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im 13 years old, and im afraid of the dark still. ok, let me rephrase that: im not exactly afraid, but everytime i am someplace dark, i feel very uncomfortable, like something is watching/following me. i know its not real, which is why i need help: first of all, is it weird that i feel afraid at 13, and also what can i do to make myself not scared? thx in advance ill rate all 5s!
that is perfectly normal to feel scared in the dark dont worry your not a freak. to help youself not feel scared when your in the dark try to just tell your self that your fine and nothing is goin to hurt you.
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okay i like this guy well i dont know if i like him cuz we dont really talk but i wanna get to know him but i cant cuz we never talk hes online all the time but im too scared to IM him becuase we never have anything to talk about its so wired its just always quite and i hate it and keeping the convo. going isnt my only promblem how do i IM him first? if someone can answer both of thoes qustions that would be great thanks!!
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just IM him and say hi and the conversation will be started its not that hard. then just talk like you would with ur other friends. ask him what hes up to. what he did over the weekend, stuff like that.
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Im writing a movie review for school, and the directions say we should be "creative" with our review. What do you think I should do to be "creative". I'm not sure how I could be creative in writing a movie review. Thanks
maybe you could look in your newspaper and read reviews written by the professionals and see how they do it, or ask a friend how there doing theres
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okay this boy likes me but he doesnt want to ask me out yet because he thinks im prude and well i only had one other boyfriend before and we only kissed like once but it was like a second. and i dont want a reputation as prude! so i would like to know some tips for kissing someone like much longer than a second ! like making out ! =)
so please leave tips pleasee !! or just anything about kissing that could help me
thanks !
well i dont think i would want to go out with someone if they wonlt go out with me because they think im prude. he kind of makes it seem like he only wants one thing.
Last night, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. While we were doing it, it started to feel good (but it still hurt), and sometimes when he was like going inside of me and the back out it started to feel like it was too much. It felt like I was having an orgasm, but it felt like I was going to like throw up. This happened like 5 times during a period of like 45 minutes. Is this normal and has it happened to anyone else?
um im not really sure if its normal or not but its probly just because it was your first time.
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theres a guy that I really like. We havent slept together yet but I was hoping that one day we could be more than friends. Anyways I just found out from one of his friends that he spent a year in jail when he was 18, but wouldnt tell me what for. Anyways, that was a long time ago, he is in his 40's now.
He is a really nice guy and I know he would never hurt me. But I'm really curious as to why he was in jail.
Should I ask him or wait for him to tell me?
i think it is important that you ask him for your own good, somtimes people turn out different then they seem. also if you want a relationship both of you should be open and have no secrets.
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There is a guy I like and he likes me and everyone knows it. However, I am not asking him out so don't even suggest it. Anyways, his birthday is Monday and we aren't going out yet, and I don't know what to get him. I was thinking maybe a cute teddy bear and some candy, but it was just Halloween so there is plenty of candy to go around. Please help, I want to get a winning prensent!!!
well the teddy bear still sounds cute. hmm maybe a cd of a band he likes or a cute t-shirt or sumthin
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much
omg!!im like in the same situation. you need to ask yourself why you have been waiting so long, and why you never gave up. he obviously likes you or he wouldnt have done what he did. maybe he just needs some time to think things over thats why he hasnt been on aim. give him a little space then if he doesnt come to you go to him agian and see whats up.if he doesnt want a relationship then it would probly be best you saw other guys and just be friends with this one, if you guys continue to mess around then you will get more attatched and never get over him.
hope i could help, keep me updated on what happens
good luck
my boyfriend really wants to have sex...i think i love him and i really want to too. i am just so nervous...she i wait?or should i just go for it?protection? andy advice...?¿
if you think you are ready and care about this guy and he cares about you then do it if its what you want. dont let him pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do. if he really cares about you he wonlt care if your not ready and he will wait till you are.and deffenitly be responsible and use protection.
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what is a good age to babysit and like how much should i charge per hour cause i am babysitting with a friend and we are going to split the money. about how long to the parents stay out for. thanks i rate high
umm a good age to start would probly be 15, but it really depends on what age the parents want and the laws in your state.; a good price would probly be $5 a hour or maybe $6.
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hi. well, i have a younger sister. shes 2 years younger than me, and i have a problem. my bedtime this year is 10, and last year it was 10:30 [wtf..] and i even told my mom but of course all shed say was "10 is good for me..hey a bug." and whenever i get something my younger sister gets it the same year! like our allowances have been the same our whole lives, and they started when i was like 9 and she was 7. AND the year i got a cell phone SHE DID!! and i just know shes gunna get an ipod this year like i did over the summer with my own money. i hate this crap. it isnt fair that i have to wait 2 more years than her to get the same stuff she does. how do i aproach my mom? **NOTE: she ALWAYS says "because i said so" -or- "u always are complaining"
2 years isnt that big of a differece. i am 2 years younger then my sister. and things are pretty much the same for us. but if it bothers you that much sit your mother down and tell her that you feel that you are being treated unfair. if talkin to her maturely doesnt work, try the silent treatment(i know sounds a little imature)moms hate it.
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I've been tweezing my eyebrows for a while now but it's getting too difficult to find a shape I like. Today I'm going to get them waxed but I'm nervous. Will it hurt alot? Will I be really sore afterwards? Do the people who do it find the shape they like for you?
Thanks!
it doesnt hurt that bad. and since it is your first time getting them waxed they will probly be really red afterward but the redness will eventually go way. and yes i found a shape that i likes, and i think most people do.
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i want to go to Wake Forest university but i don't have good enough grades to get or the gpa level yet, i am only a sopohomore but i still want to get in, i do have another choice of UNCW whitchis a good college. should i work harder to get into wake forest or just settle for uncw?
well your only a sophmore, so you deff. have time to work harder and get your gpa up.
whats a hand job, giving head, and eating out?
a hand job is rubbing a guys penis.
a blow job is sucking a penis.
and eatin out is when u go out for dinner..hah nah im just playin when a guy licks your pussy.
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I have a tiny pudge and I'm not really fat I just want to look good in a swimsuit and lose the pudge. I only weigh about 100 and I'm 5'2" so I'm not fat. I also play volleyball and I want to keep my legs in shape for when volleyball starts up again. So what are some exercises and ways i can keep my legs in shape and lose the pudge. I rate high.
http://www.toneteen.com
that should help theres a bunch of excersises that you can use to get in the shape you wanna be in
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what does " closet freak " mean?
it means that u like to do freaky things(maybe sexual)but you keep it on th downlow and not to many people know.
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For a guy's parts, whats big and whats small? Do girls really care about size? Whats the advantages of being big rather than small and vice virsa?
honestly all gurls like different things.
i dont think size really matters, its how you use it that matters.
for starters.."dashboard confessionals" doesnt have an "s" on the end of it you fucking idiot.
wow, im the idiot. its called a type-o. wow get a life.
ok as weird as this sounds i like my step bro. i keep on telling him i like him but he never likes me back. i am only a year younger then him and he is not really blood related to me so i dont think i that big of a deal. does any1 no how i can get him to like me. plzzzzzzzzzz help thanx
well he probly just thinks of you as a sister. plus do you really think it would be a good idea to date him? what if you guys brake up, you would have to see him all the time, it would just be weird. its probly just a phase your going threw. try to look for other guys.
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I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?
sign,
confused
well its not so bad as long as he doesnt touch. but if this does make you mad you have to tell him
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