hey my name is melanie :]
so my life has it's problems, and i rarely know how to fix them. but when it comes to other people's problems, i have great advice. idk what's up with that, but take advantage of it!
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Hey.............my older sister is having a baby but she doesn't kno yet if it's a boy or girl and she needs some cute names!! (Don't worry she's married and like 29 years old!!) Thanx!! (link)
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Personally, i would name my son Andrew. and I'd name my daughter Kylie. i think those are really cute. maybe your sister would too!
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ok well our softball team won the state champions and so were going to alabama (we live in texas) and the ride is like 13 or 14 hours. we will need a bunch of games and snakcs.what should i bring? (link)
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Whenever i go on long car rides i always bring like CD's and magazines. And food, lots of food haha. See if anyone has a portable DVD player that you guys could bring. Tell everyone to bring a few DVDs that everyone could watch. hope i helped!
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I'm really nervous bout starting highschool, especially the meeting new people part. I'm outgoing, but only when im with people that i know. How will i be able to make friends(and i dont mean join clubs and stuff, i mean like talking to ppl). Whats a good way to make conversation. Just please help me, or at least gimme some support. I will rate 5s. (link)
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Get to know the person who's locker is next to you. Soon enough, you'll get to know the ppl that sit next to you in class. And just be confident and don't be nervous to talk to the ppl that you don't know. Talk to them about music and things that you like. hope i helped a bit!
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Hey- Im about 5'4 and i weigh about 175 lbs. i need to lose 20 pounds by september 1st. Is there anyway i can without taking pills or anything..or can i just lose it by running for 30 mins everynight?
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Yeah, running is a good way to burn some calories. Also, you should probably do some sit up for a tighter tummy! And watch what you eat, that's about all i can say!
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how do i make a first move on a guy, he knows i like him and schools about to start so i want to make a move on him before i dont get the chance. thanks (link)
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Go to the movies with a group of friends and invite him to come along. Make sure that you get a seat next to him. If he knows you like him, then it should be no surprise to him if you hold his hand. If you do decide to hold his hand, look into his eyes after you've taken his hand. if he just looks back into your eyes and doesn't pull his hand away, then you know that he likes you back. And if you want to kiss him, i say go for it. If he likes you than he wouldn't mind kissing you. i hope i gave you an idea of how to make the first move!
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I really like this guy and he doesnt even know i exist even though i am friends with alot! and i mean alot of his friends, and it seems weird he hasnt met me yet...i know alot about him because my friends talk about him ALOT and so is started liking him and i guess he'll never like me, and i dont want to go out with anyone else because i want him and no1 else...i am like shy aroudn guys i like alot and even if i was aroudn him with my freinds i'd be nervous to saay 1 word to him...so months ago i started cutting and you probably will say "dont cut its bad" or shit like that but i cant stop and i dont really want to because it gets alot of stress and anger out and i REALLY like him and I CANT STOP CUTTING and no i am not going to tell someone like my parents my mom already treats me like a fucking 10 year old and would be so disapointed and shit...and i dont cut that bad so i dont really need a shrink/psychologist or what ever...
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Unloved confused cutter (link)
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hey there. listen, i had the same problem, well the cutting thing, not the guy thing. but anyways, you should just talk to him with a few friends or something in a group conversation. do little things that might make him notice you. and maybe he already does notice you, but you just don't know it. As long as he doesn't have a girlfriend, you've got a chance. so go for it, what've you got to lose? hope i helped a bit!
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im rather fat im only 13 i have the rest of my life ahead of me i need have a life i want to be thinner but not a twig how could i loose weight fats well before school but not to much i want to inpress sopeople but being the way i am all there ganna notice is my size i dont have that much money my dad just ot a job as a cross contry truck driver but quiting because he hates being away from his family and my mom doesnt make that much how do i loose wait fast cheep but not that much so im a twig
anything will be helpfull
thank you if you help
ps. i weigh 150 pounds :[ help me please (link)
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There are three different things that i know that could help you. maybe atleast 4 times a week you could run alittle bit to burn some calories, and every night before you go to bed try to make a goal of doing atleast 20 crunches. And just watch what you eat. i hope i helped, sweetie!
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my boyfrind cheated on me and wants me back should i take him back and worrie all my life to see if hes ganna cheat on me again or breack up i love him
my friends say its not the first time did itto me (link)
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If you love him, than get back with him. But talk to him first and tell him that if he loves you, he wouldn't do things like that to you. and hopefully this time will be different and he can gain your trust again. hope i helped.
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Im gettign bracestommmorw! im scared ta death, cna anyine tell me whta goes on what do they do does it hurt stuf lie kthat pelase help (link)
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braces don't hurt at all. trust me, i've had them put on and taken off twice lol. there's nothing painful about them. although, you do have to keep your mouth open for a little while, but that's not too stressful lol. i hope i helped you feel more confident about this!!
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I've been going out with this boy for about 1 1/2 months (not long, i know) but i dont know if its working out. We talk a lot and hes nice and eevrything but theres just something about him i dont know. I thought when we first started going out it'd be the right time after a breakup with someone who i really loved but now i think that its not the right time to be with someone because i still have a lot of feelings for my ex. I'm not sure if i should break up with my bf or just stay. I know that if i stay with him i may start gettin miserable. I dont want to hurt him because he really likes me and cares for me. What should i do?? ill rate 5's if you at least help me and try to! thanks! (link)
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Being with somebody is supposed to make you happy, and if you're not happy with this guy, than you shouldn't stay with him. I'm sure he'll find someone else, just let him down easy lol. It's normal to still have feelings for your ex, but what you need to find out is if he still has feelings for you. i've still got feelings for my ex..but he's totally wrapped up in some other girl lol. but anyways, i hope i helped!!
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Last year I moved to a new (catholic) school, and last year at Homecoming I went with a group of the jv cheerleaders and I didn't really have anyone to dance with. This year I am a varsity cheerleader, and mostly all the girls in Varsity are in their own clicks,and I only have one very close friend on Varsity. No one is gonna have a party like they did last year, and I don't think any of the boys will ask me. Should I call this kid who asked me to go to the festival last year and ask him to go, should I wait and see of anyone asks me, what should i do?!!! (link)
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Maybe you should just take a chance and ask a guy that you would actually like to go with. what have you go to lose? you're a cheerleader, everybody looks up to cheerleaders. Maybe the guy that you really wanna ask, likes you too.
Hope i helped some!
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My boyfriend is super nice. He is always telling me I'm hot, im sexy, im pretty, im cool, when I don't really think i am. He says he loves me way too much and its strating to get a little annoying. I basically just met him and don't know him as well as I would like to. I feel like hes rushing things, but still hes super nice and he loves me and hes really obsessed with me.....
I rate.... (link)
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Maybe you should just talk to him and tell him that yall need to slow things down. Take some time to get to know him, like go to the movies with him, or walk around the mall so that you two have a chance to talk. And in time, hopefully things will get better. Hope i helped, sweetie
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alright, im 13 years old and i told my bf that i loved him and he said...ok? i havnt talked to him since..he hasnt called or anything. we have been going out for 3 months almost. and i REALLY REALLY like him. so should i say sorry or should i talk to him if so wat should i say? i need some help please. (link)
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maybe he hasn't called back because he's scared or something. maybe he's never been in love before. he probably has the same feelings for you, but he just might be scared or something like that. i think you should talk to him. Ask him if he has the same feelings for you. Don't tell him that you're sorry, you shouldn't be sorry that you love him.
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