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i'm in love with this boy named cody at my school. we dated a little last year and we broke up because he liked another girl. we didnt know we were in love at the time. well i didnt anyway. well during that summer we started talking on the phone everynight until we fell asleep. we even talked for 7 hours one time. then he told me he loved me. well we kind of drifted apart when i found out that he was hitting on my friends girlfriend. well we flirt a lot and all but its just not the same. the other day he told me he was still in love with me and i said it back because i am. well i had asked cody to homecoming but he told me he wasnt going. well then like THE HOTTEST kid you could ever imagine (doug) who happens to be the kid ive been crushing on asked me to homecoming and we went and had a great time. but that night cody called me and asked how the dance was and i told him i had a lot of fun. so he said thats great well i just wanted to make sure that you had a good time. i would really like to date doug. but we only have one class together so we dont really get to talk much. but i just had so much fun with him. i need help. cody keeps hurting me and i want to get over him. and i think that the only way to do that is to maybe be with doug. and i just like doug so much but i dont know if hes into me like that. please help. sorry its soo long.
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honestly, i'm almost 100% positive that deeper feelings than what can be typed are here. but i cant be sure. it all matters if you meant when you said that you loved him. How many classes you have dont matter. Plus, if the MAIN thing that makesyou attracted to Doug is his looks than thats a bad sign. Personality and compatability is more important than that. He might seem like the nicest guy in the world, but he may just want (te be blunt) to get in your pants. I know it sounds retarded but thats the wiocked truth. Sometimes guys dont think with their heads. Plus, just because Cody and you seem to be interested in other people doesn't mean you dont love each other. It only means that both of you are unsure how to react to this situation. A normal guy would have gotten jealous, but he actually cared enough to call and ask how it was, not why you went with some other guy. It sounds like he really cares for you. i'm not saying that you have to absolutely give up on doug. If he proves that he cares about you too then remember to give him a chance too.
Good luck!!!
-jimmy
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i say date doug. i mean, its not like youre marrying him. if it doesnt work out, just break up, and start over. cody doesn't seem like the kinda guy any girl should get involved with. just get over him, move on, get with doug. and even if you dont think he likes you, its always worth a try. he could like you. life is about taking risks, so take one !
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