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i have a friend. we will call her s. S has been my friendd for as long as i can rememberr! we have shared soo many awesome times togetherr. over this past year we haven't seen eachother for a long time and she stopped talking to me on the phone whenever i would call her-i would end up leaving messages and she would never call me back. i tried talking to her on aim but she would never answer. how can i get her to talk to me so that we can work things out??
thanks for AALL ur help!!

i know who this is & i ♥ you. i'm here for youuuu throuugh everythiin'. about "S". you

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i love my boyfriend very much. but whenever i talk to other boys he acts all "protective" around me. its like he doesn't want me to talk to any other boy besides him. i don't wanna break up with him but i want to be able to talk to other boys besides him.
how do i get him to stop smothering me?!
thx!

i think i know who this iss ;) & i tooootally get what you're talking abouut. i can see him doing it giirrl! ♥ you hang around him in groups so just be casual and talk his friends. let him know that NO ONE could ever replace him. it'll make him feel really good. then he won't be worried because he'll know tthat you love him more than anybody - because you do! its a sign that he loves you and doesn't want to let you go! so instead of thinking that he's being WAYY over protective, than look at it that he doesn't want you to dump him for someone else. he doesn't want to be replaced and thats soooo adorable that he feels that way. HE LOVES YOUU SOO MUCHH GiRLL! ♥ and you love him toooo. just let him know theres no one in the world better than him :)
♥ i love youu sooo muchh JP!

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KAY--
MY MOM AND DAD JUST GOT DIVORCED.
I AM SO SAD THAT I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO ANYBODY NOT EVEN MY BROTHER OR PARENTS. I AM REALLY...
-SAD
-CONFUSED
-I FEEL BETRAYED
-ANGRY
WHAT SHOULD I DO TO OVERCOME ALL OF MY GRIEF?
HeLp mE!

;) laurrrreen. SG & PR'S & ET'S = liiiiiffe. ♥ youu lotts.

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ok well i have flab under my arm and i was wondering what can i do to get rid of it and what are some workouts that help the whole body like swimming, and what can i do to tone my inner thighs. plz help im really fat, and i hate it. ill rate 5s

i'd say swim alot- its summer so it'll feel good. also try lifting weights, a little at a time. make sure you're not eating junk ALL the time & yuu'll be good. you can do sit up and push ups like 50 a night, before you go to bed. i did that for a while and it worrked grreattt. ;) good luuckk! hope i helppeeeddd but i've never really had that probb.
♥caroline nicole

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HOLY CRAP GiRL i LOVE YOUR ADViCE! iTS SO AWESOME! BFF!

thhhhhhaaankkss ! =]love yahhhh. ♥ -- care

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Okay, I have this problem, I like two people, but they are both great, but I don't know who to choose, they are both my friends...good friends, but only one of them like me back, but I still like the other one too....help

:)i'd go with the one who likes you back. then you can see how things go. if it doesn't work out then you can like the other one. you don't REALLY have to choose anyone. but one likes you back so .. it'd make sence to go w/ him.
♥CARE

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My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg

I'll rate 5s for all answers.

if she's beautiful to you thats all that matters.
don't worry or think about what other people say or think. its a waste of your time.
if you love her than thats great ;) why worry about what other people think about you gf? she's fine.
♥ carre

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hey care thanks for coming back.

its apperciated a lot :)

♥

;) i love giving adviiiccee.
ask a quiestion anytimee !
♥ yahh! ♥ carre

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well, me and my boyfriend had been going out for almost 6 months, by the way i'm 14. and i thought things were going great, and out of no where he just decides that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. and we split. i cried for a few days. and i just can't seem to completely get over him. i just want to pretty much forget about him, and never socialize with him again. what are some things that could help me get over him?

aww im sorrry ! he just probably felt differently on how things were going - you thought things were going great, and maybe he didnt. you can't blame him though, six months would have been around like january or something. he just probably wanted to be single for the summer. just spend a lot of time w// your friends and be open to other guys. have fun and forget why you're sad. because he dumped you? then tell yourself he's missing out.
there'll be other breakups in your life so just go on with them. soon enough you'll like someone else or have a new boyfriend.

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my friend and i lke the same guy and, she used to go out w/ him, and she still lkes him. He picked her over me at the beginning of the year, and i really need advice on wat i should do.

13/f

sounds like you have a chance, because first he picked her, and they didn't work out! if you still like him then you have a pretty good chance. but now you know what your friend will feel if he picks you over her, so make sure you're not always talking about him if he picks you.

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come back to advicenators! i doubt you are actually reading this but oh well! come back! you gave great advice!

i'm backkkk ! thanks ! hope can help youu!

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hey.
okay i really neeed help please -
i think my bf might break up with me and i dont want him to - i love him so much ! i dont know what i did wrong but heres the catch-
im not supposed to know about this i mean like i'm not supposed to know he wants to break up with me. my guy friend told me anddd told me to fix my problem. i love your advice and i think its great. please help and fast because i need to fix this or i'll never forgive myself. oh yeah and if my bf finds out that i know about this or like that i did this - asking you - he'll just break up with me then.
should i break up with him or just keep doing what i'm doing?

thannks!!

okay do noooott let him find ouuut! if he does then you both will be over for surre. it sounds like you don't know what you did, so what can you fix.. when you don't know what to fix? if you haven't done ANYTHiNG that may make him mad then keep doing what you're doing. if you try to change then he may just break up with you. make sure your guy friend that told you is telling the truth. is he friends with your boyfriend? if he is then he's probably right. 'cause he probably knows whats going on. you love him a lot ? then just try to be the BEST girlfriend he could have. don't be fake or anything and just hang out with him alot. if he breaks up with you, don't was your time worrying about him! he's probably a waste of your time. plus who cares if you don't have a boyfriend right now. you may think hes absoluuutley peRrfect, buut if he breaks up with you, its just not meant to be. then soon you can find a better boy that likes you more. but do nooott change what youre doing !! then he'll figure things out - he'll know that you friend AND his friend told you. and then your guy friend and you won't be happyy.
thanks for saying i give great advicce. i hope you figure out what this kid whatss.

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hey
i have so much homework and not much time to do it!! do you have any solutions?

study hall.

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heyy u rockk! you['re soo cool! i really like you n i wanna talk to you about some stuff so just im me when ya get the chance hottie

aww uhh thanks! ha yeahh you're right n all about the stuff you said about me jk but i have NO clue who you are so sry i can't im you-- you can im me tho- xxocareoxx! ha uhh what do you wanna talk about too kus i have an amazing boyfriendd!!


XO care

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okay i think you know who this is but yeah ...
i really like this guy ..& 1 of my friends said some1 told them he liked me too .... but that was like 3 /4 months ago ....& now i think he likes someone else .....its all really confusing....& i just dont know what to do!!!!help!!! thanks!!!!!!!!!!

okay i think i know who this is but - im not sure.
anyways -- so you used to like hhimn and you told him and now he likes someone else.

so do you still like him? if you do its fine as long as they're not going out with anyone else but i dont know what is really confusing so sorry but i cant help! just try to focus on other stuff and see if you really like him

hope that helps!

eX oH care && lauren

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i like someone sooo much but now that i like him he dosnt like he that much anymore!!! what do i doo?

Well, he might still like you bbut alot of guys just get really shy. like they're afraid to show if they like you or not. you can talk to him and try to work stuff out.
hope that helps
XO care

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ok well a couple weeks ago my best friend and i got into this huge fight .. she was mad at me for almost a week and i dont think she knows but i cried a lot and i am 100% sorry and would never do anything like that agen.

as far as i can tell things are back to normal now but how do i know for sure whether our friendship is really mended? i know it will take a while but how doi show her that she can trust me and i would never do anyhting like that again?

please help me ill rate 5s!

Well if it was that big of a fight that she didnt talk to you for a week, than it might take a while for.. things to " mend back together ". me and my friend fought for a really long time **it was huge** and well we've got to be better friends because i apologized. if you're like best friends i think it might be hard for her to totally forgive you but if youre 100% sorry, and you tell her (( you should ! )) than she should understand. i dont know what the fight was over.. so i dont know how big it was. how do you know if its mended? well, you can just see if she talks to you and invites you places, and tells you secrets and all that normal stuff than yeah it is mended. if not, than maybe you guys need to talk or something to get it straitened out.
XO care

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I really really like this guy Adam. We talk sometimes but usually if we do its a short conversation. We were getting really close until a few people told him I liked him and that I was telling people we were going out ( WHICH WAS A LIE) and I cleared that whole thing up but now he hardly talks to me unless I say something first and I hate having to force my way into a conversation. He just looks at me like the ackward silenced girl; usually I'm REALLY outgoing and Ive never had trouble getting guys but this guy is so much harder and I really really like him. How do I flirt with him; we never speak?!?!

So, if you really do like him and you wanna go out w/ him just talk. if he wont talk to you then.. what can you do? have your friends get his attention, write him a note or email.. or just dont think about him. if hes that much of a loser to not talk to you because of a rumor than hes deff. not worth it. if he stares at you just pretend you dont see him and flirt when you get the chance.
XO care

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i was just wondering if you can give me any advice on a good place to take a girl out on a first date. which would be better,the movies or the mall. if a movie what one would be the best. if the mall what oculd i do there.

Take her somewhere where its easy for you guys to talk or do something. i uhh don't exactly know who this is... so it'd be hard for me to tell you. if you dont want to talk, you just want somewhere to go or want to watch something - go to the movies. if you want to walk around, go in shops and get a bite to eat then deff. the moll
XO care

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hey guys its care please ask me some ?s!
love youu guys

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