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ok i have only stuck my pointer finger in my vagina and i use super plus tampons and i was wondering, is my cherry popped? it was a long time ago so i dont remember if i bled or not. my finger is about 3 to 3 1/2 inches long.
thanks.
your probably some dumb 12 year old who has no idea what sex is.. so there is no way you can go bragging to your friend thats you lost your virginity becuae your actually need a boyfriend for that
Sorry.
earlier today some friends, my boyfriend, and i met up at someones house to hang out, and when we left, me and my boyfriend walked down the street because we live pretty close. on the way he had his arm around me and he was like stroking my shoulder and the sleeve of my shirt fell down like 2 inches, i hardly even noticed. he apologized and i could tell he felt like it was a big deal and felt awkward but it was nothing. on the phone just now he said it was awkward and i told him it was fine no big deal and he doesnt have to worry about it, but i could tell he still was uncomfortable. hes always been kind of shy but i mean we hug and hold hands and such all the time so hes not THAT shy. does anyone know what he means in thinking its awkward?
OO trust me your lucky. he's shy and it seems like he doesnt want to take advantage. Yeah he's the kind you can pass out drunk and wake up and not be worried because he wouldnt do anything. Okk off subject sorry dont worry about it be like really it was nothing I even kinda liked it and joke about it to make him feel better so he doesnt feel like a complete idiot.
He's a gentlemen no problem :)
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Katie
why is it bad to bottle your feelings up? but why do some people bottle up their feelings?
Some people can't help it. I do it and I know I do.. but it's just so much easier than telling the whole world I have a problem. I have actually been diagnozed with depression. When I bottle things up everyone knows it and helps me because I cut myself off from everyone and just think.. and when im forced to see the outside world I take everyone down with me because im lonely and ahh its complacated and im actually not like most so the reason I know its not good to bottle things up is the bottles only so big..
ever since i was 9 yrs old ive masturbated now
im almost 16 and i still masturbate, but instead
of doin it 2 or 3xs o day i now do it over
50xs A DAY!!!! is there somethin wrong with me?
.....
am i the only one?
Well instead of you beating the meat, maybe get a girlfriend. And i mean this with the greatest respect im not trying to sound mean but no its fine and completely natural that you masterbate
i need boy advice. how would i get a boy whos going into 9th and im going into 8th i no him not well were in all the same sports hes pop and im in the middle and a lot of girls like him ALOT hes funny and into sprorts track cc and basketball hes supper cute and supper nice how would i get him interested in me?
Look at your similaritys.. you both love sports. First talk to him about that and then tell him something that he will think not a lot of people will know so he thinks that you think you can confide in him. And it really isnt that hard to talk to boys.. I mean not trying to sound mean just laugh loud but not obnoxus infront of him and tell him whats so funny. Anything that will start a conversation..
Hope I helped
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Katie!
I took the morning after pill right a couple hours after having sex but I am suppossed to get my persiod in two weeks so I am afraid I could get pregnant I really can not afford to get pregant at such a young age. I am praying that I am not pregnant cause my family will not be happy. do you have any advise. When is to soon to take the pregnancy test I really want to know if I am pregnant or not. I hope I get my period early.
Well maybe 2 days after thinking that your pregnante but there coming out with some pregnancy test that are more accurate and you can take them sooner
when you give a guy a BJ, how long does it usually take for them to cum ?
it matter how god your doing it. Or if its his first time or your the hundreth girl. Usually maybe 20 minutes when your good.
can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]
Okay..well my friend lost it before the age 15. then was known as a slut afterwards becuase the boy went around and bragged! and then just last year this one guy found out she was a slut and easy to get in the pants and when she said no.. he raped her And i know that this sounds completely made up but shes just going to court in July and im ganna be there Because **the guy that did it needs to be punished! it sucks cause shes known to be a slut so who's ganna believe she was raped? i do its something someone doesnt like about and trust me its the biggest mistake in her life, and she regrets it horribly! if you have any thought on having ex with somone DONT not just you anyone its something that when u look back upoin is sometyhing your not ashamed of.
they've been skipping alot.
like i think i got it in dec. but didnt get it again til april and havent gotten it yet this month either.
its been skipping ALOT.
should i go to the doctor and suggest birth control?
16/f.
maybe because your under weight.. OR when did you start cuz the first year youd be irregual
I'm in 8th grade and i really like this guy and he likes me too, we talk and flirt constantly but he just won't make a move. I would love to go out with him but he's kind of shy when it comes to the asking out part and i don't really want to ask him out so what do i do to give him some hints that i like him?
To give hints is to REALLY show him like flirt the same way but touch hima little more and try to hold his hand or tell him you like him and see what he says.. I usto be thes ame way and the guy i still like is wicked shy so i told him a liked him and he got all red blushing and i was like your so cute and he studdered and then said REAL quitly i lllike you too... so if i was you just say you like him and walk away.. and see if he fallows you! if he does then he likes you and then say so dont you have something to ask me?? if he says he likes you
i feel ugly and fat. i feel like guys aren't attracted to me. what can i do to make myself more attractive to guys, besides loosing some weight? i want to hook up with people and get a boyfriend. dont say "just be yourself" or "it will come in time."
only answer if your going to answer my questions.
I bet your not ugly.. but thats not what you want to hear.
Every girl finds problems with thier bodies. Wear more revealing cloths if thats the kinda guy you want or just make up to make you look really pretty and a skirt once anda while to show guys exactly what you can do and flirt! dont lean over a desk and show them something that should be covered but kinda hit on them and laugh alot. Not a HAHAHHAHAHHA but a giggle to touch there leg lol just show someone your interested and see what happens. Just buy new showy cloths and show off hair if you have good hair.. guys like hair
Okay...so...i wear a bra. But, the only thing is its not the type of bra wiere you close it at the back....it doesnt have the hook. It's a bra...that you just put on..no hook or anything. It's by the company, Freestyle. So...is it okay to wear those kind of bras? Or, do you have to wear the "hook-bras"? Please help!
It sorta madders how old you are like in the teens under 15 then it madders if its a sports bra.. if your bigger then a B then wearing a sports bra isnt really the best thing for you.. but if it has cups in the front for your breast then its not a sports bra and fine without a hook
So during school i'm in this guy's class. We're 13 so you know how guys are at that age. We are reading Romeo and Juliet so I don't know why but he always does all these uncomfortable things to me. Like once we had to read a scene out loud together and he tried to get really close to me and he touched my shoulder. HE DOES NOT LIKE ME!! TRUST ME, HE JUST WANTS TO DO IT SO HIS FRIENDS LAUGH. Also one time the plastic on my bra strap made an indent on my shirt and he screamed I had nipples on my back. And he just comes up to me really close. I'm reaaaaaaally shy so I don't do anything I usually just nudge him away. What should i do when he does things like that?
Concure your fear! As horrifying as it may sound do something that will make his friends make fun of him and not bother you.
The next time he get close KISS HIM.. maybe lol or hit on him something to say BACK OFF! lol just anything or read a line and GET reall close to him and whisper a joke he's said about you.
Hiii, I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about 3 months, and he's a year older then me, and is a Freshman, so we don't go to the same school. so, i only see him once a week. lately, things have felt weird between us, and i don't really like to talk on the phone to him, and i really like him a lot still, i just know i do. but, i like this one boy thats in my grade. and we flirt a LOT. i feel like i'm hurting my boyfriend, even though NO ONE knows, but me. i don't wanna break up with my boyfriend, but i don't wanna hurt anyone. i don't know what to doo. help?
Explain to your currant boyfriend that you dont think tings are working out and that you both should see other people..
its the nicest way ive ever broken up with someone so i donno even if you like him it isnt far to either of them so..
I am experiencing mild cramping in my lower back and abdomen, headaches, fatigue, stuffy nose (something terrible with no signs of cold/flu to accompany it), a larger than usual appetite, and sore breasts.
My cycles usually run between 28 to 31 days. The past 2 months they have been 30 days exactly. I am 2 days from testing right now but the not knowing is just killing me.
I have never been on birth control. My husband and I had unprotected sex on the 8th - 14th of April, each night. The 18th and again on the 22 - 23 of April, each night.
The first day of my last period was April 1, the last day, April 7.
Is there a possibility that I could be pregnant?
Their actually is a very big chance expecially with un protected sex days to a time.. I didn't get when you said your period has been exactly 30 days apart though but im only 14. You should be happy that you might be a mother! I know i would be but it depends.. I'm thankful that your married so your probably over the age of 18. Think of your little gift not as a birden but a HUGE responcibility.. I hope you are pregnante if you want to be a mother. Im just saying that there a significate chance that you might be a mother.
:) Hope I helped
Katie
Okay so I'm 14/f - freshman in highschool. Grade 9
The other day me and some friends were working on a project in the hallway, and this really cute guy and his class walked by a few times. Then he walked by byhimself a few times as well. Those few times added up and every time he walked by we caught eachothers eye. His 2nd period class is across from my 2nd period class so since then whenever we walk by eachother we still catch eachothers eye. So heres the catch:
I know he's a year older than me, because that class across from me is a grade 10 class. I know NOTHING about him besides his physical appearance, I don't even know his name :( But I'd reallly realllyyy want to. What can I do or say to him? How should I approach him? Im not good in those awkward silences and im not the best at starting random conversations. I thought about winking about him when I pass him but I don't want to come on to strong.
Any Ideas?
Thanks.
Ok.. you need to be the damsel in distress and hopefully you'll play that part well. The next time you guys catch eyes trip and see if he's willing to help you up.. or like that ask jr guy said drop some books.. be casual but make sure your ferm with trying to get to know him
Coffee... icecream anything but be sweet and inocent guys love that :)
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katie
Guys,
When fingering a girl, would you rather her shave 'down there' or just trim?
SHAVE!!! omgosh im a girl and eww... i mean gross i woiuld shave extra well when u wanna be sexualy active
Ok well i was sick before but I got better it's just that my throat really hurts. Can you list things that i'm supposed to eat and things im not?
Well when i have a sore throat i love milkstakes and cold stuff, it really does sulth the throat in my opinion.if i were u stay away from citress stuff OW.
Okay, so on my right side of my body. I have had a serious pain there off and on for the past month or so. It's a sharp pain, that gets worse when I stretch, or am overly active. I am suppose to be going to the doctor, so do not say go to a doctor. I would like info, on if anyone has any idea what it could be. or how to help. if you need more info please message me.
im nto tryingto scare u but my uncle had really bad rib pain and he ended up having cancer he isnt with us now but its probably nothing..
i am a 15 year old girl. I have liked this one guy for about like since 6th grade and now i am going to be a freshmen...so about 4 years. well we always flirt and like hold hands or are really close to each other. he was a girlfriend but he wants to do IT with me. We meet at his locker all the time during class to talk about it. So friday i went to his locker like he told me. I was nervous even though i realy would love to kiss him. he was saying how he thought i like him and i told him i do but what about your gf, he told me that she didnt have to know. We were standing there and i a thinking what if i made the first move? He didnt think i was enthusiastic this time, because this has happened before him asking me to hook up with him. should i make the first move? if so where, how should i tell him that i want to hook up. should i call him and ask him to meet me somewhere?
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If he wants to be with you so badly, he wouldn't have a girlfriend.Its happened to me.. tell him to get you he needs to be availible.