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Ok my friends a girl but shes just a friend and she says that she is really fat but shes really not like shes really skinny. And she says shes on diets and stuff like that, how can i make sure that she wont like hurt herself or anythin bad? (link)
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If you see dark circles under her eyes or see her dizzy speak with her parents about it they'll certainly take matters into their own hands or get someone else's opinion to tell her she doesn't need dieting that she looks fine the way she looks.She must probably go through stress.Help her try convincing her to stop its bad tell her things that will get the foolish idea of too much dieting if she doesn't really need to.Hope you can stop her.
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I asked a question before about my nephews army themed birthday party and I had another question:
I am thinking about letting them have a water war with water balloons and water guns. But it's really hot and I'm not to thrilled with the idea of having to pick up all the pieces of balloons out of the yard. So, I was thinking that maybe I could offer a prize to the kid that picks up the most pieces. My question is: Do you think it would be rude to ask the kids/guests to clean up the yard, even if I turn it in to a game? (link)
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In this situation well in a way it is because it's suppose to be something fun to do plus just let them have fun just do it for his birthday. Or you could have them play another game with fake toy guns that don't send flames to shoot at a wall or buy other fun games he'll enjoy and it could help by asking him or his mom.
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ok this is going to be rather long but lets get to it i am a 14 year old female i love my like and have thousands of friends...but there is this guy i know nick he is so hot and super sweet about a week ago me and my friends Jessica & sarah went to a movie with nick. me and him sat together.. when i went to get a drink my friends asked him if he liked me he said yes but he wasnt over his ex girlfriend. but then half way through the movie he grabbed my hand..i was super happy adn we kinda cuddled then at the end of the movie he kissed me and we kinda made out this is normally not like me but if just kinda happend then we walked out of the theater holding hand and we hugged outside untill the minute i left..then he kissed me.
then next day he sent me a E-mail saying he really likes but but he can't go out wiht me i was so crushed and he told me to sit around and wait for him to be over his ex....
this is so not like nick he is not the kind of guy to EVER do that amnd everyone was shocked.
then a couple days ago he totally forgot abput me and told my bestfriend that he didnt like anyone ....there is lots mnore o the story but i am so crushed i tried to tell him how i felt but all he could say is i dont hate you i like you.
so know i dont know what to do ...he kissed me and then just left me???
Please help.
Reality. (link)
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Give him some time he'll eventually get over his ex tell him you'll give him time when he's ready to start a relationship to let you know.Just be friends earn his trust who knows it might not even take long to get over that ex of his. Be very patient if you really like nick.
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Hey advicenators!! I need help on motivation:
well over the summer we need to read two books and do a book report on one of them. My school starts the 29 of aug. and i still havnt started either of my books. Im usually really good with this stuff and get it done before the first month of summer. But this year i just cant find motivation cuz the books suck and are boring. I dont want to have a bad fist impression on my teachers and not have it all done by the first week of school!! What do you suggest?? what can i do to motivate myself? (link)
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Find a book you're interested in think about how great you'll be presented fully prepared.You want a first good impression don't start off a bad one on the first month especially the first day.Probably a book that relates to you which will motivate you to want to read it go to the library or search it I have a good site for it www.answers.com
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i have a problem thats been getting to me for the past couple months. i cant be alone. like if im home by myself and not talking to any1, i have problems like i get worked up and upset and im not exactly sure what to do about it. i have asthma and do get panic attacks so thats basically why its a problem. my bf has been trying to help me, and when he talks to me i feel 1000x better, but he cant talk to me all the time and i totally understand that. any advice id greatly appreciate and i'll definately rate you.
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Try going out for fresh air so you won't feel so lonely or somewhere like a park. Search things on you're computer or chat with someone.I used to have asthma when I was like nine years old and my mom's boyfriend helped me and I thank him for that. He would lay me down and sometimes I needed the window closed.Or buy magazines to read or newspaper or book to read thats what I do when I nothing to do.Hope you're feeling better!
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my husband is an alcholic, he promises to stop drinking but i always seem to find bottles of beer hidden in different places how can i help him stop he seems to think he is not hurting anyone but i dont like the drunken behaviour in front of my kids even though they are grown up but now he has his first grandchild and yet he still wont stop, you see he stopped drinking for 22 years and for the last 5 he has been secretly drinking cause everytime i find his bottl es we argue can you advise me please. (link)
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Go for professional help and convince your husband to go to a rehabilation center. Your husband needs all your help and support.Speak to him try not to argue keep insisting he'll have to listen if he loves you or do it for his kids at least because you're children might get hurt or get bad influence do it as soon as possible he could die if he keeps drinking throw out his bottles if he askes you why tell him you care about him thats why and especially for the kids who will strongly be affected of this terrifying situation.Take care!
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my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back (link)
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This friend of yours wants to hang with people who want to be the same thing as her she isn't worth it. Tell your sister not to invite her you will just get more upset if she still comes to your house. She will regret for not talking to you. Meet other people who don't care about having something in common friends, are able to understand whether you're different. Don't let other people treat you like that you're better than that and others will respect you for standing up to their bad behavior.
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My brother is away for the week and i'm normally allowed to stay up to 11 and my brother makes sure i go to bed. So i'm staying up later (a lot later) and i'm eating a lot at night. i'm afraid that i'm going to gain a lot of weight because i'm not going to be able to work it off. i don't want to throw it up because 1.that's just nasty 2.it's unhealthy 3.if i try it i might continue and become bulimic. could someone help me on what to do? (link)
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Try working out the next day or the day after eat a lot of fruit and vegetables when you're feeling hungry at night. You could workout three hours after you eat or before.Scroll down on my advice column for a couple of moves for the abs which you could do right at home it'll help you with stress because it helps me.
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ok well there is this guy at my school he i really like him he isnt in any of my classes but gym and im too shy to talk to him lol but he knows i like him but ive never talked to him i really wont to meet him thought like talk to him... so maybe then he would go out with me but im too scared to talk to him (link)
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You need to show this guy how much you like him if he happens to make eye contact smile or if he doesn't ask him to help you with a workout or something.Ask him what he thinks about the school or have a friend of yours to speak to him for you and that you want to get to know him.Or write him a note if he doesn't write back you should have to take other measurements for this problem and use all my options if necessary.Good Luck!
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I wear a DD size bra. Like, does that make me fat? And do boys like boobs that r like, DD size? Is it common do wear DD, or is that like wayy huge. Please be serious nd just answer, i'll rate high (link)
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DD bra is a large size bra it doesn't make you fat even people who are not fat use them.There are several guys who like boobs DD size because my brother's friends always talk about how they want their girlfriend to have big boobs!Even people in his class.It's natural if a girl has it so don't worry about that you have better things to worry about.
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Well, I recently purchased Certain Dri, I read on the back that you're only supposed to apply it before you go to bed, but what do you do the next morning? Do you wear another type of deoderant, or do you just dab baby powder, or what?
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Buy other deoderants like secret for extremely strong smell even for women or Addidas which is good for yellow marks because of excessive sweat or Ban beautifully skin which prevents irritation after shaving or Dove which is 24 hr protection which are excellent choices you choose!All you could purchase in pharmacies like Duane Reade.
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Okay, I'm sorry, but this is going to be REALLY long.
I was at summer camp last week, and i went with a bunch of my friends. We were having oodles of fun, and there was this guy there that i have liked for EVER! He lives near me and i see him alot, but he has never acted interested in me before. Now, at camp on...Tuesday, during the night game he sat next to me (on a loveseat) and started to poke my knee. So i poked him back. then he took his elbow and dug it into my hip so i jabbed him really hard in his side....it was kinda funny. Then he took his hand and kept putting it on my knee. I wasn't comfortable with that so i kept pushing it off but he wouldn't stop. Then on Wednesday he asked me to play tetherball with him, i so won. then we played pingpong, and i definitly lost. Then on Thursday it got REALLY weird. First I was in crafts and he was in pingpong. Those two games are in the same room. He lost in pingpong so he was sitting down. He called me over and told me too sit on his lap. I did not!!! Then I sat next to him in the chair next to him. He asked for my hand and i said "why" he said he wanted to see somthing. So i held out my hand. Then he just started holding onto my hand and stuff. I was really uncomfortable with this. After that my team and his team were assigned to go to the pool togeather. So while we were at the pool i did NOT want to go swimming. He kept splashing me and trying to push me in, and i was in my cloths! Then i got sick of it so i just jumped into the pool, cloths and all, and dunked him. Okay. He kept holding my hand all day and stuff and on friday, I was really uncomfortable with it. Then on friday everyone in camp catchs him making out with this girl!!!! Now i dont know what to think!!! I dont want to yell at him or anything, cause he is going through alot of problems and he has always been able to talk to me about them and no-one else. So i dont want him to think he cant. what should i do!!!!???? (link)
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This guy is interested in you a guy one time was poking me and smiling at me I just poked him back I just got really nervous. I don't play with guys but some just want to. Find another guy that boy is a player you don't want a guy who will cheat on you just maintain your friendship no more than that he's bad news. Don't fall into illusions he could break your heart!
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my boyfriends birthday is coming and i don't know what to get him i want it 2 be special but something that he will like does any one have any ideas on what to get a guy
please help i'll rate you a 5 iuf you can help (link)
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You should get your guy something like a bracelet with his name on it or CD's or a watch or a cool keychain with both your names or initials on the keychain or perfume that you chose that sounds wierd but he will know what you want your man to smell like he will probably be surprised but first times are just shocking as well!
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Hey well me and my best guy friend have been friends for as long as i can remember. everyone says he likes me. when we went swimming (beware- this is cheesy) he was like "go deeper into the lake so i can save you". its really corny but my friends are all "he was using that as an excuse to hug you" and crap like that. my friends also think he took me to the lake as a 'date' but he didn't call it that to me. he was like all over me while swimming as well... i'm not sure what this guy wants or what's going on. i didn't even really think much of it until my friends made a big deal about it. anybody have any thoughts?
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This guy does like you he will find a way to get his hands on you if you are not interested in him you might as well stay away from him his intentions are not good he seems like a person with a dirty mind. If he was nice he would respect you by not touching you without you wanting it to happen. He would tell you and ask if you feel the same way.Tell your friends to stop making a big deal and help you instead of telling you these things you don't want to hear.
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I just got contacts and you can see my dark circles under my eye REALLY bad. Makeup won't cover them up does anyone have any idea what I can do to get rid of them or cover them up with makeup? I will rate high! (link)
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Try makup like Wonder Finish or Estee Lauder.Best solution to your problem is to go to CVS or other pharmacies available ask someone to help you look for a product to make dark circles disappear they definitely have it or just read the section to help you look for it. Or go on a search engine for products for dark circles like www.google.com this is the best site I know of or Answers.com
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my birthday is coming up and my mom asked me what i wanted. the problem is i have NO clue what i want. could someone tell me what they got before or if they have a good suggestions?
BTW:
~nothing too expensive because i also got boots that were very expensive
~im 13 and a female
will rate 5's (enless its a smartass answer) (link)
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I have good suggestions they are jewelry,makeup collection,something special with your name on it,a genuine art piece,on a tour to meet a famous person,or ideal place you always wanted to visit or fun place like Astroland on Coney Island or Six Flags!
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I want more confidence...I want to be able to say I look good anf not care what people think
Thankss xoxcaittxox (link)
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If you want more confidence do things you enjoy doing and don't think you'll lose do whatever it takes to get where you want to go. Trust in yourself if people don't think you can't do something well prove them wrong but not something that is really dangerous or risk your life. Take part in games online or with friends if you need practice then do it take all you can. No matter how long it takes in the end you will be feeling good about yourself and what makes you stronger is achieving them people will recognize you for that.Always believe in yourself!
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My boyfriends' ex is pregnant, she isn't trying to break us up or anything. She stays out of my way and I stay out of hers. I love my boyfriend very much, do you think that the baby could break us up or make us closer. Please help. Should I talk to the ex or just leave things as are. (link)
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Have this situation settled talk to her if necessary a baby could break you too if you let it happen. Just because his ex is pregnant doesn't mean he's the father but if it turns out it is you should be supporting your guy if you are willing to be with him. It shows you care about him he'll take care of the baby and you too could still be together like Britney Spears and Kevin Federline look at them they are together or Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise those are two good examples. Another way I could put it is like sticking to a committment try looking at it that way. But if you don't want to be in this situation you don't have to make the right decision for yourself.
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i love to sing and i have a pretty nice voice but i dont know were to start and wut kind of songs to sing i can sing high but im not that good at singing low.how do i start out
PLEASE i need your help (link)
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Try singing operah which you will sing high or songs that relate to strong words like gangsters,crime,tiredness of bad things occuring write a song try it you have nothing to lose.Have people see you sing and let them be the judge someone close to you like a friend and ask for an honest opinion if you are not feeling it write somethingelse and don't give up which makes you a winner to reach your goals or dreams in life!
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My friend just apologized for blowing up at me and getting really pissed off. She said it was totally her fault and i forgave her right away because i wanted her back as a friend. Things went okay until my sexuality was brought up. She acted okay about it and said whatever i decided was okay but she wouldn't support it. Now whenever i talk to her she barely says anything and it really hurts. I thought she had forgiven me but it's almost like she said all that just to get it off her chest. She even said that this next school year she planned on making no enemies so i guess i was first on the list for her to apologize. I dont know what to do. She's really confusing me and i feel like i'm just annoying her. What's happening?!?!? (link)
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Well maybe she is not in the mood or she's not comfortable with your sexuality. Need to have a serious talk with her and ask her for her honesty if she still acts the same you need to move on make new friends who are worth talking to. You need to socialize with people who are willing to accept you for who you are not pretend to be something you're not. If I were you I would want an apology from her because that's not how you treat a friend how mean!
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