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Q: Is there anything wrong with a 9th grade girl dating a 7th grade guy?
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there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that. of course some people are probably gonna jugde you or talk shit and stuff like that, but don't let them bring you down. just remember, age is just a number, and the only thing that matters is that you're happy and he's happy. trust. i have a friend who's 23 &she's dating a 17 year old. yeah, it's illegal and stuff, and it sounds bad, but you should just see them together. they really make each other happy, and thats the only thing that matters.
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Q: So, my boyfriend Alex & I have been dating now for four months. This weekend we were supposed to spend it all together. Tonight, we were supposed to go to a haunted house, tomorrow we were supposed to hang out before we both had work, and Sunday we were supposed to hang out ALL DAY together, & just go sight seeing around Texas.
Unfortunately, on Wednesday he hurt his leg, and went to the Emergency Room, and now he's on crutches. His parents don't want him leaving the house and just want him resting, which is totally understandable because I want that as well. I haven't seen him since he's been hurt, and I'm finally going to be seeing him on Sunday, because his parents agreed me going over to their house is a good idea. Both of his parents will be home, but I wanted to do something really nice for him, since he's sick and stuck at home. Does anyone have any good ideas?
Thanks in advance! (:
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bring him chicken noodle soup. it's always good to show him you car. (: it's nice to give guys flowers too, you can give him some flowers. haha. just spend time with him. i'm sure he'll be grateful, considering it doesn't sound like he's been out of the house/with friends lately.
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Q: 16/f
i'm gonna start off by saying i'm NOT a whore
me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 9 months and he's fingered me once and we makeout alot thats about it ;; i kinda would like some more "exitement" and i give him handjobs all the time and was even thinking of giving him head (even tho i have NOO IDEA WHAT TO DO!) and maybe even sex! i've given him alot of time and i dont wanna like push him but do you think i should say something to him.. if so what?
btw he's one year younger then me
do you think that has much of an affect on it?
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well, considering he's a teenage boy, he probably has the same thing on his mind that you do. there's two ways you can get at this.
the first thing you can do is just go for it. just give him a blow job or something a couple of times, and if you want, hand him a condom. that way, he know's what you want. to give a blow job, you basically just suck on his thing and rub your tounge on it.
it sounds kinda like you're unsure of yourself. like maybe, you don't want to do this ? or you still feel uncomfortable with the process ? well.
the second way you can try this is by trying to talk to him. let him know you want some more excitement, and figure out if he's ready or not. at the same time, you'll probably figure out whether or not YOU are ready. just ask if he wants to take the relationship up a level, and ask if he's ready to go all the way. if not, don't push it. who knows, the conversation might even make you rethink that you really want.
good luck.
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Q: 16\f
My boyfriend fingered me like 3 months ago.. and it bled. But he had fingered me like 30 times before that day that it blead. So I was just wondering. We are planning on having sex pretty soon and I was wondering if it could still bleed even though it bled once when he fingered me...
And also, I want my FIRST TIME to be remerable. Any suggestionS? we both still live at home...
He has his liscense though
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since you have already blead, most likely, your cherry has already been popped and you won't bleed again. no matter what, the first time isnt that great. it'll probably be painful to some extent and go by real quick. if you really want to make it memorable, then do something late at night, or take a risk, like where you could get caught. makes it so much funner. you can sneak out at night, and go to a nice scenic area nearby or something like that. good luck.
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Q: okay. this is still a far way away. but just as a heads upp. for christmas how much tops should you pay on your boyfriends christmas present. and if this makes a difference we would be goin out for 3 months. andd like 2 weeks on christmas dayyy. thankkss muchh! :D
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$50-75 ish should be good.
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Q: I think I may be pregnant. I'm not so sure right now, so I'm not going to get a test or go to the doctors until I talk to my mom/boyfriend.
First of all, I'm on the pill and have been for almost a year and I use spermicide condoms ALWAYS. so i'm not sure if i am pregnant since we never had a tear in the condom.
But maybe it's my imagination, but my boobs got slightly bigger or maybe it's because i'm not wearing a bra? I dunno, they aren't tender or anything. My stomach looks bloated. I have a high metabolism too and my period is a week & a half away.
Is there any other reason why my stomach looks slightly bloated? Before I jump to conclusions?
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it could be that you aren't wearing a bra. and your stomach may be bloated from over eating/drinking. most likely, you're NOT pregnant. it doesn't sound like you could be.
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Q: 15/f if that helps.
ive been fingered before countless times and ive only had sex once but i have never bled.
is my cherry popped? or no?
thanks!
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well, it's possible that it hasn't been popped. you might have popped it doing something else (such as physical activity with a tampon on). either that, or nobody has fingered you deep enough and the boy you had sex with was too small, if you catch my drift. there's really no way of knowing unless you pop it later on, or you go ask a doctor.
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Q: I want to dye my hair as blonde as can be. Like Marilyn Monroe Blonde. The only problem is, i don't know what hair dye to use. I don't really want to pay 100$ to go get it perfesionally done, but i want a hair dye that actually turns out the color i want...
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just use bleach. if it's not as blonde as you like, lemon juice will make your hair blonder. they sell the bleach in hair dye kits. my friend used the garnier fructice hair dye that dyes your hair blonde (the girl on the box is blonde) and it turned out really good. there's a kit with the ingrediants for you to put together and gloves and everything. just follow the simple instruction manual.
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Q: I was recently elected student body president. And everyone already thinks I'm a failure.
I was given 400 free t-shirts to give out to the students, but there are 600 students. Everyone is picking on me begging me to "save one for them" or bitching about how its unfair that everyone doesnt get one.. but thats the way it is, i cant do anything about it!!
Now I've already given out about 100, but the system I was using is NOT working since its causing such a big problem.
So Im going to walk around the different classes in two days and tell them that I have XXX (number of shirts) for the class, and that it means not all of them will recieve one, but that they atleast get to choose the system used for deciding who gets a shirt.
Now what different options are there? All I've got is a)lottery, b) teacher gets to decided, c) i just leave them for the class and they make a decision as a whole, any more suggestions? anything that would be wise to say while walking around??
THANK YOU!
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you should just raffle them off at lunch, or have all the students gather around (maybe have an assembly) and throw them into the crowd.
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Q: Something that's like a vest, but with sleeves? =) Thanks
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http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=outerwear&product%5Fid=2040400746&Page=all
something like that?
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Q: so me and my bf are gonna have sex soon... Im 16, and i dont wanna go on the pill becuase I dont want my mom knowing.. ANYWAYS. I was just wondering, we wanna be REALLY safe, so a condom FOR SURE and we dont wanna have sex when im like about to ovulate u know.. so whats the best time? and also. he wouldnt ejacualte in me... how safe are we?
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it's hard to determine the best time for a teenager because your period and everything still isn't completely regulated or matured, but as long as he doesn't ejaculate in you, there's no way you can get pregnant.
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Q: ok, so here's my story. one of my best friends is now my boyfriend. some of my friends think we are like- gonna get married. but we first started going out a year ago. and we broke up because it seemed like we were still just friends. then we got back together, and we love each other. BUT some of my friends hate him. others like him, and others are really good friends with him. some of my friends arguments for not liking him are pretty ridiculous though, like that i wasnt spending time with them anymore-- which totally isnt true, (we were at sleepaway camp) and i was in their cabin- and spent like-- 18 hrs a day with them, so i dont kno if they are onto something or not, because i think that my bf is amazing, and he is sweet, and funny, and nice. please tell me what i should do! i mean, he really is trying to get them to be ok with him.
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well, if your friends are really your friends, they wouldnt judge you or your boyfriend, and they'd support you no matter what. TRUE friends always will. as long as he makes you happy. if they want to walk out of your life because of the choices you make, let them, you don't need them anyways. it doesn't matter what they think, the only thing that matters is what you think and that you are happy with him.
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Q: 15/f
i'm in love with this boy named cody at my school. we dated a little last year and we broke up because he liked another girl. we didnt know we were in love at the time. well i didnt anyway. well during that summer we started talking on the phone everynight until we fell asleep. we even talked for 7 hours one time. then he told me he loved me. well we kind of drifted apart when i found out that he was hitting on my friends girlfriend. well we flirt a lot and all but its just not the same. the other day he told me he was still in love with me and i said it back because i am. well i had asked cody to homecoming but he told me he wasnt going. well then like THE HOTTEST kid you could ever imagine (doug) who happens to be the kid ive been crushing on asked me to homecoming and we went and had a great time. but that night cody called me and asked how the dance was and i told him i had a lot of fun. so he said thats great well i just wanted to make sure that you had a good time. i would really like to date doug. but we only have one class together so we dont really get to talk much. but i just had so much fun with him. i need help. cody keeps hurting me and i want to get over him. and i think that the only way to do that is to maybe be with doug. and i just like doug so much but i dont know if hes into me like that. please help. sorry its soo long.
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i say date doug. i mean, its not like youre marrying him. if it doesnt work out, just break up, and start over. cody doesn't seem like the kinda guy any girl should get involved with. just get over him, move on, get with doug. and even if you dont think he likes you, its always worth a try. he could like you. life is about taking risks, so take one !
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Q: I have dark brown, shoulder length hair.
I would like to bleach a bit of it at the front, like the first few strands. Mostly tocreate a more dramatic effect.
I was wondering if anyone knew of a quick and cheap way to bleach my hair without totally destroying it.
Any help is appriciated.
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lemon juice works pretty well, but it's hard to do just one area. the best way to go is to just go buy one of those home bleaching kits.
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Q: okay i like this guy and this guy likes me back but the thing is i cant date till im 18 and im 16 right and and he is too and i dont know what to do if he's gonna ask me out because i cant date and stuff my parents said i cant date till im 18 he already holds my waist and stuff what do you think i should do? =/
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well that depends on your relationship with your parents. if they don't really know much about you and you don't talk to them much, just go out with him secretly. what they don't know won't hurt them. if you do talk to them a lot and they're understanding, try to talk to them about it. tell your mom there's a boy you like that asked you out and you wanted to know if they can just make this one little exception and stuff. personally, i'd just date him secretly, but its really up to you.
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Q: Does it hurt when you pop your cherry???...and if you dont pop it and wait till sex will it hurt when you have sex???...will you bleed as soon as you pop it???...will you have to stop havin sex becuz you r bleedin???
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i don't think it's the popping of the cherry that hurts. no matter what, the first time you have sex/masturbate, it will hurt. you do bleed, maybe not as soon as you pop it, but soon after. &no, you don't stop having sex.
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Q: Hi im Molly, and im 13. I broke up with my boyfriend because he was getting too busy for me. i still love him, but now its like he can't bare to look at me. he stays away frome me too. im not sure wat that means. sometimes when we make eye contant in class, we smile and he looks at me the way he did when we were a couple. he acts like my best friend on day and then avoids me another. can u try to tell me wats going on. thx for listening :)
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well, he might just be protecting himself. after all, you did just break up with him. he might be sad and feel some sort of resentment towards you. was he really sad when you broke up with him ? even if it didn't seem like it, he might be hurting really bad inside, and he probably just doesn't wanna get hurt again, so maybe he just wants to avoid you sometimes. (defense mechanism) you may not think guys are as emotional as girls, but the truth is, they are. it's just that they get emotional about different things and react differently. just give it time, and he'll probably become comfortable with you again soon.
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Q: 13/f
Okay, I'm emo. Well, my other friends are emo too, but they cut themselves. I don't. I want to know, to be emo, do you have to cut yourself? People are spreading rumors that I cut myself and that I'm a pervert. I mean, sure I have a perverted mind, but I'm immature, give me a brake! can someone explain to me why they would say I cut myself, which I don't, even if I am emo. do I have to cut myself???
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no, you don't have to cut yourself, don't do it. they say you do because it's stereotypical for a so called "emo" to cut themselves. but who cares what they say ? they don't know you anyways. don't let their rumors get to you. live your life, and eventually, if you don't react, they'll get bored. it's just what happens. people spread rumors to start drama &be entertained. just ignore it &do your thing. don't let the haters bring you down.
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Q: 17 f
So there's this boy who I use to have a huuuuge crush on and I still do but its just not as huge anyways I hadn't seen him in over three months until monday morning when I found out he goes to the same highschool as me now this is where the situation gets akward.....you see I really messed up ......instead of approaching him and saying "hiii!!!!!! How you been? You go to my school??" like I normally would I decided to be a little girl about it and just walk right by him like I didn't see him and now everytime we see each other we sortve just act like we don't know each other and he gives me dirty faces I feel so akward now because I realllly want to talk to him but I can't now because he thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not! How do I talk to him without making myself look stupid for not saying hi before? How do I talk to him? And most importantly how can I rebuild our friendship?
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that happened to me. sort of. just kinda smile at him next time you see him. he might smile back, or even say hi to you. thats what i did. i just smiled, and the guy said hi, and asked why i ignored him before. i told him i was just shy, and he smiled and said "aww thats cute". so just smile, and see where it goes from there. after a few days, just start saying hi, and start talking again. if he asks about it, just tell him you're shy !
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Q: Is it weird for a 9th grade girl to date an 8th grade boy? I rate and thanks so much!
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well, it is kinda weird to some people, but age really doesn't matter. if you like him and he likes you, don't let others' opinions get in the way of your relationship.
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Gender: Female Member Since: January 23, 2007 Answers: 334 Last Update: December 23, 2010 Visitors: 16104
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