I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
E-mail: xkelseyx12@yahoo.com
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Age: 15
Member Since: June 6, 2008
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i am making a big mistake! so i mae a rule for me to not eat after 7pm, but its not working ! and tonight it is currently a little after 930 an i just had 3 donuts!
I am scared, I need to loose weight , but its really hard for me.
What are some inexpensive ieas/foo?
xox Please and thank youu.
jessica
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everything is okay in moderation... so just eat smaller portions.. and it may seem stupid but have a positive attitude. not eating afetr 7 is really mind over matter. so just tell yourself that you CAN do it. and if you are really hungry eat something like fruit or yogurt... something healthy. eat lots of fruits and vegatables. eat lean meat and fish. substitute low fat or non fat yogurt, cheese, and milk. and watch how many carbs you eat.
Good luck :)
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so i have these beauty marks. one is on my upper, inner thigh and another is a little bit above my areola. do guys like that or no? (link)
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it depends on the guys preference.. i have one on my upper thigh, one boyfriend of mine thought it liked it and another didn't care.
But its not like you can help it, so embrace it!
Hope this helped :)
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ok i shave but then it looks like i dont uk what i mean! how do i get rid of that and i sweat like i put deoderant on but i still sweat through! (link)
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for your sweating problem.. you can use SECRET clinical strength... my sister uses it and it works really well for her. and if it doesnt work for you, a doctor can prescribe prescription deoderant. you can find secret at any drugstore, target, or walmart.
Good luck :)
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Okay, I wasn't sure what category to put this in, so I'm sorry about that.
But alright. This is a weird situation. I'm 16 years old and I'm a girl. I just started self defense classes (sorta like karate..but more physical and stuff..) and I have to have a girl as my partner. She's the same age as me. There are a lot of moves where you have to touch each other and lean over eachother and go into these weird positions where your bodies make a lot of contact. And I feel SO FLIPPIN' WEIRD when I'm on top of her! I mean, I don't want to look like I'm staring at her boobs or somewhere inappropriate or touching her in the wrong way cause I just started. I'm just leaning over her..sitting on her...and her boobs are like right there and I don't know where else to look so it looks like I'm all awkward about it! I feel so weird. I used to be really sexually confused and turned on by girls and stuff..now I'm not as much..but the little feelings linger. I know I'm not bisexual though...but this is so weird. I'm scared she'll think I'm a lesbian or something. How can I approach this? It makes me feel so uncomfortable! (link)
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i don't blame you... i would most likely feel awkward too. the next time your in class, just make a joke out of it. when your in an awkward position by like whoa this is moving kinda fast... i just met you! just joke around about it to lighten the mood and let her know that you are in no way interested in something more that a self defense partner... but if you really feel that unconfortable talk to the instructor about switvhing partners.
Good luck :)
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Hey, A guy I like wrote on my facebook wall and said that I "have an awesome movie taste", does anyone know of something clever and kind of flirty that I could write back to him? But not too much because I work with him. Thank You :) (link)
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hmm you could say something like... you think so huh? well maybe we should check out your movie taste and go see a movie this weekend?" then you let him know you are interested and you've got yourself a date. but if he doesnt like you back [which i hope he does] then it isnt awkward at all and you can just go as freinds!
Good luck :)
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On May 22 I was given devistating news that after an 18 month battle with cancer my 9 year old cousin would die in any where from 2 days to 2 weeks. This news devistated me and left me not only depressed but i found myself isolating myself from others. Images ranging from him laying in bed paralized (he became paralized from teh waste down) to him laying there thinking (his organs began shutting downa nd week 2 he was not responding to anything) On June 4 he passed away which just sent me more into a down hill sprial. More images poured into my head and again more after his funearl on June 7. Now i find myself seeing his face every time i close my eyes-- pictures of him in his casket or burning in fire ( he was cremated after his viewing & service)
now i'm stuck.. trying to start a new beginging without him in ym life but with no help
i wnot talk to anyone but my boyfriend about it- and he seems to avoid the topic because he doesnt know waht to say.
so what do i do?
hwo do i move on with life?
how do i wake up every morning withotu first thinking if it was a terrible dream?
life has to go on, the world wont stop for me.. so what now?
i need to learn to "move on"
i'll never forget his strength, his courage, or his smile
but im afraid that if i move on, i'll forget
and i just can't let it be tru ein my head
so now what?
i just need help..
experiences, spiritual guidence- anything
please help!
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first of all... i am SO sorry about your cousin, i now it must be so hard for you
what you need is a counselor. you need someone to talk too, someone who can help you get through this. it is good that your boyfriend is trying to help... but a proffesional is the one who will work best with you.
what you have to remember is, he doesnt want you to live your life in depression just because he cant be here. he wants you to be happy, if anythng live your life even better than you did before, so that you are living to please him. You will never forget him... and he will always be with you. he still loves you and he is watching over you. he wants you to be happy.
if you don't want to talk to a counselor and your religious... you can also talk to a priest. he will be able to guide you spiritually through this hard time.
i wish i could be of more help, but I do think that you should go see someone to talk to. it will help to get things out and not keep them all bottled up. just remember he doesnt want you to be sad, you got to live. so live in honor of him and live the fullest life you can.
Good luck with everything.
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iv never had an actual "bf" but many very close guy friends. but recently my best friend, the guy who i trusted my life with made my life a living hell and screwed up every possible thing, bc we liked eachother. hes afraid of me cause i get"to close" to guys. i just hug everyone and i like it when guys hold me, i just feel that no guy loves me at all. he ruined me and i can not trust anyone even if its a girl, i had all my trust in him. we hate eachother and fight so much somedays but others we like eachother we just forgive eachother way to easy. i need to get over him and iv been tryin for the past year but i just cant, its hard to explain, weve been best friends then he has the most retarded reason and then ruins me over and over again. i know ud say just try and get over him but iv done every possible thing, i just cant. i dont know what to do?
im soo love sick. iv always been better friends with guys but recently iv been suck an ass to guys i only have two close guy friends left. i just think any guy friends will hurt me again, so im a jerk to them and they did nothing im the biggest bitch there is :c so iv been falling for any guy i meet and talk to alot. then i never see them again and i get heartbroken. i hug and cuddle with them, but some i just talk to for hours. example> last guy i met at cousins party, we flirted from the very beginning then on and off i would be a jerk to him and then he asked me to dance and i said no bc i was texting the guy who hurt me at the moment and then he was sad and left for a while then at the end insteada sayin bye i said jackass and left crying, ive never been like this but i was hurt so bad and i hate hurting other guys for no reason im such a drama and jerkkk to guys, he is three years older than me and he didnt care hes liked me before he even knew :(. i love a guy, flirt talk for hours and cuddle then end up bein an ass what can i doo, i just cant get over it? i dont even know what love is anymore, and the thing i hate the most is their so nice to me and ima bitch backkk Dx. what do i do for either or both paragraphs??? fourteen by the wayy (link)
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okay it sounds like you are having some major trust issues... and i can relate. for me it was this guy who i was head over heels for and he hurt me but i always kept taking him back because i lived him so much. what you have to tell yourself is you are BETTER than this. you deserve someone who treats you wonderfully and who loves you more than anything. you need someone who makes all other guys look like nothing compared to him. and it seems like you will never find him, but you have to have an open mind. treat every guy you meet like he could be your next love. and you have to remember...just because one guy f**ked you over doesnt mean that all guys will. i know probably more than most that trusting is one of the hardest things to do...because tou dont want to fall and get hurt but you have to believe that eventually there will be a guy that will pick you back up. and i know you dont want to hear it but you HAVE to move on from this guy that hurt you. he hurt you hun... more than once. he doesnt deserve you!! someone once gave me the advice... if he hurts you once, shame on him... but if he hurts you twice, shame on you. it is time for you to beleive in yourself enough to know that you deserve way better than this guy. if you need someone to talk to... you may even want to consider counseling. i talked to the school counselor a couple times after i was ruined by a guy and it really helped me. it doesnt have to be from school, just anyone who will listen. and i am always here if you need to inbox me or you can email me at the adress on my page. talking about it will help you... and everytime he calls or texts you remember he HURT you.. if it helps in your phone, instead of his name... write "don't answer, he hurt you" thats what i did when the guy who hurt me kept trying to get back with me.
you deserve better than this.... and you deserve the best. not all guys are complete ass holes and eventually you will learn to trust again... just give it time..
I hope i helped :)
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someone called me "boo" what does that mean? (link)
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well whenever i've been called boo its just like a pet namee... like baby, sweetie or hunny. i'm assuming its the same in your case.
Hope this is what you're looking for :)
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i wanna start playing
i learn fast
but i want the best guitar
what kinds are good?
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i'm a definite Fender fan :)
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Is there any way to take off the french tip nails you have done without just tearing them off.
B/C when I just tear them off it usually ends up making my real nail tear in the long run.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
Any remedys, like soaking in hot water.
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you can always go back to the salon you had them done at... thats what I do and they take them off for me!
Good luck :)
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Okay, I am friends with this amazing guy.He is everything a girl could wish for.I like him and he likes me, but we have never dated before.We both want to date each other, but he always has a girlfriend.He tells me he loves me but sometimes I think he is bluffing! I don't know if I should keep waiting for that day or just get over him. (link)
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If he really loves you... he would have asked you out a long time ago. however, he could just be scared to ask you out becuase you are his friend and he doesnt want to ruin anything. you should definatly talk to him... and ask him what is going on between the two of you. ask him if he thinks there could ever be a future for the two of you. if he replys anything other than of course I have been waiting for you to ask me this forever... then you should probably just try to move on. You shouldnt have to wait around forever. I am really hopeing that he wants something with you though... then you should definatly go for it. Unless he has a girlfriend... then it is not cool for you to date him! That is drama that you don't need.
Good luck :)
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lmao. okay so me and this guy have gotten really close in the past skool year. im 13/f by the way. anyway, my friend and i like sorta joined his little group of friends.
well today my friend wasn\'t in school and so in the afternoon we were all just sitting around so me, him ( his name is gunna be \'josh\'), and our friend, x (lol) decied to play \'would u rather\" we started off with gross ones like would you rather eat your bff\'s face or make out with a horse. haha.
anyway we got to really personal ones. i asked them who they would rather \'do\' (ya know.. have sex with...) , me or my friend. they both said me. they asked me the same question and i said josh.
next our other friend anthony joined in. we had to say who we would do in the eigth and in 6th grade. then we did our grade (7th). we had to pick someone. i go to a private school so there are only 10 boys and 6 girls in my class. when we were thinking josh said that it was easy to pick someone.
x said this other girl, then josh said me!, then anthony did too. i really like josh if you haven\'t noticed!! lmao!
he is always asking me stuff and like there are alot of signs he likes me-
he asks me alot of questions about myself.
he has called me hot before this year
sometimes he just wont shut up! like he keeps talking to me!
and he always wants me to watch his videos on utube
he is really nice to me
he does that whole touch your arm thing that everybody says is a sign a guy likes you...
how do i get him to ask me to hang out with him!??!?!?!?!? anyway do you think he likes me??! (link)
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it certainly sounds like he likes you... but boys can be shy so it may be best for you to ask HIM to hang out. just casually ask if he would like to see a movie or something... then you can ask him if he likes you and if maybe there is a future for the two of you!!!!
Good luck :)
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I sort of have a few questions in one here.
So i'm 17 years old, female, and i'm graduating high school next week. (i'm a young senior) Firstly, a ton of my friends drink, and i don't, so i haven't been hanging out with them lately, which is sad. Now my little brother (going to be a junior in hs next year) wants to start drinking. What do i do? I feel like i'm losing my friends and my brother because i'm not comfortable partying with them.
Also, This boy i liked forever is back from college for the summer and i want something to happen but i'm afaid of ruining a friendship. He told me recently he liked me back when i liked him two years ago... and now he's single again. We go for walks, watch movies together, and talk all the time. He always says the right things. I was really upset the other day, and was basically freaking out. And after a while i was like well, you probably want to get back to what you were doing or whatever. And this was his response:
him: hey hey hey
him: don't think you are ever inconveniencing me if you have to come to me with a problem
him: it's what i'm here for
him: whenever you need help dealing with something let me know
him: i don't care what i'm doing
him: i'm glad you feel you can talk to me when there is a problem
me: thanks. i really appreciate that.
him: try to relax and get some sleep
And i felt so much better. So how can i keep this bond we've got but make it something more? And is it worth it? We'll both be in college come september, on other ends of the country. (boston for him, savannah, GA for me.) I'm worried about starting something before college. oh and he isn't over his ex. that may pose a problem.
my last point. How do you meet the right guy? i got lucky with the boy i was talking about above, but when i get to school, how do i met new people, make new friends? I've wanted a boyfriend for some time now... but i want it to mean something.
i'm just so clueless.
Help?
Thanks.
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your not clueless... just a little confused, its okay!
... first off, you should not feel bad just because you don't drink. there are a lot of people who choose to do the right thing and not drink! but that doesnt mean you cant still hang out with them, and you shouldnt feel like your losing them. unless drinking is their only priority then I am sure things will work out between you and your friends.
...this guy seems like one of the few guys who are really worth the long distance. I am not a firm beleiver that long distance works but if you two really care about each other then there is no reason why you can't start something before you all go to college. but you have to make sure that he likes you and he is just using you as a rebound after his ex. from what you have said though, he seems like a really great guy... you bare very lucky! so just tell him that you really really care for him and you'd like to try being together if he is ready.
...as for meeting new poeple and the right guy. you have to be open to anything. if you go into college looking for a certain type of guy with certain characteristics chances are you won't find him. if you go into it with an open mind and you are friendly to everyone... and i mean EVERYONE... chances are you are going to find people that you really like.
Good luck with everything :) inbox me if you need anything else!
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I'm looking for a photo album with a lot of pages but all the ones I've been seeing are scrapbooks. Does anyone know a store that sells good photoalbums? (link)
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you can try kohls or target... i always find cute ones there
hope you find what you're looking for :)
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This guy was chasing me for a few months, but I had a boyfriend. After my boyfriend dumped me, I went on a date with this guy and had a great time, and told him I wanted to see him again, but both our schedules were crazy so we didn't end up going out again (he moved to Oregon). He's since moved back but I don't have his number anymore and now I'm pining for him. Think about him all the time and stuff but the only was I can think of to get in touch with him is through an ex of his. And I'm moving in two weeks. Is it worth it to try? (link)
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its always worth a try :) because even if nothing serious happens, it was still a chance to get back in touch with him and you will most likely have fun ! at least set up one date, then you can decdide if you two want to get serious or just have fun together until you move!
Good luck :)
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what should i write in my best friends yearbook. we both have a whole page for eachother and im awful at writing stuff like that (link)
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just tell her how much she means to you :) add in inside jokes or anything really fun that has happened to you both this year. tell her how important she is to you and that you wouldn't be able to survive without you! if you had to describe her to me and everything that her makes her such a great friend and write that! just let it come from your heart.
Good luck :)
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Hey, I'm going mountain biking for the first time. What should I bring with me? If you have any other tips, they're greatly appreciated.
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tons of water!!! if you get dehydrated... it will not end good. also you can bring a spray bottle with water just in case you get hot! also, dont forget sun screen because sun burns are no fun.
Have fun and good luck :)
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Can someone find me a link for where I can watch American Pie 2 online? I've looked on all the major sites and haven't found one that will load right. Thanks! (link)
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you can try either of these two... i;ve never used them but my friends have.
http://www.watch-movies.net/movies/american_pie_2/
http://www.videolemon.com/watch/american%20pie.html
Hope these work for you :)
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ok this boy i liked has a girlfriend but he likes me. he wants me to go to this powehouse with him on friday should i go... i really like him.. he calls me, he Ims me and texts me on my cell.... i think he likes me do you . he is 16 and im 18 (link)
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it sounds like he likes you, but its not cool for you to get involved with someone who has a girlfriend. talk to him, tell him you aren'y going to go out with him as long as he has a girlfriend. if you want to you can tell him that you do like him. but whatever you do... dont get involved with a taken guy, it creates drama that you don;t need
Good luck :)
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i'm 16/f...and i have a big butt. i mean, it's proportional and round..and i guess it looks good in pants. but it makes me feel really self conscious. and its weird..because some girls tell me they wish they had it and some guys tell me they love it. and i look at them weirdly and take it to offense. i dunno. is it considered attractive? i'd rather have bigger boobs anyday.. (link)
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ha I'm the total opposite, I have big boobs and I would LOVE a biggger butt. It really depends on the guy, some guys like bigger boobs and some guys like bigger butts. My best advice, be happy with your body :) and embrace it! where jeans that show off your butt and make you think you look good. If your happy with your body, chances are people are going to notice your confidence and like your body too!
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