Hi my names vicki. I'm 19 years old. I can try and help help alot of people and give/offer good advice. Anything you want help on i will always try never turn away someone in need. xx
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A few days ago i wrote about likin this kid austin i took the advice everyone gave me so thanks!:) but he said no, ok neways this kid john likes me and i have known him since kindergartin but he not that cute and kinda heavy. but hes a really nice guy. problem is HE REALLY LIKES ME but i feel no way about him like that, anyways i can tell him nicely that i dont like him, and dont say its not you its me. and plz no rude comments (link)
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Just tell him you like him as a friend but you have no feelings for him in any other way explain that your afraid it will destroy a happy friendship.
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ok well mi dating my bf for the fourth time and i love him very much. But everyone thinks he's cheatin on me cause he puts up some big front like he's a big flirt and hard core rocker. But really he's not and he's really sweet and kind. Though my friends don't see this and they think he's a jerk.So know there all not getting along and i just want them to see that he's really not a jerk. What do i do? (link)
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hes putting on a mask when hes out and about explain to him that he doesnt have to hide and just be himself. xx
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how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?
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There is actually no age on how old a babysitter should be but the ideal age is 13 but it also includes whether there capable or not aswell.
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SAMM! you know me... i injured my ankle over the presidents day weekend and it suxx butt....hole. i have track tryouts soon and the physicals are on friday... i have to wear this brace for 2 weeks and i hate it. is there anyway i can make it heal faster before tryouts?
you know you love me,
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Theres no way to heal a injury fast no quick fixes i'm afriad. Relax as much as possible and as soon as the brace is off start doing little and often and light work. Hope that helps and that it gets better soon. xx
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My husband and I were talking the other day and he said that if he died he would not want a funeral. I was shocked. Of course he should have a funeral, it's a great way for family and friends to say goodbye. I feel it is more for the family of the deceased anyway. He disagrees, and is shocked that I would not respect his wishes. Who is right here? And if he did die, what are we as a family suppose to do? I would like the love and support of my faamily. (link)
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You should respect his wishes as he will respect yours.
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13-m---like on a regular day, what kind of manners do girls notice the most or expect to see. guys dont care but thats not the group im aimed at. (just like when ur doing regualr things not like in front of ur g/f) (link)
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dont fart, burp or scartch your cock.
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I like to shave everything if you know what i mean. well this is the first time but i noticed red little bumps by wear my pubic bone(the triangle area) well im not sure if its razor bumps. the day i shaved it hurt and then little bumps appeared. I think they are since i do shave against the grain which i heard is bad. they dont hurt it just hurt after i shaved. if any one could tell me if its from shaving plz let me know. there very small and only right by wear i was shaving. (link)
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Your getting a razor rash sweetie try changing your razor to a more sensitive one.
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IN 2002 I was in an auto accident which was not my fault I did have surgery in 2003 and several other treatments done it has been three years and what I would like to know is , is there a time limit on how long before the lawsuit is setteled and can my laywer make the other person come up with a settelment so that it does not have to go to tril. (link)
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Some firms have a time limit of three years from the accident so your best bet is research different companies and then assess.
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this one guy (my ex) got really annoying after we broke up and he broke up with me but he wont leave me alone. he is so annoying he tells me that he hates me all the time, he has even punched me many times and he doesnt get in trouble for it. my parents know that he is bothering me, but they dont know how much. there are so many problems in my life right now i just wanna cry some plz help me
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Explain to him what he's doing and to leave you alone. Threaten to call the police if he does it again if he does call them Hope thats helpped you sweetie. xx
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How do you get your husband away from the t.v. and spend time with the children? (link)
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Explain that you want to do something as a family. Get everyone to chip in with ideas even him and do it on the same night every week and call it family night. Like going to the cinema or just going for a walk. Playing board/card games is another good idea. Good Luck.
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as u know by now my grandma tried too kill herself.she was nerly dead but my uncle caught her just in time.i dont know what im going to do now i feel angry,upset and cheated.im angry cos shes so selfish how could she do that.i cant face her nad i cant talk to her anymore.any know how i can start talking again?i want to cos i know she hasnt got long left.plse reply swn bfor its too late.xx (link)
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Try talking to her maybe shes in pain and wants to be free of it. Also try explaining how you feel maybe she just needs someone to talk to. xx
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my stepdad... well he 'touched' my sister alot. like every night. my sister ended up moving away to live with mu dad. he has done it to me once when he was drunk. but that was years ago... the thing is, i'm confused cause i find myself defending him. i told one oof my friends and i keep saying that he was drunk, didn't know what he was doing, etc. why am i doing this??? i am fairly close to my stepdad (in a non sexual way) and i hate my sister badmouthing him. i dont know why. Please help me!!! (link)
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I'm sorry to say this sweetie but there is no way you should be defending this man he did a terrible thing to both you and your sister. He abused you it doesnt matter whether its verbal physical or sexually the point is he abused you. Whether he was drunk or sober isnt the point either he knew what he was doing. Those are normally the first steps its starts with touching and then eventually leads to rape. You need to tell someone. You should stop defending him now. What would it be like if it was your daughter.
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Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks. (link)
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I dont think he's doing anything wrong i just think hes making a prat of himself. If anything as you called him 'the class clown' then that's what hes doing laugh at him not with him and explain to him that your not laughing along side him your laughing at him.
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I'm not from that area but instead of seeing her in their time why cant you see her in you spare time even if its for 15 minutes b4 of after your shift ect....
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I have to sell these gold cards for a fund raiser at my school for us to go on a trip in may... and I sold 4 today but I still have to sell 6 more in order for my whole trip to be payed for and these things are kind of hard to sell b.c. they are $10 each..but they have 142 discounts in a 90 mile radius that u can use as many times up until 10.31.05... any ideas as to where i can go to sell them? (link)
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Try selling them to family and friends or even people that live in the same street as you. Explain to them all the benifits they'd be recieving.
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I am a preschool teacher at a church. The church supplies us with a yearly budget for craft supplies and snacks. My assistant is in charge of getting snacks for the students. She charges these at a grocery store on the church's account. When I checked the receipts I saw that she had charged two inexpensive personal items for herself and the chruch paid for it. She is my friend or atleast I thought she was. The church never asks for the itemized receipts only the total amount. Should I report her?
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Although she is a friend she betrayed your trust in her. What would she do if it was the other way round. The only thing you can do is talk the situation over with her and explain to her if she doesnt pay the money back you'll have no choice but to report her. Hope it goes well.
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Yes, I realise that these questions are asked ad finitum, but mine is SLIGHTLY different, so please hear me out!
I'm having problems with spots but I have INCREDIBLY sensitive skin - concealer, spot sticks, even tea tree oil sets me off in huge rashes. I've tried all sorts of face wipes and washes, including Garnier, Clearasil, Clean and Clear, WitchHazel, and Skin:Naturals, but none of them seem to do anything much for me. Does anyone know of any more 'natural' or 'home' remedies that I could use and are suitable for sensitive skin? I'm talking about both the occasional spot and all over here. Thanks!! xxx (link)
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Have you tried cheap methods. I use Skin Deep wipes which seem to work well and i dont spend lods of money either.xx
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
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It depends on the people. Some guys actually do use girls for sex but doesnt mean the men that dont should be judged the same as others everyone is different and want different things out of relationships and life. Hope that helps.
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Hi!
Okay, I have babysat before many times but it is always for the same people and i want to start getting more people to know about me...
I dont live in a little town where everyone knows everyone, i live in a big city and i dont even really know my neighbors...so i can i get it out there that i am an exprienced babysitter and i am 16 and i have a car so i dont need rides...
If anyone can help in any way, please let me know!
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Try posting flyers or leaflets through letter boxes. Also putting adverts in shop windows of on there special boards helps. If theres a job section in your local paper put it in there under job wanted. Good Luck.
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I wanted to know if there was a certain career I can go to for these things. I've been getting really interested with the mind and what makes us do the things we do. I've been getting interested in things like, eating disorders, mental illness, personality disorders, insomnia, ADD, OCD, SAD, why people lie and a lot of other things like health, vegetarianism, raw foodists, etc. I want to learn more about this stuff, but not just through the internet. What are some courses that teach you about this kind of stuff and how can I apply what I know through a career? If you know some careers, do they pay well?
I believe I'm suffering from ADD, OCD and SAD. As I'm researching these, I come across other disorers and I get overwhelmed and I want to learn about them all... (link)
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Try becoming a social worker or a pycaitrist to people with disorders.
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