot of good stuff in her life often people cut because there depressed or unhappy, Make her see that its ok and that your there for her.

luv roxie

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i want a music code for the theme song of the show 'zoey 101' does anyone know a specific site i can find it on.(don't suggest google, i tried that) thanks!

Is that show on nicolodeon? if so it has been advertised over her but hasnt come out yet, anyways
down loads a music station where you can download songs for free. Type winMX in google or kazza lite into it too.

luv roxie

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Whenever i shave i get ingrown hairs ... how do you prevent them?

go mad with the shaving cream and just get in all the hairs but do it gentally. use a good brand of razor to.

luv roxie

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how do you make the little hearts by some peoples names... i have copied and pasted but only a question mark comes up.

i know how to make it with © in the font symbol but i don't think you can use html in your posts to change the font.

thank you for your help!

&ohearts; take out the o! there you go

luv roxie

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Sorry this is gonna be long, but I need your advice. Right now I have a boyfriend that loves me very very much. But one of my guy friends likes me just as much as my boyfriend does. I think that I might like my friend more than I like my boyfriend, but I'm not really sure. I can easily tell my friend that I love him too. My friend and another friend of mine always talk about me (they both like me). He always says that he wants to do stuff with me and stuff like that. I'm not sure what I should do...who to go out with. What do you think? If it helps I am 13/f and my boyfriend is 14. My friend is almost 15.

I think you should go out with your friend if he likes you and you ca trufully say you love him then thats a couple worth having.

luv roxie

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hi, I am hard of hearing and very good at sign language, i was wondering anybody knows any sites on play wanted or site had bout being actore but you have dibitles and deafness

Nope, sorry but my family do look after a boy who speaks sign language so if you wanted any help ask.

luv roxie

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i want grow little more, i know its naturel but i feel like there is something help u grown little.. there is i know anybody knows

There isnt really anything today i now how you feel im nearly 15 and im 5f2 and my friend is 5f11 so it makes me feel so small. Just be happy with you you will grow but it will take some time you dont stop growing until your in your twentys.

luv roxie

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i can't make a habit, i do want start cleaning my drapes there got dust on it. hardget them off. any advice?

You can get these feather dusters which can reach hard places that are high and they trap the dirt. Get a damp cloth and wake your drapes down and spray polish on them that will make them look shinny and clean.

luv roxie

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ok well i want to lose weight with out going to the gym or anything becuase im to young! im a 13/female. i rate 5's! plzz help!

Weight well your a teenager your bound to put weight on but try some of these:
Riding a bike
going for walks (long ones and its good for you)
do aerobics (get a video and exercise in your own room)
dancing can help no stop dancing for an hour or half an hour.
Do something you enjoy mabe a sport e.g volly ball,football,tennis,basket ball.

luv roxie

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hey i wanna talk to this kid i like, and im pretty sure he already knows i like him, but i dont want to make it obvious if he doesnt, which im like 99% sure he does like i said but anyway i dont know how to start talking to him, i mean used to talk alot but now im scared to talk to him, i mean i dont know what to say, other then, "hey whats up" and crap.

Just be normal, talk about everything and school and life good luck

luv roxie

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What do you do for clammy hands?

Wash them! and rub cream into them and dry them with tissue.

luv roxie

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my boyfriend which is 16 and i am 14 we love each other a lot and care about each other but 4 the past couple of days his sister hates me because i am not a virgin and she is trying to do everything she can to break us up and i dont know what to do!! can u plz help? i will rate!! i dont want to lose him i love him with al my heart.

tell him that she is trying to come between you, ask her why she doesnt like you and try be friends with her.

luv roxie

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OK I think i LOVE one of my best friends.We became good friends in the 7th grade but i met him in kindergarden.He knows I like him and all that but he always tends to like my best friends.I just don't know what to say to him or anything.He's leaving to Florida saturday for 15 days for spring break and im in the 8th grade and i never had a boyfriend yet and he's my first REALLY BIG crush.HELP!

Wait till he gets back from florida, and then tell him that you like him dont say love because some boys are sometimes put of buy that. Just be your self he wil see you for who you are, there is always a possiblitly that he sees you as a friend, so if you think thats all he sees you as invite him to the cinema or round to yours for a video, and just be you.

luv roxie

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well i decided to have a sleep-over but i dont know what i should do or what movies i sohlud rent.. pleez help me out here. if u say truth or dare please give examples.

Cool a sleepover there great you could get loads of fizzy pop and sweets, different music and mabe order a take-away that would be great
games do stuff like truth or dare, dress up games, spin the bottle but something funny not kissing or anything like that. Rent a video and hit the couch and have some fun. Do make overs it will be good enjoy.

luv roxie

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i rent a cottage in the summer and i asked my friends to come down. how can i convince my mom to let the boys stay with us? we have a tent so we could put it on the beach and we could have the boys sleep in it.

I dont think you mum wil agree to it because mums are like that and boys staying with you in a tent she might get a bit worried, just convince her tell her that your responsible show her! and that might work it might not though bepends how she is with everything.

luv roxie

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