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I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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i can't decide which one of the new ipod nano colors i like the best. i think i've narrowed it down to purple, orange, and red. i just need some opinions to maybe sway mine, haha. here's the link if you haven't seen them:

http://www.apple.com/ipodnano/ (link)
the red one looks really nice i think you should get that one its very bright and just really nice looking lol i hoped i helped good luck on deciding.




What the heck does Deja vu mean?? (link)
it means when something happens and you feel as if its already happened or you've visioned it already so something that you thought you already witnessed.


Bahahahaha I know stupid question, but I honestly don't know.

Like, with a stranger you see in a shop or something. I know you don't go up to them and be all over them, because not only is that an anti social thing to do, but they may have a girlfriend.

But how do you flirt? I really don't know, lol. (link)
lol k so basically flirting is just being friendly with a guy you tell him how funny he is and how handsome and cute you think he is and just twirl your hair to show that your interested and just ask if he would like to hang out afterschool or something if he doesnt already ask you.


Kayla will NOT leave me alone...

This girl has been driving me insane. It all started with when I was going out with my ex boyfriend. When him and I started going out we would say that she would be out to "ruin our relationship" because she was jealous. Well ding, they both got drunk one night and hooked up. It was ridiculous, but I forgave him and just moved on. She was all nice to me after that, so whatever. Now that boy and I broke up recently, and she is still out to get me... not even kidding.

I met this kid at a concert I went to, who is friends with my other friend. Him and I have been talking a lot and have been doing pretty well, but of course here comes Kayla. She calls him all the time asking him to hang out, and talking bad about me and whatnot. I HAVE NO IDEA WHY SHE DOES THIS. They were friends before him and I started talking, so I can't stop their friendship, but I have no idea how this kid and I are going to work if she continues to do this.

She graduated, I am a junior. Her little sister is a freshman and I have no idea who she is, and yet Kayla leaves me a facebook message asking why I've been threatening to beat up her little sister. What? I never said that, and yet she doesn't believe me.

Please don't say "just ignore it." I have ignored it for half a year and she still won't stop. I tried asking her why she hates me, but that didn't work either. I honestly just don't know what to do anymore, I am about to go insane. (link)
ask her to meet you up somewhere and just sit her down and tell her you need to talk and if that doesnt work then go talk to her parents or something these are the only ways your going to get rid of her.


I know this is kind of a weird question but i just bought $70 and my dog got ahold of them and chewed the strap.. could you look at the shoe (link at the bottom) and tell me if there is some way to fix this through sewing or something...?!

http://www.skechers.com/shoes-and-clothing/women/styles/new_arrivals/product/bikers_-_itgirl/toff/q/brown (link)
no there isnt a way to fix that unfortunatly i guess you going to have to buy another pair the reason you cant fix it is that when making shoes they use special sewing techniques that requires machines and thats why you cant fix it by hand.


ok so say your boyfriend breaks up with you because yall dont ever see each other but yet u dont care and yet he breaks up with you.
you want to get back together with him but hes over it.
so yall decide to be friends but its sooo awkward how do i get him back? (link)
once a guy breaks up with you there isnt really a chance to get back together i think its best if you are just friends and if its meant to be then maybe he will ask you to be his gf again and if not you should just move on good luck:)


I was in a relationship, and had a male friend who I had a real connection with. When both our lives (me and the friend’s) got busy, I kind of let go of the friendship. My relationship was on the rocks (I sort of knew I should never have gotten so involved with that boyfriend in the first place...) and I was afraid that if I continued to hang out with him I might do or say something inappropriate.

So, I’ve been out of that relationship for while now and I had dinner with my old guy friend and well, the feelings came pouring back really quickly. Although I know he had a bit of a crush on me before, I’m not sure he if he does now. For all I know he might have met someone.

I’m not sure what to do now or what to do say to him. I already apologized for being so flakey, but I don’t know if I should just hang out with for a bit and feel the situation out again or if I should just say straight up that I like him a lot and that is the reason I stopped hanging out as much ...

So I’m wondering, what people thought it would be best for me to do now? (link)
You should just tell im straight up because that's where you move on from so its best to jus tell him u like him and see what happens.


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Weeell, I'm 14, and I kind of need some help. See, this is pretty much what I'm like: I'm pretty, not beautiful, but, you know, pretty high above norm. I'm smart, I guess. I laugh EXTREMELY EASILY-not in an obnoxious way, but I have a very boy-ish sense of humor, and I'm pretty funny myself, too. Last part, I'm very shy in school. But, anyways, I've noticed boys really like being around me. And I feel totally comfortable around them. A lot of popular boys are always teasing me, talking to me, you know. A LOT of boys like me, too, which makes them fool around with me a lot more, and I totally LOVE my "gift" as most people call it! I'm so lucky. But here's my problem. None of them have ever asked me out! Ok, well, quite a handful of boys have asked me out, but they were all... weird. And I don't get it! Do they want popular girlfriends so they don't look bad? Do they expect ME to ask THEM out? I've never done that before. So, I need some advice! How do I get boys to ask me out? They already like me, so, I don't know what else to do. (link)
Well if they dont ask you then just ask them out just be like would you like to hang out afterschool or something and if they enjoy it then they will most likely ask you out themselves next time good luck:)


The movie coming out, is it just about the first book, or all of them. That's all i want to know. Don't tell me what happens, I'm still reading the first one. (link)
yup its just about the first one


My dog really hates the smell of coffee. She won't go anywhere near it. I was wondering why this is? Thankyou for your time! (link)
My dog hates the smell of coffee too its cause the smell is too strong for them and when the smell of something gets too strong it kinda makes it hard for them to breath cause all they can smell is coffee so i would keep your dog out of your kitchen just until your done with your coffee.


its the one where gigi invites harper to the "loser" tea party.

does anyone know where i can find that blue dress that gigi's friend wore? it was blue,strapless,a little bow type thing on the front.

i tried google and i couldnt find any pictures,
so im sorry i cant show you it :\ (link)
I know what your talking about i loved that dress too :) it was so pretty i got one but i got mine in white i got it from mariposa i dont know where you live so i dont know if you'll have the store but ya Mariposa is where you can get it good luck:)


how you know somone your soulmate.. question 2 you know or feel there your soulmate but your not in love with them (link)
K so a soulmate is someone who you have deep feelings for in every relationship so friendship,marriage,engagment anything like that so if you feel a strong connection with that person then you found your soulmate but if your not in love with your soulmate then its fine not everyone falls in love with there soulmate but some people who dont still try to like them so maybe just get to know them and maybe you will end up loving them well good luck:)


so i'm 18, i have a pretty chizzled body, i've been dating the sexiest girl alive for the last 18 and i'm lead guitar in a heavy metal band. So what's my problem you ask? ACNE!!!!! i hate it and it's ruining my life. i've had acne since i was 13 or 14, i can't remember but i'm in college, this spit has to get out of my life, right now. i've been doing proactive on and off for about 2 years now, since it's been severe. also in that time i have seen 2 dermotologists. the first one way back gave me pills and a topical gel. it did nothing so i took myself off the pills and the gel and went back onto proactive for awhile. the acne just never went away for good. when one spot would go another would on the way. i went to another dermotologist about 2 months ago. he gave me atralin and nicotinamide. they both are not helping so recently i threw them both in the garbage. i'm back on proactive and i'm taking these, biodermazen. i'm so tired.....so so tired. it really upsets me because i could be a model if i didn't have acne. i want to sometimes just take a knife and cut the skin off of my face and start over. i want to gauge my eyes out with a metal spoon. i want to grow out the sickest beard of all time to hide the acne but my girlfriend isn't into jerry garcia and i can't grow a beard, only scruff. what do i do? im so tired......so very tired. (link)
try proactive its the only thing that gets rid if acne and its the best everyone i knoe whose used has the healthiest and best looking skin you couldnt even tell they ever had acne well i hope u try it because its amazing good luck:)


okay so i REALLY know nothing about viruses and stuff.
but i do know not to download something right away.

this thing called ANTIVIRUS2009 popped up and said im infected with trogan and something else [i forgot]

so like please can someone tell me if this is real and if it is its safe to download?

please answer because that stupid thing keeps popping up and i DO NOT want my brother to see it because its his computer >.<
please!! (link)
antivirus2009 is a virus itself look for something like auntivirus2008 system check its better and it works and if that doesnt work then i would just tell your brother so he can fix it actually instead of fixing it yourself just tell him just to be on the safe side good luck:)


I am letting my hair grow out from a very short pixie hairstyle to something much longer, ideally. I haven't gotten my hair cut in three and a half months now. Lately I've noticed a lot more hair loss on my pillow and when brushing my hair (more hair buildup on the brush as well).

How can I tell if I am actually losing my hair (it falling out) or if it's just breaking off somewhere on the shaft? (link)
k your hair is definitly falling out when u notice a big build up of hair on ur clothing and bed and brush you should probably do something bout it i would go to a nearby department store and look for some hair products that will help try a few brands and use the one that works best or go to a nearby salon and ask them if they can give you the right treatment.


I have been going through shoe brands trying to find something to fit my needs comfortably. I am aware of brands like Nike, Reebok, and Adidas for my needs. I am looking for an affordable walking/running shoe, nothing insanely outrageous in cost. I go outside a lot and walk the neighborhood for daily exercise. Some days I spend an hour or more on my treadmill at home. I really would like something with nice cushioning of my heels but am uncertain which brand and style I should be looking at.

Any advice on which shoe brand or style is best for my needs? Is there anything I should be looking for in particular when trying on shoes at department stores/shoe stores? I have heard very good thing about Nike, specifically Nike Shox, but not from very reliable sources. (link)
nike's and addidas are actually the most comfortable shoes and i own a pair in both brands and i love to walk and run as well i find the nike's are better when running they are very comfortable and and addidas are good too but tend to rip easily from the sides well i hope i helped good luck:)


what really is a fling? is like when two people just makeout and do intimate things together but not have any feelings?? or is it liek a sex-buddy, when you just meet up to have sex and leave.
thanks. (link)
a fling is when two people like have a conection


I was staying at my dad's house and some bug kept biting me during the night. I ended up with lots and lots of very itchy bug bites that were very uncomfortable. I decided that I would purchase an allergy medication at the local Wal-Mart to help the itchiness die down.

I purchased Claritin after looking through the allergy section. They had Benadryl, Claritin, Allegra, and Zyrtec. I chose the Claritin because it was affordable and had the non-drowsy plus.

I had just woken up 2 hours prior to making it back home with the Claritin. I took it as directed and within an hour I was knocked out. I ended up sleeping for a good 12 hours straight, if not a longer. I checked the packaging and it claims that the drowsiness is NOT a side effect at all.

I didn't take anything else with the Claritin. I felt completely fine before taking the Claritin. It was like the light switch turned off all of a sudden and stayed that way for 12 hours. I've decided to not take Claritin anymore because of this reason.

Can anyone tell me what happened? Am I allergic to an ingredient in Claritin? Is this side-effect just an extremely rare case? (link)
claritin like other allergy medications is kind of a drug and anyone who takes it is bound to get tired it works for about an hour and then your out i would stop using it because allergy medication is the number 3 cause for roadside accidents.


I am always tired and drowsy. When I go to school, I usually nod off in a few of my classes. It's really embarrassing because I've tried many things to stay awake! The tiredness isn't good because sometimes I miss a few crucial parts of the notes I'm taking in class.

I think I'm getting enough rest every night. I usually sleep about 7 hours, maybe a little more. I don't do anything that requires a whole lot of energy early in the day so I can't understand why I'm always so tired!

I'm even tired on the weekends when school is out. I can sleep at any time of the day. I don't want to be tired anymore. It seems like I'm always trying to make room in my day for a nap to relieve the drowsiness, but it never works and I'm always tired again when I wake up.

What can I do? (link)
k well first of all teens need around 8-9 hours of sleep so try to get those hours of sleep nextt in the morning dont just have cereal have some fruits on the side or even better eggs because eggs keep your brain on and help you concentrate also drinking hot chocolate might help and or coffee and i know coffee is bad but it helps and it really isnt that bad it keeps you going through the entire day without if yawning good luck :)


I heard that Sodium Lauryl Sulfate causes cancer. I noticed that it's in my shampoos and toothpastes (I'm sure lots of other things too). I was reading that using shampoo with Sodium Lauryl Sulfate in it will cause brain and skin cancer. It also said that Sodium Lauryl Sulfate may also cause cancer in the mouth, throat, and bones (teeth). I do not want any type of cancer!

I KNOW this ingredient is used to create the foaming action in other products, but I don't understand why someone would put such a dangerous product in things we use daily. I am really hoping that this whole thing is a hoax/myth about Sodium Lauryl Sulfate causing cancer, but I have no idea and am getting frightened!

If it does cause cancer, I definately want to find products not containing Sodium Lauryl Sulfate, but I've been searching through the stores with no avail. I don't want cancer because I washed my hair every day!

So, does Sodium Lauryl Sulfate actually cause cancer? If so, can anyone recommend products that do not have Sodium Lauryl Sulfate included so that I can avoid such a cancer risk? (link)
it doesnt cause cancer if it did then everyone in the world would have cancer because everyone uses products ith sodium lauryl sulfate so dont worry about it cause it wont affect you so dont even think about it.




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